Memories of my mother, dictated by John
My mother was Gloria Vaughn. She was born in England, about 1900.
Among my memories: In Tahiti, I am 8 or 9 years old. My red-headed mother is dancing hula and the tamarai. She was called "Madame Rouge" then. She took long swims, in the ocean, every day, nearly an hour, always the breast stroke. Maybe I learned the love of the ocean from her.
She read to us: "Shock-Headed Peter" was one of the stories she read to me and my sister, Eve.
She told me about my family history; that one of my ancestors was the bastard son of a Spanish King, perhaps Phillip?
Her father, my grandfather, was a judge in India. Her parents were strict, proper, very English. She was sent to a boarding school," Mrs. Prichards."
I know she loved me, but I don't know if she really liked me...maybe I was too much like my father? I wasn't allowed to sit on the furniture. She disapproved of my career choices. She would have liked a more prominent son, not a camera salesman or a stock broker or restauranteur. I will say I was a scamp. Almost blew up the house with my chemistry set.
When we lived in Chicago, she gave many society parties. I was perhaps 14. The parties were published in the Glencoe News in the Society column.(Illinois).
She was kind to me, tolerant; I didn't get punished for things I shouldn't have done.
My mother was married to my father until divorced, about 1932. She married stepfathers Wainwright and Compton, consecutively, in Tahiti, but Father in India.
Father was a Captain in the British Army in India. She said she met him while riding and the horse ran away with her. Father caught the horse and rescued her. He quit the Army after they married. They then moved to Canada, then Los Angeles. I was born there. During the depression they moved to Tahiti.
Mother taught me to dance at home when I was 16. Her favorite was the waltz, but I learned foxtrot too. We played 78 rpm records for dancing. During the high school years, I gave and attended lots of dance parties .
She was big on having good manners. She spent a lot of time and money keeping me well-dressed. A very proper person, she adhered closely to social customs and mores of the time. Appearance and behavior were important to her. She felt you must have the right manners to fit in with the right people. She was very class-conscious. Though "fitting in" was important to her, it was not to me. I thought people's interests or activities were important, not their social behavior. She made sure I opened the car door for her, always.
The man who lived across the street from us in Glencoe, Norbert H..had three daughters, and he didn't trust me with them.They all liked me!
Frank Compton and Mr. H. would have cocktails everyday. Drinking was considered as a fun sport, due to prohibition. Prohibition did more to promote drinking than anything! While it was illegal, it was the 'in' thing to do.
Frank was a good father to me. He encouraged me to become a salesman. He had made his living that way and gave me books to read on selling. So, when I got out of college, I went right into sales.