- 37 years old
- Date of birth: Jun 28, 1974
- Place of birth:
California, United States
- Date of passing: May 23, 2012
- Place of passing:
California, United States
|Let the memory of JIMMY be with us forever|
"Hey my big guy.Well it's been 41 years since I brought you into this World that you left all to soon.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABY BOY I LOVE YOU"
"Hey Big Guy well it's been 3 years now and still feels like yesterday but we are getting by. We miss you so much every day. I like the fact that when we have Hoss every weekend your here with him and showing him who you are. I really don't see Aubby at all her and her mom have moved on. she has a daddy now and his mom is her Grandma so I have chosen to step back away from the situation. as you know from what I've heard you were treated very unjustly by never being able to meet her when her new daddy and mommy are doing the same thing you were but then were not judges. That's GODS
JOB. LOVE AND MISS YOU."
"Miss You Cuz... Love You!!
"hapyy 40th birthday josei love and miss your calls and laughter take care og grampa"
"Happy 40th!!! Miss you tons. Thanks for showing our daughter who you are. I enjoy watching her talk to you. Love you"
"Well as always since you left us my Memorial weekend was crap the 23RD I stayed in bed being a cry baby as Randi calls it but of course she was one with me. We LOVE and MISS you so much. Your 2 youngest kids are growing rapidly and are BEAUTIFUL light haired like me. I LOVE IT."
"well grandson marks two yrs today since you left us your missed so much with your smile and laughter I will always love you take care of grampa and bobbie and the other loved ones we lost to soon love and miss you"
"Well guess u of course know ur son is in jail again. I'm just praying they only give him 90 days and let him start over but u know the Judges have the final decision. Anyway just venting I guess some people are really starting to annoy me so I'm going to start pulling away because I don't like being HURT and know what I mean.When u were here I could deal alot easier but now no PATIENCE for games they play sorry son but I'm out. LOVE YOU ALWAYS"
"I haven't been on here In awhile. But I know you know I think about you everyday. Aubryana is almost 3 and is ur spitting image. Lol she has your gopd and bad qualities. She starts preschool after she turns 3 andI know I will get a call about her bullying some kid. Lol but I just wantes to stop by and say how much I miss you still. I want to apologize for everything. I love you jimmy xoxox"
"Well my Dear Boy as you know I threw John out on Nov.3,2013 and starting to miss him cause of the holidays. Not letting him come back though. I miss you so much every day but this holiday coming up is the worst. Kenny is so much like you he has to decorate everything even his Room. So as I sit and write to you missing you so very much and I'm still so BROKEN without you and it still hurts so very bad. I just want to wish you a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS MY SON LOVE YOU."
"Oh n I know u were here today, aubryana was walking around singing jimmy jimmy jimmy. Lol thanks for showing her who you are. Other times when she isn't being a butt she will say daddy best friend. Lol oh that girl acts just like you. She will go to preschool next year please be with her and guide her the right direction. Which is behaving lol!!! I'm gokng to be called alotI feel it.. lol"
"Hi. I'm sitting thinking of you. So I'm sure u kmow I finally got my real tattoo. Lol I told our story soo much lately. I cant believe the one u gave me hurt so bad. Lol the ones kevin did were a piece of cake. So the next one I get I want to do something that reminds me of you. Everyone keeps telling me a protrait but idk..I'm scared of that. Lol I miss you so much. Xoxoxo"
"I'm sitting here looking at your pictures and missing you soo much. What I would do to hear your voice again. Our baby will be 28months old in 20mins. I sooo wish I could go back 2years. Everuthing would have been so different. I know you know I love you and always have. ♡♥♡"
"another month without you. not getting any easier. people say it does but i dont believe them. thankyou for visiting us. aubryana calls you daddy best friend. lol well ww love and misss you sooo much!!!"
"14 months and not a day goes by that i dont miss you. Aubryana is such a smart beautiful little girl. i know you this because you come to see her all the time. i miss you jimmy. i took out ur wedding vows and it just broke my heart..i really wanted to hear them one day. i love you"
"Man pops i need some advice man i lost four people i love you, Brianna, amd her kids man you would of liked brayden he a lil cute ass lol man everything was going good for me but i fucked it all up i just want it all back so bad I'll do it Wright these time man aubreyana looks just like us foe trippy huh but pops please come see me and tell me how i can get my lady to want me back i love u"
"HAPPY B-DAY MY SON wish you were here with us. Please guide your son Nate in the right direction I think he has lost his way to our beliefs he is not responding well to me as he thinks I don't understand how he feels. Feelings our not the downfall losing FAITH is so lead him back to us. LOVE YOU MOM"
"happy birthday in heaven grandson.this year grampa is with you on your birthday I sure miss both of you I feel so empty inside rip love you gramma"
"Happy Birthday, Wish you were here to celebrate it. your missed by alot. i know you have been here visiting.. Aubryana has said daddy down there and pointed down the hallway..the other kids get spooked but i know your here protecting us. thanks for letting aubryana know you you are.. we love you!!! xoxoxo"
"I've decided to stay in the AV valley. I miss and Love you.Still looking into a family restaurant but decided to call it Josers Place since we were going to do it together. Think I might have found the resources to finance it so it's looking good. Anna's cafe closed so the building is up for lease with all the equipment and everything I knew you'd get the Irony of that LOL LMOM"
"13months and still missing you like crazy!!! xoxo"
"If aubryana could tell you she would happy fathers day!!i show her our picture together and she says aww cute momma and dada.. its really awesome!!! she is offically potty trained. she started a week after she turned 2. well i still miss you and love u very much. there isnt a day that passes that i dont think of you or look at ur pictures.. Xoxo"
"Oh also thinking of moving back to Aunt Kathy's and doing all the plans we had when Dad was alive.Looking into starting Grandma's Cooking like we always planed now I just have to find a cook as good as us LOL. The hard part is continuing on after your gone the cafe was our idea but I have to find a way to support all these grandkids i'm getting with the boys LOL."
"It's been a year now and it still hurts.I think people play to many head games and I just don't have the time or energy for it anymore trying to keep up on the shit.Went to Aunt Kathy's today for a bbq going out to Cal City tomorrow to see the kids gonna try to see Aubby and her mom while out there.Randa Graduates on the 30th then off to High School."
"i think u came to visit me last nite. i wanted to be up at midnite and something woke aubryana up at 1145 she didnt get out of bed she just cried and said i go nite nite. were u here last nite? i know u come to.visit aubryana.. she just looks off to space.. thanks for letting her kmow who you are.. xoxoxo"
"tomorrow i will honor your year being gone and try not to be sad or cry (ya right!!) but i will remember the good times we had and tlk about you to our daughter!! she looks at ur pictures and says daddy. she knows who you are.. and i am not looking forward on telling her ur not here. I LOVE YOU JIMMY JOSE EDWARD FAJARDO!!! I MISS YOU SOOO MUCH IT HURTS EVERYDAY!!"
"a whole year since i have heard your voice. today has been a crappy day for me..preparing myself for tomorrow. it still seems unreal to me. i still await ur text or call. i dont wanna except ur gone. i hold out baby girl and hug her and thankgod i have her! you would be so impressed with her on how smart she is. i want to go back 3 years and redo everything. but i cant and have many regret"
"well grandson were coming up on a year since we left you only you have grampa this time for his birthday take care of him for me I love you both till we all meet again rip grandson"
"Along good again and working together half assed with the kids you know her always have to break the rules LOL. I miss & Love you so much it hurts all the time.I wish you were here to see Hoss & Aubby they are great and your grandkids are all Beautiful.I seen Kevin he's going to put a picture of you on my back OK. LOVE YOU BABY BOY"
"My Son your son Jonathan&Cree had their first son on May 18th 2013 his name is Jonathan Lee Thompson ll he is beautiful. Randa and I watched him come into this world Cree did a great job. I know it's coming up to a year now and I still can't believe your gone it's so hard for me to except still.You'll be proud of Cora and myself we are almost back to normal with each other we're getting"
"I MISS YOU SOOOO MUCH!!!!"
"So we went to Abby's 2ND B-Day party met Christina's mother and Tommi Jo was there it was so good to be able to sit and talk to her.Oh and Jonathan&Cree moved in with Nate&Bre his new girlfriend& her 2 kids we'll see how that goes LOL.Randa just had another MRI of her brain again will get the results to that at end of month.Kenny is good.Seen Kevin also at the party he is doing good."
"Well my son just got done with all the high school stuff for Randa. Plus being sick so long it's almost a year now and it still feels like yesterday for me.Wish I could hear and see you one last time but that's not happening I believe you already crossed over and are very happy there with your dads and grand parents. SO LOVE TO YOU ALL PASS IT DOWN SON MISS YOU. Stop BY every now and then."
"I cant believe this month marked 11months you have been gone!! Still crazy.. i miss you terribly.. Aubryana will be 2 in 6 days. she has your temper lol i miss and love you!! Xoxo"
"jose on may 23rd you will be gone a yr. i will never forget that grampa was sleeping and when he woke up he ask me why i was crying and i had to tell him you passed away that was so hard on me. then grampa joined you four months later every thing happened so fast rip grandson take care of grampa as you know i loved you both rip love gramma"
"Kenneth messed up his hand again just like you he punches things that hurt him so I bought a punching bag just like you had as a teenager. Maybe he'll stop hurting himself now.I know you know it's been 10 long months it has been the longest 10 months of my life I miss you so much and Love you till the ends of the CIRCLE and the Stars in the SKY.LOVE MOM"
"Well JJ has gone on his 1st Easter egg hunt and his 1st carnival he loves carnival's as much as you did it was fun Randa got a little over stimulated and almost went down for the count on Dee Dee but I let her stay there with her it all worked out your Randa is going to be your daredevil she likes the biggest rides and the scariest you would be proud of her"
"10months without you.. i miss you terribly! i dont know how to move on. i dont even know if i want too. you had my heart i never took it back. i still remember your voice i still remember your touch. i dont want to ever forget them. you were my true love. me and you both knew what kind of future we were going to have. i have the wedding vows you wrote me in a safe place. i love you jimmy!"
"Almost a year without you.. its so weird. ur mom bought me and the baby pendants. so now we have a part of you forever.. i hang them over our beds. i needed that. Aubryana is soo big and looks just like you. omg and nathan..lol i will always love you. you have my heart always have and always will. Thankyou for giving me our beautiful daughter..she is a blessing to everyone."
"You know it's coming close to a year now couple of months away and everybody is telling me it's time to let go so you can R.I.P but I still need to know your ok and doing good on your side so you need to find away to let me know. Then maybe I can try to let go no promises you hear but I'll try. I'm totally BROKEN without you. LOVE MOM"
"Hey Dude guess what tomorrow is it's ST.Paddy day your big day I'm going to miss you running around drinking your big mouth Micky's and trying to sing Irish Songs with your Irish Brogue . You were always so Entertaining but your going to miss my corn-beef&cabbage buddy. I love and miss you so much. Hoss is getting so big he looks just like you your JR.I call him Hoss because he's so big."
"9months today..a minute doesnt go by without me missing you. i know your smiling down on us...i know your happy that everyone you love gets along so great..im so happy too but were all missing you soo very much!! today if everything works out we will all be together in honor of you!! you would of have been proud of Aubryana she is sooo smart. and she has so many of your traits! love you"
"Well it's been 9 months now since you left us and yes we are still missing you and loving you as much as ever. Rest in Peace my Baby Boy."
"Well son here we go almost 9 months I sure hope you are ok since you won't come talk to me. I just pray your ok were your at. Tell Grandma Hello for me. I miss you so much . Love you mom"
"Thinking of you.. i have felt you near me last few days.. wish i could actually see you. Ive been spending lots of time with nathan..its sonice to see him cuz he is just like you..we have lots of talks and cries about you..miss and love you xoxo"
"8months of me missing the hell out of you..this has been a rough month for me. you have my heart now and always.. i love you jimmy!"
"Im sure u know..but nathan has been here with us and his new girlfriend..he is ur spitting image to the way u talk to the way you walk to the way you held your towel over your shoulder..lol me and nathan have had some heart to hearts. it was really nice. seeing him is very hard but also very good for me..its crazy but its not getting any easier for me..it feels worse.. i love and miss you."
"Well im sitting here with the kids and nathan..oh man he is your spitting image..my good friend and nate are dating..its actually kinda hard seeing him with her..he reminds me of you..he has ur sweet loving gestures. i miss u jimmy..i love you with all my heart. i really dont think i will ever again have what he had.."
"I SO MISS YOU!!! i have been talking about you/us like crazy lately..its not fair u were taken from us.. im greatful for our memories..that will help keep a smile on my face.. and thankyou for coming to visit me last night. xoxo"
"Almost Eight months now and it still feels new and hurts like hell.I'm getting by ok but I miss and love you so much I wish it were me and not you. Also I'm so mad at you cause you didn't listen to those doctors I know in my heart it was your time but if you had listened you would have been at home when it happened not out in the middle of nowhere land. Please come talk to me."
"saw ur mom john and the kids yesterday..we had a nice visit just wish u were here to enjoy it with us..kids are getting so big. miranda held her sister for the first time..she was excited she put her to sleep.. its crazy ur not with us.. going on 8 long months.. miss and love you jimmy!!!! xoxo"
"HAPPY NEW YEAR.. starting a new year without you.. its so unreal not hearing from you..ita like im missing something..i look at Aubryana and see you in her.. so many looks she does is you.. i thankgod i have a piece of you forever.. if i could go bk 2yrs i promise it would have been so different.. :( I LOVE YA JIMMY AND MISS YOU TERRIBLY!!"
"Christmas without YOU SUCKED I tried to be happy GOD knows I tried at the end of the day all I could was scream and cry in the shower alone. I miss you so much it still hurts like it was yesterday instead of 7 months ago. I ask myself all the time why you and not me. Nathan is home now please guide him to stay out of trouble you are his Guardian Angel now . LOVE YOU MOM"
"Merry Christmas eve!! 7 months without you.. yesterday i saw nathan he met Aubryana..and we talked for awhile..he looks good he looks so much like you.. i know ur smiling down on us especially yesterday all ur kids (well except jonathan) were under one roof and with their grandma..you know everyday i wish you were here..i want to see your face hear your voice I MISS AND LOVE YOU VERY MUCH!"
"Hey Joser Thanksgiving without you was a bad one but now were getting closer to Christmas and I find myself wanting to crawl in a hole to hide from it without you it's not the same. I saw Aubryana yesterday she reminds me so much of you when you were her age like you she's all over the place and so funny. MISS YOU SO MUCH LOVE MOM"
"6 months plus a holiday.. :( its not getting any easier..as you know ur mom and the kids met aubryana..it was such a wonderful visit..it was great sharing memories with ur mom..we laughed and cried..we miss you sooo much its never going to seem real to me..i love n miss you jimmy!!! xoxo"
"jose it,s been a very rough year for gramma,no call on thankgiveing from you.and now grampa is with you to.so i,m pretty lonly but i know you and grampa bobbie butch and your dad jim along with my family are trying to keep me strong.theres times stupid things enter my mind not haveing grampa but they pass.someday we will all be together again.grampa was in so much pain . i miss him so much"
"Hi my Baby Boy well it's been 6 months now and I still cry every day but it's OK we know why. I met Audryana on Tuesday the 20Th of November 2012 she is very beautiful you'd be very proud of her.Went to Aunt Kathy's yesterday for Thanksgiving kept waiting for you to show up knew you wouldn't but your mind thinks funny things sometimes. Seen Sue Tucker Uncle Willies first wife. LOVE YOU"
"been thinking of you alot i have been talking about you everyday for the past 2 weeks..i miss you very much so unreal still!! i look at Aubryana and see so much of you in her...ur mom n i talk alot and she will meet the baby soon..i know that makes u happy.. : i wish i could rewind the last 2 years and it would all be so different!! love n miss you very much xoxo"
"jose your baby girl by christina mccrae is so beautiful she looks like you and christina . please take care of grampa and tell him i miss him so much sometimes it,s so hard to go on.i don,t think i stooped crying at night when i go to bed i still see in my mind grampa sitting up on the edge of the bed and the paramedics carried him like a little baby out of our bedroom i knew that was it"
"Hey Baby boy just wanted to say I Love and Miss you so much. I have been chatting with Christina about Aubryana she looks just like Miranda when Randa was a baby except she has hair LOL her hair is a redish blonde how do you like that LOL and you said never. Christina says I will be able to meet her soon me and the kids of course you know I already told them about her. WELL LOVE YOU SON!!!"
"wow grandson you left us at the age of 37 and grampa was borned in 1937 how strange is that.i had to break it to grampa that you was gone he said why are you crying and i told him now i had to do the same with grampa please take care of him honey i can not go to bed with out crying for him it is so hard are for you to i love you both gramma"
"OK here we go 5 month's now and it isn't getting any easier for me to deal with I still can't sleep nights and sometimes days. Your Grandfather left us on the 25th of September to join you as you know. Jonathan and Cree are pregnant again. Last month I did not count Jonathan as one of your children so you now have 4 boys 2 girls LOVE YOU"
"5 months? 5 long months...unbelivable i miss u i have to listen to your voicemails so i can hear your voice..i have now realized it wasnt a nightmare..your really gone.. i love you and miss you so very much"
"JOSE YOU FINALY HAVE YOUR GRAMPA WITH YOU PLEASE TAKE CARE OF HIM I LOVE HIM SO MUCH"
"It's been 4 months now and we still miss you very much. Your new son was born on August 25th,2012 he is named Jimmy,Jose,Edward,Fajardo JR. You would love him so much just like all your kids he looks just like you now you have 6 children not quite 12 but ok we don't always get what we want. 4 sons 2 girls GOOD JOB MY SON I LOVE YOU."
"Wow its been 4months.. Still hard to believe..still missed...still loved..still so many unanswered questions.."
"3 months ago i got the call from ur mom..u were missing..i was in shock and very scared of the outcome..when i was told the found you all i could say was where did they find him wat was the story never did i imagine i would hear its bad sit down..here we all are 3 months later still in shock still in disbelief..i think bout u daily..always and forever in my heart!!!!"
"Wow this is ao crazy. Its been years sence we seen each other, but i never forgot you. May you truly rest in peace"
"today marks 2 months since you.have been gone..its.not getting any easier..i still think i am going to hear from you.. i miss you jimmy.. xoxo..."
"Happy Birthday Cuz!!!"
"i wanted to wish you a happy birthday..i wish you were here with us, this would have been the 3rd year we celebrated together!! happy birthday jimmy jose edward fajardo..xoxo you are truley missed.."
"IT,S BEEN A MONTH GRANDSON SINCE YOU LEFT US YOUR BIRTHDAY IS ON THE 28TH OF JUNE IT,S SO HARD ON ME AND GRAMPA BECAUSE NOT ONE YEAR WENT BY WITHOUT SAYING HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO EACH OTHER THIS YEAR WE FEEL REALLY EMPTY YOUR GONE BUT YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN LOVE GRAMA AND GRAMPA HAPPY BIRTHDAY GRANDSON"
"Yesterday was a month since you have been gone..this has to be one of the hardest months ever..right before the accident you asked me before anything happens to me can you tell me if u love me..i sd you will be fine, i should have said yes i always have..i believe now you know what i felt and why..i wish ur last days couldnt have been what u wanted..im so sorry!!! xoxo miss you so much!!"
"little brother cant get over losing you but i know onething for sure you will never be forgotten by me you gone on in my heart and in my memories of you i have laughter and joy we fought we laughed we had good times and bad times but we always had each others back i dont think i have any other cousins i can say that about god bless and rest you earned it"
"My Original BIG "Little Cousin" It's like you're 1st Tattoo...Smile Now Cry Later!1989=Hardest I ever Laughed in my Life,watching you try & Bust the "RUNNING MAN" in my kitchen in Venice.(Picture Baby Giraffe on Crack)...2012= The Hardest i ever Cried in my Life, after Hearing My Auntie "E" tell me her only Son had passed away...Mi Primo Whi-Tino R.I.P -Love You Cuz! C U on the Other Side"
"Words can't describe the empty feeling inside. I remember you thru the years, thru our lives, growing up laughing, being with our other cousins. You were always happy. You have so much love inside for your family, so many friends, theres too many to count. My dearly beloved cousin i am missing you and will always remember our times as family and friends. until we meet again rest in peace."
"I didnt know you very well but I knew you when u were with christina, you two were so much in love..it boke my heart when u guys split..i knew how much you two loved each other..i hoped one day you would have made it back into each others arms, a love like that would never fade..i pray for your mom n kids hope they will all be ok during this tough time..rip jimmy"
"You and Me against the World My Darling Loving Son as always I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY BEING . I promise you the kids and I will make it threw this but you will NEVER be FORGOTTEN BY US.
REST IN PEACE MY SON"
"You are going to be missed so very much, who else is gonna come to my house numerous times during the day, talk a bunch of smack, laugh at me and leave with that great smile? You will forever be in my heart, and never forgotten, we had alot of good good times, you were the best friend anyone could ask for...Always in my heart!"
"WELL BIG JOSE YOU ARE REALLY GOING 2 BE MISSED MAY OUR LORD BE WITH ALL YOUR FAMILY AND LOVED ONES I'LL KEEP THEM ALL IN MY PRAYERS.......FAMILY SORRY 4 YOUR LOST........."
"I will greatly miss you Jimmy. I will never forget when we first met how funny. I love you as if you were my own son.You did alot for me in the past and I will never forget those days.We'll be moveing soon and I am deeply going to miss your mucsles picking up the heavy stuff.We had a ritual,you were always there for me.I will Love You always.Bobbie"
"jimmy i am still in shock over the news..i really dont believe it!!! i feel like your going to txt me any sec..its so unreal!! We shared lots of good memories and we had some not so good memories, but believe that every one will always be remembered...you will always be in my heart!!! Xoxo"
"Dottie, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, I hope that God will ease your pain as well as the rest of the familys pain. We know how hard it is to loose someone without warning, there are no goodbyes said and I think that makes it even harder. He knew that he was loved. Prayers sent to you and the family. Love you, Sharon"
"May God welcome him home, fill him with peace and comfort his family."
"JOSE WERE STILL IN SHOCK WE LOVED YOU SO MUCH.I KNEW WHEN YOU DIDN,T CALL GRAMPA ON HIS BIRTHDAY SOMETHING WAS WRONG YOU NEVER MISSED OUR BIRTHDAYS IT WON,T BE THE SAME RIP GRANDSON. WE WILL MEET AGAIN WHEN OUR TIME COMES .GOT TO GET OFF HERE IF I SAID I WASN,T CRYING I,D BE LYING YOU GONNA BE MISSED SO MUCH"
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