This memorial website was created in memory of my mother, Margarita Carbonell Soto, born on June 10, 1918 and passed away after her 98th birthday on June 29, 2016. We will remember her forever.
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Leave a tributeTú sigues siendo mi héroe y espero que antes de unirme a ti, pueda afectar a tantas vidas como tú. ¡Te amo mamá! Siempre estás presente en mi corazón y mente; No podría tener una mejor madre….
Tu hijo, Herbert Carbonell Quiñones
10 de junio de 2020
You are still my hero and I hope that before I join you, I will affect as many lives as you did. I love you mom! You are always present in my heart and mind; I couldn’t have a better mom….
Your son, Herbert Carbonell Quiñones
June 10, 2020
"What a Woman"
I am convinced that I inherited from her the will power "Teson" to accomplish everything necessary to go ahead in life and fulfill our dreams. She emphasized 4 basic rules: Believe in God, believe in yourself, work hard, and "Smile".
I will always remember you.
We miss you.
I expressed to Margarita how much I loved and appreciated her for her love and the sacrifices she made for her grandson. She was the inspiration and motivator for him to be the best husband, father and provider. Because of her, he went into the medical field; from basic EMT to a charge nurse working "guardia" shift like she did in her career.
My kids had the opportunity to feel the love from their great-grandma, Abuela Margarita, enjoy her yummy cooking and even use her sewing-gifts (hand made) blankets. We use them at home and on the go (road trips). She helped care for my three kids, Tito, Nina and Mike, when they were little. As the kids got older, they then helped care for her. When she stayed at our home, the kids would help feed (and sometimes hide candy from her), put her to bed (She slept in Nina's bed alone, as she did not like to share beds.). They entertained her (from dancing to doing hairdos to canvas painting), and also checked up on her...if she took too long in the restroom...one of the kids would knock on restroom door and ask "Abuela, estas bien?" Margarita would reply "Si! estoy en el escusado, ya voy, or would use other descriptive words, such as, 'estoy -----'"
I loved that Tito took time to take her shopping on Saturdays and take her to grab a bite before dropping her off. Mike too, when he started driving, at times, had the opportunity to do the same.
Margarita said she wanted to meet her great-great grand kids before she leaving this world; so Tito made sure she did
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Tú sigues siendo mi héroe y espero que antes de unirme a ti, pueda afectar a tantas vidas como tú. ¡Te amo mamá! Siempre estás presente en mi corazón y mente; No podría tener una mejor madre….
Tu hijo, Herbert Carbonell Quiñones
10 de junio de 2020
El primer dia de las madres sin mi madre
Hoy estoy sintiendo lo que nunca había sentido. Mi madre se fue a la gloria el año pasado y no puedo celebrar este dia de las madres con ella. Dios me dio la dicha de tener una madre como Margarita Carbonell Soto. La pude disfrutar por más de 63 años. Tal parecía que nunca iba a vivir para siempre pues vivió hasta los 98 años. Fue una madre ejemplar, especialmente porque lo hizo sin la ayuda mi padre. Trabajo muy duro para poder proveer para Juan Luis y yo. Nunca se quejó ni fue víctima sino una gran luchadora; ella siempre echaba para delante. Cuando el dinero no alcanzaba, ella cocinaba alcapurrias y pasteles para venderlos y levantar fondos. Tenía un gran repertorio de refranes que algún dia voy a coleccionar y compartirlos con todos. Ella me hizo apreciar la música, pues siempre el estéreo estaba sonando con sonidos musicales. Desde la música clásica, semi clásica, los boleros, y danzas. Se escuchaba música en inglés y español y ella fue la que me compro mi primer disco de los Beatles.
Madre querida te amo y te extraño, pero sé que nos veremos en el futuro. Esta esperanza me da paz y me sustenta.
Herbert Quiñones Carbonell
14 de mayo de 2017
The first Mother’s Day without my mother
Today I am feeling what I had never felt. My mother went to glory last year and I cannot celebrate this Mother’s Day with her. God gave me the joy of having a mother like Margarita Carbonell Soto. I was able to enjoy her for over 63 years. It seemed that she would live forever because she lived until she was 98 years old. She was an exemplary mother, especially since she did so without the help of my father. She worked very hard to provide for Juan Luis and myself. She never complained nor was a victim but a great fighter; She always pushed forward. When we were short of money, she cooked “alcapurrias” and “pasteles” to sell them to raise funds. She had a great repertoire of sayings that one day I will collect and share them with everyone. She made me appreciate music, because the stereo was always on playing music; from classical, semi classical, boleros, and waltzes. There was music in English and Spanish and she was the one that bought me my first Beatles album.
My dear mother I love you and I miss you, but I know we will see each other again one day. This hope gives me peace and sustains me.
When Grandma spends the night <3
Grandma and Nina, here weare making funny faces and talking when she would spend the night with us.