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Patricia "Patty" Sue McKee passed away in her sleep this morning at her home in Idyllwild, California. She was home with Gary, in the place that she loved. A long battle with Cancer never took the smile from her face and she never let it get in the way of her very active life. She was a Beautiful Wife, Mother, Sister, Aunt, Grammy and Friend and she touched the lives of so many children over the years by bringing joy to their faces at the Candy Cupboard located in Idyllwild. Services celebrating her life will be held on Tuesday September 17th at 11am at Idyllwild Pines http://www.idyllwildpines.org/
In lieu of flowers please donate to Idyllwild Community Center http://www.idyllwildcommunitycenter.org/icc-giving.html or Cancer Support Community which helps bring together people so "So that no one faces cancer alone.® http://www.cancersupportcommunity.org/MainMenu/Get-Involved/Donate.html
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Leave a tributeI've given a few memorial talks for people who have died. My lead off scripture is always Ecclesiastes 7: 1 & 2 which says,
"A good name is better than good oil,a and the day of death is better than the day of birth. 2 Better to go to the house of mourning than to the house of feasting,b for that is the end of every man, and the living should take it to heart."
At first glance it sounds contradictory, how could day of one's death be better than being born ? In the bible, what a person does with their life and the kind of name or reputation they make are of main importance. So when people hear the name mentioned, Patty McKee, what kind of person comes to mind. As the end of verse two reference, "the living should take it to heart." Most funneral talks should be geared towards encouragement of the living relatives and friends. Hence everyone should take to heart what kind of image comes to most people's mind wwhen their own personal name is mentioned.
Patty has the hope of resurrection to life back on Earth as do most of mankind. I know that's a bit different than what most of the churches have always preached, but God's original purpose for the Earth has never changed. Antway, looking forwards to seeing her again.
Kevin Franck
I have only learnt today that Patty has passed on from over a year ago. My heart goes out to you individually and your family, I wish I knew sooner.
I remember your time together in Australia snorkelling at the beach, patting Kangeroo's and following wild birds. I think you both enjoyed it!
Patty was a wonderful lady and I am so sorry for your loss.
Much Love
Natasha and Marcus xxx
We little knew that morning,
God was going to call your name,
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
You did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home.
You left beautiful memories,
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you,
You are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken,
And nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again...
Author Unknown
We miss you Patty, I Love you SIS, my heart ache's missing you so, that I can't bear to think about it!
passed tradition down to my kids;-)Patty was always so delightful to run into. Prayers to her family!!!
My fondest memories are of Patty serving her "witch's brew" on Halloween night to all of the kids!
a very, very special and very loving place in my son Kannyns' heart and I was always grateful for the love she showed and shared with him.
She was a beautiful person with style and grace and my thoughts and prayers go out to her family and loved ones.
We always loved that darling smile and the infectious laugh! Patty, you were such a warm individual who made everyone feel at ease. You have left a tremendous legacy in the family who loves you and the people who miss you. May you rest now and enjoy watching over us all, no longer in pain. God bless!
Thank you for inviting me to the family beach house many years ago! You've always been generous and kind. Lots of good memories :)
Words cannot express the sadness I feel in my heart right now, Patty Mckee you will be missed. I have been so blessed to have you in my life, you taught me so much and you were such an amazing boss over the years that I worked at the Candy Cupboard. Idyllwild will not be the same without your sweet face. 3
Leave a Tribute
I've given a few memorial talks for people who have died. My lead off scripture is always Ecclesiastes 7: 1 & 2 which says,
"A good name is better than good oil,a and the day of death is better than the day of birth. 2 Better to go to the house of mourning than to the house of feasting,b for that is the end of every man, and the living should take it to heart."
At first glance it sounds contradictory, how could day of one's death be better than being born ? In the bible, what a person does with their life and the kind of name or reputation they make are of main importance. So when people hear the name mentioned, Patty McKee, what kind of person comes to mind. As the end of verse two reference, "the living should take it to heart." Most funneral talks should be geared towards encouragement of the living relatives and friends. Hence everyone should take to heart what kind of image comes to most people's mind wwhen their own personal name is mentioned.
Patty has the hope of resurrection to life back on Earth as do most of mankind. I know that's a bit different than what most of the churches have always preached, but God's original purpose for the Earth has never changed. Antway, looking forwards to seeing her again.
Kevin Franck
Sibling Day 2018
Sibling Day was last week, posting today how much I admired my sister Patty Mckee. I learned so much from my sister Patty Mckee... to be authentic, respectful of others, most of all believe in yourself and your dreams. I did not realize until later how much she was covering up her fight with Cancer, she did not want us to know and worried more for her family. If I could tell you today what I admired most about you it would be your strength and wisdom about life.
Patty
My thoughts to the family I shared in a card but also wanted to share with others
A Mother’s love
A Wife’s caress
A Sister’s laugh…will all missed
Grammy’s lap…words so wise…hugs and kisses…love pats good-bye
Nieces, Nephews, Friends galore…her infectious smile…will be no more
A zest for life and travel too…she zip-lined the rainforest…thought it was cool
Biking or hiking mountains and roads…exploring caves…never bored
A remarkable woman…full of courage and strength
Lived life to the fullest…with style and grace
Memories abound…brings a smile…a tear
A prayer to the heavens…wishing her here
Don’t deny grief…a journey…a must
Talk with family or friends…someone you trust
Days…weeks…years pass by
Tears lessen…you’ll hardly cry
Wonderful memories…bring a twinkle to your eye
Eternal friends