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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, PAUL HACKER, 60 years old, born on June 4, 1952, and passed away on February 12, 2013. We will remember him forever.
June 4, 2023
June 4, 2023
Happy Birthday Paul!

It's hard to believe that you've been gone for ten years.

Jasmine graduated high school last month. She is so beautiful. You would be proud of her.

Paul is an EMT and studying to be a paramedic. He wants to be a fireman. His fiancé is a lovely girl named Fernanda.

Josie is eleven and growing so fast that it makes my head spin. She is amazing in the things that she knows.

Carly is eight and so talented. She tested for the Gifted program in the top 98%. She has her first auditioned role in Finding Nemo.

Cathy graduated with her Masters Degree in Education/Reading Specialist.

Julie just moved to a new condo. She and the girls now live less than a mile from me.
June 5, 2022
June 5, 2022
Happy birthday! We lost my brother-in-law, Joe on Wednesday. Our girls have been offering comfort and understanding to his kids. They understand the loss of a parent that others can't comprehend. They still miss you so much.

The grandkids have all grown so much this past year. Paul is 21 and Jasmine will be 17 in a couple of months. Josie is 10 and Carly is 7. They are all amazing.

Cathy is taking a Masters in Reading program. Julie has gone back to substitute teaching.
February 18, 2021
February 18, 2021
Eight years since you passed. Your girls still miss you every day.

Jasmine has grown into such a beautiful young lady. You would be amazed at all she has accomplished. Josie has learned to read and she is so excited about reading. It took a video game to get her interested in reading. Carly can't quite decide whether to be a big girl or a little girl. Academically she is very smart. Josie teaches her all of the second grade math.

Cathy is a teacher now. I bet you never saw that in her future! She and Jose are in Arizona now also. Julie is being a full time mom to the girls. Eventually she will also be able to return to work.

I hope that you hear my thoughts as I write them and share them with Mom. She would have been so proud of the girls.
February 12, 2019
February 12, 2019
It's been six years now. I'm not sure where the time has gone. Carly is four, Josie will be seven soon and Jasmine will start high school in the Fall. You would have really loved seeing them grow. I know Julie, Cathy and Jasmine miss you a lot. I hope you look down on them and guide them.
June 5, 2017
June 5, 2017
Happy Birthday! I'm glad your family is there with you. The girls miss you.
June 5, 2017
June 5, 2017
Happy Birthday! I'm glad your family is there with you. The girls miss you.
June 4, 2017
June 4, 2017
Mary set up this Tribute to her son and I was able to set up my tribute to my son on this site too. I am pleased that Mary was able to join her children in Heaven on this special day this year.
February 14, 2017
February 14, 2017
It is nice to know that now your Mother is there with you all and I leave this little note to Honor both of your memories.
February 12, 2017
February 12, 2017
Daddy,
I can't believe its been 4 years. I have another little girl I named after Grandpa Carl...my little Carly. She just turned 2. How wish you could meet her and enjoy her and my beloved Josie. I love you always. Not many left to come read these tributes, but I know it helps.
February 12, 2017
February 12, 2017
Another year has passed and now it's been four years. The littles are growing bigger every day. You would have loved them. Julie, Cathy and Jasmine miss you. Bless them with your presence if possible.
June 4, 2016
June 4, 2016
Paul, I know you are celebrating your birthday today with Mary, Carl and Dianne. Know that your girls miss you every day. Happy Birthday!
June 4, 2016
June 4, 2016
Mary, only another mother who has lost a child can know what this day means to you every year. May you rejoice in precious memories.
February 12, 2016
February 12, 2016
Mary, I feel your loss today and share in that sorrow...They will not come to us, but we shall go to them...What a blessed promise.
February 12, 2015
February 12, 2015
It Is hard to believe that it has been two years since Julie called me an told me that you were gone. That was a crazy time. I felt so awful going through your papers with them. The girls miss you every day. I hope you are watching over them.
August 7, 2014
August 7, 2014
What an endearing walk along a life well loved! Thank you, Mary and family, for always sharing. It may not heal the hole in the heart, but it puts a gentle smile-worn salve on it~~
Love,
Sherry Collins Watkins
June 4, 2014
June 4, 2014
Today would have been Paul's 62nd birthday. I miss him but time has helped me accept his passing. Two years ago we celebrated the 60th and I will always remember that special day. I remember, too, the day he was born, my third child. My baby was beautiful! He always was my baby though 6 ft 2 inches.
February 4, 2014
February 4, 2014
It is February and soon on February 12 you will have been gone from us a year. It doesn't seem possible. I so often want to call you and talk but I realize I can't. I miss you and Dede so much. I pray you are at peace and resting. Your life here on earth was so busy.
September 21, 2013
September 21, 2013
Paul, I was just going through some of my saved e-mail and I realized I wrote you on Feb. 12 at 5:20 p.m. You had passed away that morning but the family had not told me. I was anwering your request to have a telephone discussion about my new computer and a spread sheet you had sent the day before. I will always keep your e-mail and the spread sheet. Miss you so much.
July 27, 2013
July 27, 2013
(Written by John Hacker)    As mother and I celebrated her 90th birhtday anniversary with a road trip to Escondido, San Diego and Oceanside, our thoughts were on you and your place in our family. We will always cherish the times we shared together and continue to honor the memories that reside in our hearts. God be with you!
June 17, 2013
June 17, 2013
Paul, yesterday was Father's Day. it didn't seem right to not send you a Father's Day Card and call you on the phone. There is a hole in my life--you just aren't there. How will I ever get that through my head? You will be 'Forever Missed'.
June 16, 2013
June 16, 2013
Happy Father's Day daddy. I miss you so much!
June 4, 2013
June 4, 2013
Happy Birthday daddy. I miss you so much! Spent the day with grandma looking at pictures of you and telling stories. It was nice but it wasn't the same without you.
June 4, 2013
June 4, 2013
Today would have been your 61st birthday. It doesn't seem possible
a year ago we were together celebrating at Los Vasqueros, and the waitresses put that crazy hat on you. I wrote about it in "Stories of your Life". The picture is there, too. You seemed so happy.
April 28, 2013
April 28, 2013
I miss you so much, Daddy! I took it for granted that you would always be there even when I didn't talk to you every day. While I know you are finally at peace, I selfishly wish you were still here so I could brag to you about all the milestones Josie is meeting...all the neat things she is doing each day. I love you.
April 4, 2013
April 4, 2013
Paul - Once again this afternoon I thought of calling you to catch up as I maneuvered through traffic, only to remember I cannot. I miss my best friend. So instead, I will place my thoughts on this site in hope that those who happen upon it, will garner a sense of what an incredible man you were.
March 30, 2013
March 30, 2013
I have known your mother about eight years now. Beautiful lady!! I never met you, but feel like I knew you because your mother talked so much about you. You must of been a very special person. You are missed Paul. Rest in peace.
March 17, 2013
March 17, 2013
I still remember how happy you were when you shared with me all those beauiful pictures of you and your family in Picassa.
March 16, 2013
March 16, 2013
Paul, today would have been your father's 92nd birthday but he, too was gone too soon,. It will be 15 years on June 2. I know you are together with Dede and your father--In that I take consolation.
March 16, 2013
March 16, 2013
It has been over a month and your death still isn't real to me. I can't believe I can't call you. I had talked with you the day before and all was well. How can it be? People have to be sick to die don't they? I hope a lot of people will write a tribute even if they didn't know you but know any of the family. It helps when we come to this site. I still want to write your life story.
March 6, 2013
March 6, 2013
I have been thinking about you everyday. I miss you so much!!!
February 28, 2013
February 28, 2013
Daddy, I miss you so much. I wish with all my heart that you were still here with me. I will miss you forever. Jasmine misses you very much too. She asked me today if we could go home and see grandpa. I don't think she understand. I hope you are at peace. I love you!!!!
February 27, 2013
February 27, 2013
Dear friend and former boss. Your legacy won't be forgotten. We will miss you. Nick
February 22, 2013
February 22, 2013
It is a gorgeousl day in California with the white snow glowing on the mountains. This is a view you saw every day from your beautiful home. Tomorrow after the service at the reception we will see that view and think of you. Sleep in peace dear one.
February 21, 2013
February 21, 2013
To Paul:

I will love you forever. It wasn't time for you to go. There was so much more of life. But I thank God for the many days he granted you. May God rest your soul. Peace.
February 21, 2013
February 21, 2013
I wish I had the chance to get to know you better, we did not have the time to become close as a we should have as family. Your life was too short for the things you wanted to do. Rest in peace Paul. You will be missed.

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June 4, 2023
June 4, 2023
Happy Birthday Paul!

It's hard to believe that you've been gone for ten years.

Jasmine graduated high school last month. She is so beautiful. You would be proud of her.

Paul is an EMT and studying to be a paramedic. He wants to be a fireman. His fiancé is a lovely girl named Fernanda.

Josie is eleven and growing so fast that it makes my head spin. She is amazing in the things that she knows.

Carly is eight and so talented. She tested for the Gifted program in the top 98%. She has her first auditioned role in Finding Nemo.

Cathy graduated with her Masters Degree in Education/Reading Specialist.

Julie just moved to a new condo. She and the girls now live less than a mile from me.
June 5, 2022
June 5, 2022
Happy birthday! We lost my brother-in-law, Joe on Wednesday. Our girls have been offering comfort and understanding to his kids. They understand the loss of a parent that others can't comprehend. They still miss you so much.

The grandkids have all grown so much this past year. Paul is 21 and Jasmine will be 17 in a couple of months. Josie is 10 and Carly is 7. They are all amazing.

Cathy is taking a Masters in Reading program. Julie has gone back to substitute teaching.
Recent stories

A Walk In The Park

July 27, 2013

Story written by my son, John Hacker.   When we lived in Baltimore during the 60's, Bro Paul and I used walk down to Herring Run Park about four blocks from our home at 2207 Kentucky Ave. to fly home-made kites during the summer and slide down snowy hills on cardboard boxes during the winter.  It was one of our favorite places to play outside.
     One sunny day, we went over to the park to walk around by a stream which snaked through the park.  Bro decided to climb a trunk which leaned out over the stream (he loved to climb up trees as much as I did)!
     He shinnied up the trunk with excitement and started sliding out along a long, thick branch hanging out over the water.  I looked up at the last second to hear a loud 'cracking' noise bellowing from the tree.  It seemed as if time had shifted into slow motion as I witnessed his descent from my position on the bank.
     He was wailing and laughing with delight as he rode the heavy branch downward, landing with a heavy splash into the water directly below.  All this occured in just a few seconds but it seemed much longer to me.
     The water seemed to absorb his fall as he rose up off the severed limb and climb out of the stream onto the bank, soaking wet.  As we started to head home, I noticed a sign in the stream which read, "Warning, Polluted Water, Typhoid Poisioning, Stay Away!"
     By the time we reached our house, Bro was much more composed and had dried off considerably.  I determined that no real damage had been done and decided not to bother mother with the details.  All was well that ended well!

Father's Day

June 19, 2013

Father's Day has coime and gone.  You were not here. Your daughters conversed on Facebook--they miss you so much.  The first of each holiday is so difficult. Life goes on and they too must go on and move forward. You are in the care of the Heavenly Father, and they can only turn to Him in their sorrow, 
                                                                                                                                   I am remembering other Father's Day celebrations- you spent many with your Dad..  He loved you John and Dede so much.  He was a good father and always protected and cared for his children You were blessed to have a loving father. 

I know time will pass and eventually we will all be together to celebrate with our Heavenly Father in that glorious place. 

Paul's 60th birthday

June 5, 2013

It was your 60th birthday-- a year ago.. Julie, Joel and their new baby, Josie, came from Lake Havasu, AZ for the special occasion.  Cathy and Jasmine were able to join us as well. We decided to go over to Los Vasqueros, a Mexican Restaurant  nearby.  Everyone was relaxed and having fun.  The food was good and the waitresses were enjoying the party atmosphere.  Before we knew it they popped a sombrero on you and were taking pictures--we took pictures, too.. How thankful we are to have had that special day together.

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