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This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved Husband, Brother, Father, Grandfather, Uncle, Inlaw, Cousin, lifelong mentor, teacher and guardian, Elder (Prof.) Monday Benson Abasiattai who slept peacefully in the Lord on December 9, 2013 after a brief illness.
We will remember him forever.

THE MAN MONDAY BENSON ABASIATTAI
A father and mentor to many, a scholar, a man of integrity, PROF lived through his years fully occupied, he had no dull moment. He had excellent interpersonal skills, loved teaching, and counseling and never looked down on anyone. Our Daddy lived an accomplished life, spending a lot of time with the less-privileged, giving out much of his time and substance.

FAMILY LIFE

In 1965, the late Monday Benson Abasiattai met and fell in love with Miss Affiong Sam Ekpoh (now Mrs Affiong Abasiattai). They got married 4th March 1967, and are blessed with five children (Emem, Aniekan, Ekaete-Alice, Ini and Mfon), and Ten grand-children.
Prof doted greatly on his children and grand-children. It is noteworthy that Prof was a role model and mentor to all members of his nuclear and extended family. He spared nothing to provide the best education and moral guidance as a very loving father to everyone and proved his love to all. He was a true philanthropist, and a sincere leader.

CHRISTIAN LIFE

The Late Prof Abasiattai was baptized into the Qua Iboe Church (QIC) of Nigeria in 1953 and was ordained Elder of QIC in October 1995.

In 2008, late Prof Abasiattai authored a book titled “ The African Pentecost- in QIC Nigeria 1927 and After” – The book describes the move of the Holy Spirit and the experiences of many Ibibio Christian converts in the early days of QIC in Nigeria.  

Prof was until his passing-on, the Chairman Church Committee, Qua Iboe Church, Use-Offot, Uyo.

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December 9, 2023
December 9, 2023
My dearest Daddy, a decade has gone by since you left us but you live in our hearts every day. I will always remember your love and affection and how you had such strong faith in me. Keep resting Daddy. I love you always.
December 9, 2023
December 9, 2023
Daddy
I still miss you and think of you every now and then. Sleep on dad, one day we will see again in glory and death will not be a barrier any more. Say hi to mum for me. Eka
March 12, 2022
March 12, 2022
Dear Daddy
Loving you always. Missing you dearly. Still.so many things we didnt settle beford you left. Sleep on..
December 10, 2020
December 10, 2020
My dearest and only Daddy. I Can't believe seven years have gone by. I still miss you my Daddy although I know you are at rest in the Lord's bosom. I am a mother now my dearest Daddy. I gave birth to two adorable babies in February and I remember how fervently you prayed and believed for this miracle, but all things are in God's time. Keep resting dearest Daddy. I love you and will always love you. Your nwaedo 
December 9, 2018
December 9, 2018
5 YEARS IN MIND. Your legacies, good deeds and hard work live on. Rest on peacefully in Heaven with God. Amen!
March 29, 2017
March 29, 2017
Happy birthday my dearest Daddy. I can never forget that you believed in me more than anyone else. Your love for us was unconditional. Your birthdays were always very special days for you. I will always love you and you live in my heart. Rest on my Daddy.
March 12, 2017
March 12, 2017
Happy birthday daddy. I know you are very happy where you are. Now you have mum with you. Stay in peace till we see again. Love you always. Eka
December 9, 2016
December 9, 2016
My beloved daddy, it's been 3 years since i last spoke with you, but the memory of our last moments together has not faded. I will always love you. Now you have mummy with you. You have left me to face this world. It is well with us daddy. Rest from all the pains and stress. I know some day i will see you and we will never be apart again. Your only Eka.
March 12, 2016
March 12, 2016
Daddy
I remember you today with joy in my heart. We are doing well, and your grand children have so grown up. Work is fine too, though hectic. I know you are happy where you are, so that's good enough for me. I love you.
I A
December 9, 2015
December 9, 2015
We miss you daddy, your love and light shines in us and through us forever.
March 12, 2015
March 12, 2015
Happy birthday daddy. I still miss you so much. How fast I grew up. I wish we had spent more time together. I still love you in my heart daddy. Stay with Christ till we meet to part no more.
Your Eka.
March 13, 2014
March 13, 2014
Yesterday would have been your birthday. All your kids would have called you and spoken with you. This year you're in heaven, celebrating eternally with your Maker. To Him be all the glory for giving you to us for almost 75 years. We thank God for your life well-lived!!! HAPPY earth-BIRTHDAY DADDY! RIP.
February 26, 2014
February 26, 2014
Dear Uncle is good to have come in contact with an educationist as you.I want to briefly say that you lived a very easy going life that made a mark in the lives of those you came in contact with.My prayers are that the Lord Almighty strengthen Aunty and your children specially.Adieu Great Man.We will meet on the glorious morning.
February 26, 2014
February 26, 2014
Dear Uncle is good to have come in contact with an educationist as you.I want to briefly say that you lived a very easy going life that made a mark in the lives of those you came in contact with.My prayers are that the Lord Almighty strengthen Aunty and your children specially.Adieu Great Man.We will meet on the glorious morning.
February 25, 2014
February 25, 2014
Dear Uncle, You lived such an exemplary life and your kindness and humility will be remembered forever. Adieu Prof! Rest in perfect peace.
February 16, 2014
February 16, 2014
A great man and Life Teacher went to Heaven on Monday, Dec.9th 2013! Daddy A., I may never have met you but in your exceptional children, caring family and teeming hordes of well-wishers from all over the world who gathered to bid you Farewell on Feb.7th, I see your greatness. I know you rest, free from all earthly pains and tribulations. I know you rest, watching over those you love. I know you rest, happy with your full life and the unsurpassed legacy you left behind. I know you rest, happy up above in the arms of God, still inspiring your family, still guiding the many lives you changed here below, still educating the world with selflessness, at much personal sacrifice, with humility and most of all, with your warm heart full of Christian love for all. Adieu Daddy A, ADIEU! May your blessed noble soul continue to Rest in Perfect Peace! <3
February 7, 2014
February 7, 2014
Adieu Prof, you have left footprints on the sands of Time and you were a great impact in your generation, receive rest in the bosom of our Lord . may your soul rest in perfect peace.Barr (Mrs.) Uduakobong Inibehe
February 2, 2014
February 2, 2014
My beloved uncle, I was shocked when I heard of your sudden death. You were an awesome uncle since I was a baby. You carried me on your wings of love as I grew up. Your love to me cannot be forgotten. I will surely miss your gentle smile and your words of wisdom. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace Amen.
February 2, 2014
February 2, 2014
Professor Abasiattai as I used to address you since I joined the family. You always amazed me with your beautiful spirit of friendship and love to the family. Your support and presence in every family activity even when you were not feeling well will be tremendously felt. Your intellectual pursuit and your love for education will be greatly remembered. You have touched so many lives including your children through your exemplary teaching strategies. In certainty you will always be recalled of your love and inspiration to mankind. May your soul rest in perfect peace.
February 2, 2014
February 2, 2014
The tributes here bear out the fact that Prof. M. Abasiattai was a great man, loved by many! I pray GOD to grant you all he has left behind the fortitude to bear the loss, and grant him eternal rest in HIS bossom!
January 20, 2014
January 20, 2014
prof, l miss you so much. l meet you last during our award and appreciation ceremony in our school, bright stars in which you launched the 2014 school calender. l know you as a nice gentle man with no discrimination, so please rest in the Lord, till we meet to part no more.                                                                                                                                                                                                   ETI-IMA SILAS, office of the proprietor BSMSS
January 20, 2014
January 20, 2014
prof, l miss you so much. l meet you last during our award and appreciation ceremony in our school, bright stars in which you launched the 2014 school calender. l know you as a nice gentle man with no discrimination, so please rest in the Lord, till we meet to part no more.                                                                                                                                                                                                   ETI-IMA SILAS, office of the proprietor BSMSS
January 18, 2014
January 18, 2014
My dearest uncle I still can't believe u are no more.You were my father , uncle and a role model to me.You were always full of words of advice ,you always encourage me to strife for the best academically.Although you are no more today my confident is"that you are resting in heaven with our Lord.I love you uncle Rest in Peace.
January 16, 2014
January 16, 2014
You deserve a peaceful rest after a good life on earth !! Rest in perfect peace Sir !!!
I A
January 10, 2014
January 10, 2014
Dear Daddy, in my life time I have never met such a man who is only full of love, integrity, knowledge and was ever committed to doing good for the benefit of all. You inspired me every day of my life and you are my model for ever. Though you are no longer physically present, I have resolved that you shall continue to live forever through me and in me. I love you daddy and we miss you so much. Your loving son Ini Abasiattai
January 10, 2014
January 10, 2014
My dearest dearest Daddy, I love you so so much. I don't know how to express the depth of my love for you. You were so special, my gentle Daddy. I am so proud of you and all God used you to accomplish on earth. I miss you so much, I love you so much I can't find the words to express how I feel. Rest in perfect peace as heaven celebrates you.
January 10, 2014
January 10, 2014
Adieu! Elder (Prof) Abasiattai. We 'll miss you dearly in Qua Iboe Church Use Offot, Ewet Offot and the entire QIC at large.
May your soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
January 10, 2014
January 10, 2014
My dearest dearest Daddy. I love you so much. I can't express the depth of my love for you. You were a daddy in a million. I miss you so much, I think about you everyday. I am comforted by the fact that you are resting in heaven. Your mansion is ready and you shall bask in glory. Heaven is celebrating you, your crown is ready. God knows why you had to leave so suddenly. He has given you rest from all pain. I love you so much, I miss you greatly. O Daddy, who will call me Nwaedo, who will love me like you did. I am so proud of you. Every where I go people weep for you. The earth's loss is heaven's gain. Asiere Papa. No words can ever be enough. I wish I spent more time with you but I am grateful for all the times we spent together. You were so gentle and cheerful my hero. You loved me unconditionally and will do anything to protect me. Daddy, my Daddy, my joy is that you are in a better place and God is watching over us. Asiere oooo.. I love you so so so so much.
January 7, 2014
January 7, 2014
Adieu Prof! You lived a remarkable life. Ekaette, be strong, the Almighty God giveth and He taketh away. My dear Mrs Abasiattai, weep not, be strong. The Lord is the husband of the widow, He will surely be there foryou aalways. May the good Lord strengthen you all IJN. Remain blessed.
January 5, 2014
January 5, 2014
Daddy,I will forever miss you.You left us so suddenly and painfully. I sincerly hope you are resting and in peace. You will also be in my heart. Bye Daddy
January 1, 2014
January 1, 2014
Daddy I miss you so dearly. Your death dealt a great blow to me.  I love you so much and believe that you are very happy where you are. I know I will meet you again , and this time, there will be no goodbyes ever .

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December 9, 2023
December 9, 2023
My dearest Daddy, a decade has gone by since you left us but you live in our hearts every day. I will always remember your love and affection and how you had such strong faith in me. Keep resting Daddy. I love you always.
December 9, 2023
December 9, 2023
Daddy
I still miss you and think of you every now and then. Sleep on dad, one day we will see again in glory and death will not be a barrier any more. Say hi to mum for me. Eka
March 12, 2022
March 12, 2022
Dear Daddy
Loving you always. Missing you dearly. Still.so many things we didnt settle beford you left. Sleep on..
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My thoughts of you...

December 10, 2018

Daddy yesterday as I sat in my lonely house my thoughts slipped to you. I remembered your last days on earth and my childhood dsys with you. I wished some part of it would come back. I held back the tears. It was later that day I saw it was your death anniversary. I love you daddy. 

Soul Food Sunday

January 12, 2014

Today is Sunday. This afternoon we will all have been at our parents for Sunday Lunch which would have been Pounded yam and afia efere. Daddy loved Sunday afternoons with his children and he will tell us many stories. It was always fun at the table, seven of us. We miss you Daddy and relish the good times we had. Thank you for being a great Daddy to us. God bless you

Soul Food Sunday

January 12, 2014

Today is Sunday. This afternoon we will all have been at our parents for Sunday Lunch which would have been Pounded yam and afia efere.  Daddy loved Sunday afternoons with his children and he will tell us many stories.  It was always fun at the table, seven of us.  We miss you Daddy and relish the good times we had.  Thank you for being a great Daddy to us. God bless you. 

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