This memorial website was created to collect memories of our loved one. Most especially for Joe's son, Bryson.
Bryson is so young and has great concern that he will not remember Joe as well as those of us that had years to spend with him. He seeks out stories from others so he can continue to learn about Joe. Truth be told we all continue to learn from the sharing of others.
Please help us to build on those memories. All that is collected will remain here indefinitely as well as will be digitally transferred into a keepsake book.
Browse the site as much as you like and add tributes, stories, pictures, videos - anything you feel would help us build a special place of cherished memories. Please share the site link with others so they may contribute as well.
Thank you! Tina Higgins
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Leave a tributeThe dove hunting pics come up on FB memory. I truly miss those days.
With love to the memory and the family,
Johnny Mayo
Every time I see a big Bronco I still can't help but look to see the driver.
His mark was left and many ppl are continuing to get the good stuff he shared with us all.
In 2002, my father had a massive stroke that affected him in many ways, as well as other factors. It’s certainly not that my father didn't want to give me things a good father should; it’s that he simply couldn't. One of the things Joe did for me was to give me a lot of what my father couldn't. He never tried to take my father’s place; instead, he just tried to be my friend. I took the opportunity to tell him this one day; it’s something I’m extremely glad I did.
On the lighter side, Joe was a very funny guy. He was secure enough to make fun of himself. Better yet, he was humble enough to make fun of himself. He was able take other people’s seemingly uncomfortable situations and them comfortable with humor. Joe was well known to do this; his humor always caught us off guard, yet his timing was perfect.
When I was younger I enjoyed deer hunting. For various reasons I gave it up; I fell out of love with it. Later in life, I began to get back in touch with my past and the things I loved. Joe invited me out to hunt a couple of times before I took him up on the offer. I didn’t have a rifle, hunting clothes, or much of anything. It didn’t matter to Joe. He just wanted me out there. Joe was a good teacher. He taught me more about deer hunting, but more importantly he taught me about life most of the time we were hunting. He invited me back after that first hunt for many more hunts and he was always more thrilled than I was when I killed a deer. He taught me how to enjoy hunting more than I ever had; I had fallen back in love with hunting.
More than anything else, Joe loved his family. Bryson is very young and Joe’s legacy might end up being what is passed on to him more than anything else. To me, Bryson’s success in life is what Joe always had in mind while raising him. Joe thought that most men give 100% at work, but not at home. He believed that more effort should be given at home than anywhere else. Joe loved to help people and be of service to them in many different ways. He would spend hours talking to people every day, but when he got home he would always tell me he had to go be with his family. Family, that’s thing Joe valued the most.
The love he had for his wife & son was amazing, I soon found out why, his wife & son are amazing !
Joe helped me begin to understand what "becoming entirely ready" ment. (Getting my spiritual life in order, keeping it in order. So that in the events that are to take place as I go through life I will be able to endure.)
I didn't know exactly what this ment until I heard he had passed. At that moment, instead of coming apart at the seams... I endured, I stayed the course. This has continued to serve me well.
Joe lives on in the many lives he touched. I hope I can be as he was.
With love to the family,
Johnny M
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Just For Today
Today’s another (Just For Today) and another reason “walking slow makes it real hard to fall”. This is a phrase Joe Higgins taught me years ago and it’s a phrase I continue to practice today and share with others.
Joe, you are missed but never forgotten.
My Friend
There is not one single day that goes by I dont think about my friend . He has helped me to be the man i am today .But when you talk to someone 3-4 times a week for years , that had so much wisdom and didnt mind sharing his experience strength and hope with you and did it with love and kindness, its hard not to listen and know this friend of mine new what he was talking bout ! The day before my friend passed i was able to spend bout 3-4hrs with him bout and hour of that was going over a step the other was talking thats what we did when we got together we shared our ups and downs for me mainly downs my friend was mainly ups and by time we parted i usually felt refreshed and was ready to take on the world ! But Tina and Bryson there was never a time that you two were not in the conversation at some point (his team as he would say with a smile) I could see the love come across his face . I know how much I miss my friend (a lot and often) so its hard for me to fatham the loss and grief yall have . But i do know one thing Joe would tell us all in our loss Put one foot in front of the other and do next right thing !
Love you two
Anthony Millis
Bryson's First Shoes
By the time Bryson had his six month checkup his pediatrician and I had already begun to pick on Joe about being so overprotective and nervous. At the appointment Bryson got a perfect report and the doctor fielded all of the Joe's questions with ease. BUT... she did mention that it looked like Bryson might try to walk on his tip toes. She said "you might want to consider getting him some crib shoes so he can get used to walking on the bottom of his feet."
Well, within just a matter of days Joe has assembled more than 40 pairs of shoes. He laid them out in rows on the floor of Bryson's room to show me his accomplishment. He was so proud of his solution to the problem! He was going to keep shoes on Bryson even when he was asleep.
I got so tickled at him... there was no way Bryson was going to be able to wear that many shoes before he out grew them.