September 11, 2016
September 11, 2016
In loving memory of our Mother and Grandmother In loving memory of our Mother and Grandmother
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved mother and gracious grandmother, 吳愛雲, 77, born on May 3, 1938 and passed away on September 10, 2015. We will remember her in our hearts forever.
母親於1938年5月3日出生在印尼雅加達，畢業於廣州暨南大學生物系。大學時因遇到文革，畢業後給分配到下鄉清遠工作。1970年在廣州和父親黃榮櫻結婚。於1972年和1975年旦下姐姐慧莉和我偉傑。1978年到香港生活。但很不幸，父親於1980年過世，之後母親要一個人工作並照顧一雙兒女，有時還要把工廠的工作帶回家做，生活很艱難。非常感謝母親家人愛清姨媽的幫助，才可以供養我們2個兒女讀書成長。慧莉於1989年到美國留學。為了讓我有更好的讀書環境，母親於1990年帶著我到新加坡工作，我於1994年在新加坡中學畢業後，便到美國和姐姐一同就讀大學。母親也於1995年到上海工作。每年只有一兩次和兒女有團聚的時間。2000年，因為母親年事已高，希望住在自己熟悉的環境，所以她又回到了廣州工作，直到2008年退休，退休後在廣州和美國兩邊奔跑。為了更親近兒女，母親本打算在美國常住，也於2013年在美國接受主耶穌基督並接受洗禮。但在美國時，因語言不通，水土不服，經常生病，在愛珠與愛清姨媽的建議下，母親於2013年回到上海居住。她非常喜歡上海，在上海也有好心的親戚和朋友關心和照顧她，這一年來她在上海的生活相當美滿。她本打算在上海安渡晚年，但不幸於9月6日週日，剛從印尼雅加達拜祭祖墳回來，到家後因勞累過度出現了中風跡象，立即被送入第六人民醫院進行搶救，但還是不幸於9月10日早上6:20因搶救無效離世，享年77歲。我們偉大的母親一生都為了子女奔波，現在可以安息在 天父永久的家，這也是我們的最大安慰。
聖經詩篇第4篇第 8節所說，“我必安然躺下睡覺，因為獨有你-耶和華使我安然居住”。
Notes from Children (Alex and Eva),
家属致谢 (伟杰 & 慧莉)
親愛的親戚朋友, 對於媽媽的過世我們很不捨得！對於媽媽的養育之恩，我們也只能用虧欠兩個字！回想起35年前爸爸過世我才八歲弟弟五歲，媽媽堅強的獨力撐起這個家撫養我兩成人！處處為我們着想奔波受了很多苦！神很愛媽媽，賜給她很多愛她的人！她生長在個大家庭！有十兄弟姊妹，爸爸過世後，幸有印尼的親戚関心，照顧，特別是愛清姨清姨媽對我們的照顧和裁陪我們成才，我們才能有今天安逸的生活！我們雖然沒有爸爸，但是我們成長不缺乏愛！媽媽偉大的母愛和親戚的關愛大大的填滿這個缺口！
對於媽媽的過世，實在我們很捨不得，對於她的的愛己無法回報！媽媽請妳原諒我們吧！相信媽媽最大的心願就是每個愛她的人都堅強地好好的過每一天，我和弟弟也團結和互相関心扶持好好的撫養下一代，算是對媽媽的回報，媽媽在天上也會安慰了！
雖然對媽媽很不捨，相信神很愛媽媽也給了她一個美滿的人生！苦中帶甘甜！媽媽在地上的備任已經完成！！神要接她回天家享褔了！媽媽給糖尿病折磨了十多年都晚期身體越嚟越差很是痛苦！現在媽媽安息主懷在另外一個更美好的世界和爸爸在天家相聚，不再有涙水，不再擔心我們也不用再受痛苦折磨對她來說一種解脫！媽媽這一生很堅強，打了一場美好的仗！我們為媽媽驕傲！現在和媽媽在地上的分離只是短暫的！我們活着有盼望，將來不久一定和爸爸媽媽在天家團聚! 這是神給我們的應許和恩典!
最後在此我和弟弟一家再次向各位親友表示萬分感激！在這一段生病期間對媽媽無微不至的關心和照顧。辛苦你們了！你們的愛我們非常感恩永記心中！你們的愛，安慰了我們的心，給予我們力量！讓我們擦乾眼淚，從新出發，堅強的好好過每一天，做一個對人對事盡責的人！
聖經歌林多後書四章十六至十八節: "所以我们不丧胆．外体虽然毁坏、内心却一天新似一天。我们这至暂至轻的苦楚、要为我们成就极重无比永远的荣耀。原来我们不是顾念所见的、乃是顾念所不见的．因为所见的是暂时的、所不见的是永远的"
Tributes
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September 10, 2016
September 10, 2016
Love forever! Missed forever!
September 22, 2015
September 22, 2015
Dear family & friends,
No words could ever express our appreciation for the love, guidance and support family and friends have shown to us after the passing of our beloved mother. We are deeply grateful.
This is truly a time where my faith is being tested. It has not been easy to accept the death of our mother. While I am sure that she is in a much better place, it has been difficult to let go.
Thank you for honoring our mother in such a sincere and heart-felt manner. We greatly appreciate all your loving tribute.
With Warmest Regards,
Eva & Alex
No words could ever express our appreciation for the love, guidance and support family and friends have shown to us after the passing of our beloved mother. We are deeply grateful.
This is truly a time where my faith is being tested. It has not been easy to accept the death of our mother. While I am sure that she is in a much better place, it has been difficult to let go.
Thank you for honoring our mother in such a sincere and heart-felt manner. We greatly appreciate all your loving tribute.
With Warmest Regards,
Eva & Alex
September 21, 2015
September 21, 2015
Dear Eva & Alex,
You are both strong and mature! I really know your mom is very graceful and peaceful now and forever. Her smiles and happy face will always on my mind. Remember the day we met in Hong Kong, even only an hour to chat each time. Kathy Ngan
You are both strong and mature! I really know your mom is very graceful and peaceful now and forever. Her smiles and happy face will always on my mind. Remember the day we met in Hong Kong, even only an hour to chat each time. Kathy Ngan
September 20, 2015
September 20, 2015
Dear Eva and Alex, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family. May our prayers help comfort you and hasten the journey of her soul to Heaven. Hearing about your loss has deeply saddened us, but we know that this is far from what you are going through right now. Your mom is a great and kind woman and she is always be in our hearts forever.
September 18, 2015
September 18, 2015
The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.
Paslm 23 v 1-2.
Paslm 23 v 1-2.
September 18, 2015
September 18, 2015
Dear Wong Family,
I'm sorry that you are experiencing the mourning of losing a love one. Many if not all of us has experienced this, but I would like to share a brief scripture that will may just bring you comfort.
(Revelation 21:4) And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.”
Thanks for reading.
I'm sorry that you are experiencing the mourning of losing a love one. Many if not all of us has experienced this, but I would like to share a brief scripture that will may just bring you comfort.
(Revelation 21:4) And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.”
Thanks for reading.
September 18, 2015
September 18, 2015
Dear Eva, my deepest condolences to you and your family. Your mom, Mrs Wong will be remembered forever for her sacrifice, wisdom, dedication and kindness. A pleasure to worked with her in Shanghai and a great life mentor. The Lord will keep her forever.
Desmond Lim from Vancouver, Canada
Desmond Lim from Vancouver, Canada
September 17, 2015
September 17, 2015
Our beloved mother, gracious grandmother, you are always in our hearts. Until we see you again in heaven, be at peace!
September 17, 2015
September 17, 2015
May your mom love in your heart forever!
September 17, 2015
September 17, 2015
EVA, May all the good memories offset your sorrow and May you know the peace and comfort this heartfelt thought imparts--The ones we love are never gone, they live within our hearts. God Bless you and your family.
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In loving memory of our Mother and Grandmother In loving memory of our Mother and Grandmother
September 10, 2016
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Love forever! Missed forever!
September 22, 2015
September 22, 2015
Dear family & friends,
No words could ever express our appreciation for the love, guidance and support family and friends have shown to us after the passing of our beloved mother. We are deeply grateful.
This is truly a time where my faith is being tested. It has not been easy to accept the death of our mother. While I am sure that she is in a much better place, it has been difficult to let go.
Thank you for honoring our mother in such a sincere and heart-felt manner. We greatly appreciate all your loving tribute.
With Warmest Regards,
Eva & Alex
No words could ever express our appreciation for the love, guidance and support family and friends have shown to us after the passing of our beloved mother. We are deeply grateful.
This is truly a time where my faith is being tested. It has not been easy to accept the death of our mother. While I am sure that she is in a much better place, it has been difficult to let go.
Thank you for honoring our mother in such a sincere and heart-felt manner. We greatly appreciate all your loving tribute.
With Warmest Regards,
Eva & Alex
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Mother/ Daughter Moment
September 20, 2015
by Eva Wong
Last week on 9/10/2015 my mom died. God placed her spirit gently in the palms of His hands and carried her home. I am grateful for a faith that sustains me. And for family and friends who support me. None of that changes the fact that I miss my mom. Our relationship wasn't perfect. But then, whose is? Sometimes we disappointed each other. Other times, we did each other proud. Always we looked for ways to enjoy the mother/daughter bond that was uniquely ours.
There is no right or wrong way for me to mourn my mom's passing or to honor the life she lived. There is a time to laugh and a time to weep. There is a time to mourn. This is my time to mourn.
Some days I cry because my beloved mom is no longer there to comfort me, in only the way that my mom knows how. There are days when I look for her in places I once saw her, only to remember that she's no longer there.
There are moments when I find myself angry, short tempered or even distracted because my mom is dead. Sometimes I don't even know why I'm angry. I just am. And so I accept my anger and try very hard not to take it out on my own daughter. And when I do, I apologize. And she gets it.
Some days when I think of my mom, I laugh. My mom loved to laugh, and she made others around her laugh. Thank you, Mom, for the gift of laughter. It truly is the best medicine.
"Lead me, guide me, walk beside me, help me find the way." One day I will come to accept the loss of my mom. While I will never forget her, the fresh pain of the loss of her physical presence will dull with time. And I will take comfort in my belief that I will see her again in heaven.