This memorial website was created in loving memory of Mark Traber Wagner. He will be forever missed.
Mark was born on January 14, 1956 in Spokane Washington to William Joseph and Winifred Theresa Wagner. He was the youngest of seven children and born on his sister's eleventh birthday. Shortly after his birth the Wagner's moved to Riverside, California whe he attended St. Thomas Elementary, Notre Dame High School, and Humboldt State University.
Mark loved the outdoors, running Mt. Rubidoux, fishing and camping with his children and grandkids and more recently, contemplating the stars at his cabin in Joshua Tree. Mark was usually the life of the party and always the first to crack a joke or start a party off with a rousing cheer. He would be the first person to tell you, "I'm a nice guy and people like me!"
Mark is survived by his beloved wife of 38 years Mary, adored children Kevin and Regina, and cherished granddaughters Tess and Norah. He leaves behind an extensive extended family and it is our hope that everyone will share a story or memory and lots of pictures.
"Gone too soon," does not begin to describe the loss we all have in our hearts and lives. He will be greatly missed!
To Mark, hip, hip...
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Leave a tributeHis youngest sister
I know that from a young age what he really wanted was a family. He was always happy to play with my daughters and wheni remember he was about 15, he used to pretend that they were his. If he went out with us, he would insist on pushing the stroller and throw his arm around me so people would think we were the parents.
I was out of state and couldn't make it back when he and Mary got married. I know that mom wanted him to wait until until he was 21, which was January 14, 1977 and they wed on January 15th. It was the best thing that he ever did. He Mary were perfect for each other and I know that he was very happy.
He and Mary hosted countless family gatherings, for both the Verweil and Wagner families. He did this with an energy and joy that was humbling to watch. I know that our parents were impressed with how hard he and Mary both worked, the beautiful homes they made, and the lovely children they raised.
It is incomprehensible to me that he is gone so soon.
I would greatly appreciate being able to add to my memories of him and so would dearly love if his friends would share some stories about him.
Pat Neuman
Mark's prettiest sister
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sDad ddys retirement
This photo was the official one marking dad's first retirement from the Air Force He stayed retired for 6 months and them went back to work for them as a civilian.
Notice mark's head, still bandaged after the fall that fractured his skull.
I will never forget that phone call. My father never called me and this day he started off with "what are you doing?" Believe it or not, I was actually ironing. When I told him, it got very strange. He said. "Put the iron down and turn it off. Then go sit down ".
The bottom dropped out of my belly as I did. And then he told me about Mark's accident and used words I'd never heard before like subdural hematoma etc. And he ended with asking me to pray with him.
I didn't fully realize until later that they had not expected Mark to survive. This photograph must have berm taken very shortly after that.
Easter day 1956
"You will lose someone you can’t live without, and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn’t seal back up. And you come through. It’s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly—that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp.” - Anne Lamott