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John DeLisi
  • 28 years old
  • Date of birth: Jun 25, 1956
  • Date of passing: May 20, 1985
On John's 25th Anniversary in heaven, let the memory of John be with us forever!

Our Brother John !

Who is to say, and if they did who would believe it true, that these vessels we occupy and our earthly presence are not what we are about, but just a pause, a grounding place, a place to regroup our energies as we continue the more meaningful part of our existence.

We don’t understand it and we can’t understand it because our bodily form is inadequate in its design and capabilities. We see loved ones suffer with broken, damaged bodies. This is their inadequate earthly design not their essence and who they are that are flawed. We see other loved ones that are full of energy, the John’s of the world that emanate what we perceive as living life and bringing excitement to all those around them. We love these people, we enjoy their presence, they are like the electrons that bounce around and when they come in contact with others they excite them causing a temporary chain of reactions. So we get some excitement for as long as that earthly being hangs around. Our essence, our souls, our energy, this is who we are,  we are a loving, giving source, created in the image, an extension of a greater entity, some call God others have different names or beliefs as to what or who God is. Regardless, God, the name I choose, is an awesome entity, that we follow and look to for answers. Answers that we in this earthly form can’t obtain and if we did most of us would fear knowing them instead of embracing them.  How do we know that there is more to us? How do we know that this existence is nothing more than a spec in time? It is because we have so many questions, because we feel so confused as to why we are here. If we didn’t feel this way we wouldn’t have a need to know, how the Earth was created, or how did the universe begin. We wouldn’t care. Why should we? After all we are only here for 90 years if we are lucky or unlucky for that matter.  It is because we try so hard to feel like we belong to something and never really feel like we are… where we are suppose to be. We convince ourselves that we have found our place and reason for being in this life, but we are never truly at ease. Like bottled energy, waiting for its grounding phase to be finished so that it can get on with doing something more, being someplace better or different. A place where we can reunite with others and share our love, without confines of these vessels, our bodies.  We gather in church to tell Jesus that we love him, and our loved ones like John that we miss them, that we haven’t forgotten them and we love them. As a group of souls and energies united we radiate to them, we radiate to each other. We gather to give each other hope and love in trying to endure our earthly pains.   Brenda
Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Frank DeLisi on 26th June 2014

"Happy Birthday Big Brother , when I say brother I meant it from all of us. Brenda, Glenn, Frankie, Matt, Cat, Vito, Ronny , Janie, Joe, Bobby, Francine and many, many more. We will never ever forget you, you touched our heart and soul and you continue to do so everyday . Now with that said, I know you havn't forgot about us. So when we see you [ since you always did things in a big way] we are expecting a damn big surprise from you . So get cracken on it ! Love you and miss you. Enjoy your Birthday in Heaven , then get to work on that surprise Bro! C U in about 50 years [ and not before]. Brother Frank Paul ."

This tribute was added by Glenn Matta on 25th June 2014

"Happy Birthday John.  It happens to be the same day as my wedding anniversary.  Some coincidence.  Warm regards.  Missed dearly."

This tribute was added by frank santano on 25th June 2014

"Happy Birthday John,"

This tribute was added by Matthew Messana on 25th June 2014

"Happy birthday Bro..."

This tribute was added by vito rizzo on 25th June 2014

"Happy birthday in heaven john"

This tribute was added by ronald cellana on 21st May 2014

"Hey Pal, miss you buddy another year goes by and I know your in a good place with God. Rest In Peace Your Friend Ronnie"

This tribute was added by ronald cellana on 26th June 2013

"Happy Birthday Buddy, Miss you!!"

This tribute was added by Matthew Messana on 25th June 2013

"Wow! There are no coincidences! Frank Santano (Haven't seen him in 3 years) just came to see me (NY to Florida) out of the blue and we're together on Johns Birthday? There's got to be more to us than just this life! Pretty eery.
Matt M."

This tribute was added by ronald cellana on 20th May 2013

"Hey Buddy, miss you and hope to see you again someday. You where such a great friend and I'm so thankful that you where a part of my life, God Bless You, Ronnie"

This tribute was added by Matthew Messana on 20th May 2013

"My eternal friend John, How I miss you so. Seems the longer I'm on this earth the more it's clear how loyal a friend you were. Such a loss those many years ago to your family and friends.
Matt M."

This tribute was added by janie cox on 30th April 2013

""""By being here you have communicated that you care.
This gesture is of immeasurable value, and speaks significantly
about the impact of the life we commemorate."""""

This tribute was added by janie cox on 19th March 2013

"I just wanted to say your memorial is touching.  I pray God will continue to strengthen you. I hope, you can also take comfort in Revelation 21:4: "[God] will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more…the former things have passed away."""

This tribute was added by Glenn Matta on 28th October 2012

"Missed you.  You were never forgotten."

This tribute was added by ronald cellana on 26th June 2012

"Happy Birthday to the best friend that a person could ever know in there lifetime, your always in my thoughts and miss the short time we had as buddies. God must have is hands full and a very special Angel, much love, Ronnie"

This tribute was added by Joe Coletto on 25th June 2012

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY FRIEND JOHN, WHO LIVES IN MY HEART AND ALL THE HEARTS OF THOSE THAT LOVE HIM............."

This tribute was added by vito rizzo on 25th June 2012

"happy birthday  in heaven  john , you  were the  best"

This tribute was added by Brenda DeLisi-Flynn on 25th June 2012

"My brother my heart my love.  God keep you close and safe from evil. Watch over mom and dad and protect our babies. Take a fly by for a kiss.  Love you forever and longer.
Hi to all our friends. My mail is bjdf204@gmail if anyone wants to say Helloooo Babyyy!!"

This tribute was added by Brenda DeLisi-Flynn on 25th June 2012

"I miss you so much that the wrinkles hold the tears and give me a wet tee- shirt that makes everyone sick at what they see!  If you really love me send me the lottery numbers ASAP. I'm teaching- it sucks- and I want some real money!  Get busy up there and pull some strings. Cause when I get there I'm gonna kick your ass for leaving us! Please come help my Johnny find happiness. Luv U:)"

This tribute was added by frank santano on 25th June 2012

"Happy Birthday John, Enjoy your Party"

This tribute was added by Matthew Messana on 25th June 2012

"Happy Earthly Birthday John...My first memories I can recall are going to your 5th birthday in Brooklyn! Can still recall your basment and you Nana screaming of the mess we made!!!    Matt"

This tribute was added by Matthew Messana on 21st May 2012

"Miss you each and every day"

This tribute was added by ronald cellana on 20th May 2012

"Another year goes by without you miss you buddy"

This tribute was added by frank santano on 20th May 2012

"John, Going to your favorite restaurant today,hope to see you there. Miss You"

This tribute was added by vito rizzo on 20th May 2012

"John miss  you  .  You  were  the   Best  ,god  bless  you"

This tribute was added by ronald cellana on 23rd December 2011

"Merry Christmas.in.Heaven my friend, miss you each and every day."

This tribute was added by ronald cellana on 27th August 2011

"It's been a long time my friend. I go on day by day thinking of you, times we had together. I hope that your keeping everybody up there laughing, because you did when you where with us. It's been a lonely 25 years without you. I hope we will meet.again. Miss u Buddy Ronnie."

This tribute was added by Joe Coletto on 26th June 2011

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY BROTHER JOHN. STILL MISS YOU AND ALWAYS WILL
SEE YA PALEY"

This tribute was added by vito rizzo on 25th June 2011

"Happy birthday  john  miss you  and the good old days , i baught  a vintage 1960 s slot car , going to take  it one of the only remaining slot car tracks in brooklyn , and race it in your honer ,   Will never forget  all the fun  you gave us"

This tribute was added by Matthew Messana on 25th June 2011

"Happy Birthday,
   Just wishing you were still with us! Much more fun and simpler times. Less aches and pains as well!
Matt Messsana and family."

This tribute was added by Frank DeLisi on 25th June 2011

"Hope your having a happy birthday in heaven. You know everyone misses you . Just hold a lot of  those front row seats for us, you have a lot of us coming within this millennium . P.S. - although your going to have to wait a while for us. Love you"

This tribute was added by frank santano on 25th June 2011

"Happy Birthday John, Welcome to the double nickel club.Getting together with your family during the July 4th weekend,hope you can make it, give us a sign"

This tribute was added by frank santano on 20th May 2011

"Good Morning John, Happy 26th Anniversary in Heaven, Hope all is well, I know you'll be busy today celebrating your life,so when you find the time give me a call and we'll go out for some Calamari.Miss You"

This tribute was added by frank santano on 23rd November 2010

"To one of the GREATEST persons I've had the pleasure of knowing.John you weren't just my friend YOU WERE MY FAMILY. Miss you much."

This tribute was added by vito rizzo on 3rd August 2010

"JOHN DELISI  WHAT A GREAT  GREAT  GUY  WITH A  VERY  BIG  HEART, ALWAYS SMILING , HE  WOULD HAVE GIVIN YOU THE SHIRT OFF HIS  BACK. I  MISS HIM VERY  MUCH , OFTEN THINK ABOUT  THE GREAT  TIMES"

This tribute was added by Frank DeLisi on 2nd August 2010

"YO-BRO - I know you come and go . I don't see u as gone, you r just away - for a short time. Looking fwd to flying with u again , next time we won't need the airplane. Hope u like the wrote stories."

This tribute was added by Bobby Lanza on 1st August 2010

"Bobby Lanza lit a candle on 1st of Aug 2010
Touched my life briefly with your kindness,strong sense
of humor,and your obvious love of life and your fellow human being. "ALWAYS IN MY MEMORY"

This tribute was added by Francine Friel on 31st July 2010

"To my second family,
Whenever I think of John and the DeLisi's I think of pure joy.  Francine Messana Friel"

This tribute was added by Matthew Messana on 31st July 2010

"Forever in my heart. We'll see you sooner than we think!

Love,
Matt Messana"

This tribute was added by Brenda DeLisi-Flynn on 31st July 2010

"My big brother John--Thanks for staying with me and watching over me and my son John.  Still always there when I need you most. Out of body but not out of my life. The light shines on!"

This tribute was added by cat messana on 28th July 2010

"Missed but never forgotten."


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