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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, JOHN SANTORO, 70 years old, born on December 4, 1947, and passed away on October 26, 2018. We will remember him forever.
February 20
February 20
Hello Johnny, I'm just stopping by to tell you I think of you everyday and I miss you.
love
didi
February 26, 2023
February 26, 2023
Peter:
There are no words to express my gratitude for your kind words on Johnny’s behalf. I intentionally wrote the article “unsung hero” before Johnny left us because I wanted him to know the impact he had on others and racing- People started contacting him from all over - It made him so happy! If you’d like to speak with me (any friend of Johnny’s is a friend of mine- Please call me- 3052160398-
December 10, 2022
December 10, 2022
Dearest Brother,
I long for the chance to speak with you again and until that moment arrives, I share my thoughts in print with you and with all who knew you and loved you.

My thoughts drifted to the time of your youth when you were starting your life as a blacksmith- and I found this quote that is so true….
“You cannot dream yourself into a great blacksmith”

All that you were on earth did not come easy and I am in awe when I think of how hard you worked to be the very best Blacksmith in NY.
Love
Your sister Maria Victoria
November 8, 2021
November 8, 2021
Johnny,
Three years ago, you passed over to the other side, but you are forever in my heart.

DD
April 28, 2021
April 28, 2021
My dearest brother, A day does not go by that I don’t think of you.Can you hear my prayers?
They are for you, Johnny. I hope wherever you maybe, you know that I carry your heart in my heart and I will until we meet again. Your little sister DD
October 27, 2020
October 27, 2020
I can’t believe that It’s been 2 years since I was last with you Mr John. I don’t think that there’s ever a day that goes by without you in my thoughts. Every time I hear the ring of the anvil with every swing of my hammer you’re always right there to remind me that we’re Blacksmith’s and Baker’s cut from the same cloth. I know that you’ve finally found the peace that you couldn’t find on this side. Rest well my Uncle, my teacher, my Brother, my Friend. You are so missed by all of us, this world is a smaller place without you. I know that I’ll see you again, just not today.
June 8, 2020
June 8, 2020
So sorry to hear about Johnny’s passing. I thought about him often during the last 50 years and wondered how his life was going. Johnny will always have a special place in my heart. I wish we got to way good bye.  Rest In Peace my dear friend. 
Love, Lynne
October 26, 2019
October 26, 2019
My Dearest Brother, It's a year today that you have moved over to the other side of life. I miss you. I carry you in my heart. When I am sad, I remember your funny sayings and when I am afraid, I look within and find you.

You walk beside me and I know you are looking over me.

Love,
DeDe
March 21, 2019
March 21, 2019
I last talked to John in 1988 when I got back from farrier school , he knew
my father who was a Veternarian from Roosevelt.
He gave me a lot of great advice. He was one tough MFER he had my respect.
December 4, 2018
December 4, 2018
Happy Birthday, Johnny. My only wish is that you are with mom, dad, vinnie, and nonno, sitting around a table and talking about old times, over a plate of pasta. I love you. Maria
November 27, 2018
November 27, 2018
Dear God, please grant my Uncle Johnny the peace that only you can give him that he so desperately needed. In life he could be so difficult to live with, and now that he’s gone to be with you. It’s so difficult to be without him. Every time my hammer rings on my anvil, it’s a reminder of what you taught me. Followed by a flood of memories, both good and bad. It makes me love and miss my Uncle Johnny so much more! Only the knowing he’s finally at peace with You, gives me the will to hit that anvil again, and to work a piece of steel into something with a purpose, by using the gift you gave me so long ago. When I was young, I sat and watched, you work and learned. Now it’s your turn to sit and watch me work. By putting to use what I learned from you. I’ll never stop missing you, or thanking you my Uncle. It was you who made me into a Blacksmith, and with that you became a Brother. Only we Smith’s know that feel of the hammer ringing out the anvil that I pray you can still hear. This is not goodbye, it’s a see ya later Johnny. There’s still plenty of horses needin to be shod. And bread ready to go into the oven.
November 26, 2018
November 26, 2018
My dearest Maria Victoria - I am so very sad to hear of your brother's passing. You and Orlando are in my heart, thoughts and prayers. May his memory be a blessing. Love, Jaki
November 25, 2018
November 25, 2018
Rest in eternal peace John, may the Lord embrace your family until you meet again ❤️
November 25, 2018
November 25, 2018
It's a month that you have left us, Johnny and we miss you.
Love, your sister Maria Victoria and Orlando
November 5, 2018
November 5, 2018
Maria, I did not know your brother but I know you, and know how much you loved your brother. May GOD grant peace during these difficult moments. My prayers are with you and your family. Barb Valentin
November 3, 2018
November 3, 2018
On November 3, 2018, there will be a memorial cremation service at the McGilley & George Funeral Home in Belton, MO at 3:00pm. Family and friends will surround Johnny and show their love and friendship as they had during his life on earth and bid him one last farewell. Repose in peace, my dearest brother. Love, Maria Victoria
October 30, 2018
October 30, 2018
lot of great memories with john my dad rocky and my brother andy knew him as well just a great soul great man great freind and one of the best blacksmith thank you for the great memories john always loved talking with you while you were shoeing my horse when i worked for rejean god speed my freind r i p our sincere condolences from the toscano family
October 30, 2018
October 30, 2018
santini , was a stalwart of the roosevelt backstrectch.i was living off a claimer whose feet were breaking away .he told me,bring in the shop, he toiled on his feet,advised soak them in kerosine,, come back nextweek and in 3 weeks we will be in the winners circle!! damn if he didnt healthoseaching feet!!!!''SANTINI'' was a great friend, and he toiled each day until post time with passion for his craft,,
October 30, 2018
October 30, 2018
Ti ricordiamo tutti con grande affetto ma soprattutto io e Maurizio quando 24 anni fa siamo venuti in viaggio di nozze in Florida e tu ci hai accolto e guidato per tutto il soggiorno in modo molto disponibile e protettivo. Ricordo ancora le risate che ci hai fatto fare !!!! Anche mamma e nonna stanno soffrendo molto per la tua morte. Sappi che non ti dimenticheremo mai e rimarrai sempre un pezzo di noi. Riposa in pace. Roberta, Maurizio, Alessandro, Andrea, Josephine e zia Anna Maria.
October 29, 2018
October 29, 2018
I didn’t know you but I know your sister Maria. She loves you very much. I can tell you were a special person. May your soul Rest In Peace now. Sending a lot of love to Maria and my condolences to her and to the family.
“Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.”
- Psalm 23:4.
October 29, 2018
October 29, 2018
May our Lord bless and comfort you and your family during this time of grief. Please accept my sincere condolences.
October 29, 2018
October 29, 2018
John was my cousin, the son of my Aunt Rose and Uncle Tom. Rose and Tom had four children, Bianca, Vincenza, John, and Maria Victoria. With John's passing, there are two left , the oldest, Bianca, and the youngest, Maria Victoria. We grew up only a few miles apart on Long Island, NY. I had the most contact with the two oldest of the Santoro children, Bianca and Vincenza (Vinnie). I was off to college while Johnny was still in elementary school, so I never really knew him well. Since then, I have been fortunate to establish contact with his younger sister, Maria Victoria, and it is from her that I learned about John's life. His life was not an easy one, but the one thing that really stood out was his love for animals. This led him to his career as a farrier and his many years at the Roosevelt Raceway on Long Island. He is regarded as the best there was in his career. Although he struggled with many personal problems through his life, I choose to remember him for that love. God bless you, Johnnie, and I hope you get to spend eternity with the animals you loved so much.
October 29, 2018
October 29, 2018
Johnny was a dear friend when I had my racing stable back in the late 80s thru the 90s out at Roosevelt and Yonkers Raceways.
He was also my "gifted" blacksmith.
Johnny was talented and had a great heart. He lived his craft, worked hard and helped many.
HE HELPED ME.
I will miss this dear soul. I haven't seen him in over 25 years, but some people leave a lasting impression on your heart and in your soul.
Rest Johnny.
Rest. Until next time......
October 29, 2018
October 29, 2018
It was an honor to be part of Johnny’s care. He was funny and feisty while being so kind. He loved to talk about his younger years in New York as a Ferrier and of course, he was so very proud of his large Italian family. Sharing his memories always made his eyes twinkle. I know that in the last few months Mona provided him so much love and comfort.  What a wonderful gift she was and what a wonderful gift he was to all who had to privilege of knowing him.  I am grateful for the opportunity to have known such a wonderful man. My thoughts and prayers are with his family during this difficult time.
October 29, 2018
October 29, 2018
It was both a pleasure and privilege to be a part of Johnny's care while at Sarah Cannon Cancer Institute. He was always so kind and funny, he will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family during this time.
October 29, 2018
October 29, 2018
How do I find the words? Johnny, my Uncle, my friend, my brother, and my teacher. Even my enemy sometimes but even when we fought we still loved each other. You put me on a path with a piece of steel, a red hot fire, and with hammer and anvil I learned how to turn it into a tool, or a horseshoe sometimes the hammered out leaf for a rose of iron. You showed me what hard work was and that stayed with me all of my life since. Most of all you gave me the knowledge to turned it into skill. I’ll never be able to repay you for that. All I can do is say thank you for your gift to me. I hope and pray that you can still hear the ring of my anvil as I wear out another hammer, but my anvil stays solid and still rings for you to hear. I don’t have the words to express what I feel? But you can see it in the work I’ve done because of this gift you shared with me. My hands may be getting tired, but in my mind and my heart still burns a forge of love and respect. Peace be your journey.
October 28, 2018
October 28, 2018
LIVE,LAUGH AMD SING "ITS GOING TO BE ALL RIGHT. HE IS NOW SHOEING THE HORES FOR GODS LEGENDS OF ANGELS. [ WITH A SIDE BET ON THE SIDE]WE LOVE YOU AND WILL SEE YOU AGAN IN ETERNITY.
JOHN FRANKLIN SANTORO HIS LOVE OF HIS DOGS AND HOW THEY LOVED HIM WAS THAT HE TRULEY COMMUNICATED WITH THEM. AND THEY WERE HIS FAMILY. ANY ONE WANTING TO DO ANY DONATIONS IN HIS NAME ,CONSIDER DONATING TO AGENCIES AGAINST ANIMAL CRUELTY. ESPECIALLY DOGS AND RACE HORSES.
His loving Sister Bianca Santoro-Wall and her family.
October 28, 2018
October 28, 2018
I seek to make sense of this absurd, illogical, sad but beautiful world. It was beautiful because my brother made me feel special. He gave me strength. Johnny will live in the hearts of all who had the fortune to have known him.
Your loving sister, Maria

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February 20
February 20
Hello Johnny, I'm just stopping by to tell you I think of you everyday and I miss you.
love
didi
February 26, 2023
February 26, 2023
Peter:
There are no words to express my gratitude for your kind words on Johnny’s behalf. I intentionally wrote the article “unsung hero” before Johnny left us because I wanted him to know the impact he had on others and racing- People started contacting him from all over - It made him so happy! If you’d like to speak with me (any friend of Johnny’s is a friend of mine- Please call me- 3052160398-
December 10, 2022
December 10, 2022
Dearest Brother,
I long for the chance to speak with you again and until that moment arrives, I share my thoughts in print with you and with all who knew you and loved you.

My thoughts drifted to the time of your youth when you were starting your life as a blacksmith- and I found this quote that is so true….
“You cannot dream yourself into a great blacksmith”

All that you were on earth did not come easy and I am in awe when I think of how hard you worked to be the very best Blacksmith in NY.
Love
Your sister Maria Victoria
His Life

Johnny's life through his favorite songs and poem

October 29, 2018

Johnny was a fighter and he fought a noble fight with all his strength and might.

The Boxer

I am just a poor boy
Though my story's seldom told
I have squandered my resistance
For a pocketful of mumbles
Such are promises
All lies and jest
Still, a man hears what he wants to hear
And disregards the rest

Mm-mm-mm-mm-mm-mm
Mm-mm-mm-mm-mm
When I left my home and my family
I was no more than a boy
In the company of strangers
In the quiet of the railway station
Running scared
Laying low, seeking out the poorer quarters

Where the ragged people go

Looking for the places only they would know
Lie-la-lie
Asking only workman's wages

I come looking for a job

But I get no offers
Just a come-on from the whores on Seventh Avenue
I do declare, there were times when I was so lonesome
I took some comfort there
La-la-la-la-la-la-la
Lie-la-lie

Now the years are rolling by me

They are rockin' evenly
I am older than I once was
And younger than I'll be; that's not unusual
Nor is it strange
After changes upon changes
We are more or less the same
After changes we are more or less the same
La-la-la-la-la-la-la
Lie-la-lie
Then I'm laying out my winter clothes

And wishing I was gone

Going home

Where the New York City winters aren't bleeding me
Leading me
Going home
In the clearing stands a boxer

And a fighter by his trade
And he carries the reminders
Of every glove that laid him down
Or cut him till he cried out
In his anger and his shame
"I am leaving, I am leaving"
But the fighter still remains
Mm-mm-mm
Lie-la-lie
Lie-la-lie-lie-lie-lie-lie

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Peter, Paul & Mary – Stewball LyricsOh Stewball was a racehorse, and I wish he were mine.
He never drank water, he always drank wine.

His bridle was silver, his mane it was gold.

And the worth of his saddle has never been told.

Oh the fairgrounds were crowded, and Stewball was there
But the betting was heavy on the bay and the mare.

And a-way up yonder, ahead of them all,
Came a-prancin' and a-dancin' my noble Stewball.

I bet on the grey mare, I bet on the bay
If I'd have bet on ol' Stewball, I'd be a free man today.

Oh the hoot owl, she hollers, and the turtle dove moans.
I'm a poor boy in trouble, I'm a long way from home.

Oh Stewball was a racehorse, and I wish he were mine.
He never drank water, he always drank wine.

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From Guys and Dolls

I got the horse right here, the name is Paul Revere.

And here's a guy that says that if all weather's clear,

Can do, can do, this guy says the horse can do.
If he says the horse can do, can do, can do.
I picked the Valentine, cause on the Morning Line,
The guy has got em figured at five to nine
But take the Epitaph, he went to buy a half,
He's got it cold in here in the Telegraph.
About Rivera's fight, I guess the sport's alright
Suppose it all depends if it rained last night.
I know it's Valentine, the morning works were fine
You know the jockey's brother is a friend of mine
But just a minute, boys, I got the feedback's choice,
It says the great grandfather was Aqua Poise.
I give you Paul Revere, and it's no bum steer
It's from a man right here that's real sincere
I picked my Valentine cause on the Morning Line
The guy has got em figured at five to nine
But take the Epitaph, he went to buy a half,
He's got it cold in here in the Telegraph.
Epitaph, Valentine, Paul Revere, I got the horse right here.

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Johnny could recite this poem from memory and tried so hard to live by its words

The Village BlacksmithBallads 

Under a spreading chestnut-tree
The village smithy stands;
The smith, a mighty man is he,
With large and sinewy hands;
And the muscles of his brawny arms
Are strong as iron bands. 

His hair is crisp, and black, and long,
His face is like the tan;
His brow is wet with honest sweat,
He earns whate'er he can,
And looks the whole world in the face,
For he owes not any man. 

Week in, week out, from morn till night,
You can hear his bellows blow;
You can hear him swing his heavy sledge,
With measured beat and slow,
Like a sexton ringing the village bell,
When the evening sun is low. 

And children coming home from school
Look in at the open door;
They love to see the flaming forge,
And hear the bellows roar,
And catch the burning sparks that fly
Like chaff from a threshing-floor. 

He goes on Sunday to the church,
And sits among his boys;
He hears the parson pray and preach,
He hears his daughter's voice,
Singing in the village choir,
And it makes his heart rejoice. 

It sounds to him like her mother's voice,
Singing in Paradise!
He needs must think of her once more,
How in the grave she lies;
And with his hard, rough hand he wipes
A tear out of his eyes. 

Toiling,--rejoicing,--sorrowing,
Onward through life he goes;
Each morning sees some task begin,
Each evening sees it close
Something attempted, something done,
Has earned a night's repose. 

Thanks, thanks to thee, my worthy friend,
For the lesson thou hast taught!
Thus at the flaming forge of life
Our fortunes must be wrought;
Thus on its sounding anvil shaped
Each burning deed and thought.

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From the time I was a little girl, Johnny sang me this song..

The most beautiful sound I ever heard
Maria, Maria, Maria, Maria
All the beautiful sounds of the world in a single word
Maria, Maria, Maria, Maria, Maria, Maria, Maria

I've just met a girl named Maria
And suddenly that name will never be the same to me
Maria, I've just kissed a girl named Maria
And suddenly I've found how wonderful a sound can be

Maria, say it loud and there's music playing
Say it soft and it's almost like praying
Maria, I'll never stop saying Maria
Maria, Maria, Maria, Maria, Maria, Maria

Maria, say it loud and there's music playing
Say it soft and it's almost like praying
Maria, I'll never stop saying Maria
The most beautiful sound I ever heard
Maria

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Johnny never wore his heart on his sleeve and so it is befitting to add just one more song...

 That's Life 

That's life (that's life), that's what all the people say
You're ridin' high in April, shot down in May
But I know I'm gonna change that tune
When I'm back on top, back on top in June

I said that's life (that's life), and as funny as it may seem
Some people get their kicks stompin' on a dream
But I don't let it, let it get me down
'cause this fine old world, it keeps spinnin' around

I've been a puppet, a pauper, a pirate, a poet, a pawn and a king
I've been up and down and over and out and I know one thing
Each time I find myself flat on my face
I pick myself up and get back in the race

That's life (that's life), I tell you I can't deny it
I thought of quitting, baby, but my heart just ain't gonna buy it
And if I didn't think it was worth one single try
I'd jump right on a big bird and then I'd fly

I've been a puppet, a pauper, a pirate, a poet, a pawn and a king
I've been up and down and over and out and I know one thing
Each time I find myself layin' flat on my face
I just pick myself up and get back in the race

That's life (that's life), that's life and I can't deny it
Many times I thought of cuttin' out but my heart won't buy it
But if there's nothin' shakin' come this here July
I'm gonna roll myself up in a big ball a-and die

My, my!

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rocky raccoon...

now rocky raccoon he was a fool unto himself,
and he would not swallow his foolish pride.
mind you, coming from a little town in minnesota,
it was not the kind of thing that a young guy did when
a fellow went and stole his chick away from him.
now rocky raccoon checked into his room
only to find gideon's bible.
rocky had come equipped with a gun
to shoot off the legs of his rival.
his rival it seems had broken his dreams
by stealing the girl of his fancy.
her name was magill, and she called herself lil,
but ev'ryone knew her as nancy.

now she and her man, who called himself dan,
were in the next room at the hoe-down.
and rocky burst in and grinning a grin,
said, danny boy, this is a showdown.
but daniel was hot, he drew first and shot
and rocky collapsed in the corner - ah.

the doctor walked in, sminking of gin (sminking?!)

proceeded to lie on the table.
he's really sminking of gin,
and it did him in the end, poor doc.
meantime, back on the table, yeah,
the doctor said, rock, you've met your match, son.
rocky said, it's only a scratch, so i'll be better soon.
you better be better soon, said the doc.
come on, son, gotta get hip, gotta get up, gotta get back
to your gun, gotta go and shoot that danny boy.

however, rocky raccoon, he fell back in his room
only to find gideon's bible.
gideon checked out and left it no doubt
to help with good rocky's revival - ah.

and that's the story of the rocky raccoon, yeah.

hey!

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Our Grandfather Giovanni shared his love for opera . Johnny loved Italian Culture and language. I remember sending him CDs so he could study Italian and on my way to work, he would repeat his lesson to me and ask if his pronunciation was accurate. 

Johnny's loved La Tosca and E lucevanle stelle was his favorite aria: 

lucevanle stelle, Ed olezza vala terra Stridea l'uscio dell'orto E un passos fiorava la rena. Entrava ella fragrante, Mi cadeafra la braccia.  O dolcibaci, o languide carezze, Mentr'io frementele belle forme disciogliea dai veli! Svanì per sempreil sognomio d'amore. L'ora è fuggita, e muoiodisperato! E muoio disperato! E non ho amato mai tantola vita! Tanto la vita!

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The anvil of God’s word

November 4, 2018

“Last eve I paused beside the blacksmith’s door,

And heard the anvil ring the vesper chime;
Then looking in, I saw upon the floor,
Old hammers, worn with beating years of time.

“‘How many anvils have you had,’ said I,
‘To wear and batter all these hammers so?’
‘Just one,’ said he, and then with twinkling eye,
‘The anvil wears the hammers out, you know.’

“And so, I thought, the Anvil of God’s Word
For ages skeptic blows have beat upon;
Yet, though the noise of falling blows was heard,
The Anvil is unharmed, the hammers gone.”


But the word of the Lord endureth for ever... 1 Peter 1:25

I will worship toward thy holy temple, and praise thy name for thy lovingkindness and for thy truth: for thou hast magnified thy word above all thy name. Psalm 138:2

Saying Good-bye to Johnny

November 4, 2018

On November 3, 2018, friends and loved ones gathered in Belton, Missouri to say good-bye to Johnny. He was sent home in a pine wood charnel that was built by his loving nephew Peter. Six rosebuds accompanied him home and he left this world with the befitting tune,  "my way".  Johnny, if you can hear us, we have and alway will love you. Response in Peace, my dearest brother.

From his loving sister Bianca Santoro-Wall

October 29, 2018

LIVE,LAUGH AMD SING "ITS GOING TO BE ALL RIGHT". HE IS NOW SHOEING THE HORES FOR GODS LEGENDS OF ANGELS. [ WITH A SIDE BET ON THE SIDE]WE LOVE YOU AND WILL SEE YOU AGAN IN ETERNITY.

JOHN FRANKLIN SANTORO  HIS LOVE OF HIS DOGS AND HOW THEY LOVED HIM WAS THAT HE TRULEY COMMUNICATED  WITH THEM. AND THEY WERE HIS FAMILY. ANY ONE WANTING TO DO ANY DONATIONS IN HIS NAME ,CONSIDER DONATING TO AGENCIES AGAINST ANIMAL CRUELTY.  ESPECIALLY DOGS AND  RACE HORSES. 

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