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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, John Koppenhaver, 52 years old, born on June 8, 1961, and passed away on March 16, 2014. We will remember him forever.

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Toni Riss
December 8, 2021
December 8, 2021
When I read Nancy's obituary all those years ago I was deeply touched. You see I was 46 and had never worried about breast cancer much. I was a fool and Nancy's story woke me up. Doctors weren't too concerned about my own risk either at that time. I ended up having an aggressive breast cancer that became metastatic quickly. Nancy saved my life and the greatest lesson she taught me was to listen to your body. I turned 69 Saturday and although I have survived metastatic breast cancer I am now dealing with the collateral damage of the treatment.

I never met John. I wish I had. I thought reinstating this memorial would continue the healing. If I could have one wish I'd want to meet Troy and give him a hug. His mom lives on in my heart every day.
Jackie Koppenhaver
March 17, 2016
March 17, 2016
My dearest brother, today marks 2 years now that you left us...the hurt does not go away, I miss you so much. I love you then, now and always. Jackie
Jackie Koppenhaver
April 20, 2015
April 20, 2015
JOHN, THIS IS MY WAY OF KEEPING YOU HERE WITH US THE ONLY WAY I KNOW HOW. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE WITH ME IN MY HEART AND IN MY MEMORIES. I MISS YOU DEARLY BIG BROTHER. I PRAY THAT YOU ARE AT PEACE AND HAPPY. I LOVE YOU, YOUR SISTER JACKIE
Jackie Koppenhaver
March 17, 2015
March 17, 2015
My dearest brother, today has been a difficult one. I miss you so very much my heart aches to just hear your voice again. Until we meet again, I love you, I always have, and I always will. Your sister Jackie
Roy Davis
March 16, 2015
March 16, 2015
I think of you all the time. I miss you my friend.
Jackie Koppenhaver
June 8, 2014
June 8, 2014
DEAREST BROTHER, I WISH YOU THE HAPPIEST OF BIRTHDAYS! I WISH YOU WERE HERE SO WE COULD THROW A COLD ONE BACK TOGETHER. I WILL DO THAT IN YOUR MEMORY/HONOR LATER. SO ALL I HAVE LEFT TO SAY IS...HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR JOHN, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! HAVE A GREAT 53RD BROTHER. I LOVE YOU!
M.B. Bonacci
March 23, 2014
March 23, 2014
Oh John, we were friends for over 35 years. Hard to believe you're gone, and that I will never again get one of those two-line emails of yours, asking me if I saw the Broncos game, or telling me you're coming through town, or wanting me to explain God to you in 30 words or less :) I saw the good times, and I saw the bad times. And mostly I saw that when you loved, you loved fiercely. That went for your friends, it went for your family, and it most of all went for your kids. There was a special light in your eyes whenever you talked about them. They've lost you too soon. We all have. Love you, my friend.
Barbara Stalick
March 21, 2014
March 21, 2014
Nancy brought you to our family with more than dreams in her heart. You protected her and loved her more than I have seen anyone love their spouse. Your journey on this planet has been so hard and Nancy gave you her heart. She was your strength and you were hers. Your loss was so deep you had no control of your life after she left. Now your suffering is over with you and Nancy together again. May both of you ride free and fly together for all eternity. Thank you for loving my daughter, Thank you for being my son-in-law, Thank for being my friend.
Shelly Harris
March 21, 2014
March 21, 2014
John,
you will be missed, Your smile,your large caring heart! May God bless
you as you get to see your dad and Nancy! now your heart is complete.
My Prayers go out to your family and your children. They will miss you !!
Richelle Short-Lewis
March 20, 2014
March 20, 2014
John,
You will be forever missed. You left the most wonderful legacy in the 4 children we share. I pray you are in peace my friend. I love you!
Jackie Koppenhaver
March 20, 2014
March 20, 2014
MY DEAREST BROTHER, LOSING YOU HAS LEFT A HOLE IN MY HEART AND LIFE. I WILL CHERISH THE TIME WE HAD TOGETHER AND HONOR THAT WITH LOVING MEMORIES. REST IN PEACE BIG BROTHER...YOU DESERVE IT. LOVE FOREVER YOUR LITTLE SISTER JACKIE
Roy Davis
March 20, 2014
March 20, 2014
Be at peace my friend. I will miss you. From the very beginning you was (and always will be) my brother. I love you John.

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Toni Riss
December 8, 2021
December 8, 2021
When I read Nancy's obituary all those years ago I was deeply touched. You see I was 46 and had never worried about breast cancer much. I was a fool and Nancy's story woke me up. Doctors weren't too concerned about my own risk either at that time. I ended up having an aggressive breast cancer that became metastatic quickly. Nancy saved my life and the greatest lesson she taught me was to listen to your body. I turned 69 Saturday and although I have survived metastatic breast cancer I am now dealing with the collateral damage of the treatment.

I never met John. I wish I had. I thought reinstating this memorial would continue the healing. If I could have one wish I'd want to meet Troy and give him a hug. His mom lives on in my heart every day.
Jackie Koppenhaver
March 17, 2016
March 17, 2016
My dearest brother, today marks 2 years now that you left us...the hurt does not go away, I miss you so much. I love you then, now and always. Jackie
Jackie Koppenhaver
April 20, 2015
April 20, 2015
JOHN, THIS IS MY WAY OF KEEPING YOU HERE WITH US THE ONLY WAY I KNOW HOW. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE WITH ME IN MY HEART AND IN MY MEMORIES. I MISS YOU DEARLY BIG BROTHER. I PRAY THAT YOU ARE AT PEACE AND HAPPY. I LOVE YOU, YOUR SISTER JACKIE
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CRUSIN'

April 20, 2014
by Jackie Koppenhaver

SOME OF MY FONDEST MEMORIES BIG BROTHER WERE OF THE TIMES YOU TOOK ME CRUSIN'.  WE WOULD BE DRIVING DOWN THE STREET, LISTENING TO THE MUSIC AND OR TALKING. SUDDENLY YOU WOULD YELL "DUCK!" AS IT TURNED OUT, THERE WOULD BE A PRETTY GIRL IN YOUR SIGHTS. EVERYONE KNOWS YOU CANT BE CAUGHT WITH YOUR SISTER IN YOUR CAR WHILE YOUR CRUSIN'   LMAO!  MY BIG BROTHER, WE SHARED GOOD TIMES AND BAD TIMES...WE FOUGHT, WE GOT ALONG. WE LOVED AND WE HATED ONE ANOTHER. AS IT TURNED OUT, TIME SHOWED US THAT WE WERE ALSO BEST FRIENDS, CLOSE FRIENDS, LOVING FRIENDS. AS WERE ALL OF US SIBLINGS. THANK YOU FOR BEING MY FRIEND. I WILL LOVE YOU ALWAYS, AND MISS YOU EVEN LONGER.   JACKIE

March 25, 2014
by Richelle Short-Lewis
From Scott Brokaw   I heard this morning that an old Army buddy, John Koppenhaver, passed away last weekend. We were stationed together in Hawaii in the late 80s/early 90s. Those were some really great times, and John was one of the people I always enjoyed being around. Rest in peace, brother. You will be missed.

Dated March 20
March 25, 2014
by Richelle Short-Lewis
From Scott Howie

To John's friends and family...my deepest condolences. John and I spent quite a bit of time together over the last year. I last saw him on Saturday March 15th; we met at my storage unit so he could grab some clothes for a new job he was slated to start on Monday.

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