Joe
JOSEPH C. FICHERA
  • 60 years old
  • Date of birth: Jun 1, 1941
  • Date of passing: Jan 13, 2002
Let the memory of JOSEPH C. be with us forever

This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, JOSEPH C. FICHERA, 60, born on June 1, 1941 and passed away on January 13, 2002. We will remember him forever. GOD TOOK HIM HOME TO SOON, He was a loving Father and Grand Father . First to Alexandra, then Nicholas, and Maxwell Joseph.I Believe he played with  and knew his other Grand Children. He is also with the two Babies we Miscarried. I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER, BETTY

Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 22nd September 2015

"WELL I THINK YOU THINK I FORGOT ABOUT YOU.   NEVER IN AN ETERNITY CAN I EVER LET YOUR  MEMORY GO,  NOTHING ABOUT YOU HAS LEFT MY HEART,  I LOVE YOU MY JOE. WELL GOD IS REALLY DOING A JOB ON ME,  I CAN HARDLY WALK,  I CAN NOT STAND.   I HAVE HAD 3 REALLY SUPER CAR ACCIDENTS IN TWO YEARS.   THIS TIME I TOTALED MY CAR. THE AIR BAG DID NOT WORK, WOW MY RIGHT SIDE TOOK A GOOD LICKING.  VERY VERY SORE.  SO HOW IS EVERYONE.  TELL MY DADDY I LOVE HIM AND MISS HIM AS MUCH AS I DO YOU.   HAS MY MOTHER REALIZED I KNOW SHE NEVER CARED OR LOVED ME. ITS  OK I REMEMBER EVERY THING MY GRANDMA NELLIE DID FOR ME ALL THE HUGS AND KISSES,  I LOVED HER SO.OUR FUN IN CONEY ISLAND.  HER HOUSE,  I REMEMBER. I HOPE YOU TOLD YOUR MOTHER MY REAL FEELING ABOUT HER AND HOW YOU STOPPED ME FROM SAYING ANYTHING I WANTED,  THINGS  JUST GO THROUGH YOUR HEAD,  LIKE A FILM OF THE PAST,  GOOD AND  BAD.EVEN YOUR CHEATING.  SOMEDAY I WILL SEE YOU AGAIN,  ONLY GOD KNOWS WHEN..  SOON I HOPE. I STILL LOVE YOU AND ALWAYS WILL,   KEEP WATCHING OVER OUR GRAND CHILDREN,   ESPECIALLY OUR LITTLE PEANUT JAZZIE,  SHE IS A RIP. WATCH THEM ALL JOE THEY ARE OUR BABIES.    WELL GOOD BYE MY LOVE,  TILL I SEE YOU, I LOVE YOU."

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 25th November 2014

"WELL MY  LOVE YOU ARE SAYING IT IS ABOUT TIME SHE WROTE.  I NEVER FORGET YOU, YOU ARE MY HEART, MY SOUL, MY EVERYTHING.   I MISS YOU MORE AND MORE EVEN THOUGH IT WILL BE 13 YEARS IN JANUARY..I HOPE GOD IN HIS INFANITE IWISDOM WILL COUNT ALL MY SICKNESSES AS PENANCE. I  HAVE TO SELL AND GO HOME, I AM TO DEPRESSED TO BE ALONE ANY MORE ESPECIALLY WHEN I AM SICK.  I THOUGHT I WOULD NEVER GET OUT OF THIS DEPRESSION, AND THE CRYING.   GOD I NEED MY FAMILY. .,,WELL HERE  WE ARE THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMING,   I MISS YOU AND MY DADDY SO..  WELL IN MY  HEART I KNEW IT WAS OUR 50TH ANNIVERSARY,   I MADE AIRLINE RESERVATIONS TO BE WITH YOU ON OUR 51ST.   SO ARE YOU HAPPY WITH OUR LITTLE CLONES,  OUR BABIES ARE GETTING OLDER,  TIME FLYS I MISS THE KISSES AND HUGS FROM YOU. OUR ALLIE IS GOING TO BE 23,  PLEASE CONTINUE TO BE WITH EACH OF THEM,  I KNOW YOU WATCH THEM,   HOW ABOUT OUR LITTLE PEANUT, SHE IS MISS PERSONALITY, SHE IS BEAUTIFUL OUR JASMINE, TAKE CARE OF HER JOE, PLEASE. I LOVE YOU WITH EVERY BREATH I TAKE, PLEASE ALWAYS BE NEAR ME,  I LOVE YOU.."

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 1st June 2014

"HERE IT IS YOUR BIRTHDAY,  YOU WOULD BE 73 TODAY.  I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE WOKEN UP WITH YOU TODAY AND KISS YOU AND SAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABY.AND SNUGGLE IN YOUR ARMS FOREVER, SOME DAY.  I GUESS.AS YOU KNOW EVERYONE IS FINE OUR CHILDREN AND OUR BABIES.THEY ARE SO BEAUTIFUL A LITTLE OF EACH OF US. MY HEART IS NOT ANY BETTER THAN IT WAS ON JAN.13,2002, I AM SO LOST WITH OUT YOU, I  MAKE STUPID MISTAKES AND MOVE HERE, SHIT HAPPENS AND I AM ANOTHER HOWARD HUGHES, ALWAYS ALONE, NO FRIENDS, NO ONE TO TALK TO. .I WAS NEVER CLOSE TO THE WEBERS I DON"T KNOW WHAT I THOUGHT.NOW I HAVE TO FIGURE OUT WHAT MY NEXT STEP WILL BE, MAYBE HOME, I DO NOT KNOW.  BUT IF I DIE I WOULD BE NEAR OUR KIDS, POOR GERRY HAS ENOUGH TO DO. HE WOULD HAVE TO HANDLE GETTING ME BACK TO N.Y., AND ALL THAT ENTAILS. MAKE ALL THE ARRANGEMENTS,  I WANT NO WAKE, JUST A WASTE OF MONEY,  MY TRUE FRIEND LIKE TERRY, THEY COULD TELL,  AND IF SHE IS UP NORTH, SHE COULD COME MY BURIAL DAY AND SAY GOODBYE IF SHE WANTS. AND JUST THE FAMILY GOODBYE AND THEN CHURCH AND TO YOU.MY LOVE.  I LOVE YOU SO MY HEART BROKE INTO A MILLION PIECES WHEN YOU LEFT THIS WORLD, AND LEFT ME ALL ALONE, YOU WERE MY LIFE, I LOVE YOU ALWAYS JOE, MAYBE GOD WILL CALL ME SOON,  FOREVER YOUR WIFE,  ALL MY LOVE, BETTY .AND I KNOW LIZ AND GERRY AND JOEY ARE THINKING ABOUT YOU TODAY, .  LIZ AND GERRY TOLD ME THEY WERE COMING TO SEE YOU, I AM SURE YOU HAVE YOUR ARMS AROUND THEM AS THEY TALK TO YOU,  GOOD BYE MY LOVE."

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 13th January 2014

"MY ANGEL HERE IT IS 12 YEARS.  I CAN"T BELIEVE TIME WENT SO FAST. IT SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY OR LAST WEEK,  I CAN"T SEEM TO BE WITHOUT YOU ANYMORE, I LOVE OUR CHILDREN AND THEIR BABIES, BUT IT"S CLEAR THEY DON"T WANT ME.  ASK GOD TO MOVE MY TIME UP, I NEED YOU SO BADLY. IT"S NOT FAIR, I HAVE TO STAY HERE WITH NOTHING BUT MEMORIES, I NEED YOU. I WAS ALWAYS SICK WITH SOME UNHEARD OF SICKNESS, YOU WERE ALWAYS WELL, I HAVE HAD ENOUGH ORERATIONS. SPEAK TO GOD FOR ME, I HAVE DONE MY PENANCE ON EARTH, WITH THE PAIN I HAD FROM THE OPERATIONS. I CAN"T EVEN WALK WELL, FORGET  STAIRS.   I HAVE THOUGHT OF ENDING IT MYSELF, BUT THEN I WOULDN"T SEE YOU.  I LOVE YOU MORE EACH DAY, IF THAT IS POSSIBLE, TILL I AM IN YOUR ARMS AGAIN I AM STILL AND ALWAYS BE MRS. JOSEPH C. FICHERA,  JAN. 25 IS AROUND THE CORNER LOVE YOU MY BABY.   BETTY"

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 19th December 2013

"WELL MY LOVE I LOOK AT THIS TRIBUTE BUT NEVER WRITE.  WELL IT IS ALMOST ANOTHER CHRISTMAS WITHOUT YOU.  THANKSGIVING WAS HARD.  I KNOW YOU WERE WITH US. HOW CAN I GET THROUGH CHRISTMAS AGAIN WITHOUT YOU, I KNOW YOU ARE WITH ALL OF US BUT WE WANT TO  HUG YOU, KISS YOU SHOW  OUR FEELINGS.TILL I AM WITH YOU I LOVE YOU FOREVER,ONE DAY SOON I HOPE. YOU WERE MY LIFE.MY LOVE FOREVER YOURS, JAN. 25, 2014 IS OUR 50TH ANNIVERSARY.I WILL LOOK FOR A SIGN FROM YOU, I REMAIN YOUR WIFE . I COULD NEVER HAVE ANOTHER SOUL MATE I LOVE YOU. BETTY"

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 15th October 2013

"MY LOVE, I MISS YOU MORE EACH DAY. ANY THING ABOUT ANGELS OR LOVED ONES WHO PASSED I DEDICATE THEM TO YOU.I KNOW YOU HAVE SEEN BILLY MORGAN, JOINED THE REST OF YOU. OH JOE SO MANY OF MY FRIENDS,  I WANT TO GO YET I WOULD MISS MY BABIES TO MUCH, ITS IN GODS HANDS. WHEN HE WANTS ME HE KNOWS FOR OVER 70 YEARS NOW.I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MY HEART ACHES. ANY MORE SICKNESSES I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER"

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 4th July 2013

"Joe, you know i have to have an artery at the top of my heart replaced, as well as 3 veins. a triple by-pass. . Gerry is coming down and Liz  is driving with 3 Grandchildren and the dog Jeter. i am very scared, but Jeffery gave me the message, I will  be ok and you don't want me yet..That broke my heart.its nearly 12 years without you. Have you met someone else? ALWAYS, YOUR BETTY"

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 1st June 2013

"Happy Birthday my Love.  I miss you so much. i can't believe it will be 12 years in January., that God took you home to Heaven. I have a lot of Heart Trouble, as you told Jeffery You were  Worried about my Health . to see a Dr. I am so lonely without you, my best friend. IF this Heart Stuff is Bad, then I hope to be with you..I think we raised our Babies well. Happy Birthday  MY LOVEALWAYS"

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 22nd April 2013

"HELLO BABY, I AM SO HAPPY YOU MADE JEFFERY TAKE MY PHONE CALL. I WILL ALWAYS NEED YOUR INPUT. YOU KNOW WHAT I NEEDED TO KNOW, WHY, I FIGURED THEIR WAS NO ONE ELSE TO SCREAM AT, I WAS GLAD TO HEAR YOU FORGAVE YOUR MOTHER  JOE  OH HOW I WISH I HAD BEEN ABLE TO SAY THINGS , BUT I DID AS YOU ASKED LOVE. I HOPE YOU TOLD HER ALL THE PAIN SHE CAUSED YOU.  WHAT SHE DID WITH RICHARD, I AM SURE SHE REALIZES NOW HOW HE USED HER. GIVING HIM YOUR DAD"s RING  WAS A KICK IN THE GUTS.   I GAVE JOEY THE FICHERA FAMILY RING.  GERRY WANTED WHAT HE CALLED THE KLUNKER ON THE HEAD RING, HE REALLY LOVED YOU.  I ALSO GAVE HIM DAD"S WATCH THAT I HAD REPAIRED FOR YOU.  YOU WERE SO HURT YOU NEVER LOOKED AT IT. I GAVE JOEY YOUR OMEGA.WATCH. THERE WAS A DIAMOND MANS WEDDING RING I THINK IT WAS DADS SO I GAVE IT TO LIZ. AND ALL THE JEWELERY YOUR MOTHER LEFT THEM.  I LOVE YOU SWEETHEART TILL WE MEET AGAIN."

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 3rd February 2013

"Well it took me a while to get to talk to Jeffery on WALK RADIO,.The kids think this is bull, that I talk to much so thats how he knows things. So I asked him if you had any Sisters or Brothers, he said yes a Brother.  I guess your mom had a miscarriage she never spoke of.  I AM SURE YOU KNOW THIS. ALSO THE BABIES I MISCARRIED WERE BOYS,  ARE YOU WITH YOUR OTHER SONS?   WE LOST THE FIRST BABY APRIL 26, 1966.  THE OTHER BABY WE LOST APRIL 28,1968.  PLEASE TELL THEM I BAPTISED THEM AND HOW MUCH I LOVE THEM, SOME DAY I WILL HOLD THEM AND KISS THEM. GOD HAD HIS REASONS FOR TAKING THEM HOME TO HEAVEN. I MISS ALL OF YOU SO MUCH. I LOVE YOU WITH ALL WITH MY BROKEN HEART, SOON I HOPE. LOVE YOU ALL BETTY AND MOMMY"

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 25th January 2013

"WELL MY LOVE TODAY IS OUR 49th WEDDING ANNIVERSARY. IT WAS A VERY LONELY DAY. I DON"T THINK I HAVE ANY MORE TEARS LEFT IN ME. I MISS YOU SO.I REMEMBER OUR WEDDING DAY LIKE IT WAS YESTERDAY. FATHER MC KEIRNEN SAID JOIN YOUR RIGHT HANDS AND I KEEP GIVING YOU MY LEFT.THEN HE SAID BETTY YOUR OTHER LEFT, WE GIGGLED A LITTLE, I WAS SO SCARED.YOU WERE SO HANDSOME , AND THOSE BLUE EYES..MY PRINCE. I LOVED YOU SO,  I FELT LIKE YOU LOVED ME BUT YOU DID THIS SO FAST TO GET OUT OF THE ARMY.. I DIDN"T CARE YOU WERE NOW MINE, TO LOVE FOREVER."

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 19th January 2013

"I LIVED EVERY MOMENT IN MY MIND OF 11 YEARS AGO.FROM 2 A.M., WHEN YOU WOKE ME TILL YOU LEFT US.AT 4:50 P.M.. NOW I HAVE TO FACE WHAT WOULD HAVE BEEN OUR 49th, ANNIVERSARY THIS FRIDAY .I AM AND ALWAYS WILL BE YOUR WIFE. YOU WERE THE LOVE OF MY LIFE., MY BEST FRIEND MY SOUL-MATE,THE FATHER OF OUR CHILDREN, NOW OUR 7 GRAND CHILDREN..I MISS EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU,MY LOVE HAS NEVER  DIED,LOVE YOU"

This tribute was added by gerard fichera on 13th January 2013

"Dad
Cant believe you have been gone 11 years today,,, I miss u and your silly ways,,,wish i was able to talk to you now because being a dad  in my 40's im starting to see things your way,,, and starting to be more and more like you everyday,,,see you at the cemetery...
love you    Gerry"

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 13th January 2013

"MY MIND AND HEART ARE BROKEN TODAY..IT IS 11 YEARS SINCE YOU LEFT US.TO THIS DAY..I CAN'T FIGURE OUT WHY YOU KEPT IT A SECRET FROM ALL OF US. I KNOW YOU FOUND OUT WHEN YOU HAD YOUR STATE PHYSICAL.WHY WERE YOU SO SECRETIVE. HOW DID YOU DO IT? WE ALL LOVED YOU, WE COULD HAVE MADE MANY MEMORIES WITH THE TIME YOU HAD LEFT.YOU WERE MY LIFE, MY BEST FRIEND, MY LOVER, MY HUSBAND.A" GREAT FATHER."

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 6th January 2013

"MY LOVE, I DON'T KNOW HOW I MADE IT THROUGH THE HOLIDAYS WITHOUT YOU. NEXT SUNDAY WILL BE  11 YEARS, THAT I HELD YOU IN MY ARMS, AND TOLD YOU TO GO. ALSO IT WAS A SUNDAY, AT 4;50PM YOU BREATHED YOUR LAST LITTLE BREATH IN MY EAR.I FEEL IN MY HEART THAT WAS MY KISS GOOD-BYE FROM YOU. YOU THINK I AM STRONG, BUT I AM NOT.EVERY PART  IN MY BODY LONGS TO HOLD YOU AND KISS YOU AGAIN.. I LOVE YOU"

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 5th December 2012

"THANK YOU FOR GETTING ME OUT OF THE MESSES I GET INTO. I COULD ALWAYS COUNT ON YOU.  JEFFERY TOLD ME YOU PICKED THE HOUSE I BOUGHT. I LOVE IT, JUST WHAT I NEEDED.   IT IS SO HARD FOR ME TO BE WITHOUT YOU NOW, WITH THANKSGIVING PASSING, AND NOW I HAVE TO FACE CHRISTMAS. YOU WERE ALWAYS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE. I WISH JOEY WOULD COME BACK TO THE FAMILY. I LOVE HIM AND MISS HIM. HELP ME WITH HIM."

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 11th August 2012

"TO MY LOVING HUSBAND, I MISS YOU SO, JEFFERY WAND WAS RIGHT, WHEN HE SPOKE TO YOU AND YOU TOLD HIM YOU WOULD HELP ME.  I COULD ALWAYS COUNT ON YOU AND GOD. THANK YOU BABY, I LOVE YOU MORE THAN EVER, IF THAT'S POSSIBLE. YOU ARE STILL MY LIFE., AND LOVE. YOU SAID I HAD THINGS TO DO IN LIFE, OTHER WISE I WOULD BE WITH YOU. I UNDERSTAND, OUR FAMILY MUST BE TAKEN CARE OF. TILL I HOLD YOU  LOVE"

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 26th June 2012

"DEAR FRIENDS AND FAMILY, PLEASE PRESS GALLERY, THEN AUDIO THEN VIDEO.  MY MOHAMED PUT JOE"S PICTURE IN AND A SONG THATS THE WORLD TO ME. I CAN't BELIEVE IT IS 10 YEARS AND WOULD HAVE BEEN OUR 48 TH ANNIVERSARY AND HIS 71 ST BIRTHDAY. MY LOVE GROWS EACH DAY FOR MY JOE, ALWAYS WITH ME IN MY HEAD AND HEART.  I LOVE YOU JOE,  ME"

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 29th April 2012

"THE MUSIC YOU HEAR IS FROM THE FILM " LOVE STORY "  The SONG IS SUNG BY   "ANDY WILLIAMS  " IT IS ON MY FACE BOOK. "WHERE DO I BEGIN TO TELL THE STORY OF OUR LOVE" THOSE ARE THE FIRST WORDS OF THE SONG, THEY ARE VERY MEANINGFUL TO ME. JOE WILL BE MY LIFE FOREVER."

This tribute was added by Elizabeth Fichera on 1st April 2012

"HOW DO I TELL YOU ABOUT MY JOE.  HE WAS MY SOULMATE, STILL IS I WILL LOVE HIM FOREVER.  WHEN GOD DECIDES ITS TIME FOR ME TO JOIN HIM IN HEAVEN, I WILL RUN INTO HIS ARMS AND NEVER LET GO. HE LOVED HIS CHILDREN SO MUCH, HE WAS A PEACOCK WHEN EACH OF THEM WERE BORN.  JOEY, THEN GERRY,  THEN 7 YEARS LATER HE GOT HIS " PRINCESS " ELIZABETH , HE NAMED HER. THEN OUR GRAND CHILDREN STARTED TO COME"


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