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August 6, 2020
I knew Kevin for a few years when he lived in Boston.  He and I are Notre Dame alumni, and had bonded over creating a gay and lesbian alumni group for the university -- GALA-ND/SMC. I remember his sparkling smile and Irish eyes and quick wit.  I also remember a backyard BBQ he attended at my home in Cambridge.  He was the hit of the afternoon.  It was Bastille Day, too.  It is still difficult to acknowledge that he has been gone from us for this time. It has been eight years already.  Rest in peace my friend until we meet again.

Chuck Colbert

My Guys

October 6, 2012
This is a picture that makes me smile and brings tears to my eyes. Kevin was my champion, my confidante, my wingman, and sounding board. He reintroduced me to Mike and encouraged our relationship. If not for Kevin, there never would have been a "Dave and Mike" and without "Dave and Mike," there would never have been Declan and Noah. Our sons only got to meet "Uncle Kevin" once (last summer, when he introduced our then four year old to the joys of the Transformer movie...for which I have since forgiven Kevin!), but they will know of his kindness, his passion, his sharp wit and intelligence, his warm and hearty laugh, and the role he played in our lives -- and in theirs. I love you my friend and miss you more each day.

Disney

October 6, 2012
Another fun trip with Kevin - Gay Days in Disney. Late night snacking.

Aspen - 2001?

October 6, 2012
This picture was taken in the vacation chalet of Tim Gill in Aspen during "Gay Ski Week" in (I think) 2001. We flew out to visit Kevin while he was living in Denver and then drove to Aspen. Being the schmoozer that he was, Kevin managed to get us invited to this swanky party. We spent most of the time walking around and checking out this over-the-top vacation house. (L-R, Tony Gale, David Breen, Kevin McKenn, Mike Harrington)
September 25, 2012
I have known Kevin for almost my entire life. In the past few years, we only saw each other a few times, which really makes me sad. You always think that there is more time. But every time we were together, it was like we had never been apart. Things that I will never forget include: Being with him for his first fender-bender, in his parents' car. How much he loved (and would loudly sing) Billy Joel's "Only the Good Die Young". Being the first "straight" person he told about being gay, and how scared he was. To me, it was almost funny that he was worried, because I had always known, and told him so. His ever-changing "theories" about life. The after prom party at his house. The warmth and acceptance his parents had for all of his friends...Everyone was always welcome at the McKenna's house. His love of fantasy novels. How he made me leave my room after a break-up with my boyfriend to do something fun, when all I would do was sit there listening to the Evita soundtrack. Visiting him at Pizzeria UNO at the mall when he worked there after college. Visiting him at law school and being subjected to a Michigan - Notre Dame football game in the rain. Visiting him in Boston, when I thought (hoped) his relationship there was forever. Having him argue with my husband, another overly intelligent, verbal, opinionated man. Visiting him in Chicago after my husband died far too young. My children adored him. Kevin, I am going to miss you for the rest of my life. Brenda
September 25, 2012

I met Kevin through some mutual friends. We clicked instantly and started hanging out. Kevin always gave you his opinion of things and we had a good time whenever we hung out. Kevin was a good person with a kind heart and I am sorry sorry to see him leave this world so soon. Rest peacefully my friend.

With all my love,

Brian Alper  

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

September 23, 2012

I'm sorry I missed saying goodbye to you, Kevin.  Over the years we shared many conversations and laughs about the absurdity of life, our shared profession, and, of course, the situations we found ourselves in together with our crazy friends.  The last time we talked was shortly before I moved to Hawaii.  I remember chatting with you at Sofo wondering together if this was the right move, and I remember you emphatically reminding me nothing ventured, nothing gained.  I will raise a toast in your honor today, and will never forget I had the privilege of knowing you. - Jeff

September 23, 2012

Kevin, you were always an amazing enigma.  So incredibly smart (some would say, too smart for your own good 8-) and instinctive and yet so vulnerable all at once.  At times you craved vibrant social interaction and yet often, you eschewed it, in favor of smaller, more meaningful connections.  We had a special bond that will last with me forever.  Those many lunches, talks and walks meant and will always mean the world to me.  The frustration of not being able to figure all of what was happening to you was palpable, but your amazing spirit continued.  The lucky folks in heaven who will welcome you and the I have no doubt there will be a salon of deep thought where you will be holding court with the best of them.  Sleep well, my dear friend, until we meet again. 

Love,

G

PS- so glad i got to spend one last visit with you yesterday, you are well loved my friend.

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