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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Lawrence Sutherland, 76, born on April 9, 1936 and passed away on April 25, 2012. We will remember him forever.  We encourage friends and family to use this website to leave stories, comments, and other things to remember him by.  Thank you very much.

April 9
April 9
As we remember Larry and celebrate his 88th birthday, we can be thankful that we had the opportunity to know and share some time with him. I am so grateful to have developed a close and meaningful friendship with Reid and we often share comments concerning Larry. Rest in peace my friend.

Frank Guthrie
April 9, 2023
April 9, 2023
On this Larry's 87th birthday, I am proud to have enjoyed a close friendship with beginning when we were in high school. During our latter years we lost contact. Once I learned he was decreased it led to me developing a close and personal friendship with his second son Reid. I value the friendship with Reid and coincidentally we had a long talk on the phone yesterday. I had the privilege of meeting Reid during the summer of 2021 in Morehead City, NC and we are in the process of arranging to meet again sometime during the summer of 2023 at which time I will get to meet his three boys.
In conclusion happy bithday with regards to the memory of a special friend, Larry Sutherland.

Frank Guthrie
April 9, 2022
April 9, 2022
Larry is a forever memory with me. He was a stand-up and consistent man.
I miss him as I would an older brother....
April 8, 2022
April 8, 2022
Reid receiving your email this afternoon wherein you related that you are in Tampa and you and your two boys are celebrating Larry's 86th birthday. Prior to reading your email Janet and I are just finished eating a grilled pimento cheese sandwich. I mentioned to her while eating the sandwich, that Larry and I would often go to Dom"s after sporting events or other activities and we normally ordered grilled pimento sandwiches. I said to Janet that to my best memory the sandwiches cost 20 cents. Is this ironic or not.

Thanks for reminding me of Larry' 86th birthday. Making your acquaintance has been special and it so meaningful that we have have developed a close personal relationship and Janet and I look forward to getting together with you again in the future.

With highest regards,
Frank & Janet
April 8, 2022
April 8, 2022
My dad was a deep thinker. He was not interested in material things and he was very humble. His enjoyment was in helping other people and also in encouraging his sons. He would have been 86 years old today. Dad you are greatly missed. 
April 9, 2021
April 9, 2021
It was a result of my leaving a tribute on the "forevermissed" site after learning Larry had passed away that I have gotten to know Reid. Larry was, as I have stated previously, my best friend in high school. Although we seldom had personal contact after high school, he remained in my thoughts and prayers throughout the years. Getting to know Reid by way of email, text, and telephone has been a blessing. Reminiscing with Reid regarding my association with Larry has been very meaning for me and for Reid. On this, Larry's 85th birthday, I want the family to know that I am grateful for Larry's friendship and influence.

With fond memories,

Frank E. Guthrie
December 14, 2020
December 14, 2020
Hey Granddad,
It's me you're grandson Larry, me and my brother Alex will still remember you for a long period of time, we all sincerely wish you were here with us enjoying life and having a good time, we all miss you granddad. Someday when the rest of us have to go, we all would see you in heaven and enjoy the time we once craved down on earth.   
                                          - Lawrence Sutherland
December 12, 2020
December 12, 2020
Dear Family of Larry Southerland,

My name is Francis "Frank" Guthrie. I have been involved lately with writing my autobiography. Included in my autobiography are tributes to former close friends whom I knew throughout my life. I grew up in the small community of Broad Creek, NC and attended Morehead City High School. During my junior year, I drove a school bus and one of the riders of my bus was Larry. When I met him he was a senior. We developed a very close friendship and visited in one another's homes often. On Saturday evenings Mr. & Mrs. Southerland would travel into Morehead City and play bridge with Dr. and Mrs. Bonner. Larry and I would then have use of his father's old Ford car until we would pick them up at Dr. Bonner's. Sometimes we would have dates or interact with friends at Dom's drive in restaurant or went to the movies. After Larry graduated from High School, we only saw each other when he would return home from N. C. State during his first year there. After graduating from High School in 1955, I became employed with the FBI in their fingerprint Division, and eventually after getting my degree in Criminology I became a Federal Agent with the Office of Naval Intelligence, now known as Naval Criminal Investigative Service. I retired in September 1987 and 32 years of service. The last time I interacted with Larry was when he was in Morehead City visiting his parents, and my wife Janet and I were in Broad Creek visiting my family. That was probably 40 or more years ago.
This morning, I was talking with Janet about Larry and she said why don't you go on the internet and attempt to find him. When finding out on the internet that Larry passed away on April 25, 2012, I was saddened to learn of his death. He was a true, loyal, and "Terrific" friend. It is my honor to have know and been associated with him as a close friend. His family is so fortunate to have him as a part of your lives. I am now 83, enjoyed a successful and enjoyable life. Janet and I have been married for 57 years, and we do not have children. 
Hopefully some of you family members will read this tribute soon. When it is read I would appreciate it if one of you would call me at your convenience at 757-286-5379. I would love to have the opportunity to talk with you regarding my friendship withLarry.

In sincere sympathy regarding the untimely passing of my friend Larry Southerland.

Frank E. Guthrie
757-286-5379
September 7, 2020
September 7, 2020
A Stranger Who Means A Lot To My Life - Part One
Practice my English........................................

By Paul Edmundus

I was 21 years old. I worked at a hotel project in Sanur, Bali-Indonesia. My Boss put me there as the project materials controller, such as rocks, sand, cement, brick etc. Six months beforehand, I was a waiter at his bar and restaurant which was not far from that new hotel project. I started to work for him on 29 April 1971.

It was April 1972, I forgot the date. I stood nearby the path to look at trucks to unloading the material. A tourist on a bike passed in front of me."Good morning Sir." I greeted him. He stopped his bike. With his smile He responded:" Good morning, how are you?." "I am fine Sir, what is your name?" That was the way how I practiced my English. He looked at me, then He answered my question:" My name is Lawrence Sutherland, you can call me Larry." I remembered that name. My Lecturer at the college taught me that I have to mention my name too. "Oh...Mr Larry, my name is Paul Edmundus. Please call me Paul. I am a student of Tourism & Hotel College here in Bali." I was proud to mention my study to a foreigner. Larry continued to respond my introduction:" I see, you are Paul and you are a tourism student." I did not want to stop talking:" Yes, Sir, but what do you see?" Larry looked at me with an astonished face." Paul, I see means I understand." I was embarrassed, but I did not want to loose my chance to learn English. "Oh...thank you Mr Larry....." He said very fast:"Paul, don't call me Mr. Larry, just call me Larry." "I see, I see.." I picked up his new lesson, I see means I understand.

Another truck arrived. I had to check what material was in it. Larry knew that I have to work. He wanted to continue biking south. He said:" Paul, you have to work. I have to go.......see you......" I waved my hands:" Bye bye Mr Larry.......ehhhhh bye bye Larry.......see you.." I did't know what was the meaning of "see you". There was no one to whom I could ask. After checking the truck which had brick in it, I measured and got the cubic of it, then I sat on a rock to wait whether Larry will came back through the same path. Then a carpenter came from the opposite direction who asked me why I was there. I said I wait for a tourist who was on a bike. The carpenter said He met the tourist on his bike drove to the north. I realized that when I was busy with the truck driver, Larry drove back at the same path. Will I meet him again? May be not....I was thinking the whole afternoon until I had to go to my campus at 5.00 PM to study.........

Bali, 7 September 2020.

To be continued....................................................



September 2, 2020
September 2, 2020
It is a shocked for me today 1st September 2020 to know that Mr Lawrence Sutherland has passed away. My deepest condolence of the lost of Larry. May His Soul Rest In Peace.
It has been more than 15 years I tried to find Mr Lawrence Sutherland but failed. My letter sent to Poulsbo, WA was returned to me. My name is Paul Edmundus Tallo, I am an Indonesian. When I was a student of Tourism and Hotel College in Bali in 1972, I met Larry & Madame. He gave me some money to help me to pay my college fee. His help has been continued until 1975. In 1979 Larry met me in Oakland, CA when I visited USA at the 1st time. Our last meeting was in 1995 or 1996 when He was in Singapore as a Pilot of Singapore Airlines, I met Mrs Sutherland and his son as well. To Mrs Larry and his son who I forgot his name, I am sorry, please let me know your address to enable me to write. My email address: paul.edmundus@gmail.com or paul@balifloresadventure.com.
April 25, 2018
April 25, 2018
Dear Dad, all of us are thinking of you today. We miss you.
April 25, 2018
April 25, 2018
Love and miss you Grandad. I know you’re watching over me and I promise you I will not let you down. Missing our bike rides at Pope Mtn.
April 27, 2015
April 27, 2015
It has been three years since you passed on. We miss you Dad.
April 25, 2014
April 25, 2014
Two years have gone by so fast. I wish Dad was still around so I could update him on what all his sons are doing. In case you are listening. Everyone is doing well and making progress. We sure do miss you.
January 23, 2014
January 23, 2014
Foi meu sogro não tive a oportunidade de passar mais tempo e conhece-lo antes mas o pouco tempo me mostrou a pessoa maravilhosa e espetacular que ele era,sentiremos saudades eternamente e acredito que ele completou tudo na Terra principalmente vindo ao Brasil passar o primeiro ano do seu mais novo neto Keven.
December 21, 2013
December 21, 2013
We all miss you Dad, and wish you could still be with us sharing your insights and wisdom. We are keeping you close.
April 25, 2013
April 25, 2013
Moving to a small district in Catalina, AZ, called "Sutherland Heights".
Its near the Sutherland Wash, which runs through Sutherland Valley.
Larry will be with me always.

art
April 25, 2013
April 25, 2013
All the boys really miss Dad this day one year on. Tim's birthday is today but it comes with a sad reminder. The year has passed so quickly but the memory of losing dad is still fresh. Love you Dad.
April 25, 2013
April 25, 2013
In Memory of an outstanding Father and Aviator, Rest in peace. Condolences to all he touched. Special regards to his sons whom I truly value and appreciate.
April 9, 2013
April 9, 2013
Thinking of Larry on his Birthday ........ a dear friend who will always be remembered. We all miss you Larry ........
May 23, 2012
May 23, 2012
Larry will always be remembered as not only an excellent instructor, but as a true gentleman that I was honored to call a friend. Following in his footsteps will be a difficult task for anyone, but I am confident that his son's will live up to his name and through them, Larry will forever be remembered. My deepest condolences to his family and friends worldwide. Rest in eternal peace ...
May 8, 2012
May 8, 2012
My condolences. Captain Sutherland was an amazing aviator. He is survived by his family. Knowing his sons they are a true testament to his likeness and professionalism! 
The world mourns his passing. He will be greatly missed.
May 8, 2012
May 8, 2012
Larry was the consummate airline pilot, with excellent piloting skills as well as a temperament and leadership qualities which served as a wonderful example to us new guys. As a wet-behind-the-ears S/O in 1966 I was fortunate to have had the privilege of flying with Larry a number of times. He will be missed.
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
My condolences to the Sutherland family. Larry meant a lot to a lot of people most of all to his sons. Larry cherished the time he spent with them and never wavered from their side. The world was a better place because of him. He'll be greatly missed. God bless!
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Larry and I seemed to be joined at the hip during my prolonged 3 holer left seat check out in Salinas many moons ago. Andy & the boys in MSP training sent me there then seemed to forget about me. When I did get to fly it was mostly with Larry. It was always a pleasure and a new experience. I also enjoyed working the line with him and of course, debriefing. Condolences to the family
May 7, 2012
May 7, 2012
Larry and I were squadron mates at VR-22 in Norfolk, VA. We were good friends that just didn't stay in contact. What a mistake. I regret that.
May 6, 2012
May 6, 2012
Larry was a true gentleman and great pilot. Always enjoyed flying with him and remember all the help he gave me in setting up my bee keeping hobby. He is missed.
May 5, 2012
May 5, 2012
Larry had a great sense of humor and was a wonderful story teller. I love the many bee hive stories. My favorite is the one that ended with the hive dropping on Rena's head (I don't know if I would have been as forgiving as Rena). Larry will be so very missed.
May 2, 2012
May 2, 2012
Larry was a great guy and enjoyable to be around at all times.
He will be missed. Condolences to his family.
May 2, 2012
May 2, 2012
To the Sutherlands,
Larry was the ultimate Captain. Several years ago when I became a captain myself, I was advised that when things hit the fan in the cockpit ask yourself how your favorite captain would handle the situation, there have been many times where I ask myself "how would Larry handle this?" He was much admired and will be missed.
May 1, 2012
May 1, 2012
To all,

I was a member of the aircraft crew that so often featured Larry. My job, at times, was to direct the aircraft into cumulus clouds. I loved working with Larry! He was so easy going about taking the aircraft in whatever bizarre direction I asked for, or changed my mind about!

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April 9
April 9
As we remember Larry and celebrate his 88th birthday, we can be thankful that we had the opportunity to know and share some time with him. I am so grateful to have developed a close and meaningful friendship with Reid and we often share comments concerning Larry. Rest in peace my friend.

Frank Guthrie
April 9, 2023
April 9, 2023
On this Larry's 87th birthday, I am proud to have enjoyed a close friendship with beginning when we were in high school. During our latter years we lost contact. Once I learned he was decreased it led to me developing a close and personal friendship with his second son Reid. I value the friendship with Reid and coincidentally we had a long talk on the phone yesterday. I had the privilege of meeting Reid during the summer of 2021 in Morehead City, NC and we are in the process of arranging to meet again sometime during the summer of 2023 at which time I will get to meet his three boys.
In conclusion happy bithday with regards to the memory of a special friend, Larry Sutherland.

Frank Guthrie
Recent stories

Materialism

December 28, 2014

My Dad had honor.  He was reliable.  On thing I can say about him was that he did not follow materialism.  He did not lust for shiny things.  He was finding happiness in his family only, not in having a nice car, or in the owning of things or keeping up with the Jones.  He valued knowledge, and was fascinated by the internet.  He told me once that having an internet connection was like having a library in your house.  So I imagine a man busy in the library, knowledgable, informed, and with an intelligent opinion.  He shunned materialism, but was mentally rich.  He understood that life was short and valued the intellectual side of life.  Talking to him was amazing.  Dad was a smart man, and he understood many things about life that I am only beginning to understand.  Dad, I salute your intelligence and your simple values, which are in reality very complex and well developed.
 

Practical Joker

May 3, 2012

I have been long time friends of Evan, Max and the sutherland family and would very often spend time at the sutherland home. I grew up on a farm where outside work is a normal part of my life. One of those daily chores I grew up with was splitting wood and became very good at it. So good my confidence for success was really high. One day I was hanging out with Max and Evan when Larry came up to me saying he heard that I was good at splitting wood. He said he would like to see if what he heard was really true. For those who don't know me I am a determined and a competitive person and I WILL achieve my goal. So a challenge from Larry was gladly taken. Out in his woodshed I began to swing at the wood piece. I kept on swinging with a suprised oddity that that wood still stood. I swung and swung so many times I couldn't count anymore. I thought my form may have been off, or my technique and power follow through may have been wrong. While I was troubleshooting why this piece of firewood wouldn't split I finally took my focus off the wood and looked up to Larry to see him trying to hold back deep laughter. I did not understand. I was in a limbo of confusion while Larry took many minutes of laughter and forced small words out I couldn't understand. Finally, he was able to tell me that the piece of wood was cherry tree. If you are unfamiliaer cherry tree the wood may split, but the bark around the wood is so strong it keeps it together. I never split that piece of wood and my confidence was humbled by Larry's practical Joke. I have never split cherry tree wood since.

I will always remember you Larry for many memories you have in my life. You are a Great man, leader and a fun guy to be around. Thanks for the laughter you still provide to me to this day.

Garrett Owens

Like a big brother

May 3, 2012

I had the good fortune to spend many hours and days with Larry over the fourty years we have been friends. Remarkably consistent and principled all those years and a pleasure to be with.


He wrote the book on raising boys. He and Rena produced a houseful of great ones! Once, as the crew bus was passing a school yard full of joyus kids, Larry remarked : " Looks just like my backyard". 


All six sons have that solid Sutherland presence that would make any dad proud. He was definitely proud of them all!


He is missed and will be often remembered....   

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