A Friend and Brother.
It is exactly a week since you relocated and as I drove by Ikoyi bridge this morning........I just said to myself if only I could turn the hand of time.......
You were truly an amazing chap! My mind went down memory lane on how our paths crossed. It was your sister (Ihuoma) I first knew from our days in secondary school before joining TREM in 1994 where I met the UMELO clan.
My years of working in the Youths & Crusaders fellowship (teens) brought us together. I remembered asking your brother Obinna who is this "Yellow man" and he responded my younger brother (in that his authoritative voice). I simply told him ~ this correct guy with amazing looks. We both laughed.
Over the years, I found out you were not about looks alone but you had solid substance. It was with excitement we celebrated you graduating from Law School and asking what next? We discussed opportunities available and the career path. I was not surprised when you landed the job in PWC. My surprise however was when you came over to share your thoughts on taking the ACCA and having the "double honors" ~ Lawyer who was also a Chartered Accountant. To some it sounded crazy but I remember looking at those eyes while we talked, I knew you had your mind made up.
You referred to me as "Egbon" (big brother) but like I always told you it is no shame that "Egbon" is also learning from the "aburo" (younger brother). I remember you sharing your plans about leaving PWC and moving to Cardinal Stones. We looked at the pros and cons and why it was the next step career wise.
You always wanted to give back and I was not surprised when you joined us in the Teens Church to help mold and mentor the next generation. You were always attentive, ready to learn and give wise counsel. We laughed at some of the idiosyncrasies of the young ones and shared how we wished we had the same opportunity while growing up.
Among other things I will miss our football banter. Your jibes about my love for Arsenal (you could not understand my love and support of a "trophyless" club). You offered severally that you will gladly welcome me to Chelsea. How can I forget the 6-0 thumping at Stamford bridge. You were in your elements after the game. Interestingly, Arsenal will be playing Chelsea this evening.......hmmmmm and just thinking of it.......our usual banter will not hold.
There are so many questions I have which may not be answered but our Faith and Trust in God still remains. I know this is a difficult time for your wife, siblings, family and friends. I pray that God will grant us all the fortitude to bear this loss. It is painful!
Death is a debt we all owe. Like the Psalmist said; Teach us to realize the brevity of life, so that we may grow in wisdom (Psalm 90:12).
Adieu my Brother and Friend Kelechi.
'Bimbo Adekoya