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Leave a tributeI am just discovering this now, having had lost contact with your mom over the years. my Mom, Lucille Knoll, was Pat's best friend from their school days, and we lost her in July of 2012, my dad (Merle, also from Appleton) passed away this past November, and i have had Pat on my mind and decided to search the Internet and found this site. Needless to say, I am shedding many a tear. Pat was my personal attendant at my wedding and was such a kind, loving, and generous person, my second Mom. Especially while we lived in Madison, I remember many Sunday brunches at the Whitehorse Inn, and when my husband was in Japan for a summer, she and I spent much time together. Good, good, memories! I'll bet she and my mom are all caught up in heaven. Blessings to you both and your families.
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Thank you.
Maryellen (Mimi)
Sending my love to Pat's family and friends, her kindness was passed on to all of you. I felt fortunate to have been a part of her life for a brief period during my childhood. Joy and love was always in abundance.
warmest thoughts,
Debbie Houden Stamler
I grew up during the 1950-60"s in a wonderful neighborhood of which Pat and her family were a part. The neighborhood families intertwined and blended together so that we were all made better and stronger and felt more loved.Later in life, when Pat was in her middle years and I was a young adult, we found ourselves attending nursing school together. It was an extremely challenging program (50% dropped out). I was so impressed and amazed by Pat's courage, determination and strength to survive and graduate with an Associate Degree in nursing. During this time, we would carpool to/from class, attend clinicals and study together--we fought our way through to graduation. I will always remember Pat saying, "This must be like what it is to go through the war together". She was my comrade, that was for sure.
Pat was a dear on loving friend to my mother. Hand in hand they traveled through many of life's ups and downs--comrades in life.
With a twinkle in her eye, I can hear Pat say that "Inch in inch, life is a cinch"--a good reminder for all of us to keep a healthy perspective on life and enjoy the ride.
My sincere condolences and with fond memories, Mariel
My condolences to you all. The world was a better place for Pat having touched our lives.
Katie Remitz (Barber)
Death is nothing at all,
I have only slipped away
into the next room.
I am I,
and you are you;
whatever we were to each other,
that, we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name,
speak to me in the easy way
which you always used,
put no difference in your tone,
wear no forced air
of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we shared together.
Let my name ever be
the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect,
without the trace of a shadow on it.
Life means all
that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you,
for an interval,
somewhere very near,
just around the corner.
All is well.
Henry Scott Holland
1847 -1918
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I am just discovering this now, having had lost contact with your mom over the years. my Mom, Lucille Knoll, was Pat's best friend from their school days, and we lost her in July of 2012, my dad (Merle, also from Appleton) passed away this past November, and i have had Pat on my mind and decided to search the Internet and found this site. Needless to say, I am shedding many a tear. Pat was my personal attendant at my wedding and was such a kind, loving, and generous person, my second Mom. Especially while we lived in Madison, I remember many Sunday brunches at the Whitehorse Inn, and when my husband was in Japan for a summer, she and I spent much time together. Good, good, memories! I'll bet she and my mom are all caught up in heaven. Blessings to you both and your families.
Peonies
Pat's relatives
Pat's parents Ted and Leah both lived out there lives in Appleton Minnesota where Pat was born. Her older brother Ted is a retired eye doctor in Albert Lea, Minnesota. Pat was preceded in death by her daughter Elise in 1987, her daughter in law Peggi Curran Koenecke in 2005 and her former husband Fred Koenecke in 2009.
Her oldest son Eric is currently in India, but normally resides in Fairfield, Iowa. Her second son Jay resides in Lewiston, CA. Pat has two grandchildren by her son Jay. Tyler Koenecke lives in Iowa, and Allison Koenecke lives in Chicago.
Camping trips
Thank you to the Bach family for the wonderful picture of the camping trip! Those camping trips were stories she loved to talk about! She shared how much simpler it was back then- when you could let your children go for hours to play and not worry about them. Once she said, "Those were the good old days and we didn't even know it". These were strong memories for her! She loved the Bach family. Toby and Maryellen came to California about 2 years ago and they were at my Dad's house and Jay picked up Pat from Lavender Hills and brought her over for dinner. I don't think she had seen Toby for many years. As soon as she walked in, her face lit up, "Toby"! She knew him immediately. It was really special.