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Thank you to all of the friends and family who have surround us with love, support, and prayer during this very difficult year.

February 23
February 23
We miss you, Brother Sid! Zeke Harvey mentioned you are our Couples pre-Superbowl game dinner in Milpitas, Feb. 10. He referenced your Couples Nights Out and gave us some really great analogies for our marriage being our Favorite Team, such as we're on the same team, don't go offsides jumping ahead on a big decision without our mate, and not to do pass interference! It was a great time and you started a great thing! Love, Sherra
February 21
February 21
As I now am living through my husband’s terminal illness I reflect on the people in my life who are already gone…a sad melancholy comes over me. That’s the mood today, anyway…
Miss you, Sid!!
October 18, 2023
October 18, 2023
Pastor Sid, your voice and compassion and your pragmatic advice is missed in our ministry. I pray your family is faring well and your absence through these years and that you're resting well.
October 17, 2023
October 17, 2023
We love you, Sid, and look forward to seeing you again! Sherra remembers how you used to try to miss the bumps when you changed lanes on the freeway! We love your sense of humor! Chris, praying for your continued success in whatever you do, weight lifting, relationships, enjoying family, and loving the Lord Jesus! Love, Aram & Sherra (Blessings & good memories!) P.S. We enjoyed the Couples Night Out times! 
October 15, 2023
October 15, 2023
Remembering Pastor Sid and praying for salvation for any of his grandchildren that may not know Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior.
October 14, 2023
October 14, 2023
It seems like only yesterday, and yet... after 11 years. All our memories are so vivid in our mind. So unforgettable and so blessed by your family. We love you and miss you until that day we will ALL be together rejoicing in Heaven. I cannot wait to hear the Rindercella store in person again... Ken just does not do it justice! ;-). Sending hugs.
February 21, 2023
February 21, 2023
Recently I was looking at pictures of us, Sid, John and me at the time of our stepmother’s memorial service, and I was nostalgic for that time, all three of us so healthy and full of life. I miss you, Sid…
February 21, 2022
February 21, 2022
Remembering the Harms family on this 10th anniversary, and praying that Pastor Sid's children, grandchildren, siblings and loved ones know Christ as Lord and Savior, and that one day we will all rejoice together in the LORD's presence!
February 21, 2022
February 21, 2022
We miss you Pastor Sidd, we cannot believe it's been 10 years since you left this earth. 
October 14, 2021
October 14, 2021
October 14 I will never forget! Recently I lost another loved person, so my emotions are more tender than usual. But I wish I could have one more conversation with Sid! It is sad that he has grandkids who won’t know his wonderful personality!
October 14, 2021
October 14, 2021
Taking the time today to pray for the Harms family. I know that Pastor Sid would want that you all would know the Christ that he serves and in whose presence he is now in, forever! Know Christ, and if you already know Him, know Him even more intimately.
Love,
Lillie
February 21, 2021
February 21, 2021
Sid was my big brother. Seven years older than me, Sid was always at a later stage of life than me, so I could hear advice from a man who had already traveled the road of Life that I was on. But now that I'm 62 -- almost 63, it occurs to me that I'm in uncharted territory. I can't ask Sid what it's like to be a 63-year-old man. I miss those conversations with Sid about Life, the Universe, and Everything.
February 21, 2021
February 21, 2021
Remembering Pastor Sid and the Harms family. We thank God for your love of and service to the ALCF body. Looking forward to reuniting with you in the presence of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ one day.
February 21, 2021
February 21, 2021
On this day I seem to be the sister who remembers... I still miss my brother, Sid...and his incredible personality. I miss having someone in my life who remembers the growing up days. I miss his laugh and corny jokes. How proud he would be of his children and their successes!
February 21, 2020
February 21, 2020
Memories of my brother pop up at the strangest times like this summer when we were driving through Rocky Mountain National Park! We went there as a family! Daddy, Mommie, Sid and me! We all slept in the station wagon and had cherries as dessert for campfire dinner. I was about 6 or 7 and Sid was 3 or 4!
I miss having him to reminisce those times!!
October 14, 2019
October 14, 2019
69 years ago Sid was born...and displaced me as the main attraction in our family! I miss him so much.
February 23, 2019
February 23, 2019
Dear Chris,
I have been thinking a lot about you lately and missing catching up with you and how you are. We love you and Sid very much and have good memories of the Seminary in Fresno as well as connecting years later at Abundant Life! We miss you both! Love, Aram & Sherra
February 21, 2019
February 21, 2019
Seven years! Still missing my brother!
October 14, 2018
October 14, 2018
Thanking God for Pastor Sid's life. Praying that his family is loving the Lord and one another.
March 13, 2018
March 13, 2018
I have been thinking about you a lot lately and today, after Googling you, discovered you had passed. I am sitting in my office "ugly crying" filled with sorrow and regret that it has been so long since I have spoken with you. I hope you knew what an impact you had on my life. I hope you knew how much regard I had for you (and your family) and how much I truly liked who you were. I hope you knew how much I utterly valued the place you and Christine had in my life, even if the path I took was different than hoped. I feel devastated by this news and am so very sad I found out so much after the fact. My sincerest condolences to Christine and all the kids. I am so terribly sorry. With love, Sheri (formerly Short) Konowitz
February 26, 2018
February 26, 2018
Remembering Pastor Sid and family.
October 14, 2017
October 14, 2017
Not everyone knows that SID shared a birthday with Dwight D Eisenhower! When SID was a kid he decided to send the president a birthday card and he got one back! I don't think the card survived our moves but it was fun at the time!
October 14, 2017
October 14, 2017
Pastor Sid is forever remembered and missed by his ALCF family. Praying that the Harms family is well and walking with God.

p.s. - good story about his birthday being shared with President Eisenhower.
February 21, 2017
February 21, 2017
Can't believe it is 5 years! Still miss my brother, his humor, his wonkiness. Miss having someone who was in S Dakota with me. Who loved to go to Grandpapa's farm every chance we got. I miss my parents, too, but I miss Sid more. Linda
February 21, 2017
February 21, 2017
Pastor Sid, my brother-in-Christ, my Pastor, a friend, a marriage counselor. I will see you again in glory.
February 21, 2017
February 21, 2017
Remembering Pastor Sid and the Harms family and thanking God for bringing you into the ALCF Family.
Love,
Lillie
October 14, 2016
October 14, 2016
To the Harms Family,

I have so many fond memories of not only Pastor Sid but all of you and the thoughts and memories just make me smile. So many examples set by you of a Christ centered family that are just too numerous to write. I alway tell the children in my family that when they have a memory of someone who is passed on and acknowledge it that it's like ringing a door bell and that person pauses up in heaven, peeks over their heavenly balcony and smiles in acknowledgment.....but only for a brief moment since they are having so much fun singing and dancing and praising God. Ding Dong Pastor Sid!
February 21, 2016
February 21, 2016
Dear Christine and Family,
Our family continues to remember you in our prayers. May the love, grace, peace and comfort of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ rule in your hearts.
Love,
Tala and Lillie Sailele
February 28, 2015
February 28, 2015
It's now been 3 yrs since you've been gone. We know you are with the Father, but we sure miss you here in earth. Your sense of humor, your wisdom. Thanks or a life well lived. - The Wilkerson's
February 23, 2015
February 23, 2015
Remembering Pastor Sid, Sis. Christine, children, and all others impacted by the lives of Pastor Sid and Christine.
We love you and remember you.
Your family at ALCF.
February 22, 2015
February 22, 2015
Praying for the Harms family! Pastor Sid, your love lives on through them.
October 14, 2014
October 14, 2014
Always will remember my dear brother. I miss talking with him because no one else shared Bridgewater memories.
Linda Kinney
October 14, 2014
October 14, 2014
Oh, Pastor Sid. We miss you so! Not a day goes by that I don't think of you (your memorial picture is pinned to my "Spiritual Hall of Fame Board" at my desk, right up there with Joni and Euji.) I still experience the impact of your legacy on our daily family life and ministry. And dear Christine, just last night we were watching the 49er vs. Rams game. I was wondering who you'd root for -- Ah, but I'm kind of afraid to know :-/ Love you both dearly and always!
October 14, 2014
October 14, 2014
Thinking of Pastor Sid and his warm, welcoming smile, Christine, and the Harms family this day. We miss you all! Praying that the Lord is a Lamp and a Light to the family and friends.
February 26, 2014
February 26, 2014
We miss you, Sid! We miss Chris, too! Thinking of you & your family. Prayers for strength and comfort. Miss those wonderful Couples Night Outs! :)
February 23, 2014
February 23, 2014
Pastor Sid when you came to ALCF you showed us how marriage should be when God is in it. The love you showed for Christine was example for all married men to follow. I always remember your story of Rindercella and sisty uglers (Cinderella and her ugly sisters). Looking forward to the day we will meet again in heaven.
February 21, 2014
February 21, 2014
We continue to lift up prayers for the Harms family. May you all be growing in love with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ more and more each day.
February 21, 2014
February 21, 2014
I miss my brother, but cherish his memory and his life. What a wonderful person he was, who lives on in his terrific children and grandchildren!
October 14, 2013
October 14, 2013
Happy (earthly 63rd) Birthday Pastor Sid. I know you are making Gos smile in Heaven.
October 14, 2013
October 14, 2013
I sure hope Pastor Sid is at the gate when I get to glory - I would like to ask St Peter to reserve him for me - he will have already met with everyone in heaven and I know he will be a comforter as he was to so many of us - He not only touched marrieds - he touched everyone who God brought into contact with him - He was there for me when I needed to see Jesus!!
October 14, 2013
October 14, 2013
Remembering Pastor Sid, Christine, and all the Harms' family & friends in my prayers. Thank-you LORD for sharing him with us.
August 12, 2013
August 12, 2013
Sorry, I didn't know he had passed. 2nd cousins. Hadn't seen him since we were in high school. Arthur Harms was my dad he was cousins with Herb. Pray that you and your family are doing better.
Lois
February 21, 2013
February 21, 2013
Aram & I miss you, brother, very much. You mean a lot to us in the way you modeled following Jesus through very hard circumstances and still joking around and caring about your family and us and others! That still impresses Aram! Also we enjoyed many Couples Night Outs with you and we still do! A wonderful night of music for Valentine's Day was last Sat . Night!!! Hugs!
February 21, 2013
February 21, 2013
It has been a difficult year, mourning the loss of Pastor Sid. Much worse for Christine and family, of course, but hardly a few weeks go by when we don't remember SOMETHING beautiful about him, as our mentor & trusted friend. We think of him & about our friendship with both Pastor Sid and Christine often, and miss our fellowship very much. He will always lovingly remain in our hearts.
February 21, 2013
February 21, 2013
Not a day goes by that Eddie and I don't think of and miss you dearly. We've known many pastors, but few impact our daily parenting, marriage and ministry as you. You didn't just teach about faith, endurance, marriage & family - you faithfully walked and lived it out. Your life and love was your greatest legacy and we miss you so much. Thank you Harms family for sharing him with us!
February 21, 2013
February 21, 2013
WE miss you each and every day, as your wisdom, guidance, caring, compassion and smile, reminds us that God is truly in charge, as the Holy Spirit working in you and Christine, keeps us on Christ's path. There has never been anyone who could show such strength & joy each day in spite of the challenges God sent to you and your family. You were and are a Blessing unequaled by anyone else.
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February 23
February 23
We miss you, Brother Sid! Zeke Harvey mentioned you are our Couples pre-Superbowl game dinner in Milpitas, Feb. 10. He referenced your Couples Nights Out and gave us some really great analogies for our marriage being our Favorite Team, such as we're on the same team, don't go offsides jumping ahead on a big decision without our mate, and not to do pass interference! It was a great time and you started a great thing! Love, Sherra
February 21
February 21
As I now am living through my husband’s terminal illness I reflect on the people in my life who are already gone…a sad melancholy comes over me. That’s the mood today, anyway…
Miss you, Sid!!
October 18, 2023
October 18, 2023
Pastor Sid, your voice and compassion and your pragmatic advice is missed in our ministry. I pray your family is faring well and your absence through these years and that you're resting well.
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February 21, 2020
Having met Sid through a college friend related to him, Stan Harder, I will always remember something Stan told me about Sid.  He said Sid would try to change lanes while driving, without touching any of the lane "bumps" on the road.  I have tried that many times, just for fun while thinking with joy about and in honor of Sid. (smile)  I later met he and Chris at the Mennonite Brethren Biblical Seminary, where I worked in the office for 5 years, after graduating from Pacific College (now Fresno Pacific University), while he was earning his Master degree in Divinity.  They went on to Dallas, OR, where he pastored and in 2006 or 2007, imagine who spoke at ALCF, but someone with the same name!  I didn't know they were there, and they didn't know we were there!  What a joyous reunion that was!  My husband, Aram, refers to Sid when he tells people how well and with humor he handled having cancer and what an inspiration that is to him.  Love you guys!  Sherra & Aram
February 21, 2014

Jerry Harms took this picture, one of few that actually has John in it !! (Usually it is John behind the camera)!

Journey through Time

February 21, 2014

On this two-year anniversary of Sid's "graduation" to Heaven, I'm reminded of the picture shown here.  This was from my very first roll of film: only twelve shots to photograph what I thought was noteworthy as a 12-year-old boy.

I think the picture captured both my dad and brother's personalities an an instant of Time.  Dad was a light-hearted and sometimes goofy middle-aged man; Sid was a confident and cheerful almost-twenty guy who was secure in who he was and where he was going.

Each of them got older, carrying their personalities forward in Time.  When Dad got cancer, he approached it with goofy light-heartedness.  When Sid got cancer, he remained confident, cheerful, and secure in where he was going.

Although I have lost both of them in this life, my own life has been forever changed.  I looked up to my Dad.  I looked up to Sid.  And now, as I move forward in Time, I'm discovering a goofy, light-hearted, cheerful confidence in who I am and where I'm going.

I'm grateful for having Sid as a brother, and miss having him narrate for me what Time is like seven years down the road.  Christine, Matt, Julia, Dan, and Phil: I can't imagine how much you must miss Sid, having journeyed through Time together.

My prayer is that God will send you all an extra measure of the Holy Spirit -- the Comforter -- to be very close to you today as you reflect upon that journey.

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