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This memorial website was created in the memory of our Mother, Mary B. Duffy, 95, born on December 3, 1916 and passed away on April 13, 2012. We will remember her forever.

To read Mary's obiturary click on the "Her Life" tab. (above)

Please feel free to leave a memorial tribute on this page (below). We also encourage you to click on the Gallery and Stories tabs (above) to add pictures, videos, music, memories, or just to see the photos and read the stories that friends and family have shared. If you click on a photo you will get the larger version to view, and then click again, hit play and you can see a slide show of all the photos. You can also add your comments and memories to photos that you come across on these pages.
 

December 3, 2013
December 3, 2013
On this, the 97th anniversary of Mrs. Mary Duffy's birth, I just want to thank her for the very positive impact she had upon my life. Every election day and December 3rd, I can't help but think of her. I am a much better and more involved citizen, because of having had her as a teacher. Besides the two years of history in her class, I also had many good times and learning experiences working with her on the Steinert yearbook staff for three years. And then, 40 years after graduation, we reconnected and became dear friends. Thank you, Mrs. Duffy, and thank you Mary Alice and John David for sharing your mother with so many others. Yes, she will be "forever missed".
June 28, 2012
June 28, 2012
Greetings Mary Alice & family, After reading her obituary all I can express is "What a great life, well done, great job".  Think of all the lives she touched.
My remembrance as a school mate of her daughter at Hamilton High West were the times I stopped to visit her daughter that I was always welcomed very warmly by her. My sympathy to the family.
May 9, 2012
May 9, 2012
Dear Mary Alice and Family: What a journey. Your mother truly led an amazing life. How many lives did she touch as teacher, and how much empathy and compassion did you bring to this earth through her? It seems endless . . . My love, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
April 30, 2012
April 30, 2012
Mary Alice and family,
From my reading of your mother's obituary and the many fond rememberances and tributes on this website, I have a vivid awareness of the wonderful and giving woman that your mother was. Her legacy lives on in her children and in all the lives that she has touched so deeply. My sincerest condolences.
April 27, 2012
April 27, 2012
Mrs. Duffy was a favorite teacher of mine. I have always told my children that if you like your teacher, you will learn. Mrs. Duffy gave me a love for learning and I have often thought of her. I am so glad she left such a great legacy to her family and her students.
April 27, 2012
April 27, 2012
Mrs. D you will be missed greatly! Especially every holiday and by all including Grace. You were a heroine to my sister and I and we admired you very much. We considered you our own grandmother, and enjoyed every moment we spent with you. I promise to remember and cherish all the times we shared, and all the life advice you gave us. I love you so much!!! and will miss you immensely!
April 25, 2012
April 25, 2012
I had the pleasure of working with Mrs. Duffy on the 1963 and other years Cresset Yearbooks.  She was compassionate in her work and we all loved working with her. I still remember meeting at her home and taking photos there for the dedication of the yearbook to our parents. She is remembered and will be missed.
April 23, 2012
April 23, 2012
" Patrice called us to let us know about your mom's death. Please know that we are thinking about you and your family. May you be given
strength and faith during this sad time. Her spirit lives on in you.
April 23, 2012
April 23, 2012
I was raised across the street from the Duffy's. John David and I were neighbors, teammate's, and friends. Mrs. Duffy was a warm, generous person who I will always remember fondly. I remember her love of antiques and books. I recall her mother who was called "Jammy."
Thanks for everything, Mrs. Duffy!
April 23, 2012
April 23, 2012
My best memories of Aunt Mary were when I was 5 or 6 and would ask my Mom if I could walk down the street at the shore all by myself to visit her. I would go there all the time, just popping in to see what she was doing. She would always sit and talk to me and she would always be happy to see me even if I was being a pesky little kid always at her door.
April 23, 2012
April 23, 2012
MaryAlice so sorry for your loss. Your mother is definitely a woman
with spirit, creativity and a loving nature. It is easy to see that you take after her . She will me missed. My thoughts are with you and
your family. Love, Margo
April 22, 2012
April 22, 2012
AS A MEMBER OF THE BEST GRADUATION CLASS EVER FROM STEINERT HIGH...1961...I WANT TO THANK MRS. DUFFY FOR MAKING MY HISTORY CLASS SO INTERESTING AND FUN...SHE WAS ONE OF A KIND!!
April 22, 2012
April 22, 2012
We are so sad to hear about Aunt Mary's passing. Whenever she would come visit, she was sure to make us laugh! Even though we were not her grandchildren, she always took great interest in what we did, and we loved having her drop by at Christmas. She will truly be missed.
April 21, 2012
April 21, 2012
Thank you Mary Duffy for the all of the gifts you gave us, especially your children who will carry with them your beautiful spirit! Love as always to MaryAlice, John and Donna.
April 21, 2012
April 21, 2012
We had the pleasure to meet Miss Mary at Christmas time around 13 or 14 years ago...what a gem! I remember that she had a very big appetite, I guess thats where John gets it from. She had 2 maybe 3 portions of prime rib that day...Bless you all and our prayers are with the family. Jack and Debbie Collins (Donna's Twin sister and Husband)
April 20, 2012
April 20, 2012
I graduated in 1961and remember mrs Duffy as one very stylish and classy lady. She always looked so fashionable. She was one of my favorite teachers. My sympathy to her family.
April 20, 2012
April 20, 2012
We only had the pleasure of meeting Mary one time. Donna and John brought Mary to our house for Christmas dinner. We had a wonderful time, Mary loved the prime rib! Though we did not know her well we do hear wonderful stories about John's family and New Jersey. Mary will be truly missed by all who loved her. Don&Janice Donna's sis
April 20, 2012
April 20, 2012
I was so sorry to hear of the passing of Mrs. Duffy.I sent her a 90th birthday card and was so delighted that she wrote me a note back.I graduated in 1961 and Mrs. Duffy was my favorite teacher,she made me love history even to this day. My deepest sympathy to her family.
April 19, 2012
April 19, 2012
Bus trip to Death Valley. In Feb. 1995, we took a bus tour to Death
Valley as this is when the wild flowers are in full bloom. There were only
13 people on this tour and Mary was the only one alone. That started
our friendship with Mary.
April 19, 2012
April 19, 2012
I am sad to hear that Mary has passed from this life but I'm sure there is great rejoicing in heaven! I speak for "The Residence" when I say that Mary Duffy was one classy lady. She helped make The Residence beautiful. I was so blessed to have served on the board with her and many of the other "Grand Dames" of Trenton. They don't make them like that anymore. Sincerely, Joey Jenkins
April 19, 2012
April 19, 2012
The four of us always looked forward to Aunt Mary's visits after Christmas. Her gifts were always so thoughtful and creative, and her singing Christmas tree has become a DeAngelis house staple at Christmastime. More importantly, Aunt Mary was a strong, intelligent and independent woman, and we were lucky to have grown up with her.
April 18, 2012
April 18, 2012
Dear Mrs Duffy, thank you for being there, and caring, and sharing your wonderful daughter with me. Your children will always carry forward your memory and mark in the world- SO much to be proud of!

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December 3, 2013
December 3, 2013
On this, the 97th anniversary of Mrs. Mary Duffy's birth, I just want to thank her for the very positive impact she had upon my life. Every election day and December 3rd, I can't help but think of her. I am a much better and more involved citizen, because of having had her as a teacher. Besides the two years of history in her class, I also had many good times and learning experiences working with her on the Steinert yearbook staff for three years. And then, 40 years after graduation, we reconnected and became dear friends. Thank you, Mrs. Duffy, and thank you Mary Alice and John David for sharing your mother with so many others. Yes, she will be "forever missed".
June 28, 2012
June 28, 2012
Greetings Mary Alice & family, After reading her obituary all I can express is "What a great life, well done, great job".  Think of all the lives she touched.
My remembrance as a school mate of her daughter at Hamilton High West were the times I stopped to visit her daughter that I was always welcomed very warmly by her. My sympathy to the family.
May 9, 2012
May 9, 2012
Dear Mary Alice and Family: What a journey. Your mother truly led an amazing life. How many lives did she touch as teacher, and how much empathy and compassion did you bring to this earth through her? It seems endless . . . My love, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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So. Seaside Park 1960's to 70's

September 15, 2012

Wow! What a wonderful tribute. I was a little girl growing up on Kathryn Ave right across the street. In a nastalgic moment, I  was looking up the old summer house online and came to this somehow. John Sr. took me for my first trick ski adventure. Growing up with the Duffy's across the way was a part of my history. I am so glad Mary had such a long and seemingly healthy and beautiful life. Seeing this photo and the one on the boat surly brought tears to my eyes. Hi Mary Alice and John David! God Rest her Soul.............

April 28, 2012

Mrs. D.

Our family loves you so much. We have spent every holiday together, which I will never forget. I feel so lucky to have known you and spent so much time with you. You were a surrogate grandmother for Sophia and I, and we will never forget all the funny times we've had. Like when Grace, your snuggly couch partner, started at your side with some pets, then moved to sitting next to you on the couch with some more pets, and then the next thing we all realized was Grace, our fluffy 85lb golden retriever, was sitting across your lap. We thought she was crushing you, when really you were sitting there laughing at this loving dogs need to be close to you, and the warm and soft fur she provided. We knew eventually you would be over it because after a while she gets heavy haha. Also I will never forget how much you loved the restaurant Rats, and the beautiful art walk it provided. We had a great lunch there, and all enjoyed being there with you seeing all the beautiful and odd artwork.

Mrs. D you were a strong herione, I think thats how you spell it, and a beautiful woman inside and out. You were also sharp as a tack, and were always giving helpful life advice to Sophia and I.  You told us to always smile, and only do things if it makes you happy, best advice anyone could ever give because she always said as long as it makes you happy. You helped us decide on colleges as well. Mrs. D we are all going to miss you sooo much! You were beautiful, strong, and super smart! Lots of love

Fond memories

April 26, 2012

I was lucky enough to have met Mary, while she was visiting John David in Shell Beach Calif about 18 years ago. I always looked forward to her visits and the laughs we would have while sitting in the front yard looking at the beach. She was such and interesting person with a lot of sound advice. I will miss Mary and her charming ways, but will always remember her for her smile, laughter and great kindness. Mary will always shine through John David and Mary Alice, she will never be gone to all that loved and respected her.

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