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Melissa Elizabeth Updegraff
  • 46 years old
  • Date of birth: Jul 5, 1968
  • Place of birth:
    United States
  • Date of passing: Jan 15, 2015
  • Place of passing:
    York, Pennsylvania, United States
Let the memory of Melissa be with us forever
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Melissa Updegraff, 46, born on July 5, 1968 and passed away on January 15, 2015. We will remember her forever.
Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Jennifer Toomey on 1st February 2016

"Still missing you every day. You touched so many people Missy. Life will never be the same without you. We all miss you so much. Love you! Jen"

This tribute was added by Tammy Resh on 20th January 2016

"Missy it's still hard to believe that your gone.  You were such a gentle soul and always had a smile.  Which I missed after I left Metso.  I'm only sorry that I didn't keep in touch .  You have touched many lives including mine.  Rest in peace my friend"

This tribute was added by Penny Grove on 15th January 2016

"Missy my dear dear friend! it has been a year since you passed and I still miss you every single day and think of you every day. I remember your smile and your willingness to be there for anyone no matter what, you are truly missed deeply and I still have moments when I think of you and will cry , you were truly the best friend and most caring person I have ever known. you will always be in my heart and thoughts . Love you and miss you so much..    Friends Forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Penny"

This tribute was added by Jennifer Toomey on 17th August 2015

"I miss you every day. I know that you're with me...just not the way I want you to be. I know you'd laugh at me when I say they'll full of it when they say it gets easier with time...because it really doesn't. It's just different. I don't miss you any less today than I did the day that you died. I think about all the things we did growing up together and I truly thank God that he gave me you. i would give my right arm for more time with you. I mean that. I honestly do. You would be so proud of Michael. I sat and looked and listened to him the other day when he was doing my hair...he's come so far. He's so strong. Amber and I, on the other hand, lol, both have our anger issues over losing you....she is a lot like her "Aunt Jenny"...you always said that.You would be very proud of her for her work in the Air Force. I know that she worries about that.  Barry is hanging in there but misses you every day...how could he not. You were the most amazing wife. Always loving and supportive. Not only to him and the kids but to everyone. That's what makes you so unforgettable. I will always love and miss you my friend. Please keep watching over all of us. You were an Angel on Earth, now you're my Angel in Heaven."

This tribute was added by Jennifer Toomey on 17th August 2015

"I miss you every day. I know that you're with me...just not the way I want you to be. I know you'd laugh at me when I say they'll full of it when they say it gets easier with time...because it really doesn't. It's just different. I don't miss you any less today than I did the day that you died. I think about all the things we did growing up together and I truly thank God that he gave me you. i would give my right arm for more time with you. I mean that. I honestly do. You would be so proud of Michael. I sat and looked and listened to him the other day when he was doing my hair...he's come so far. He's so strong. Amber and I, on the other hand, lol, both have our anger issues over losing you....she is a lot like her "Aunt Jenny"...you always said that.You would be very proud of her for her work in the Air Force. I know that she worries about that.  Barry is hanging in there but misses you every day...how could he not. You were the most amazing wife. Always loving and supportive. Not only to him and the kids but to everyone. That's what makes you so unforgettable. I will always love and miss you my friend. Please keep watching over all of us. You were an Angel on Earth, now you're my Angel in Heaven."

This tribute was added by Penny Grove on 22nd July 2015

"Missy there is not a day goes by that i don't think about my dear , dear friend..I miss you so much and there are times i hear a certain song or I think of our Missy and Penny trips and brings a smile and tears.   We had alot of great memories and i will treasure them. You were an amazing friend and like a sister to me.  I miss you so much.  Till we meet again,  love you so much"

This tribute was added by Jennifer Toomey on 5th July 2015

"Happy 47th Missy! Still missing you every day. I love you.  Until we meet again my friend...you're always in my heart."

This tribute was added by Jennifer Toomey on 1st February 2015

"I still can't believe you're gone. I miss you every day. You will always be in my heart. Forever. I love you Mis."

This tribute was added by Shontay Reilly on 18th January 2015

"Missy was such a warm person welcoming us to Pathway when we first joined. She was in the nursery with our baby Marley and has watched her grow since birth. Every time we would drop Marley off with her, she would get a huge smile on her face and i can't count how many times she told us Marley was one of her favorite babies in the nursery. She will be missed by our whole family!!"

This tribute was added by Mark & Amy Minnich on 18th January 2015

"Barry, Your family is surrounded by the love of many. We pray that in this difficult time, the love of God shelters you and mends the pain as you move forward. Let the memories of Missy's life comfort you and hold them close to your heart. We can’t begin to imagine what you are feeling, but let us share our heart-felt condolence. We continue to keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. We will miss Missy and her beautiful smile. Until we meet again someday... xo"

This tribute was added by Victoria Grant on 18th January 2015

"Missy's sweet spirit and beautiful smile will be greatly missed."

This tribute was added by Carla Grothe-Pickard on 18th January 2015

"'When Matthew told of Missy's passing I just stopped in my tracks. I remember Missy from school and church. She always had a smile and positive thoughts when speaking about our boys!' My prayers are with your family at this sad time. Amber your tribute and words were beautiful!"

This tribute was added by nancy sheffer on 17th January 2015

"To the Updegraff Family. With a heavy heart I am so sorry for your loss. Missy was a wonderful lady with a heart of gold and a beautiful smile that could light up a room. She will be missed by so many.. I knew Missy many years ago when she went to school with my oldest son and reconnected with her when her daughter went to school with my twins.  A beautiful women inside and out. RIP and know you were loved very much by all who knew you. God Bless."

This tribute was added by amber updegraff on 17th January 2015

"I love you mom. You were the most precious thing in my life. Whenever I feel a breeze on my face, I'll know you're sending love my way. You are the most amazing person and I'll never forget all you taught me. I'll make you proud. Don't worry about me. I love you"

This tribute was added by Michelle Rohrbaugh on 17th January 2015

"I'm so deeply saddened by Missy's passing. I'm still in shock over this. I knew Missy from school and she was a very good  friend. She was always so nice and sweet and always there when you needed someone to talk too. Very blessed to have known her. R.I.P. Missy, will never forget you."

This tribute was added by Barbara Young on 17th January 2015

"I am so sorry to have heard about Missy's passing , this is a sad sad time.  She was a great lady, who would have given anything to you and helped you at anything you needed.  We were blessed to have known her and to have worked with her.  Rest now, to her family, you are in my prayers."

This tribute was added by Liz Oerman on 17th January 2015

"I will miss her voice, loved hearing her talk."


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