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This memorial website was created in the memory of our dear mother, Marilyn Fontana.   Please feel free to share a thought, story, memory or tribute.  

April 10, 2015
April 10, 2015
Memories of Don and Marilyn Fontana" by Rodney Punt

My musical journey began in Inglewood, in its public schools from kindergarten through high school. Over the summer between my junior and senior years at Morningside High (1962-63), I joined Don Fontana's Crenshaw Christian Church, and later when school was in session also the MHS choir. We became fast friends, as did later my younger brother Gordon, who also sang in Don's choirs. Don became a mentor to me, as to many young people during this period. I was surprised when Don cast me as Rasmussen T Finsdale, a role in the musical, L'il Abner, which brings another memory:

A fellow senior, Larry Swarbrick, performed the role of L’il Abner to my character Rasmussen T. Finsdale, in the De Paul/Mercer musical. Larry had, the year before, memorized Poe’s long 'The Raven' in lieu of an English final and recited it deadpan to everyone's amusement. But his life would be a life lost in the Viet Nam War just a few years later, while serving as an officer in the US Army. I also served as an Army officer but survived the era. In what seems today a cosmic compensation, Larry's younger sister, Carol Swarbrick, went on to a considerable career on the musical stage and television, and is still active today. We all knew and loved Don and Marilyn.

A high school friend, Johnny Carl, also mentored by Don, became a talented choral director and worked with Don at the Chrystal Cathedral. Another high schooler was the pianist Bruce Gaston, who fled the USA during the 1960’s to avoid the draft, and settled in Thailand. Taking to that country's native music, he became a permanent resident and is today a composer with an international reputation in Thai music.

As chance would have it, I was with Don one day while home again after graduation from MHS when he was offered the job at Glendale Presbyterian Church. Don and Marilyn remained close to my brother and me and to our parents over the years that followed. In the mid-1980's Don called, and subsequently Marilyn and my wife arranged, the residency of their daughter with us at our home for the better part of a year when she needed a place to stay in the West Los Angeles area.

We were able to see Marilyn and Don at his retirement tribute at St. Andrew's Church in Newport Beach in 1992. They are both now part of our beloved memories.
November 19, 2013
November 19, 2013
Truman and I were privileged to sing with Don and Marilyn in the Sanctuary Choir of St. Andrew's Presbyterian Church. We enjoyed many wonderful "happenings" pool-side at their lovely home, where there was always a lot of laughter, singing, and great food. Marilyn was Don's grace note and champion. Her warmth, humor, and love for everyone made her truly special. We grieve her loss, but rejoice that she and Don are now reunited once again.
November 9, 2013
November 9, 2013
We were blessed to have known Don and Marilyn Fontana. Don was the Choir Director at Vermont Ave. Presbyterian Church in Los Angeles We always enjoyed his musical talents, the choir and many musical presentations. You are truly blessed to have such wonderful parents!
November 2, 2013
November 2, 2013
Kevin and I are inspired by a family filled with so much love. Both of your parents raised you to be loving, spirited individuals. When you speak of them, it's with joy and with a twinkle of the fond memories kindled by the mention of their names . .both of them had reason to beproud. . We are blessed to know and love their children.

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April 10, 2015
April 10, 2015
Memories of Don and Marilyn Fontana" by Rodney Punt

My musical journey began in Inglewood, in its public schools from kindergarten through high school. Over the summer between my junior and senior years at Morningside High (1962-63), I joined Don Fontana's Crenshaw Christian Church, and later when school was in session also the MHS choir. We became fast friends, as did later my younger brother Gordon, who also sang in Don's choirs. Don became a mentor to me, as to many young people during this period. I was surprised when Don cast me as Rasmussen T Finsdale, a role in the musical, L'il Abner, which brings another memory:

A fellow senior, Larry Swarbrick, performed the role of L’il Abner to my character Rasmussen T. Finsdale, in the De Paul/Mercer musical. Larry had, the year before, memorized Poe’s long 'The Raven' in lieu of an English final and recited it deadpan to everyone's amusement. But his life would be a life lost in the Viet Nam War just a few years later, while serving as an officer in the US Army. I also served as an Army officer but survived the era. In what seems today a cosmic compensation, Larry's younger sister, Carol Swarbrick, went on to a considerable career on the musical stage and television, and is still active today. We all knew and loved Don and Marilyn.

A high school friend, Johnny Carl, also mentored by Don, became a talented choral director and worked with Don at the Chrystal Cathedral. Another high schooler was the pianist Bruce Gaston, who fled the USA during the 1960’s to avoid the draft, and settled in Thailand. Taking to that country's native music, he became a permanent resident and is today a composer with an international reputation in Thai music.

As chance would have it, I was with Don one day while home again after graduation from MHS when he was offered the job at Glendale Presbyterian Church. Don and Marilyn remained close to my brother and me and to our parents over the years that followed. In the mid-1980's Don called, and subsequently Marilyn and my wife arranged, the residency of their daughter with us at our home for the better part of a year when she needed a place to stay in the West Los Angeles area.

We were able to see Marilyn and Don at his retirement tribute at St. Andrew's Church in Newport Beach in 1992. They are both now part of our beloved memories.
November 19, 2013
November 19, 2013
Truman and I were privileged to sing with Don and Marilyn in the Sanctuary Choir of St. Andrew's Presbyterian Church. We enjoyed many wonderful "happenings" pool-side at their lovely home, where there was always a lot of laughter, singing, and great food. Marilyn was Don's grace note and champion. Her warmth, humor, and love for everyone made her truly special. We grieve her loss, but rejoice that she and Don are now reunited once again.
November 9, 2013
November 9, 2013
We were blessed to have known Don and Marilyn Fontana. Don was the Choir Director at Vermont Ave. Presbyterian Church in Los Angeles We always enjoyed his musical talents, the choir and many musical presentations. You are truly blessed to have such wonderful parents!
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From Marilyn's friend, Bill Tate

November 8, 2013

 

Memories of Marilyn stand out in two areas.  First, her service with HCMA (Hospital Chaplains Ministry Association).  I say service, because she was not just an office employee.  Marilyn had a heart for the Lord and HCMA was her field of service.  In this field she reaped many fruitful harvests.   Her phone voice, her upbeat spirit and especially her smile communicated the love of Jesus.  She was a sister to all the HCMA chaplains - and often a mother to the younger ones. 

Many, many times I saw her tear-up and heard her choke-up when she spoke of the needs in the lives and ministries of the chaplains.  She loved them all and each one loved her.  Marilyn was morning sunshine that lasted all day long in the HCMA office.

Second, there are the memories of "travels with Marilyn."  It was my privilege to be chauffeur, tour guide and errand boy when traveling with Marilyn, Phyllis and Linda.  I have no idea how many wonderful meals in beautiful places we have shared.  Every moment on these journeys, remembering Marilyn's smile and laughter, is a special gift. 

Speaking of gifts, I recall one unforgettable experience.  It was Marilyn's birthday.  The four of us were staying at Bartwood Lodge in the San Juan Islands.  Each day we were there the "girls" would want to be back at dusk in order to enjoy another beautiful sunset.  The evening of Marilyn's birthday was no exception and we were gathered on the deck.  There were to be no birthday gifts but a small cake with a candle and cards were in order. 

However, in town that afternoon I had been waiting for the girls while they were shopping.  I went to a Thrift Store and for 25cents each I purchased the ugliest sweater (it even had a hole in it) and pair of shorts I could find.  Talk about clashing colors!  Following the breath-taking sunset, the little cake and the cards were brought out.  Marilyn blew out the candle, opened the cards and we sang Happy Birthday. 

I then brought out the sweater and shorts, beautifully gift-wrapped.  You can imagine Marilyn's surprise.  She was so pleased and grateful with the usual "You shouldn't have."  She slowly opened the gift, carefully trying not to damage the wrapping paper. 

Marilyn then held up the sweater and shorts, giving her most beautiful smile and exclaimed: "They're adorable...and I just love them!  Thank you, thank you."  Then there was an awkward silence.  Phyllis and Linda were aghast.  All of sudden Marilyn burst out in uncontrollable laughter.  She was still laughing and crying when she went in, changed, and came back out modeling the outfit. 

For years this same sweater and shorts were exchanged as birthday gifts among the three women.   

The sunsets in the San Juan Islands are spectacular.  I can picture Marilyn seated on the deck at Bartwood Lodge taking in the beauty.  I think I hear her humming... no, softly singing:

Over the sunset mountains, Some day I'll softly go, Into the arms of Jesus - He Who has loved me so

Toiling will all be ended, Shadows will flee away, Sorrows will be forgotten -O what a wonderful day!

Over the sunset mountains, Heaven awaits for me;

Over the sunset mountains, Jesus my Savior I'll see.

- Bill Tate   

From Marilyn's Covenant group

October 25, 2013

OUR COVENANT GROUP  DEAR SISTER,  MARILYN

Dearest Marilyn,   You have been such a wonderful part of my life for so many, many years.  I thank you for our friendship and the many prayers you prayed for me, my children and my extended family over the years.  Speaking of your prayers, you spoke from the heart of our Jesus Christ, the Soul of the Holy Spirit and the mind of God.  There were many of your prayers that were so eloquent that my tears flowed.  Yes we prayed together....on the other hand we partied numerous times.  

Such fun and happy times your Covenant sisters have shared with you, so many fantastic memories.  We so enjoyed your party planning skills and your love for the party....any party.   Your love of family has inspired me so many times, your beloved Don, your daughters Kim and Kris, and your sons Greg and Randy.  Your great happiness on the birth of your first grandchild and those that followed.  You will be greatly missed on the earth, but so welcomed into the heavenly kingdom.  

My heart is sad at your passing, but it has been sad for months due to the illness you have been suffering with.  I know that you were welcomed into the kingdom by our savior and Lord, Don and your family---WHAT JOY!  It is the sadness of your leaving this world that brings all to tears, but joy and thankfulness that you are now with our LORD completely illness free.. PRAISE GOD for His tender mercies and unending grace.  

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Marilyn, my Covenant sister for 30 years, approached every experience in her life with great enthusiasm.  She truly had a zest for life.  She loved God, her husband, her family, her friends, both old and new, travel, entertaining, music, theater, new experiences.  She loved words and prayed beautiful prayers.  She was definitely the best 'pray-er' in our group and we had some good ones!  

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There are so many memories of times with Marilyn that it is hard to pinpoint just a few.  When she and Don first came to St. Andrew's, we became close friends.  She was always able to talk me into doing things even if I didn't want to.  But I did invite her to join our Covenant group which was a good thing for all of us.  With her happy smile she was wonderful to have around.

Being the life of the party just came naturally to her.  Her love for the Lord showed when she would pray.  Soon she was the one we went to for saying Grace at all of our functions.  Marilyn had a way with words.  She was truly loved by us all and will be surely missed.

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