Dad was a very proud and indenpendent man. As head of household, he was responsible for everything and managed it quite well until mom's death in 2001. He drove his car to all of his appointments, shopping and dining out 3 times a day, usually frequenting the Kahala and Kaimuki eating places.He bought papayas for his sisters from his favorite vegetable stand in Kaimuki and delivered it to Aunties once a week. It was the most difficult decision we had to make as a family when we took away his car keys. Don't remember how it was done but it was his family physician who told us that it was for everyone's safety that he no longer drive. He was 93 years old when this happened. He'd call me and Jackie almost daily asking for his keys. It was so difficult to make an excuse as to where his keys were and the caregivers found it equally challenging to be honest with him. He finally gave up on us after a couple of years. I believe that driving his own car kept his mind alert and active. For someone his age, he was an excellent driver. Sometime after he stopped driving, I got a frantic call from his caregiver. She told me that dad almost drove off in his car that day. She said she was in the house doing chores when she heard a car start. She looked out the window and there was dad behind the wheel driving out of the garage. She rushed out and ran up to the car window, yelling " Mr Loui, where are you going? You aren't supposed to be driving. " He replied, "Who said?" She told him, "your daughters Jackie and Liz said so." He answered, "they did?" He shut off the ignition and the caregiver quickly took the keys away. What we have never figured out to this day is where he found those spare keys. We hid the original keys in a place he would not find it. Leave it up to an accountant to find something he wanted so badly. LOL. Dad can now enjoy his freedom in his new life with mom and Tim. And, drive his Toyota Camry anywhere he wants.