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Letter of Recommendation

July 4, 2015

I am sharing a letter of recommendation I wrote for Morgan to help her get her service dog, Max

To: Maureen Maurer

Hawaii Canines for Independence

February, 2004

Dear Maureen Maurer,

When I first heard our friend Morgan Malkovich was getting a service dog I thought:  That’s a lucky dog!  If a dog could dream up the perfect mate, Morgan would be it.  How do I know?  Because Morgan has the same special qualities that dogs are known for—bravery, kindness, intelligence and loyalty.

 I’ve had the privilege to witness Morgan’s development from birth to present day.  At each stage of Morgan’s growth, life has presented its usual challenges to her.  In addition, Morgan has the challenges of making her way in the world with a physical disability.  Sometimes these extra challenges have been small and fairly easy to overcome.  Other times the challenges have been enormous, even beyond my comprehension to fully grasp. What I do know is this: despite frustrations, Morgan persists and remains cheerful.  She has met her life’s challenges with grace, open-heartedness and an indomitable spirit.

 Morgan just plain exudes goodness and spunk.  Here is a real life example:

Morgan comes to our house, teams up with my daughter, takes over my kitchen, makes a huge mess (uh oh), creates dinner for 5 plus a yummy dessert, then cleans-up the kitchen (yeah!).

This shows Morgan can take action, follow a recipe, create independently and be considerate.

The world is a better place with Morgan in it and I have no doubt Morgan’s doggie will be showered with love just as we have been in her presence.

Sincerely,

Sonia Story

We love you Morgan!!!!!
Love The Story Family
Rob, Sonia, Lili and Rio 

Blessing

June 29, 2015

I first met Morgan in the summer of 2014. She and I had a lot of phone conversations in anticipation of her arrival to Scripps College in Claremont, CA. From the first-time that I spoke with Morgan on the phone, I knew she was so special; her grace and spirit infused the conversation.  

Once Morgan arrived on campus I had the priviledge of working with her very closely over the course of the academic year.  Reflecting on the various interactions I had with Morgan; what stands out the most is her effervescent optimistic attitude.  I appreciated so much Morgan’s smile, willingness to look on the bright side of all situations, and unwavering can-do spirit.  She inspired everyone around her to experience life with gusto and examine the nuances of life for the sliverlining. Above all, Morgan was the most grateful and kind human being I ever met. Her beautiful nature drew people in. 

One of the fondest memories I have of Morgan is seeing the sheer thrill on her face when she participated in the official Scripps book signing event at Matriculation Dinner with her incoming first-year cohort. I think for Morgan this momentous occasion cemented her connection to the campus and helped her realize her dream to finally attend Scripps after having put her plans on hold for so long.  From that day on, Morgan told to me often how thankful she was to be at Scripps and even more thankful for all the support. The truth is that we were lucky to have met Morgan because even though she was at Scripps for a short time, she transformed the community with her beautiful spirit. 

I am certain I am not alone when I say that it was a true priviledge to have worked with Morgan.  She was a blessing to all who got to engage with her. 

Morgan- Until we meet again… thank you for being a part of my life.  You are so dearly missed and so greatly cherished.

Sincerely,
Sonia

Morgan Malkavich “Pays It Forward”

June 2, 2015

Morgan Malkovich, a fourteen year old young woman from Kula, was born with Klippel Tranauny Syndrome, which only allows limited use of her legs. Even so, she has always had a positive outlook on life and has been very thoughtful in helping others. An example of this is her being the top person in getting pledges for the 2004 Maui Hotel Association Charity Walk, and doing the walk in her wheelchair.

 Morgan had been home schooled by her mother Laurna until time for high school. Morgan’s dream was to attend the highly acclaimed Seabury Hall and, always thinking positive, applied to the school and was accepted. However, it became apparent that she wouldn’t be able to navigate the steep hills at the campus with her wheelchair.

 TheSchrinersHospitalhad recently given Morgan a new regular wheelchair so, as a rule, she wouldn’t qualify for a new chair from them for two years. Therefore, in February of 2007 Cathy Paxton-Haines, a mutual friend and fellow Rotarian, approached me to raise money for an electric wheelchair for Morgan so she could attend Seabury Hall.

 In one week fifteen Rotarians and three of their friends chipped in and bought Morgan a refurbished electrical powered wheel chair. With her new personal freedom and ability to navigate the Seabury campus Morgan started school with her self esteem fully in tact and was a role model for the power of positive thinking. Not only was she received by her peers as one of them, she was voted in as Freshman Class President.  Not bad for someone attending school for the first time. This speaks very highly of Morgan’s mother, as well as the very able person Morgan has become. Somehow the term “dis” just doesn’t apply to “abled” when it comes to this young woman.

 Then in November, against all odds, the Schriners came trough with a brand new power wheelchair for Morgan. This was shocking good news. Now she had two power wheelchairs. An embracement of riches? Be careful what you wish for.

 Being the person she is Morgan decided she should find a new home for her refurbished wheelchair, thereby helping improve someone else’s life as had been done for her. This is the spirit of “Paying it Forward.” Rather than just “Paying Back” the people who helped her she “Paid it Forward”, spreading the spirit of giving and helping others. As we are gifted so shall we gift. In this spirit Morgan called me, saying she wanted to find a person in need to which she could donate her extra power wheel chair.

 A few days later there was a letter to the editor in the Maui News from Deborah Converse, a special education teacher atMauiWaenaIntermediateSchoolin Kahului, with a big heart, positive attitude, and the ability to get things done.  She was seeking help in getting a power chair for one of her students, Collin Kane, a very bright twelve year old boy with very limited physical abilities. She said of Collin, “He brightens everyone’s day with his positive attitude and smiling face. This student gives 100 percent to everything he does and never gives up when facing challenges.” Yet with the use of only one arm he couldn’t even maneuver himself in his wheel chair, and with his limited ability so speak he couldn’t communicate where he wished to go.

 Collin sounded like a perfect match for Morgan to “Pay if Forward” with the gift of her power chair. I brought the letter to her attention and she was thrilled. Morgan and Lorna went to the school and met with Deborah Converse and Collin. It was very positive meeting, and the chair became a wonderful Christmas present for Collin. He now has his own power wheelchair, a new found freedom, and a smile bigger than ever.

 On the day that Morgan, Laurna, and I got together at the school with Collin’s mother, Trina Urpanil, Deborah Converse, and Jamie Yap, the school principal, there was a fire drill. For the first time Collin was able to get to the designated area under his own power. It’s evident from the picture that this was a very special and positive experience for him, which made it so for the rest of us as well.

 As we met Mr. Yap said of Morgan, “She’s Paying it Forward”, which was my exact thought. Morgan was giving Collin the gift of mobility, as was given to her. Collin, by being the appreciative conduit for her to open her heart in helping another person in need, helped her achieve her desire to pass her good fortune forward to another. Seeing the two of them together makes one focus on all the good they share in their abilities, rather than the “dis” word.

 May Morgan and her new friend Collin continue to inspire us all to Pay It Forward and spread positive energy and good will. May we all do what we can with what we have for our fellow citizens on this planet we all call home.

 

 

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