A field guide to the Fuller family tree
When Natalie was in the second grade, the class was assigned to draw a family tree for homework. She came home in a panic. "MOM!?!! How can I ever draw OUR family?!?"
So if you are puzzled by all the people sharing stories and tributes as brothers or nieces or otherwise related, here is how the Fuller forest grew so full:
Don is Natalie's and Greg's father. He lives now in Nicaragua and Big Bear, California, where ....
Traci, his oldest child and only daughter other than Natalie lives. Traci and Natalie shared the same due date: April 1 (no joke). Traci was born on April 2. Natalie was born on April 17. Guess which mother had it easier.
Traci, has a younger full brother, Andrew, and all four of these offspring have twin half-brothers, Alex and DJ. Until we decamped to Colorado, Natalie and Greg grew up with the twins, also known as "Alex" and "More Alex" because Greg, as a toddler, couldn't keep them straight and figured this would take care of both of them. DJ is married to Andrea. Alex is married to Christine.
Fullers all.
Traci has two daughters, Rebecca and Amanda, to whom Natalie was beloved "Aunt Natalie." Rebecca fulfilled one of Natalie's lifelong dreams when she went to work at Disneyland (though not as a princess).
Andrew has three children: Jessica, Ciera and Andrew. Nat and Greg always found it a hoot that Jessica was their niece but older than both of them.
I had only two children, Greg and Natalie, but I remarried after Don and I divorced. Ken Sanger did the heavy lifting of going through Nat's teens and continued to be there for her ever since, even thought we, too, divorced. That's his hunting dog, Roux, Natalie is holding in a couple photos.
Ken added more branches: Stephanie, with her husband Jon and sons Walker and Eli, who live in Sandpoint and remained part of Nat's routine life. Derek and Sam and their daughter Ellie have lived too far away for that but saw Natalie when they came to Sandpoint and remained in the loop through me. There are also Joy and Scott and their daughter, Carmen, who knew Natalie, too. Even Ken's first wife, Pat, remained part of our family life.
I have one brother, Rick, better known as "Uncle Yucky," not because he is but because that's how "Rick" came out of Greg's baby mouth. Rick is married to Suzie and has one daughter, Lori, who lives in New Zealand but met Natalie on a trip to America when the girls were teenagers. Loria has one son, Jordan (?) Gregory. The Roberts side of the family can't begin to keep up with those Fullers.
Meanwhile, back at the alter, Don married Basia, which added Jon to our family. Jon and Greg were less than two years apart, and there is no "step" between them; they were best men in each other's weddings. Jon (married to Aubrey and father of Aiden) was often a source of comfort to Nat when she was not well.
Also on the marriage front, Greg added Carole to the tree in 2008 and gave me the best daughter-in-law any mom could want. The two of them made me a grandmother last August, with the birth of Abigail, who chose the moment we learned Natalie was gone to give me her first big-time smile of recognition, bless her.
Me, I've sworn off he alter, but I live with sweet Louis, a saint in man's clothing, whom Natalie adored. To prove we really are one big connected family, Louis flew with Natalie to vacation with Don in Nicaragua two months before she died. While I worked, of course. And - last but far from least - Louis brought us his son, Anotine, a Francophone who lives in Canada but talked to Natalie by phone, and his beautiful daughter Joelle. Joelle addsher handsome fiancé Chris.
More of a family forest than a family tree, but Natalie shared life at some point - or a lot of points - with nearly every one single person I've named, and we are all bereft that we have lost her.