"You can shed tears that she is gone,
or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
or you can  be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesturday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesturday.
You can remember her only that she is gone,
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back.
Or you can do what she'd want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on."


I love you mamaw Fay and I will never forget you. You were not only my mamaw but you was my mom and my #1 best friend.I wish you were here I miss you so much. I had a baby it's a girl and i know if you were here you would be proud of me I am doing so good I  am going to go to college tio become a counselor therypist you would make a amazing great grand maw if you were here I wish I could see you one more time just to tell you I was sorry for leaving home and putting you through all the trouble I did. I am sorry and love you with every thing in me i love you mom/mamaw/friend.

You were the best women I new and when I get older i hope to be as strong of a woman as you were. I miss you yelling my middle name denise you were the only one that did yell my middle name right no one else will every be as great of a women as you. you are extremly missed i love you and will see you again and when i do i wont you to be be at the purlly gates waiting on me so i can give you the biggest hug i have never givin any one in my life i love you