Lawrence D. “Larry” Buck, 74, of West Haven, died peacefully at his home on March 2, 2015. He was born in Des Moines, Iowa on October 25, 1940, predeceased by his father Donald Buck, his mother Janet Hartzell Pond, and his beloved stepfather William Pond. He was an engineer for Metro-North Railroad for 22 years, known to his co-workers as the “Candy Man,” before retiring in 2006. He was an electrician by trade with high mechanical aptitude. He previously worked for IBM, became an instructor for Olivetti, and owned his own business, Buck Office Machines. He loved being on the water and was active with U.S. Power Squadron in the 70’s and 80’s. Other favorite activities were model railroading, gardening, and in his younger days spelunking and rowing (crew). He also grew up with a fascination for flight that led him to earn a pilot’s license. He was an avid reader, was very giving and mentoring for our next generation, and always loved brain teasers with his grandchildren. He had a great sense of humor and loved to make others laugh, and was very caring to all.
He is survived by his loving wife Loraine Sheldon Buck, son James (Elizabeth) Buck of North Haven, brother Ralph Buck of Springfield, VA, and brother Donald (Rebecca) Buck from Griswold, CT, and three grandchildren. He will also be missed by many brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law and many nieces and nephews. He is also survived by his first wife Betty Jo Buck and his step-daughter Jodie Lande, both of North Haven, 3 step-grandchildren, and 1 great-grandchild.
A celebration of life will be held Sunday April 19th from 3:00 – 6:00 at the American Legion Post 127 630 Grassy Hill Road in Orange, CT. All are welcome. Thoughts and photos may be shared at lawrence-buck.forevermissed.com
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Leave a tributeRalph
Thinking of you on your birthday. You had a unique style, and lived it 100% your way. Strong conviction, a loving heart, and a brilliant mind. Many fun memories, our time together was always special. Just wish we had more time. What I miss most of all is being able to pickup the phone and hear your words of wisdom - or your laughter. You always gave both in large quantity!
Love,
Clem
I don't believe there has been a day that something hasn't reminded me of him, or I connect a memory to him. The objects in my house from my parents and their parents, active mementos if you will, cement my memory of Larry.
I am also most eternally grateful to him for a special service he provided to me, unasked, when I, the supposedly successful one, was at a very low point in my life. It was my privilege to be able to apply his help to rebuild my confidence and life and ultimately repay his generosity.
As sad and bereft as we were...and are...I believe he is in eternal service now, working without pain or anxiety or weakness, to serve others. Our family has always had a fundamental faith, that each has manifested uniquely, in the higher power most call God. We may or may not have a renewed personal relationship in eternity, but there is and always will be a connection among us.
In Peace, with Grace on this day...
I think he took good care of his loving wife's future, so she is surviving
her loss comfortably. Thinking of Larry and Lorie on this solemn year anniversary.Wonder how many rainbows he has seen from above?
He was not the littlest Danish/Swiss/ English/German Buck, however - I remember when we were both spellbound as we saw tiny Don arrive in Germany, where dad was stationed after WWII. I recall we fought over minding him, especially during the grand uropean tour before we returned to the States.
Miss him? YES! But will always remember "Sven." I love you, Bro.
"Oley."
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Ralph
Thinking of you on your birthday. You had a unique style, and lived it 100% your way. Strong conviction, a loving heart, and a brilliant mind. Many fun memories, our time together was always special. Just wish we had more time. What I miss most of all is being able to pickup the phone and hear your words of wisdom - or your laughter. You always gave both in large quantity!
Love,
Clem
Growing Up With My Brother
In the early 1940s we lived in Des Moines, Iowa, in the rented 2nd floor apartment of a mansion (one of 3) on an estate located on Pennsylvania Avenue, on the East Side of the Des Moines River). The house and grounds provided many opportunities for mischief: it was next to active railroad tracks, it was on a bluff above the river, it had many trees, and there was a long, slippery banister down to ground level. Larry and I managed to stay alive, even when temporarily escaping from parental custody. In the winter, there was nothing quite like sledding down through "the ravine" all the way through a forest to the icy river. We also like to wave to the engine crew on passing trains, perhaps a bit closer than mom would approve. Climbing trees was a passion; in my attempt to impress my little brother, I once climbed a pine tree so high that I almost couldn't climb down. Larry, I believe, was more distressed than I was! To my eternal shame, I once played a terrible trick on Larry that I am sure profoundly affected him all his life. We had a cat, Spoteye, that liked long semi-comotose naps. One day I prepared a large shoe box with cotton, laid said cat therein, poured catsup on its belly and left a kitchen knife nearby with more catsup on it. When Larry discovered it there arose a terrible wail of grief, accompanied by deep sobs, until the supposed dead animal arose and stretched. I had trouble sitting down for several days! We grew up together, until Don joined us after WWII, and then it was also a circus, but different.
Great picture!
this is my fav! thanks to the person taking the picture! looks like we have Brecklins(Judy and Bob and Michelle and Grandchild), Sharpes, Fays,Rodrigues, Pluff, and Wegener, Sheldons, Vetros,a Sargent, Dunphys, Ramos, and Acevedos, Lundblads, an Aradillo and lots of Bucks(Lorie, Liz, Jim, Don),Ok and Betty and Jodie and Rebecca. ! hope I got everyone!