Mike lead a life full of forgiveness and generosity.  Seven years after his passing I still see the remnants of that life.  Following in his foot steps is not always easy yet I find when I consciously follow his example I feel him close by.  To Mike, everyone was interesting and everyone had a story to tell.  There is so much optimism in that but it did leave him vulnerable because he wanted to believe and trust in everyone.  There were those who took advantage of him and he knew it yet he forgave them and would remain open to them.  This was a ongoing conversation between us.  He would ask what he should do and I would reply with what I knew to be true, “it’s probably not the wisest thing to encourage their taking advantage of you but I know you will not be able to live with saying no to them.”  So he gave and he forgave.  Who could know him and not love him

Another year has passed without your smile to brighten this world. Your name is still spoken with love by our friends and family. People say time heals all wounds but I am not sure I agree.  There are still times I find myself holding my breath, feeling the same emptiness in my chest that I felt when they told me your heart had stopped.  I am still surprisedthat mine can beat when yours can not.