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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Jose Carvajal, 62, born on January 14, 1953 and passed away on July 9, 2015. We will remember him forever.

Papi was the light of my life. Even as a little girl, I remember him making me laugh so much I would nearly cry. I remember him telling me it was a Cuban tradition to put makeup on his daughter at age 16. So I allowed him too, when I looked in the mirror I noticed that I had lipstick all over my cheek, my forehead and my chin. He had an awesome sense of humor.

Papi grew up in Havana Cuba; he had married and had two sons there. He did not have much contact with them after a few years being in the states. My parents met in California, then moved to New Jersey where they had me in 1984 and had my brother in 1986. Papi had a passion for truck driving around the world and spending his free time talking over the ham radio.

Papi was always so caring to my brother and I. He would always try to teach us how to understand the ham radio and try to convince us to become operators. I’m grateful that I was able to learn a few things he wanted to teach me such as driving using a wheel barrow and truck to Parallel Park and spending a summer over the road in his semi.

Papi was a very organized man; he would know if we had gone in to his ham radio area and moved anything. Papi was very proud of his family. He would always make sure he told his radio friends about his grandkids, his daughter/son in-laws and his kids. Even as adults Papi inspired me although I never really told him. Papi spent every day on his ham radio; he has made many friends throughout the years.

Papi, your love, your patience, your understanding, your wisdom and your amazing sense of humor will live on inside us forever. You have given us gifts that are more precious than anything in this world. The hardest thing I’ve had to say to you his Goodbye, something you used to tell us never to say before going to bed. I will carry on that saying to my children. Goodbye Papi. You will always live on in my heart.


Papi leaves behind 4 children, 8 grandchildren and many friends.   


   

July 16, 2015
July 16, 2015
I wish I had just one more day to spend with you. I hope you are free from pain now. I just wanted one more day....

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For Papi <3

July 18, 2015

After a week, it doesn't seem real or even remotely possible that you're gone.You were always such a kind, fun-loving person. You always had good advice when I needed it, you taught me a few things about cooking, life, and I enjoyed and missed your stories about your life and I even miss your bad jokes. I miss hearing you talk on the radio non-stop. You always treated me like another daughter to you and I'm proud to say you were my father in law. I love how happy Adrian always got when you came out of your bedroom in the mornings, and the way he laughed when he knew we were going to your room to say Good Morning. I know we all miss hearing you yell "Coconut Man!" when you were talking to Adrian. You and Adrian couldn't have been any closer. There were times I think we both got on each others nerves, but there's not a day that goes by that I don't miss you or think of you. Thank you so much for welcoming me into your family, and for all the ways you've helped me when I just needed someone to talk to. You were an amazing person and anyone who's ever met you would agree. This house is too quiet without you, nothing really feels the same without you here. I love you so much Papi, and I'm glad that in the years that I got to know you we grew so close. I promise to take good care of your Buey and Coconut Man. I'll you you again one day Papi! I love and miss you. Rest in Peace. I hope you have a big ham radio, your vision, and everything else you've ever wanted in Heaven. 
 

My Father.

July 18, 2015

I have been dreading writing this for so long, but I owe it to my dad to speak about how much I love him. My father taught me compassion, respect, and what it means to be a good man. My father always joked about things in the weirdest ways and always tried to keep his head up in all situations, no matter how bad the situation is. I remember that every time I had a bad day he'd do something or say something to try to cheer me up. I loved that about my dad, he was full of life. My dad taught me that life is too short to live with a chip on your shoulder, sometimes you just need to accept that bad things happen and then choose how you react in that situation. I'll always remember how when he was a truck driver he would kidnap me every summer and take me over the road with him. We'd sleep in the cab of the truck, eat junk food and tell horrible jokes. My dad lived with me up until the end, for 8 years. Sometimes he would drive me crazy while other times it would be me that drives him insane. I miss my father and there's not a day that goes by that I don't think about him. I have a huge void in my heart, life and home without him. My family and my friends have made me stronger in my time of need. I love you Papi and I won't say goodbye, because you hated that word. I'll say that I'll see you one day and when I do I hope you will continue to be proud of the man you raised. I will teach my son everything you've taught me and tell him how much you loved him as he gets older. I'll always be your Buey, no matter how old I get or how long you've been gone. I love you Papi. Rest in Peace. 

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