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May 11, 2015

On this short journey of my life, I have encountered several men, but there are very few I can comfortably call, father.  I hold precious memories of you that I will cherish for a life time.  

You, the father who chauffeured me back and forth from school, assumed parental responsibilities over me when I was just a friend to your daughter.   Through the years I have experienced your love, under your patient watch, taken bold steps into an unknown future. How could I appreciate you?

You did not hesitate to extend your shoulder for me to lean on in my darkest hour, even when you knew it was ailing and could barely support the weight of my grief. I watched you struggle to take a step, yet, you, papa, kept saying, “my daughter I am here, never feel you do not have a father.”   

How do I thank you and how do I thank God for giving me the chance to know you?

I cry, yet celebrate a life that is hard to replicate.  That you have found eternal rest, and in a beautiful place, gives me the courage to take my steps gingerly with a calm assurance that you are right here by me keeping the promise of a father.

Rest you well, papa.

Selfless

April 9, 2015

I first met Pa Abam in Denver when he came to visit his kids. Eventhough I grew up in Bamenda and heard a lot about this remarkable owner of City Chemist, I never actually visited the chemist or interact with him.
When i finally met him, I couldn't believe that the man I heard so much about growing up was so simple, unassuming and down to earth.
When I hosted the Cameroon Grand Parents visiting with their kids in denver, he and abot attended and we had a great time together.
The last time he visited Denver, his health was already giving out. daniel dropped him off at my residence and we spent a day of quality time.
Growing up in Bamenda, I heard stories about how Azire Credit Union came into being, how the pioneering work of City Chemist inspired other pharmacists in the North-west Region to set up shop as well as his political involvement with the SDF political party as its treasury for many years. This is just a dusting on the many accomplishments of an unselfish giant who touched may lives and making a difference in the lives of the multitude he touched.
Above all, PA Abam was a devout man of faith, a family man of the first calibre and he leaves behind seven biological children and a robust Abam family of grand children, brothers, sisters, cousins and nephews to celebrate his life. All that he did for family and fellow humans will all go to waist if we cannot continue his legacy by following in his foot steps. REST IN PERFECT PEACE. ADIOS AMIGO.













 

A Tribute By Derrick Abam (Nephew)

April 3, 2015

Tribute by Derrick Abam (Nephew)

We have lost a great father, leader, brother and to me, an idol in Pa Abam. "Pa for Metta Quarters" as I grew up to know him and eventually call him was an epitome of kindness and grace. He was so very soft spoken that one could miss the times when he actually meant to be stern. I could go on and on about Pa but truth is I hardly know enough to say about his long illustrious and well-lived life. To Pa: "You were always so kind to me and had the softest words of advice I could ever hear. I looked to you and saw the possibility of one day being even if just a fraction of the person you were and what you have accomplished. I don't know how you did it but in my eyes, you defeated your illness. Your demise isn't a loss but it is you again leading the way as always to go prepare another "Metta quarters" for us all. We shall meet again soon. Let the heavenly hosts have a chance to enjoy the grace of your presence." May the soul of Pa Abam rest in perfect peace. 

DERRICK ABAM (South Africa)

A Tribute by Oliver Chi Chu

April 3, 2015

A True Man of Substance Truly, when God created PA SAMUEL ABAM, He actually made someone wonderful and really special. God’s spirit in him made him honest, trust worthy, patient, caring and kind, tolerant, humble and God fearing. He was willing and availed himself for God’s use and services being there for everyone always and at all times never saying no.

His passing onto glory shocked us so much because at his age, he stood the best of time for our future. A man of substance indeed as proven in his work as a manager, treasurer ,and president with no or very little opposition mandated by the people. Emotionally, I really envision papa’s astonishing successes of his leadership, wisdom from the almighty as he rolled by divine providence. Our tears and sorrows should better stand the test of our faith for a leadership today and tomorrow.

On his sick bed, papa always greeted people even in his last strength with his very beautiful smile; this is proof of God’s love for him. He had the strength God gave Samuel to Israel as he puts his very best effort to satisfy our needs with no discrimination. His educational and professional carrier made him an architect of his leadership. He could not ever be this strong without his loving wife mama Rebecca.

He thus set the values for democracy and good governance in all the institutions he headed and in the family. Evidence seen in his predecessors like our lord mayor Mr. BALICK AWA FIDELIS, PA NDOFOR ABRAHAM just to name a few. Dear daddy, we can now only show proof and follow these same values if we create these same institutions you did in the same faith and fear of the Lord. YES WE CAN  God answered our prayers with his own best option.

ETERNAL REST. Thy will is done on earth as is done in heaven Amen. YOUR SON CHI CHU OLIVER.

A Tribute by Charles Abam (Second Child)

April 3, 2015

Dear Dad,

There are no words in any language known to man, that can sufficiently describe what you mean to me and our family. Too often, we lead easy lives, and fail to let those who matter most to us know just how much we love them. We simply take for granted the sacrifices they make for us and forget to thank them. Today, I want to acknowledge how much your love and self-sacrifices have meant to me. 

Papa, words cannot describe how much I love and appreciate you. The reasons I need to show my gratitude to you are innumerable to be listed, but I’ll try.

Firstly, I thank the good Lord for blessing us with the gift of life so we can have this opportunity to pay our deepest homage to you. You worked hard and paved the way to provide and build up our family, so that our lives could be smooth. We never wanted for anything because of your generosity. Who and what we have become today is the result of your tireless struggles and your unconditional love.

 Thank you for teaching us what being a loving father is about. We stand here today as a family to salute you for your greatness. Your kind, gentle and thoughtful ways are the galvanizing element that had cemented the family bond to keep us strong, and upstanding citizens of the world. 

Thank you for showing us the way to the Lord. You encouraged our faith and belief by your devout and abiding love of God. You taught us the right way and we know that the way to God is the right way to live. I thank you for giving us that moral compass.

 Dad, we can hardly quantify the gifts you gave us, let alone repay you for all the things you did for us. I remain forever grateful and indebted to you for everything. You bequeathed us a legacy of love, and I promise to build on these priceless principles of kindness, love, understanding, justice and most of all, faith in God.

 I love you very much. You will be forever missed

Your son Charlie Abam

A Tribute by Pandora Ambe-Abam (Daughter In Law)

April 3, 2015

Seeing is believing and the proof of life is in living it. Papa, I am humbled to have been accepted by you into the Abam family and I have never seen a gentler soul than you. I am proud not only to call you my father-in-law, but to call you my other father as well. Thank you for being that to me.

As we celebrate you and give thanks for your live,  I pray that the almighty God will grant you peace and eternal rest.

Abot, my dear Mother, I thank God for you and for being the steady Matriarch that you have been in this family. In your quiet way you have been the back-bone and the central pillar. Thank you for accepting me as a daughter too. I am grateful. Continue to be the God-fearing woman that you are and God will always be your guide in all that you do, no matter what.

Your daughter, PANDORA S. AMBE-ABAM

A Tribute by Earl-Agwe Depass (Son In Law)

April 3, 2015

What does this son-in-law have to thank his father-in-law for? This son-in-law thanks you, for being his wife's first true love, for being an example of manhood, and for his special given name—Agwe. A girls first true love is supposed to be her father, and that you were to my Njueng Fri. I am forever grateful to you for this, because it was your fatherly love that enabled her to love and trust me. Pa, you endeared yourself to your family, your community, and your faith. Your example inspires and challenges me to be a better man every day.

Finally, many men get to name their sons, but few get to name their son-in-laws. You gave me the name Agwe, and I embrace it as if it were my birth name because I know you gave it to me with great love and perception. I promise to share the story of how you came to give me the name with my future son in-laws, in the hope that they are inspired to give the name Agwe to one of their sons too. I thank you and appreciate everything you do.

Love always EARL-AGWE DEPASS

Tribute by Atem Samson (Son-In-Law and Husband of Edith Abam-Samson)

April 3, 2015

Dear Pa,

I lost my dad at an early age, and did not have the inspiration of a father figure with maturity and wisdom until I met you.

 You were my source of inspiration and the spiritual foundation of my own household. Thank you for raising my beautiful wife Edith with in the manner that you and Ma did.

You are the ideal father in-law and role model, the dream dad for every kid, the perfect husband for every woman, the caring brother for every sibling, the ever loved grand-father.

Though not there in person on this special day to give thanks to God in your honour,  I am there in spirit as your presence is felt right here too.

 May God grant you peace and rest.

With much love.

Your son in-law

ATEM SAMSON

A Tribute by Samuel Awamunang Abam (Grand Child)

April 3, 2015

Hello Grand Pa,

I did not get to spend time with you nearly as often as I would have liked to. That does not stop me from thinking about you and Grandma every day. I work hard and try to live my life to its fullest potential in your honor. Those few years of living with you when I was younger remain to my best years till date.

As your oldest grandchild, I feel both proud to bear your name and the weight of responsibility of its import. I promise to live by your examples—taking the responsibility of looking after my younger cousins and siblings. I will show them the right way to do things and teach them the lessons that you have passed on to our parents. Your strength through these difficult times inspires me to be the best I can be because I know that is the most important lesson I have learned as a part of this family. I feel extremely lucky to be able to have a big family and always having someone to talk to in times of need. I will never forget last year during Thanksgiving in Colorado when my cousins and I spoke to you briefly and were able to see your face. I hope that brought you as much joy as it did for me.

While I am disappointed that I will not be able to visit you this year, you and Grandma will always be in my heart. Whether it’s during school or prayer you are always in my thoughts. I will continue to be a Son of God and always count my blessings because that is what you instilled in me as a child.

I understand that you can no longer be with us, but I know you will always be with us and I hope that this note finds you in good spirits. I love you more than words can describe and will continue to pray that God bless you every day.

Your Grandson,

SAMUEL AWAMUNANG ABAM
(21 years old)

A Tribute by Ijang Abam-Depass - Grand Daughter

April 3, 2015

Dear Grandpa,

Whether I am writing, working or volunteering, I am always searching for the good that I can do for others. It is no mystery that this is a trait that is imbedded in my DNA, most certainly a justice-driven spirit inherited from my ancestry. Like you, I strive to spread equality amongst a diverse community. Night and day, I set my goals to success; most importantly, to put a smile on someone's face and make them happy. All your life, you have always been that way, and I am proud to have inherited these noble traits from you—which you passed unto me through my amazing mother. Sadly, you cannot provide me with the essential needed for success because you have passed. I know that up in heaven, you will always help me and guide me to the right path. I struggle to find the right words to thank you, so here’s a little poem of gratitude I composed just for you and Grandma.

    An ode to my Grandparents

How do you do it—it’s a wonder On planet earth you sowed seven seeds, And fifteen seedlings sprouted from your hands. I can’t say I’ve had enough time with you. But I always feel your love and presence too, As one of your teachings to your kin, For the love of God we must not sin. I struggle with the right words to tell you thanks For all you are to me—could fill ten banks For my mother and all things African in me. I feel blessed, as an addition to your legacy I take pride and comfort in all you do Grandpa and Grandma Abbot, I send my love to you. 

 IJANG ABAM-DEPASS
(17 years old)

A Tribute by BeNgum Abam-Depass - Grand Daugther

April 3, 2015

Grandma and Grandpa,

Ever since the day I was born, you have showered me with love and kindness. You remain the people I believe in, as well as people I depend on. Grandma, our most cherished memories involve you. You have so many talents, gifts and abilities, which you freely share. You have always made each of us feel so special and so loved. You sewed dresses for us, assembled puzzles with us, and made sure that my sisters and I were richly nourished physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Grandpa, my fondest moments are when I visited you and Grandma in Bamenda. The two of us would sit down for our meals, and converse about school, and life in the village. You took me to the pharmacy, and my first internet café. Moments like those are priceless—I will never forget.

It is very important for me that you know how grateful and blessed I am, for all that you have given to me, for all that you have taught me, and for the strength I will always have, because of you, Grandma and Grandpa. I love you both unconditionally and I will miss you grandpa.

Your Granddaughter BeNgum
(16 years old)

A Tribute by Mpeh Keng Ntantang - Grand Daughter

April 2, 2015

Dear Grandma and Grandpa,

At a very young age, I noticed I had two grandmothers and only one grandfather. And it wasn’t until a couple years ago when I found out that my other grandfather died when my father was seventeen. The idea of never having the opportunity to meet him depressed me. That’s when I learned that I had to be appreciative of everything I have.

You both taught me to be more respectful, loving, and appreciative. I love how you both made sure I was doing well at school and working hard. You told me that as long as I worked hard, I could be anything I wanted to be. We shared very special times in Bamenda. I remember sitting on Grandma’s lap and she would cuddle and comforted me. I also remember eating breakfast with Grandpa and talking about school with him.

The most important thing I’ve ever learned is never to take family for granted. Without family, you have nothing. And every second I spent with you I felt our familial bond grow stronger. You’ve showed me guidance throughout my entire life and helped me become that the person I am today. I love you both so dearly and I will cherish every moment I share with you. With all the love in my heart,

MPEH KENG NTANTANG (Age 14.5)

A Tribute by Julian Amunu Jing Abam - Grand Son

April 2, 2015

Dear Grandpa,

It is more than a blessing to be able to call you my grandfather.  Ever since I was young, you were always there to take care of my cousins and me, and to raise us under the wing of Jesus. Without your help, we would not be as successful as we are.

Every day we are thankful for all that you did for us through our parents. Thank you for the strong sense of right and wrong that you imbibed in my dad, for our Christian values, and the love of God. The blessings that you have bestowed upon him have been effective in creating a loving family and I am grateful for that.

I remember when we used to walk to the mall and the playground near our house. I remember holding your hand and just enjoying the times that we had together. It is really heart-warming to know that I was even able to help you in taking a small action like that. It just shows the great example that you have passed down to me.

I also remember when we used to walk to the park and you and daddy would watch my sister and I play. Thank you for being there in watching and assisting in our growth. I want you to know that we will always love you unconditionally. I feel extremely grateful and blessed to have had you in my life and would be no where without the help and support you have provided our family. Thank you so much for lavishing us with blessings. Sincerely,

AJ ABAM (14.5 years old)

A Tribute by Wilma Ambang Abam-DePass - Granddaughter

April 2, 2015

Dear Grandma and Grandpa, I miss you all so much! We have had so many fond memories together but sadly, we cannot have any more. I loved it when you both told stories about the time when you were younger and the funny things you did. I really enjoyed the time spent with you grandpa, when I came to see you last year.

I also really enjoyed the time I spent with grandma, when she came to our house a few years back. Thank you so much grandma and grandpa for everything you have done not only for me but for the whole family. I love you so much and I hope to see you all soon! You have both touched so many lives including mine, influenced not only your children, but your children’s children. 

You have sacrificed a lot so that your children can have a better life, and I want to thank you for that because I would not be standing here if you didn’t. I know that grandpa is looking down on all of us with a big smile on face praising god and saying, “lord thank you for blessing me with such an amazing family.” Grandpa you mean the world to me and I am very honored to call you my grandfather. 

Lots of Love, from your Granddaughter,

WILMA AMBANG ABAM-DEPASS
(Age: 13.5)

A Tribute by Brianna Mah Keng Ndongwa Abam - Grand Daughter

April 2, 2015

Dear Grandpa,

I first want to start by saying thank you for teaching my father how to be loving, caring, compassionate, and considerate. The attributes that you have given to him not only help him to be a wonderful father, but they also help A.J. and I understand what a remarkable parent looks like. I also want to thank you for accepting my mom into the family, because without you doing that I would not even be here today. Grandpa, the love that you showed to this family cannot be counted. It meant a lot to me when you came to America to see me when I was little (even though I was not able to show my gratitude) and whenever I heard your voice on the phone, it brought me peace and joy to know that God is with you, and always will be. I prayed for you, Grandpa. I always prayed for your welfare and health. I prayed that you will always know that there are people everywhere that you made an impact on who cared about you. I am one of those people who really cared about you. When you made my parents happy, you made me happy. The thought of your kind smile will forever bring me happiness. Thank you for all the memories. I am blessed to have had someone like you in my life.

Rest in peace with lots of Love, from your Granddaughter,

Brianna M. N. K. Abam (13.5 years old)

A Tribute by Akinge Tibi Ntantang (Grand son)

April 2, 2015

Dear Grandpa,

At a young age, I got to see you frequently and those are some of my favorite memories. You were a very kind, strong and touching mentor. When we visited Bamenda, and I saw you not doing too well, it gave me a pain and almost made me cry. I prayed every day that you get better. When I heard that you passed away, my heart sank and I was very sad. You and Grandma are great gifts from God and you love all of us very much! I love you; I will miss you very much, and pray for your soul to rest in peace.

Akinge Tibi Ntantang (A.T.)
(12.5 years old)

 

A Tribute from Belani Agwa Abam - Grandgaughter

April 2, 2015

Dear grandpa and grandma,

Thank you for taking care of me when I was born and also for paying us a special visit to spend time with us. I hope you had a fun time in New Jersey with us and I hope you and everyone else are doing fine.

Grandpa I’m really going to miss you as you go up in heaven, but I know you’re protecting and watching over me. Love you,

Agwa (9 years old)

A Tribute by Aria Ena Abam - Grand Daughter

April 2, 2015
Dear Grandpa,

I really wish I can visit you in heaven, but I can’t. Make sure God takes good care of you while you’re away. I really miss you.

Don't worry I will write you a letter every day.

Love,  Ena
(8.5 years old)

A Tribute from Jackie Takere-Abam - Daughter-In-Law

April 2, 2015

Dear Papa,

Since you were a man of few words, I will make it very short. I always express to friends and family how lucky and blessed I am to be married into the Abam family, and you have been very instrumental in my union with Charlie. You displayed so many qualities worthy of emulation, your selfless dedication and unwavering support to your family can’t be replicated. You had such a kind and gentle spirit which created ripples within your family especially your children. You should rest assured that you raised seven great children in which you instilled in them to be individuals of substance and humility instead of flash and bravado as expressed in their cohesiveness which is hard to find. This will make a father very proud.

You were not just a man of power, character and relentless drive, most importantly a man of God. You were his servant and steward, and in him you were not only molded but you were melted. Charlie and I will make sure Sydney and Aria are brought up in that light.

We love you but God loves you more, you lived a great and wonderful life and we thank God. May you rest in perfect peace.

Love always, Anim

Tribute by Sydney Abam (Grand Daughter)

April 2, 2015

Dear Grandpa,

I know I really didn't get to see you that often because I have not had a chance to go to Cameroon and see you and Grandma. I promise I will always pray for you every morning and night. Make sure God takes care of and tries to heal you.

Love,                                                                                                                           

Angwi (10.5 years old)

Tribute by Donald Ngundam - The Renouned Pharmacist S.A. Abam": A classical Gentleman of the First Order.

April 2, 2015

My first real encounter with Pharmacist S.A.Abam was in the last quarter of 1979,about early October or there about. Having then  just arrived back  home from Washington D.C.,USA  at the age of thirty five(35) years old as a Registered Pharmacist and had successfully filed in my application to occupy the lone community pharmacy site that was vacant in the old town of Victoria at the time and today Limbe,Pharmacist Abam in his traditional style,was the only one in the entire Republic who was ready with "ARMS WIDE OPEN" to embrace me and welcome me to sit down with him at the prestigious  Bamenda based "CITY CHEMIST", as an "ASSISTANT PHARMACIST" and to  work with him for as long as it was going to take for me to get my approval signed by the President of the Republic and if I had also found the initial business capital to kick start "DONANGU PHARMACY" in Victoria.

That was the begining  of a  "HITCH-FREE" father-son  relationship that has lasted these almost  thirty five  and a half years until the old man's passing away into glory about a forthnight ago.

True to the TITLE of my story: " PHARMACIST S. A. ABAM"; A Classical Gentleman of the First Order,PA S.A. Abam,Pharmacist S.A. Abam,and Doyen and/or Veteran  S. A. Abam was not even one trillionth of a degree deficient in meriting this title. I stand to be corrected or challenged by anyone out there  in this entire universe who holds a contrary opinion from mine or who had a different experience of the patriarch Abam from mine which is in the negative.

I am saying that I personally lived and experienced a close and intimate Professional and Social lifestyle with PA Abam which is compared to none other I have observed under the sun in my three secore years plus eleven and a half on our planet earth

PA Abam,proudly leaves behind a "BEFITTING LEGACY" to be  emulated,as far as I am concerned. And I am not talking about wealth or material belongings as the world knows it. No! No! No! I do not know what your concept of a " Befitting Legacy" might be, but the PA ABAM whom I knew as  and called a "Father" in our private relationship and as a "Mentor" in our Professional/Public relationship was characterized by a very "Gentle Humility' in the similitude and/or prototype only to that of our Lord  and Redeemer Jesus Christ.

First and foremost,what I learnt from PA Abam and I am fully persuaded that all true friends and family members and acquaintances of his will agree with me, is that he did in earnest " Fight the Good Fight". At the advent of his departure he had already attained the age of full maturiy and adulthood in the Spirit.And that is to say that he understood the Master's Teaching very well and knew that as one of the branches on the main tree, he was  to stay glued to the Main trunk of "THE VINE" and by so doing did bear veritable FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT,namely;

1.LOVE; 2.KINDNESS 3.GENTLENESS; 4.GOODNESS 5.TRUSTWORTHINESS 6.SELFLESSNESS 7.HUMILITY 8.PEACEFULNESS 9.JUSTICE and IMPARTIALITy,and much,much more.

In all of these, PA Abam remained focused. "FOCUS!","FOCUS!", "FOCUS!". "INSPIRATIONAL FOCUS",which is the hallmark and an element of a "Winning Mind" is one legacy this generation should copy from PA Abam,not what he acquired materially,since he himself did not focus on materialism.

PA Abam stayed "FOCUSED" on the very essence of life,which is "LIFE ETERNAL" in the awaited Eternal Kingdom of God at Eternity. What about you and I?As we all look forward to rallying together on April 10th to give PA Abam the befitting burial that he deserves, let us begin to focus our minds on what by him is most essential for us.That is to say we must each ask ourselves the crucial question: "Where  shall I spend eternity?" And because, I, this writer know for a fact that PA Abam had chosen he would spend eternity in "PARADISED HEAVEN" with all the other departed saints together wit our Lord, and because I sincerely want to meet PA Abam again after " My Hereafter", I,will follow his footsteps and walk with Christ leading me to enternity. How about you?

Let's do justice to PA Abam,if we had learnt anything from him at all.Be Guided by His Legacy,which is characterized by UPRIGHTNESS, RIGHTEOUSNESS ,HUMILITY and OBEDIENCE to the Master's Will. Only then can we be sure we shall see him on that promised resurrection day. Yes, there is a sure resurrection day.  ou better believe it Take just a few miutes and read ( I Thessalonians 4: 13-16}

And for PA Abam,let us not mourn like pagans his departure,but to joyously look forward to meeting him again on the resurrection when Christ will return.

Remain Richly Blessed.

Donald Achiri Ngundam

Pharmacist/Chairman-CEO GPN,SARL B.P.1828,Yaounde Cameroon +237 69977 0799 +237 67909 4886 Email:donangupharma@yahoo.com gpncameroon@yahoo.co.uk

A Tribute by Stella Abam - Final Farewell

April 2, 2015

Dearest Papa,

You will forever be missed. Writing this acknowledgment is the hardest task I have hard to undertake since the death of my dad, Pa Elias Fombang Abam three years ago. Although I knew this day was coming, I never imaged it was this soon and the impact it was going to have on me.  Given the genuine love and closeness that existed between you and my dad your younger brother, you became the only live image of him that existed which I held on to strongly.

The pill and the pain of death is difficult to swallow however, knowing that your ordained purpose on earth is successfully accomplished as evidenced through your legacy of love for another and you both resting and living in the Lord makes the pain easier and bearable.  Both of you were the perfect example of love, unity, peace, and respect amongst siblings and families. I remembered you being in Cameroon and my dad in the United Stated of America for treatment, he would make numerous weekly phone calls to you just to know how you were doing. You asked me what the doctors were saying and doing regarding his ailing health. You were very concerned and worried about him, I reassured you that, he was doing well and I was going to do all within my knowledge and capacity to make sure he was taken care of and given the best of what our health care system has to offer.  From you tone of voice after my response, I felt and heard a sign of relieve within you. Your final words to me on that day were “take good care of him and let me know what the doctors say.” Your concerns and actions demonstrated unconditional love for your brother and how families should take care of each other. Since then, I had developed a much profound admiration for you because of your actions. I pray that with God in me and me in Him I will live by the examples of you and Pa Elias.

I remembered you visiting me in Houston after the birth of my precious baby Jayden. How delighted it was having you live with me and I watching you try to keep up with my dancing moves during a house party I organized for you.  You made the crowd laughed and were able to see the fun side of you.  As we drove around town, you noticed I kept turning my head behind while driving in an attempt to make sure my blind spot was clear. You picked up on my actions and had some safety concerns. You immediately brought the poor driving technique to my attention and corrected it right away which resulted in me being a safer driver today. Thanks to your feedback and encouragement.

As one of the most important men in my life, you influenced the dynamic woman that I am today by trusting and believing in me. Your smile and reassurance through your soft spoken words gave me confidence and allowed me to be myself and the daughter that I am. Like my dad, you were my friend.  I felt very comfortable around you at any given time and could talk to you about any concerns.  You were a good listener, nonjudgmental and very welcoming.  You had no doubts in me whatsoever. As your health became more fragile and vulnerable, you trusted and allowed me hold your hand and guide you as we walked down the rugged terrain in the village. You were speechless, knowledgeable but very involved in every aspect of the planning of the activities of your younger brother’s death celebration and showed confidence in my decision.  I was blessed to have you by me every step of the way.

Papa no words can really express what I think of you as my father but I must appreciate our Father in heaven for the countless blessings bestowed onto us the Abam’s family. It is excruciatingly painful knowing that we will no longer see your body but one thing is for certain, your spirit will forever be present with us and now I can find peace and closure knowing that two brothers (Papa Samuel & PA Elias Abam) who loved and cherished each other deeply are reunited with God through Jesus in heaven.

Amen, Amen and Amen!!!

Stella Abam

A Tribute by Malo Abam - Daughter in Law - God bless you and keep you in His care until we meet again

April 2, 2015

Dear father,

 I do not know at this point in time how to express my gratitude and appreciation for being a part of your wonderful family. Unfortunately the good Lord could not give you so much time for the kids to come visit you again as grownups. I would say the short time we shared with you in December gave us a lot of reflexion to our own lives. As it is said ''we cannot determine our destiny but our good Lord''.

For the eight years I have known you, you have not only been a father in law to me but a father as well. It is said that good things (people) don’t last and I will say you are a true example of this . My heart bleeds that I would not be there in person to celebrate the last moments with the rest of the family but in spirit, I will be there.

It is always so hard to lose such a humble, honest and GOD fearing person whom you can lean on in times of trials and tribulations. All I would hope is that wherever you are, you are in good hands and may the good Lord continue to take care of you.

 Papa may your soul rest in perfect peace.

 Malozeh Abam


  

A Tribute by Ephraim Abam - First Child

April 2, 2015

Dear Dad,

I am the man I am today because of the kind of father that you were. I have big boots to fill, not because of the size of your feet, but because of the immensity of your stature.

Dad, you are, and will always be my hero, and I had never have to look beyond you for inspiration. You were a quiet gentleman—not physically big, but a giant in many other ways—especially in character and achievements! From your parenting style to your work ethics, you instilled in us sound values to carry forward into the world— grounded in firm Christian beliefs which today shape our characters, our aspirations and ideals which I am proud to pass onto my children.  These are: Honesty in all I do, Kindness to friends, family and strangers, Respect for all persons irrespective of origins, Treating everyone as equals, A sense of fairness and justice and how to be nice to people, Respect for women and children, Your gentle ways that made you approachable by everyone, and having an unimpeachable integrity.

These are the fundamental values you embodied—which endeared you to many, and made you a reliable pillar of the community. Your most precious gift to me; beside the care and concern, is that you introduced me to God—through your staunch belief in a higher power. You put us the children on the right path for spiritual fulfillment.

You motivated and inspired me to be a strong parent from your own parenting style. You taught me how to build a lasting and strong bond with family. So, I thank you, dad, for allowing me to build upon your model of fatherhood, one that works for our family.

My mother’s efforts also need to be commended. By staying strong, smart, and thoughtful also eases the magnitude of dad being a leader in our family. I give her my sincere thanks too.

Whenever I think of you dad, I realize how lucky I am. Dad you were a person of influence. Your influence has been most profound in my life and the lives of many other others—including a wide community outside the family confines.

Some of your traits that stand out for me are your  faith in God, your gentle disposition, your positive attitude towards everyone, your untainted integrity, honesty, respectful, trust worthy, kind, humility, love of family; I can go on and on.

You always did your best to instill these traits in me from when I was very little.  You encouraged me with positive feedback and telling me that nothing was impossible. You asked me to always treat everyone with courtesy and fairness, regardless.

Ntamulung Church, Azire Credit Union, Mecuda, BADA, PTAs and so many other associations always nominated you to be treasurer because of your trust worthiness. Your kind and unwavering positive attitude was an uplifting element that changed the lives of many around you. Anyone who has worked with you, even for a short while, has always commented on how positive and easy going you are.

Dad, your quiet and gentle ways meant that you always had a ready ear to listen. You listen to what everyone had to say without prejudice or judgment. You took a genuine interest in what goes on in the lives of others, ensuring that you provided the necessary assistance where possible—be it financial, or otherwise, you always offered the best remedy that you could. Dad, your humility is another quality that I have tried to emulate. You taught me that there is greatness in being humble. You were very accepting, reassuring, and encouraging—enabling us to be something of ourselves and encouraging us to be the best we can be.

Dear dad, you also gave me the tools for survival and success, even when I was not on my best behavior. When I would go off on some wild tangent and say things I should not have said, or gotten in trouble, you were still there with a kind and forgiving word of admonition.

A typical example of dad’s calm disposition was played out two days before my departure to the United States for this first time. One of dad’s friends stopped by and suggested that I should be sent to Nigeria for further studies instead. I was very upset with dad that he not only entertained the discussion with this friend, but he did not show any anger towards the friend or reprimand him for meddling. I wanted dad to tell his friend off, to mind his own business. When his friend left, I was frothing and I told dad that if I didn’t go to America, I was never going to school ever again. In fact, I made a right sulking nuisance of myself. But with his calm demeanor, dad quietly told me not to worry. He just advised me with these words, “When you get to America, just study hard and try to do well in college.”  What was I thinking????

Dad you taught me a valuable lesson in patience and diplomacy. You made me to understand the value of being thoughtful in everything I do, and not to be rash in my actions or judgments.

I also remember when I was in high school and saw my other friends driving their dad’s car in Bamenda. Juvenile peer pressure kicked in and, I asked dad if he could register me at a driving school so that I too could learn how to drive. Dad asked me why I wanted to learn how to drive at such a young age, and my reason was that, if there was an emergency, and he was not home, I could drive to the hospital. Dad said to me, son, “don’t worry, when time comes for you to learn how to drive, you will drive, but now is not the time.”

I may not have appreciated or readily accepted these words of wisdom then. But as I grew older, dad, your wise counsel has been my guide, my source of strength—my support. I look up to you now with loving trust and pride. Yours has been the strong hand that held mine and led the way.  You were my helper and my greatest adviser.

You showed me the stars and taught me how to reach them. You taught me a great deal about the yings and the yangs of life. You taught me that the road to success can be very rough, but to always remember that it doesn't matter how rough that road gets, all that matters is the destination. You always provided for us the children with the necessities in life: food, clothing, shelter, and so much more. You have given us so much, including the most important thing in the world; love. Love for each other and love of God.

Dad, the examples you set provided the steppingstones I needed to achieve my goals. The things that you have done for me, as your son are incalculable; I often wonder how I can begin to repay you.

Father, you gave me the greatest gift a father can give a son; you loved and believed in me. By your actions dad, I learned to do what is right. You imprinted very high moral standards and personal responsibility in us. You taught me about compassion and respect for life. You did not only give me education you taught me the value of education, and how to make the right call.  You taught me the virtues of hard work, and the meaning of love of family. You do this by being a nurturing father, a hard and diligent worker, and a loving parent.

In a brief discussion with you, during your last visit to the United States, you reminisced as you told me a bit about your career growth from a poor boy in Bamenda to a very successful businessman. You overcame many obstacles and accomplished a great deal through the grit of hard work. That is one of the reasons why I am proud of what you have done. I, in particular, had the benefit of your success, and I hope to emulate you someday, and that my own children would say the same thing of me.

The older I get, the better I understand you; father because I find more and more of you in myself. Dad, you taught me to care for people, to care for family, to keep learning, and to hold lofty beliefs and to live by them. When my first marriage failed, I had already learned that fatherhood was much more than writing a check—it is a lifetime commitment. You have never given up on us father—you taught us not to abandon our children. What I learned from my up-bringing is to be present in my children’s lives, and to make sure they feel my presence.

Although you have gone to be with The Lord, time has not diminished your presence in my life. You were the best father any child could wish. You made me to realize that no matter what difficulties we face—we must accept these tests and obstacles as part of life. As long as we hold firm to our beliefs and our values, our lives will be meaningful and successful. I am privileged to have a great mentor whom I am lucky to call dad.

Dear Dad, you have gone home now to be with The Lord, guided by your faith and by the light of those you have loved and lost. You are now with them, leaving us behind not only to grief your passing with beautiful memories, but also to celebrate the life of a father like no other. As you go ahead, know that the passage of time will never heal the tragic memory of your loss. I want to say, thank you for being the best father I could ever wish for my own children and my siblings. We will carry on your legacy because you would want us to, and The Lord will shine His light to guide us through, until we meet again. May God bless you, and may you rest in eternal peace.

With lots of love and respect,

Your son, Ephraim

A Tribute to my Husband by Ma Rebecca Abam

April 2, 2015

My best Friend, my husband, my companion, my counselor, my soul mate, the names are so many because you meant everything to me. I can’t believe that you are no more. It is hard to accept that I have not touched you for some time now. Pa, did you travel to come back? Have you gone to see the children and grandchildren? When will you come back? You know I am still looking and waiting to see you. But our God says: we should not question His decisions because His ways are not our ways, neither are His thoughts our thoughts. Pa since you decided to leave me on the date of our wedding 13th, all I have to do is to thank the Lord for what His has done. We thank you Lord for the Life of a great husband, father and grandfather and also a benefactor of many.

Though Pa left us in his ripe old age, his life seemed to be so short because I least expected that my only companion will leave me so soon. Pa you lived a quiet good life, you spoke little, but listened much to everyone who came to you. You were so good to many, so may your good deeds take you to your final resting place. Rev. 14:13, “Happy are those who from now on die in the service of the Lord, Yes indeed!” answers the Spirit, “They will enjoy rest from their hard work, because the results of their service go with them.”

 May your soul rest in perfect peace.

 I will always love you.

 Your wife, best friend and soul mate Rebecca

A Tribute by Dan Abam - Third Child

April 1, 2015

Dear Dad,

As l was about to write this tribute, I was struck by a profound thought: How can a few words do justice to the outpouring emotions I feel about you- for all of the years of love, protection and support that you gave me, my brothers Ephraim, Charlie, Abi, John—and my sisters Edith and Maggie? I pray my tribute to you is that the decisions and actions of my life proclaim the lessons of love, patience, humility and gratitude you worked tirelessly to teach me and my siblings.

Before l start, I want to thank my mother, Abot, for being the unshaken pillar of strength behind you. I always knew the love she had for me, my brothers and sisters. Her selfless dedication to the well-being of our family is a mark of her unflapping character. It is with the same unflinching dedication that she carries her wifely responsibilities towards you, dad - quietly standing by you, encouraging you, loving you and working with you to build a strong foundation for our family. As the years went by, and you became frail, Abot stepped up to the plate even as she battled arthritis. The gentle manner with which she cleaned your face, tireless efforts to adjust your bed covers and the constant trips back and forth to the bathroom with you, daddy, were demonstrations of her enduring love and support, and I cannot say enough THANK YOUs to AUBIE Abot!!

There are so many things I'd like to say to you. I hope in this letter, you will find, at least in parts those feelings of unbridled joy that the passing years have left in my heart for you. I cherish these memories of my childhood days, and all that you did to make our home fun, warm and a happy place to grow up in.

 Growing up, you always made me feel special. I had a profound sense of security knowing that my health, education, comfort and general well-being were your top priority. Although l did not understand what all these things meant at the time, or how they came about, I felt secure because you were there. I took it all for granted and assumed you had to do what you did to ensure that our lives were smooth.

 When l was a boy, you encouraged me and my siblings to take our daily vitamins. You rewarded us with praises and gifts. As l grew older, you continued to provide my financial needs— providing me with pocket money for school, public events and holiday camps at the Church Center in Bamenda. When l went to Lycée Molyko away from home, you opted to open an account for me at the Post Office in Buea. In my fourth year in Lycée Molyko, when l raised my financial needs, you discussed and addressed the “extra” expense items with great understanding and love without raising your voice or making me feel bad about it.  Somehow in the canyons of my mind, these little kindnesses from you have remained forever logged, to be recalled whenever I think of you.

 In my teenage years, and the onset of juvenile delinquency, which meant that I was becoming very image-conscious, you helped boost my confidence whenever you paid me a compliment. Whenever you did it, it was from a genuine place and I knew it was honest. 

When l graduated from High School and was getting ready to leave the house for studies abroad, you had the foresight to send me to a Driving School in Small Mankon—a decision which proved to have a big impact in my life, as I was stepping into an alien world where I will have to fit in directly with my peers.

Your choices in life serve as a template for me as a man. Education is big in your world, dad. And in that respect, you were the backbone for me and my siblings, by sending us to the best schools and encouraging us to aim for the best.  You also instilled in us your Christian values—encouraging us to walk with the Lord in everything we do.

When I got married, you instantly pulled in my wife Carole into the family as another daughter. You completely embraced her and her family with the same love and care you provided us over the years. You taught me how to treat a wife. Your love and care for mum set the standard for us your children on how best to live with a spouse. I can only try to emulate your example and feel grateful.

 After AJ and Brianna were born, you came to Denver to meet them, carry them, love them and support them in their respective baptisms. I model my parenting style on how you and Abot raised us. When I find myself in a difficult situation as a parent or wondering how to handle something with the kids, I think back and reflect on my upbringing to how you could have reacted. Often that helps me find the answer or helps me put things in perspective. I could not be more grateful to the Lord that AJ and Brianna grew up to know you. What a blessing!

 As an adult, I turned to you in different ways for advice and support. Your diplomatic skills inspired me. You were the person I wanted to call when I had a business decisions to make, the person I wanted to refer to for negotiating tips and investment opportunities. I valued your input and experience, and I always wanted to know your opinions before l made critical decisions—as your counsel was always spot on.

When I look back on my childhood years, I feel nothing but gratitude and love. Thank you for working so hard and giving me and the rest of our family a good life. I always knew I was loved. You and Abbott gave us the gift of confidence, self-love, love for family, love for others and above all, the love for Christ. You taught us to give, and to keep giving without expecting anything back. These are invaluable lessons no matter where we go in life. I thank you.

 I am grateful to you for building a solid, happy family for us based on high moral standards, grounded in sound Christian values. Thank you for teaching me the importance of setting goals for myself and working towards achieving them. You learned from your mistakes and taught us how to avoid them. Thank you dad for everything—for helping me to become a man that can stand on his own feet. As a child, I may have occasionally strayed against the boundaries and limitations you placed for our own good. I want to apologize for all the trouble I might have caused, and will like to say that now; I know what you went through as a father. I learned from your kindness how to treat erring children.

 I thank God for blessing me and my family with the best Daddy in the world.

I love you Daddy.

Rest in peace.

Dan.

Rest in the Peace of Christ!

March 31, 2015

Dear Daddy Abam,

So sad that I never got the chance to meet you in person but your good works I'm very familiar with. Growing up as a little daddy's girl ,my dad (Donald A Ngundam) talked with so much respect,awe and love for you, and how you so lovingly took him in and mentored, assisted and pushed him in his career path and even in life . To him you were not only a mentor, friend, fellow colleague but also a father. Funny enough, many years down the line that special love bond you so shared with him, I now share so deeply with your son John. This goes to prove that the genuine true love of God that can exist between two men can live on through generations to come. When I look at John, I imagine  how selfless and kind hearted you must have been, he exhibits selflessness, generosity, patience and love so abounding amongst other things. For this very reason, Dear Papa I want to thank you for raising such a Godfearing young man for me, my prayer is that may we continue to carry on your great legacy as you watch over us from way above. May your good works be forever remembered. Rest in peace in the bosom of our Lord and Saviour JESUS CHRIST.

Much love and God bless you always even in death.

Nehawa Ngundam (John's Friend)

what a lost

March 28, 2015

my dear pa .

      i am kinda  speechless right now. i can't still beleive that you re gone.am really heart - broken  for you been gone now eventhough i know God has more better plans for you.you know i just came back from overseas operations and there we try to stay alive and we pray to God to guide our every movement.now coming back and hearing your death is hurting and breaking me down but i know God 's time is da best and he needed you by his side now.

 PA to me you were a ,father .uncle ,listener ,servant from God.to me u ll always be specail because, you are a man with a Golden heart, God fearing, Gentle, Energetic, a Visionary and a Father figure for all- a pillar that supports and holds our family together. am proud to have had you in ma life.you were tolerant and calm ,i can remember when i drove your car without your permission and when i came back you didnt even shout or scream at me.you just looked at me .i learned from that lesson in that you didnt cherish material things but loved me and wanted the best of me and you were so proud of me when you saw me in cameroon and admired ma courage and Gods blessings .

   my dear papa ,may you rest in peace and may you continue to protect and watch over us from above.know that your legacy ll live for ever and am proud to have had you in my life especailly as you were my mentor and inspirer  in every way


know that  i ll always love and miss you.thanks for all your love for me and to everyone in the family.

   Abam jacob

March 27, 2015

Olivia Nguh Komtangi (The Nguh Family)

 

On behalf of my mother Mami Deborah Nguh, my sisters and brothers ( Florence Nguh Tindong,Jacob Nguh, Priscilla Nguh, Samuel Nguh, Jonas Nguh, Kelvin Nguh) our spouses and children   we say farewell to a great person. He has been a father, and friend to all of us and he will be dearly missed. He will always be remembered and will forever remain in our hearts. We cannot be sad, for he lived his life to the fullest. Let us celebrate, for he was able to make a difference in many people’s lives. We can be sure that he is now happy wherever he is and that he will be guiding all of us for the rest of our lives. We should be happy for Papa because, he is now with our Heavenly Father. We all know that he will always be here with us, shining on us, and looking over us forever. May God bless his soul and may he rest in peace. Let us wish him a delightful journey to eternity and patiently wait for the time that we would meet him again. Goodbye to you, and when you get to heaven say hello to our Father, your brother Papa Daniel Focho Nguh.

To mami ( Abot) We thank God for the woman you are.God will continue to give you the strenght to go on each day.Your best friend is gone but know that God has you in the palm of His hand.Stay steadfast as always and remember God is alwasys on your side and to only Him we Give the Glory.

Remain Blessed.

We will Miss Papa.

March 27, 2015

            We got word that you were asleep, at peace and with the Angels. Words cannot express how we feel to have had such a great Uncle like you! From childhood to adulthood, you showered us with love; teaching us through your example the value of hard work, peace, courage, and integrity. We both remember how wonderful you were to us, taking special care when one of us was sick, ensuring we had whatever medications  needed to get feeling better. We will always remember the advice you gave us at every opportunity, and the places you and Abbott would take us from time to time. For that, we say Thank You.

 Rest now, Dearest Uncle. No words can describe our sadness; but we know your light shines on us from above. Always and forever, sending our love.

 

“The memory of a good person is a blessing.” Proverb 10:7
From NJI $ CHICK 

 

Pa Abam: The “All Round” Man!

March 24, 2015

Where do I start? From Pa Abam the Father, the Uncle, the Church Elder, the Pharmacist, the Treasurer, the Founder and CEO of the Azire Credit Union, best Credit Union in Cameroon, the Lions Club President…? The list goes on…..There are very few “all round” fathers in today’s world. We were lucky to have one in the family.

Pa Abam was a man of influence whose determination to change the world saw him grow from grass to grace, but remained a very humble man. Pa was a man with an impeccable character. He was quick to advice young people when the situation arose. In 1989 as I prepared to depart to Nigeria to embark on my undergraduate studies, Pa sat me down and had some words of wisdom which were very instrumental to my success. “My son, he said’ you are going into a big wide world with a similar but slightly different setting than Cameroon. As someone who studied in Nigeria, I can tell you it is a place where hard work pays. You will encounter certain difficulties but always think of your roots and be resilient. You will be away from family but I can assure you, we will stay with you in spirit. No matter what people might say, if you work hard and keep your head up, you will always succeed”. Throughout my 6 years in Nigeria, your voice kept reverberating in me each time I came across any difficulty. You were one of my inspirations during my days in Nigeria!

Family to you was everything. Where ever you visited, your concern for family always brought you to the door steps of your relations and friends. I remember vividly your surprised visit with Abot to our home in Heidelberg, Germany some13 years ago. During each of your visits, you emphasized the importance of hard work, family and God.

Pa, it hurts to know you are gone. I would have loved to be present as you are lowered to your final resting place.  We shall all be there in spirit. If I could inscript an epithet for you it would read:

“Here lies an accomplished but humble man, who brought happiness, peace moral and positive influence to his family, immediate community and the world”.

Pa, you did just that and were tireless in your endeavors. You came, fought the good fight and you have now retired to the Heavenly Father.

RIP, Pa, your works live on, and your words shall forever be engraved in our hearts.

Adieu!

Manga Tebit

Take Heart and Be Consoled.

March 22, 2015

I never knew how deeply I'd feel about the passing of Papa Samuel Abam, a man with an indelible strength of character, inimitable achievements and great stature, whose children have been lifelong schoolmates and friends of mine. The enormity of this loss is most poignant for me, as I was privileged to be asked to collate the family testimonies, sometime in December 2014 by the children. Pa lived a rich and full life here, and today, as he transits to the great beyond, he leaves behind an enduring and incredible legacy for which his family will forever hold their heads up with pride. His earthly sojourn just veered into a less stressful direction. My profound condolences go to the whole family. Be consoled in the knowledge that death is nature's weird manner of recycling itself, for we are all destined to one day shuffle off this mortal coil, when our duties here on earth come to full circle. May his gentle soul forever lie in peace

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March 22, 2015

Pa'a ABAM

it's difficult to realize that you are no more among us and it's more difficult for me to say something about you. Where should i start? you were my patient and I took care of you like I never do. Some can think you were blessed to have me as your doctor, but I would say I'm the one who was  blessed to have you as  ''Pa'a''.
I asked myself several time why I was so commited to you? why after all medical care given to you it was like it wasn't enough? I wanted always to do more and more. I wanted to understand? But the fact is that there's nothing to understand. How can i want to understand the ''Plan of GOD", the ''mystery of GOD's love''
Today Pa'a is no more on earth, but it will remain in my heart forever.
I said above that I was blessed to have him as  "Pa'a'', yes i was really blessed. Pa'a without knowing it taught me a great lesson of life. Just imagine that each time I saw him , when going back I was always happy. why? because since the first day i saw Pa'a till the last day, he always gave me a smile. I can't describe you the feeling i had each time he smiles with me. Some days,  Ma'a and Oliver told me that since morning Pa'a is just there, but since I came it is smiling and talking. That's why i said I was blessed to have him. He has taught me that in the life you receive more when you give.What is the best thing you can receive in life? ''LOVE".

Thank you Pa'a for the love you gave me through your smile.
May your soul rest in peace

Your Son Dr Simo

A Life Well Led!

March 21, 2015

On behalf of the Nwafor family I will wish you a great farewell! While we will miss seeing you as has often been the case during our short visits to Cameroon in the past decade, you now belong to the Angels in Heaven. Your love for family was very evident when you made it a duty that our mother/grandma got the needed pharmaceuticals to sustain her life. For that you gave me and Justine a peace of mind. Both of us being in-Laws to the Bamu family you treated us with the love that is reserved for close family. Your kindness came through naturally and with much love. We will miss all of these but you will remain the Landmark instilled in our memories and in the people you have left behind. We are glad Abot is there to carry forward the torch.

With Love: The Nwafor's - George, Justine, Georgette, Gilliane & Jenna

Pa's Brother JOE JOE

March 20, 2015

I am indeed greatful for the life that you live and the family that you bear. You lived your life like there was no life to be left. You inspired me how to approch life and my day to day duties.


Pa, you were a great teacher of the lord that will make sure that sundays was the Lord day and will take the family to church and the evening and morning prayers that we had is just like a dream and hard to think that this moment will come.


Pa, you were my mentor, if there was any certificate higher than wisdom you would have been honnor with, you had little hands but did a big work (giving) little ears lots of listinning, little hart (generousity,greacious) not only to your family but to the comminuity. I will emulate what you thought me and will forever missed you.


Eborobot.


Your little bro, Joe-Joe           

March 20, 2015

Charlie Achimbi - Nephew

PAPA

I grew up to know you as a man of faith, a man who loved God and will always do as God say. The bible say “love your neighbor as you love yourself”. You were just a perfect example of that. You showed love to all, without discrimination. You encouraged us to pray and to pray without seizing, for prayer is the key. This was exactly how you lived; always praying, shearing and showering love.

In December when I came to visit you in Bamenda, alongside others, you were so much in pain that you could not answer me when I called. But I remembered telling you that “I have come to see you and to join my brothers and sisters, to go to church the next morning to pray to God in order that you will be liberated from the pains and sickness and that after the prayers, you will be free and together we shall glorify the name of God for his goodness over your life. At that moment,   I noticed that you wanted to say something but the words would not come out. Instead it was tears that came rolling down from your eyes. Immediately, I understood that the tears you shared were tears of joy. I equally understood that you were happy about the prayers and thanks giving that your children have come to offer in your name and that we your children have understood that only prayers and thanks giving could lift you up from your sick bed and we have come to offer one. And indeed when we returned from church on that day, you were stronger than you were the day before.

PAPA, you are living us at a time when life is full of so many challenges. We would have loved you to stay, and continue to encourage us and to pray for us throughout these difficult times. But Gods time is the best.

I want you to know that, the lessons you thought us, lessons of praying without seizing, are understood and I shall stick by it. This way we shall overcome the challenges that plague the world today.

I pray that God will forgive your sins for no man is perfect, and that God will grant you a place in his heavenly kingdom. Because there you shall continue to pray and worship God, as you have always been doing.

Till we meet again, Adieu PAPA Abam Samuel

Achimbi Charles Tibi

Grand daughter Khadia Keng Abam-DePass

March 19, 2015

 

 

My grandma and grandpa are the best! You are so loving and kind. Last summer when I took a trip to the fantastic Cameroon to see you, you  took me to every place. We went to the village the market and your pharmacy it was so amazing and beautiful!

 

I know I don't get to see you both very often as I will like to, but I hope to see you soon. Whenever I come for a visit eventually I’ll never forget the moments we had together                         I love you soooo much grandma and grandpa! I miss you!

 

With all my heart love,

Your Granddaughter,

Khadia Keng Abam-DePass (Age 10.5)

 

 

 

Atem Awamunang Ntangtang Grandchild

March 19, 2015

 

Dear Grandpa and Grandma.
As I've grown over the years, every time I have had the privilege of being around you, I marvel at how you and grandma managed to raise  7 awesome children. The very same children who have grown up today and are now parents raising  children of their own, with the values you instilled in them.


I am always impressed by how much my mother tries to do everything in her power for her parents from across the world—and I know why. I've witnessed her give strict instructions on what needs to be done from so far away…, and that has really resonated with me.


Grandpa and grandma, you raised your children with the scruples to become good parents with good families. When I reflect on the standards my mother has imparted on me and my siblings, and see a similar pattern of ethics and morals in my cousins, I know that we are the mini portraits of the great job you did in instilling these ideals in them!


I feel blessed to have wonderful grandpa and grandma of such exemplary characters, and I am thankful for the times we have spent together.
God bless you always.

Love you so much!
Atem Awamunang Ntantang

 

 

                        

Nephew Albert A Nankobe

March 19, 2015

Papa Samuel Abam, you are great Dad. Anyone who knows you will always wish to be one of your children. My mother; Ma Mary Bih Abam (of blessed memory) used to tell me so.  As I grew up to become a man under your care, I came to understand just how true my mother’s words were. People used to think that my late mom was your daughter and so I could be taken as your grandson. But to me Papa Samuel Awahmunang Abam—you are a Dad, an a wonderful Dad.

 

Ever since I lost my mother, you took me under your care and I became part of the working force of the pharmacy thanks to you. The closer I worked with you at the City Chemist Pharmacy you have been a wonderful Dad to me. So I thank the Almighty God for giving us a wonderful father of the family.

The values and virtues that I uphold in life today that were taught to me by you, Pa Abam. I want to extend my profound gratitude—on behalf of my family, the Awahmunangs— to Auntie Mama Rebecca Abam who has the role of mother now in my life. I pray to the God Almighty to continue to shower His endless blessings the pair of you, Pa and Ma Abam, your Children and your Grandchildren. 

Albert Awahmunang Nankobe 

 

                     

Dad’s Nephew

March 19, 2015

 

PA,

As we fondly call you, your life is and will remain an exemplarily one. As a little boy, I looked up to you in all aspects and I thank God that I am what I am today; a good father, a good husband, a good teacher
An exemplarily worker and above all God fearing because of you.


You instilled good morals into my head. I can remember the pats my head without any harsh words but a gentle warning. You always wanted to know if I was fine, and if my answer was negative, you will give your usual instructions “meet me at the pharmacy” and while there, you will diagnose and make a prescription followed by the required medicines.


I remember how you bought me the things I wanted time again without complaining.
You were always gentle in your ways even when you were angry because of my stubbornness.
I lack the words to say thanks for all you did to me, the family and non family members. I pray to God to bestowed you with strength,. This way, we shall take care of our children and grand children, in the same way that you took care of us.


I and my family are blessed and honoured to have known you and we are proud to call you PA ABAM for you rightfully deserve it.

 

"Ti na’a bene  PA ABAM."

Achimbi Charles Tibi, Enow Priscilla Epse Achimbi, Achimbi Agwa-Ebai Harmony, Achimbi Bangan-Tabi Joshua, Achumbi Abam-Besong Emmanuel Doe
Achimbi Benenwi-Mengot Marvelous Samuels

March 19, 2015

PAPA,

As we would always call you ever since your passing away I can only hear your gentle voice in the hallway calling LINDSAY everytime I would came in to visit.It didnot matter if there where 20 people inthe house you always remembered who came in the night before the next morning.you would share your breakfast PAP with me and ask personal questions and you would return to share your evening Favourite POTATO hot pot with me.you always loved to share your plate with us and give advises and blessing. Always patient and giving a listening ear. I remember the time you took out when I got married and the time you took out when I had a health crises thanks so much for your time. You were a humble and kind hearted father. Somebody asked me I QUOTE 'Is it the Good Abam who died'.Yes Because you were indeed Good and will forever be missed. Rest in PEACE PAPA.
MRS LINDSAY FONONG née ACHIMBI

Oded Fombu Achimbi – Niece.

March 19, 2015

 

My dear Uncle, It is not for want of reason that we call you, ”Pa.” Through your love and generosity you always treated everyone, young or old as your child.  I remember with fondness, my days in school in Bamenda. You provided me with my every need.  Even when I felt shy to ask, you made it easy for us to open up and talk about our needs, by first asking and insisting.   May God continue to bless you for being who you are.  You have always been a blessing to me and the rest of the family

 

Thank you Papa

Much love from Oded.

 

 

Edwin Achimbi – Nephew

March 19, 2015

Words alone can't describe how moved, humble and proud I am of you. If anything I must say, I am truly very blessed to be your Nephew.

You continue to touch countless lives with your generosity, and random  acts of kindness. You embraced me with love and support when I felt lonely and abandoned by the world.

What really sets you apart from the rest is the fact that you are a man with a Golden heart, God fearing, Gentle, Energetic, a Visionary and a Father figure for all- a pillar that supports and holds our family together.

As I think of you my dear uncle, my mind is crowded with fond memories. Your quiet nature, and selfless, caring and understanding nature is an incredible quality to have.


Thank you for all you have done for me, the family and all who know you. I am blessed and honored to call you my uncle.
 Edwin Achimbi

 

 

                        

From Daughter-In-Law- Carole, Dan’s wife.

March 19, 2015

 

Dad,

I must say I am really privileged to write this note to you, to let you know how much I have appreciated you since I became a part of your wonderful family in 1994. Most people do not get to hear how special they have been to their kids because they write a tribute to them when they are no longer around. This is super special because you need to read and hear how much you have been a Father to me and Dan and the best grandfather to Amunu and Ndongwa.

 

I will like to first of all thank you sincerely for the raising my husband and soul-mate, Danny, whom I have been with for the past 19 years in the manner that you did. I know, Dan would not have been the awesome husband to me and the incredible father to Amunu and Ndongwa, if you had not invested so much in raising him to be a loving, caring and most of all GOD fearing man. For that I am very grateful, and I cannot thank you enough. I remember your soft and gentle voice thanking me for marrying Dan on our wedding day. I will use this opportunity to thank you in my turn for giving him to me.

 

You and Abbott have never stopped giving us advice on lessons in life. I always knew I could count on you when I faced challenges in my personal life and walk with the Lord. During your numerous visits to Denver to spend time with us, you never stopped encouraging us to draw closer to the almighty God, and I must say my faith has been strengthened because of you.

 

You have been there for all major events in the life of your grandchildren Amunu and Ndongwa. You were there soon after they were born. Their baptisms were a highlight for us because of your presence. I could see the sparkle in your eyes at church as they were being baptized. Thank you for being a hands-on grandfather to our children, for sharing your life’s lessons with them, for treasuring them and raising them the right way.

 

Every time I’ve called Cameroon, you are never too busy to take my calls. I could hear the gentle voice on the phone saying “CARO?” You are the only one that calls me by that name and I will always remember that.

 

You inspired me to become a Pharmacist. I had always wanted to be a Medical Doctor or Pharmacist. When I married into the family and met you, you described with excitement your experiences as one of the pioneer pharmacists in Cameroon, the joy and satisfaction in serving the community in partnership with other medical practitioners. That made a significant impact on me. When it was time for me to pursue graduate studies, Pharmacy School was top on my list. I remember calling you and asking what challenges you had faced as a pharmacist. You gave me great advice. Thank you for making my decision to pursue a career in the pharmacy profession an easy one. I want to let you know that I still have plans to open a pharmacy in Cameroon. It may not happen soon enough but God-willing, it will be opened.

 

You have never treated me just as another daughter-in-law. You embraced me into your family as one of your daughters. I feel like a special daughter to you and Abbott. Thanks for making me feel so welcomed and at ease into the family. I thank you for all the wonderful times spent together and I pray  that God continues to grant you and Abbott more wonderful years together.

God bless you always

Love you

Caro

Grace Ijang Fri Atanga- Dad’s Cousin

March 19, 2015

 

I thank God for Papa and Abot who have always been the backbone of unity, love and peace that reigns in our family.

 

Papa you have given so much to the community and to all of us; your counsel, your forgiving attitude, your generosity, your honesty and kindness are lessons we can never depart from.

 

Abot , my prayerful mother., you are a Daughter of Zion… Thank you for always being there for through the thick and thin. Thank you for always feeding me spiritually. You both are my brightest stars forever.

Grace Ijang Fri Atanga

 

 

Jeffrey Tifang Taboh – Papa’s cousin.

March 19, 2015

 

Papa it is a blessing to have you not only as a father, but as a leader. You are unquestionably the root of our family tree. Even family friends know you as an unassuming, kind, generous and fair. Calendars, pictures and community records speak volumes of your unselfish dedication to public service, your financial contributions; your leadership roles in several organizations have not gone unnoticed.

 

For us your family, you have always been there. When we look back, we see your fingerprints on our success.  Abot has always been there through thick and thin; not just as your wife, but also as a mother to us all.  The adage goes, “behind every successful man there is a strong and influential woman,” you are the embodiment of that aphorism.

 

We thank God for giving you and Abot to us!

Jeffrey Tifang Taboh

 

 

Dad's Sister, Rose Afor Abam

March 19, 2015

Papa, you are a positive role model who demonstrates patience, moral and spiritual responsibilities. Your kindness, your generosity, love, peaceful ways, and the fear of God are now family treasures to that will continue. You are a very loving and understanding parent, husband, uncle and brother. These qualities sit befittingly well on you.

 

Papa, you listen and explain things in an understanding, friendly and comfortable manner that is very reassuring. You always respond positively to our quests and even endeavour to find solutions to those you cannot answer instantly. In so doing, you have created a very loving and healthy environment for the wellbeing of the entire family—even flinging your doors open to a wide diversity of family, friends, and strangers. 

 

You have deepened our faith in Christ by encouraging everyone in the house to honour God, and keeping a firm tradition of Sunday worshiping. Papa, your good manners, you respectful nature, are felt in every circle that you have graced with your presence. Papa, your method of discipline was more of a bitter sweet experience; because you are firm but kind.

 

You are celebrated everywhere in Cameroon and outside our national borders for your generosity, humility, politeness, sincerity, and honesty. Papa, you have treated people at the pharmacy free of charge, fed strangers at home and provided a free means of transportation to strangers.

What more can I say, but concur with everyone to say, I thank you Papa for everything.

Love,

Rose Afor Abam

 

                       

Dad's Sister, Mrs.Rebecca Achimbi

March 19, 2015

 

Pa Abam has been a man of rules and regulations- in other words he is a person who set standards by which the family abides. I remember when he started his career and I was living with him at age 10-11yrs, his instructions were:

No playing after school, do all home work.” One day I broke his rules by harvesting and selling vegetables from my garden in the CDC Camp, instead of doing my home work. Pa caught me in the act and I knew I was in for it. When he called me into the sitting room I went very cautiously expecting the worst. Nothing happened on that occasion learnt my lesson- always follow the rules.
In the words of Psalm 118:17 , " I SHALL NOT DIE BUT LIVE AND DECLARE THE WORKS OF THE LORD . "

I wish you long life.

Ma Rebecca Achimbi

Moses Abam – Dad’s brother.

March 19, 2015

 

Hello pa, howdy?

I hope you are feeling better. I'm writing to thank you for all that you have done to the Abam family in general. You are our father and you have been an ambassador to the entire family, Metta quarter people, Metta people, Bamenda people, and beyond. Everybody past and present have always had nice things to say about you.

 

You and others helped put and maintained Ntamulung church at the apex of Christian worship in Bamenda and the North West Province. The church, credit union and other organizations have always trusted you with their finances. This shows a lot about your character and honesty.   I remember when I was 2yrs to about 4yrs when we used to live at the old pharmacy, Rainbow Chemist, you used to administer us with the Bi-penicillin injections and would give us money for bonbon and sweets. From early as class two, you used to take us to Presbook to buy all our books. You paid my school fees from primary school to form three. I will always be grateful and appreciative for all you have done for me. You were a father to me when I was born, hungry, sick, well. To you again, I say mighty Thanks! 
Your brother Moses Abam.

 

 

Godwin Abam- Papa’s Brother.

March 19, 2015

 

Pa Abam is especially reputed for one thing; honesty.  In fact he epitomized honesty. His reputation is such that if you gave him money to keep and you copied their serial numbers, and you came back even after 20 years to retrieve them, you will find that he will give you back exactly the same money you gave him 20 years earlier. His incredible honesty has made it possible for him to be appointed treasurer in many associations all his life.

 

He is dedicated to peace and loves his family, even at the expense of his own rights for he puts others first.


He is an activist in the most peaceful of ways. In the 90's when the people of Bamenda blocked the streets at night so that Ni John Fru Ndi should not be kidnapped, I was surprised to see him helping to push the carcass of a car at 2 am near the hospital roundabout. That is the kind of community dedication that has made him a respected man of the people.  He is known as Mr Clean, for refusing bribe. In Cameroon, that is exceptional integrity.

Much love from Godwin.

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