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This memorial website was created in memory of our Mom Mary Speicher. We will remember her forever.

November 1, 2022
November 1, 2022
I can't believe you have been gone for eight years Mom. You are missed so much...especially by Katrina. I wish you were here to comfort her after Michael died this past March. I am sure the two of you are together and watching over all of us. I miss you Mom.
December 27, 2017
December 27, 2017
You've been gone four Christmases now and it's still hard to believe you are gone. I hope and pray you are by God's side living in peace. I love you Mom and I miss you. Merry Christmas to you!

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November 1, 2022
November 1, 2022
I can't believe you have been gone for eight years Mom. You are missed so much...especially by Katrina. I wish you were here to comfort her after Michael died this past March. I am sure the two of you are together and watching over all of us. I miss you Mom.
December 27, 2017
December 27, 2017
You've been gone four Christmases now and it's still hard to believe you are gone. I hope and pray you are by God's side living in peace. I love you Mom and I miss you. Merry Christmas to you!
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Our song Mom

January 15, 2015

Hi Mom,

I came across a song from many years past by an artist known as Helen Reddy.  I can remember you and I playing her records over and over again and two particular songs always made me feel closer to you.  The first one was called You and Me against the world....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gJAKmWAIKcY

As a little girl at the time, I never really took heart to the words of the songs but then you left and went to heaven and I finally listened to the words of the song and all the good memories came flooding back.  The way you used to make me lunch before afternoon kindergarten....one of my favorites always being mac and cheese from the box.  Then after lunch I got to watch an episode of the Brady Bunch before you dressed me and fixed my hair in cute little hair styles.  

I remember the way you decorated mine and Katrina's room using Raggedy Ann and Andy.  The whole nine yards too....Raggedy Ann and Andy curtains to Raggedy Ann an Andy bed spreads.  I remember the time and money you spent so that I could be a Brownie and a cheerleader.  I remember our trips to Bingo.  I remember shocking you the first time I ever ice skated because I was not only skating, I was skating backwards, doing jumps and spinning as if my life depended on it.  I'll never forget the look of proudness on your face....which made me want to impress you even more. 

Our fights were many but my love for you never died.  I miss you mom and if you're reading this up in heaven, just know that I loved you more than words could ever say....and as I look through pictures of you, I finally realized how truly beautiful you really were.  You fought so many demons in your life mom and when they got the better of you, I made you ashamed for failing. But please know now that I no longer feel any shame towards you, any anger and any resentment.  All I feel now is love and the good memories that are helping me get through your death.  

Anyway, please know I am doing ok and my love for you will never waiver.  I love you Mom!   
   
   
 
     

I miss you so much

November 13, 2014

Mom, you left us too soon, leaving me with a broken heart.  Still can't believe you're gone....one minute I was touching you and the next minute you were gone.  I spend my days thinking of you and before I close my eyes at night, wishing I have a dream about you.  Still no dream.


I did love taking care of you those last few days.  You talked but it was difficult to understand what you were saying, and because it tired you out, I pretended to understand what you were saying.  I actually believed if I could get you to eat enough and put on some weight, you would stay with me longer but I was so wrong.  We had such a complicated relationship where most people wouldn't understand but even with all of the complication, I loved you with my whole heart.  I am sorry for our fights, I'm sorry if I ever hurt you....I always do that to the people I love most....just ask Jim.


I found an old Mother's Day card I had made for you with green and red construction paper.....I'll treasure the fact that you kept that all of these years and now I'll keep it till we meet again.  I love you mom, I always have and I always will.  Rest in peace and visit me in my dreams....I'll be waiting.     

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