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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Kristan Phillips, 64, born on January 24, 1950 and passed away on January 30, 2014. We will remember him forever.

 

Memorial Service:

Sunday February 16, 2014

2:00 pm

Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter-Day Saints

98 S 6th St

Cochran, GA 31014

(478) 934-7212

January 30, 2023
January 30, 2023
We will always remember him. We know he will be coming home soon. Love you Brother!
January 24, 2022
January 24, 2022
We think of Kris often, but more so on his birthday and the day of his passing
just ahead. What great times we had.

Love you, brother.
January 24, 2021
January 24, 2021
We think of him often, and smile. He was quite a guy, and we miss him still. Always will.
January 24, 2018
January 24, 2018
You touched our lives in many ways, Kris. We'll always fondly remember you, and miss those happy times we shared. Maranatha!
January 25, 2017
January 25, 2017
This has been a rough week without. you. I carry you in my heart everyday. YOU ARE FOREVER
MISSED!
January 25, 2017
January 25, 2017
Another year has come and gone, and though you are now timeless, we pause to reflect on our years of knowing you. You still bring smiles to our faces, and tears to our eyes. 

I am selfish, and wish you were still here, but I know you wouldn't trade places with me. You were an imperfect perfectionist in your earthly life, but have experienced absolute perfection these past three years while we struggled in this world groaning for redemption from corruption.

So, Happy Birthday my beloved brother! Keep making music. Miss you.
January 24, 2016
January 24, 2016
We will see you again one of these days, and we will be forever with the Lord together. Until then, wonderful memories will have to do. Just so thankful Peggy and I have them to reflect on. You were and are a wonderful friend and brother.
January 14, 2016
January 14, 2016
I had the honor of studying with Kristan, starting shortly after he got home from the accident, until my departure from Hong Kong in summer of 1989, when my family moved back to the U.S. His teaching left an indelible mark on me, and I still think about him and reference his teachings to this day in my career as a professional percussionist.

I wish I could have tracked him down to thank him so much, and am only now finding this memorial site tonight. All the best to his family and loved ones. He truly blessed me!
December 29, 2015
December 29, 2015
We knew Kristan in Hong Kong when we both lived at Discovery Bay. We would often travel on the ferry with him after a concert and grew close to him and his wife Elsa. He taught our son Owen timpani, a happy relationship for both. We saw the terrible effects on him following the poisoning at the Academy and watched as he battled to get recognition of what had happened. Elsa was a tower of strength to him throughout that time. Fondly remembered Kristan
Garth and Merryl Powell
January 27, 2015
January 27, 2015
We, truly miss you my brother, didn't think we wouldn't get to enjoy each each other company again. But as we both knew the Lord had had other plans. As I'm sitting here with tears falling from my eyes thinking of how you help me to get to the right people at VA and at the SSI , now l have had one my surgery and have my disability, if only I could thank you face to face now. I enjoyed cooking for you and all the other task you ask and had me to do , I really really miss you !!!! But I know you are very very happy now cause you have those two Big Dogs with you give them a big kiss for me and I love you guys !!!!!
February 12, 2014
February 12, 2014
This is Kris's cousin, Caryl Tai (Phillips) Streff. Kris, thank you for all of the memories, especially the one when that clam spit the peanut butter and jelly sandwich in your face! We had the bond of family and music. I remember being your "date" at a New Year's Eve gig you were playing in Pittsburgh. I was so proud of you then, as I have been ever since. Heaven's Choir has acquired a special soul and voice. Love always.
February 10, 2014
February 10, 2014
Kris was a wonderfully talented and bright man. One of kind. A person who made this world special. Your family and friends will miss him greatly.
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
I will miss you, Kris, but all the wonderful memories of growing up together will remain. From our family camping trips, holidays together, Friday night football games and the great KA band moments. You taught me how to use a hatchet while we were camping – your Boy Scout skills in full force to keep me from hurting myself. Rest easy, cousin.
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
Also I'm glad I at least got to see you play at your sisters wedding.
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
We had such good times on ski trips and mountain trips. Not to mention snow mobilling Yellowstone, Big Sky and Grand Targhee. He even drove my parents to the mountains. There's much rejoicing going on in heaven. Miss you. Love you.
February 7, 2014
February 7, 2014
Kris was loved by our family, certainly for his amazing musical gifts, but mostly for his mischievous sense of humor and fun-loving spirit. From driving down to CMU on Sunday nights for Kris's recitals, to a camping trip where he almost drowned my mother promising the boat would not capsize (it did), to the intensity of his percussion craft. Wonderful memories and forever missed. The Alex Costanza Family
February 5, 2014
February 5, 2014
Goodbye for now my brother. We will see each other again. We know you are now walking streets of gold, forever in the presence of Jeshua.
February 5, 2014
February 5, 2014
I remember all the good times when we were children - every birthday and Christmas! We had such fun at Kiski, especially in the band under Mr. Costanza. Then we were together at Carnegie-Mellon, and I remember having a snowball fight at the top of an Alp in the summer when I was in France and you were in Switzerland. You were a good cousin, Kris, and I miss you.

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January 30, 2023
January 30, 2023
We will always remember him. We know he will be coming home soon. Love you Brother!
January 24, 2022
January 24, 2022
We think of Kris often, but more so on his birthday and the day of his passing
just ahead. What great times we had.

Love you, brother.
January 24, 2021
January 24, 2021
We think of him often, and smile. He was quite a guy, and we miss him still. Always will.
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Big Brother

February 6, 2014

Kristan was 6 years older and definately the BIG BROTHER!   He teased me, tickeled me, played pranks on me,  harrassed me, encouraged me, protected me and loved me.  He was always the BOSS!    

My father and mother were very supportive of any academic hobbies or interests in which Kristan and I were involved.    The family had to purchase a suburban to be able to transport all his percussion instruments - jazz band drum set,  tympani and many other percussion instruments.   My father would help him load up the instruments whenever there was a performance and go with him, actually we usually all went and when I was too small I ended up taking naps during a gig or concert.  One time in the car while rushing to his performance exasperated my dad said to Kristan  "Why the "H" didn't you choose to play the piccolo!!!"

Kristan arranged an audtion for me to take piano from Professor Gossard at Carnegie Mellon University when I was in the 8th grade,  I also took Oboe lessons from a professor there that played in the Pittburgh Symphony Orchestra.   I took lessons until I was in the 12th grade.   It was much fun!

Kristan loved camping with the boyscouts and he talked my parents into camping.   We started out with a floorless tent and slowly graduated through the years to a travel trailer - which my parents took to Jackson Wy to stay and visit with Kristan when he played in the Grand Teton Music Festival.

Kristan had great wisdom and ideas and loved to come to the church that my husband Glen McLure and I pastored.   He was very supportive and helped Jackie Pullinger in Hong Kong with her missionary work.

To sum it up Kristan was a great influence in my upbringing.  He did get in trouble with mother when he harrassed me but don't most big brothers?   

I am happy that he is with mother and father now without pain and a perfect body,  Finally.

February 6, 2014

Peggy and I first met Kristan at the Jackson Hole Christian Center in Jackson, WY in 1991, where we quickly became friends.  Although we never knew Kris prior to his devastating poisoning in Hong Kong, we could tell immediately that he was extremely intelligent and friendly.  We learned later just how gifted and talented he had been.

We shared a common love of music, Christian faith, and humor.  All through these past 23 years, through good times and bad, we could always make one another laugh, and ribbed each other mercilessly even when Kris was hospitalized or confined to a nursing home or therapy facility.  He gave as good as he got.  We miss that.

Though Kris struggled with his disabilities, he was a fighter in the best sense of the word.  He never gave up.  He fought legal battles as well as his illness with a tenacity that never ceased to amaze us.  He wasn't afraid to go against giants, and always dreamed the impossible dream and fought the unbeatable foe.

He was a good listener, generous to a fault, kind, compassionate, considerate and, yes, somewhat eccentric.  But gifted musicians generally are, as they march to the beat of a different drummer.  Or, more precisely in Kristan's case, a different timpani.

His earthly struggles are over now and he is enjoying the music of Heaven and the company of loved ones gone before.  We will miss him greatly but we could not wish him back to this life, for "while we are at home in the body, we are absent from the Lord" according to 2 Cr 5:6.   Since we know he was a born-again believer in Jesus the only Messiah we can mourn his passing but we do not need to sorrow like those who have no hope, for we know we will see him again.

Kristan, our unique friend, was also our brother whom we loved dearly.  There is a void in our hearts because of his absence, but not in our memories.  So goodbye for now, Rangoon Ranger.  We were blessed to have been in your life.

  Phil & Peggy Higgins Hamilton, MT    

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