Happy heavenly birthday Earl. He would’ve been 72 today. Gone to soon but never forgotten. I love you and miss you every day. Love, Joyce.

Hello Earl already know Sissy with you her parents our parents,Tater,Cassie and Lil Mary.Give Sissy a hug from us we miss her and love her.So much to tell you Earl
but right now I am sick and very tired.

             Love Joyce

Fifty years ago tonight I received the worst news Earl is dead.Earl not a day goes by that I don’t think of you and miss so very much.Earl now you have Tater by your side please give him a hug from me.So many memories that’s all I have left.Rest in peace until we meet again in heaven know that I love you brother.Love Joyce.

Happy Birthday Earl ❤️❤️
     Love Joyce

Please Earl take care of Tator.

Earl cannot rest thinking about your last minutes were you afraid?I truly hope you didn’t know what was happening.
         The Pain is real!!!

We made Earl had my visit with you and Aunt Wendy today.Love you and miss you.Closing for now but will stop by soon.
Rest In Peace Earl and remember you are loved and missed.
              Love Joyce!

Hello Earl I am sorry it has been awhile since I have been on here.Forty nine years you have been gone 49 years.I was coming to visit your grave today but Joe has picked up a cold so hopefully tomorrow. Earl I love you and miss you still.I still remember that phone call Dad’s voice on the other end saying three words that changed many lives forever,Earl is dead it echoes in my brain to this day.What I try and do now is hold the memories of you close to my heart.I love you Big Guy only if I could give you one more hug or tell you in person how much I loved having you as my brother.Thank you Earl for all of the funny memories too.Be sure and tell mom and dad,Colt how much we love and miss them too.One more thing tell Dave I really miss our talks and I love him too.Butch,John and Robert are all doing okay minor health issues but we are faring okay.Earl I talk about you a lot I guess it’s because you dear are always on my mind.Well yesterday was beautiful weather I am so ready for spring time and summer.Earl I know Heaven is beautiful and I know that a lot of my loved one’s are there so please watch over us down here and please tell dad I know when he stops by and I love him too.Thanks for the memories Earl always on my mind and in my heart .
         Then 3-20-73-Now 3-20-22
           Love Always your little sister
                       Joyce

Merry Christmas Earl
Busy busy busy down here never enough time.Butch just had knee surgery John has some heart issues and me hanging by the Grace of God.Well been missing you and Mom,Dad too.Earl I wish you were still here.Sadness feels my heart this day.
      Love you Big Guy
                  Joyce

Happy Thanksgiving Earl.

Happy Birthday Earl sorry I messed up posting yesterday I looked at the calendar wrong.❤️❤️Love you Joyce

Happy 4th of July Earl.
  Love you and miss you still.
               Joyce

Hello Earl
Went to visit Mom and Dad,Cassie graves..Dad has been gone 30 years on 6-2-21.It feels like yesterday Earl.They say times heals not for me I miss each one of you every minute of every day.Joe came home from work yesterday and he knew immediately that I was having a hard time so he took me too dinner and then the cemetery to visit Dad,Mom and Cassie.Earl i have a wonderful caring husband.So Earl as Alan Jackson’s song says I want to stroll over Heaven with you Dad,Mom,Cassie and Colt and Dave.
  Going for now my heart is broken still,….
        Love from a daughter,sister,nana,aunt and friend…..

Hello Earl
We went and placed flowers on Mom and Dad's graves along with Cassie's grave yesterday.Tired tonight Earl in so much pain cannot walk today looking at another knee replacement and possible hip as well.I am not looking forward to that.Earl closing for now only because I feel poorly I love and miss you Big Guy.Love Alway's Joyce....

Happy Easter Earl....

Hello Earl visited your grave today and placed flowers there the roses had died so I removed them.Happy Easter Earl and know that I love you and miss you so much.Going to visit Mom and Dad and Cassies graves tomorrow along with Joe's parents after church.Well good night my brother.
                                      Love Joyce....

Good morning Earl
             It is cold here feels more like winter then spring.Getting ready for Easter not much to do.Tired Earl so very tired.Happy Easter and I will see you on Easter.Love you Big Guy your sister Joyce...

Awake Earl cannot sleep my mind is on other things sure wish you were here.Earl went and got my hair done looks nice my hair stylist always does and amazing job she listens.Butch,John and Robert are all fine.Earl I know as a Christian I am suppose to be happy that you are in heaven and I am but I really do miss you.Saw a pretty powder blue butterfly on Tuesday our dad said he would send butterflies too me he kept his promise.Mom,Dad and you Earl are gone nothing left but memories.Peace Earl I want for our children and grandchildren is peace.Well Big Guy I am leaving for now I will be back later.
          Love Always Joyce...P.S.Tell Dave I miss our talks and John misses him as well....

Hello Earl
      Getting ready for bed Joe and I toke our walk tonight and listened to some Motown The Supremes to be exact.Making memories Earl.Tired tonight weary mind going a mile a minute thinking about you.I love you Earl and talk too you soon.Good night.
                   Love Joyce......

Earl
   Forty eight years ago this day we laid your body in the ground wow to me it seems like yesterday the years flew by.Earl I have forgiven the people that ended your life that night but I have never forgotten.I pray for them to seek forgiveness as I do not want one soul to enter hell and I truly mean this.Now Earl on a brighter note I plan to celebrate your life today remembering all of the good times the homework and the donuts in the snow and Christmas so many memories.Earl I miss your laughter it filled the room.So as I go through this day Earl know that you aren't far from my thoughts.Music Motown will rock my house this day because you shared your love of this music with me.So Big Brother fly high with the Angels and know you are loved and missed.
            Forever Always Your Little Sister
                                Love Joyce.

Hello Earl stopped by today and bought flowers for you and Aunt Wendy also Monk.
I love you Earl Rest In Peace dear brother.
              Love Joyce.....

Good morning Earl
          Missing your brother and sure wished you here so I could see you one more time.
Life on this earth right now is truly messed up.We have COVID-19 and masked wearing and we have to distance ourselves six feet,churches,schools are shut down but we can go to Walmart and Liquor stores.Scratching my head right now.Defund the police so the career corrupt politicians and the criminals have a free pass to commit their crimes.The politicians rob us with a stroke of a pen while the criminals use a gun or other weapons.Let’s not forget they want our weapons so we cannot protect ourselves or our families.Earl can you say (CRAZY).Well now that I have vented I have too go.
           Love you Big Guy
               Joyce

Missing you Earl.
       Heart Broken
            Love Joyce.

Hello Earl
       It's a nice day here but a sad time a very dear friend more like a sister lost her son.Earl all I can think about is how our mother felt I remember she walked around in a haze numb from grief.Helpless I feel helpless their is nothing I can say or do to ease her pain and grief.Praying for God to comfort his mother and brother because as a sister who lost her brother I feel their pain.REST-IN-PEACE ALLEN MAY GOD HOLD YOU IN THE COMFORT OF HIS ARMS.Earl you are loved and always missed never doubt that.
                                        Love Joyce

Hello Earl
Well getting ready to visit your grave on 3-20-21 (48 years you have been gone.) Earl in the 48 years you have been gone it hasn't gotten any easier your death affected us more than you would have ever have known it destroyed our mother.Earl she talked about you almost to her death.Earl I have made a decision I have sent away for your autopsy records and death certificate this is my decision Earl and know one can change my mind. Closure what is Closure our mother never got Closure all she got was the news of her son being dead her second born son.Earl I really hope you know how much you were loved missing you still everyday.
                    Love always your sister
                           Joyce
  

Hello Earl it's been 23 years on the 24th of February since I buried our mother I sure do miss her.Earl you know she never got over losing you she also never got closure concerning how you died.So be sure and give her a hug and tell her for me that every minute of everyday I still miss her.Earl tell everyone with you I love them and wish I had one more minute with them.
Heart Broken still her daughter and your sister always.LOVE TO ALL.
                                                    Joyce
      

Love and miss you Earl.

Happy Valentines Day Earl.

Earl Red Roses were our mother's favorite flower.

Me here again Earl sure wish you were still here.Life here is upside down we are living in a crazy world.Earl sending off for your death certificate and trying to get your autopsy report I need to know.Butch said he saw a copy of your death certificate and it stated cause of death gunshot wound to the head.Earl as your sister I still have a hard time hearing this horrible and heart breaking it is.Earl our mother never recovered from your death she never forgot or forgave the people that toke your life.Earl as a christian I had to find forgiveness but believe me I will never forget.Earl you know what we are going through right now so please understand if I go Mia for a while as you well know family is everything.I love you brother I miss you still.
                          Goodbye for now Earl
                                 LOVE JOYCE

Earl
   Good morning just talked to Tater about our memories of you.We miss you so much.Please keep watch over us.Earl I wonder what your life would have been like but we will never know because your life was taken too soon.
What was your thoughts that last day of your life? We will never know.We do know you toke a shower and your last meal was tomato sandwiches and chocolate milk.Thoughts what were you thinking when you got into that van with a person you considered your friend?
                          Earl goodbye for now.
                          Love your sister Joyce

Memories of you Earl. 1. Counting the stars through our skylight at bedtime.2. Is our trip to get donuts on that snowy day lol.3.Earl you always helping me with my homework now that was cool.4.Earl our shared love for Motown Music I still listen and think of you when I do.5.Earl your laugh it filled the room.Earl these are the memories I hold dear I love you brother loved you then and love you still.  
                    Love Always Joyce

Gone but never forgotten.
Love you Earl.
            Love from your little sister Joyce............

Love you Earl....

Hello Earl it’s me stopping by to talk to you.
Can you say crazy it has went over the edge down here the corrupt democrats are trying to steal this election from President Trump they thought he would roll and play dead not happening.President Trump and the American people are in this fight until the end.I do believe we will see a civil war the American people have had enough of our God given rights being trampled on enough is enough.God is the only one that can save our beautiful country.Getting ready to leave Rhonda and Shane’s and of course Samuel you would Absolutely love him.Samuel loves cats.Going home and getting for hand surgery I fell and crushed the bone in my left hand at the base of my thumb.OUCH!! Earl I purchased a cross for you grave for Christmas a
and it lights up I hope know one steals it.
Merry Christmas Earl you are loved and missed love from your little sister Joyce.

Hello Earl it’s done I left Facebook couldn’t take the evil corruption any longer.I was worried about losing this site nope all is good.Things are crazy down here wish they weren’t but they are.I miss you wish that I could hug you.Love you Earl always have always will.Your sister Joyce.

             Happy Birthday
                  Earl
         ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Hello Earl been awhile brother since I talked to you.This world is crazy right now so much evil.Laying here being upset and not sure what to do but pray.Broke my thumb Earl looking at joint replacement.Yay me! Earl tell mom and dad I love and miss them and you too Big Guy.Tell Dave I love him and miss our talks.Love from you little sister.

Well Earl your little sister has turned the big 65 something that was denied you I was 17 when I got that life changing phone call.I still remember our father’s words Earl is gone what I said Earl he is dead my life forever changed that night 47 years ago.Now I wish I could go back and talk to you one more time when I see family members not speaking it makes me sad even though we weren’t angry with each at the time I never got to tell you how much I loved you,I LOVE YOU EARl I REALLY DO.Now one of my favorite birthday memories is of our brother Butch singing Happy birthday to me in a voicemail I loved it.I love Butch and John and Robert 3rd so very much and you too Earl.Earl I had a nice birthday flowers from our youngest grandson Samuel and birthday wishes from everyone and got to spend a work free day with Joe.Keep and eye on us Earl tell Dave I love him too and miss our talks.Thank you Earl for the memories that I hold close to my heart.Love you Big Guy your little sister still Joyce.

Hello Brother
Well it has been awhile since I have talked to you on here things are really crazy down here.We are still on coronavirus lockdown and believe me it sucks we have to wear face masks when we go out shopping or to the doctors.Earl I believe you are better off where you are now are because things are truly bad here.Butch and his family are doing okay,Tater is doing great as well and John and Mary are getting ready for a move.Joe and I are okay.Joe just purchased his early retirement gift a Black on black 2020 Wide body RT Scat Pack Challenger paid for in full I also purchased a 2018 Chevrolet Equinox paid for as well.Don’t tell Joe I really like his car I have the need for speed.Lol remember the donuts I do.Earl please tell Dave I think about him a lot and I miss him too he was the only person that would share his memories of you with me.So give hugs to all and know I miss you and think about you everyday.Love you Big Guy your sister a Joyce.

Happy Easter Earl for the first time in a long time your grave won’t have any flowers we are on lockdown here we have the coronavirus.I know that right now you are probably shaking your head saying coronavirus what? Well something happened over in China now it has spread all over the world I truly believe that China was making a biological weapon and it got away from them hence it is now here.Earl God has this my faith is in him he already knows the outcome I also trust our President to make the right decisions concerning our country he is surrounded by lots of evil people hence  Democrats and some Rino’s too.Earl when things get better I will be bringing those flowers to your grave and Aunt Wendy’s too.Earl we are living in CRAZY TIMES right now remember the saying by the Grace of God go I.I love and miss you brother.Butch and family along with John and family and Robert the 3rd are all okay for now.Joe and I and are our family we are well too.Give Dad,Mom and Colt along with Dave a hug I miss them as well.Well going for now but know you my dear brother you big guy are loved and missed.Always and Forever your little sister Joyce.

Hello Earl it is crazy here coronavirus is what we have now everyone is on lockdown.I believe China add chemicals to a virus to make a biological weapon and it got away from them or it’s a test run.God has this no matter what happens my faith is in my Lord and Savior.Adding a photo or two one is of our nephew Jimmy Arbogast handsome young man.Earl I wish you were still here just because sometimes it gets a little scary here and you were always my protector now that’s changed to hear Butch ,John and Robert you would think am not a grown woman.I do know they worry over me like I worry over them remember I have no spares to lose.Joe is still working yes at 67 the doctor told him not to retire wish I was still working.Butch and his family are well along with John and Mary.Robert is doing great got new job driving for Giant Food new apartment and a Harley life is good.Rhonda and her family is well and I know you know what has happened to Lyle and Kristian praying for things to get better they truly need a break.Well Earl closing for now know that I love you and miss you every minute of everyday you were a great brother.Love always your sister Joyce.

Forty six years you have been gone forty six Christmas’s and Birthday’s,Easter’s I could go on I just wonder if the people that were with you on your last night on earth remember.I do and I may forgive but I will never forget.Your sister that misses and loves you still even after Forty six years.

Merry Christmas brother went and saw Butch & Beth tonight for a few minutes than we came home.We couldn’t make church I felt a little sick.Miss you Earl every minute of every day.But you do remember the donuts right let’s go get the donuts you said as it was snowing my fool self thought we were getting donuts not doing donuts in the Westside shopping center parking lot.Crazy but that’s a funny memory only you and I share.Earl be sure and give mom and dad a hug along with Colt and be sure and give Dave a hug to and tell him I miss our talks.Merry Christmas in heaven Big Guy love your sister.

Happy Thanksgiving in heaven Earl tell Dave I’ve been thinking about him as well.Getting ready for the holidays down here we purchased a small aluminum tree when I get it finished I will post a photo for you if you remember you bought our first one it was snowing that year.Miss and love you still.P.S.Butch and family John and family and Robert 3rd aka Tater are all doing well.Joe and I and our daughters and grandchildren are a okay.Till next time I love you big guy hugs and kisses from your little sister Joyce....

Love you brother.Always your little sister Joyce.....

Wow Earl so much happening down here.I had knee replacement surgery can you say OUCH hurt like HELL.Missing you brother okay give hugs for me and tell Dave Baker I truly miss him wish I knew if his Katie May is okay.Give our grand babies hugs as well.Well Earl life Down here is confusing CRAZY for sure.I wish that you were still here to share this crazy existence with me.But one thing for sure Earl I got this stronger then I realized.Tell mom and dad I miss and love them too.I added photos so everyone knows you are loved and remembered by your little sister.I will talk to you later Big Guy.Love forever Joyce....

Earl been awhile since i’ve talked to you am sorry getting ready for knee replacement surgery.Everything down here is crazy really crazy.Wish you were here to go through this crazy with us.Please Earl give mom and dad a hug for me and give Colt a kiss and a hug from his nana and pop.I miss you so much Earl doesn’t seem like you have been gone 46 years.Hopely I will heal quickly and I can visit your grave for Easter and 3-20-73 the anniversary of your death.I love you and think about you everyday.Hey please tell Dave I miss him as well and give him a hug too.Earl please keep me in your care as well sometimes I believe you are my guardian angel.Miss you and love you Big guy.Your little sister Joyce......

Missing you more than you will ever know.Love you Earl.

Love and miss you brother.