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 After 15 years  the Beautiful Web Page that was created for Paul,by my sister Valerie and myself,  the host Yahoo decided that they wouldn't accept the program  that created it. . So this is the  second  memorial website created in memory of our beloved SON, ,Brother, Uncle, Friend and Nurse ,  Paul J. Layman RN, 25, born on July 3, 1972 and passed away in a Car Accident in Halifax, Nova Scotia  on February 20, 1998. We will remember him forever,and ever.

To all who visits , Thank You so much for visiting this site, it helps us as a family to cope.  Please enjoy the photos, more will be coming. as well click on the music on each page. GOD BLESS 

July 6, 2023
July 6, 2023
I so often think of Paul, funny, witty and such a smile. Many times studying in the dorm late at night, Paul had a mischievous side but also a heart of gold and a vulnerable side. I still place his Christmas ornament on my tree every Christmas and now my kids even refer to it as mom’s friends ornament. In just 3 short years of being his classmate, he left a life long impression. I am sure he is smiling down with that mischievous grin of his. RIP and I will never forget you my friend.
February 20, 2023
February 20, 2023
Today as we get ready to visit your resting place, tears flow uncontrolable> i question Why so many times. But God gave you to us for 25 years and now you are with him for the same amount. This morning i woke again as i did the dreadful day at 2:30 am as you left this earth at 2 am halifax time.
Things has change so much, often wondered what you would think or say about it all. And now your friend who you went off to halifax with is battling the dreaded disease of Cancer. Watch over him as he journeys through this battle. We miss you so very very much.
I often sit quietly and i am sure i can hear your laugh, or hear your jokes, or how you wanted to help people. Many a times i feel your presence, smell your colonge. and Read your poems. God Keep you in the palm of his hand. RIP my son. Until we meet again watch over us and visit us when you can in our dreams.
February 13, 2023
February 13, 2023
Well my dear brother Paul....next week will be 25 years since I last heard your voice, or your laugh, where does time go. You were with us for just as long as you have been gone, wow!! I cannot put into words, how much you are still missed but not forgotten. We think of you with smiles on our faces, and happiness in our hearts, but at time tears in our eyes. I wonder how things would have been different..... You are talked about lots by your family and friends, remembering the goods times. At times you are near us, we find the quarters, we smell your cologne, and maybe at times we feel your gentle touch. Stay with us, look after us, we need you more now than ever before as the world is sure changing. We are the lucky ones to have had you as part of our journey, thank you God for blessing us with Paul. Thank you for the gift of Paul, as each one of us who knew him, still has a part of him in our lives, some how some way, he will never be forgotten. Love you so much and miss you so much more....love sis xoxo
December 23, 2022
December 23, 2022
Christmas 2022
Well Son another Christmas without you. So much has changed. We all miss you so much. We love you beyond words, Oh how i wish you would walk through the door with that beautiful smile. Your Dad is not well and i know a visit from you would change so many things. Look down on us , help us through this journey of life. Watch over your sister and brother and their families. Ask God to help us and protect us during this very difficult times. It is diffident without you. Love you now and always.
until we meet again
July 4, 2022
July 4, 2022
Well my angel boy yesterday the third of July, it was your 50th birthday. And your Aunt Valerie left this earth on your birthday. Strange how things happen. Happy Birthday My Handsome angel boy. Love and miss you every moment of every day.
February 22, 2022
February 22, 2022
Well son it has been 24 years since you left this world. We miss and love you so very much. It doesnt get any easier missing you. Our hearts break everyday, Until we meet again .
December 22, 2021
December 22, 2021
Well Son another Christmas without you. So much has changed. We all miss you so much. We love you beyond words, Oh how i wish you would walk through the door with that beautiful smile. Your Dad is not well and i know a visit from you would change so many things. Look down on us , help us through this journey of life. Watch over your sister and brother and their families. Ask God to help us and protect us during this very difficult times.
June 29, 2021
June 29, 2021
Well son your 49th Birthday is fast approaching, we miss you so much! We sit and remember the good times and the happy times, when you were here with us. Wish i could pick up the phone and wish you a Happy Birthday. But all we can do is wish you a happy Birthday from our Hearts. So much has changed here on earth. Our hearts still hurt. But we are thankful for the time we had with you. May you have a happy birthday in heaven with family and friends . Love you always and forever. Until we meet again.
February 21, 2021
February 21, 2021
God bless you Bessie Peter Cathy Sean & all the family . A beautiful soul left this earth February 20 1998 . One day you will be together again until then remember the beautiful person he was xxx
February 20, 2021
February 20, 2021
Dearly miss our dear friend think of you often Paul hugs to your family and friends



Paul and Leona Fahey
February 20, 2021
February 20, 2021
Hugs to you Bessie and Peter, I can’t even imagine what you are after going through all those years, just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you both. God Bless You♥️
February 20, 2021
February 20, 2021
Hugs my friend to you and Peter and the family .
February 20, 2021
February 20, 2021
As I read through the beautiful memories it is easy to see what a wonderful young man Paul was, how very much he was loved and how much he is missed. It is hard to understand why our loved ones are taken from us. We have to believe that God has a plan for us all.....here on earth and in Heaven. Paul will never be forgotten and he will always live on in the hearts of those who loved him. Hugs to his special family.
February 20, 2021
February 20, 2021
Well Son another year has passed since you left us. Its no easier, we still shed our tears, as we do so often. We miss and love you. Things are so different here on earth. If only you could be with us physically, as you are always with us by spirit and love. You will always be remembered . Fly high sweety.
December 25, 2020
December 25, 2020
Merry Christmas my friend you have been on our minds a lot lately
We visited with your sister for Tibbs eve and you were surely missed what a laugh we would have had if you were there physically
Your buddy dropped off some treats to your mom and dad yesterday
We are hoping to visit with them over the holidays
Thank you for watching over us
Love and miss you everyday
Paul and Leona Fahey
December 25, 2020
December 25, 2020
Merry Heavenly Christmas Our darling son.
EVERY CHRISTMAS GETS HARDER AND HARDER WITH OUT YOU.
So much has happened since you went away, but i know you are with us everyday. As i sit here this Christmas morn, Tears just flow as i wish you could be here physically. Always know we love you forever until we meet again..XOXOX
December 9, 2020
December 9, 2020
Hey Bud,
Sitting here today listening to music, remembering some of the lyrics you had written and our last phone call.  It been a hard year here just like the one that you left us .. Hockey is still running strong in my blood through my family.. And I could bet that you would have a good story or fib to tell if you were with us today.. hugs to your family and Merry Christmas from Rose family
July 3, 2020
July 3, 2020
Sending Happy Birthday wishes to you today! I know you still watch over me and I'm pretty sure you have all of Heaven in kinks with your fun-loving personality.
February 20, 2020
February 20, 2020
Forever missed our dear friend think of you often
Keep watching over us
Until we meet again

Paul and Leona Fahey
February 20, 2020
February 20, 2020
Well, Son 22 years today you left us. We miss you so very much. To us, it feels like yesterday. where has the time gone? May you smile down on us from God's heavenly home. and May you help dry our tears. Love you SON. The weather is so different. we are going to your resting place now with your favorite flowers. red and white roses. Love you forever!
July 3, 2019
July 3, 2019
Happy Heavenly Birthday Paul. wow if you had stay you would have been 47 today. we all love and miss you.
February 20, 2019
February 20, 2019
Well my Son 21 years today you left us. We miss you so very much. To us it feels like yesterday. where have time gone. May you smile down on us from God's heavenly home. and May you help dry our tears. Love you SON.
December 24, 2018
December 24, 2018
Well my darling son its Christmas eve 2018 and we miss you oh so much. Another Christmas without you here on earth. So i know you knows what happens here. And we all are sending Merry Christmas in Heaven. We love you. Uncle Ted is there with you all now. so wish all our families and friends a merry Christmas
Love you Mom and Dad.
July 3, 2018
July 3, 2018
Well My Angel today you would have celebrated your 46th Earthly Birthday.
We all Love and Miss you so much. My heart breaks at the thought of you not here with us. May God hold you in the palm of his wondrous Hands, and that he hugs you for us . RIP my angel boy.
February 20, 2018
February 20, 2018
My darling brother....where do I even begin....20 years since you were called home, not one day goes by that you are not thought of, we love you just as much today, and we miss you just as much today as 20 years ago, it really doesn't get any easier. We are so thankful that we had you to share for 25 years. My heart will never be the same, it has an ache that can't be made better! We smile just thinking of the great times we have shared together!! Thank you for watching over us every day bro.....love you always and forever....xoxo Sis
February 20, 2018
February 20, 2018
Thinking of all the family today,hugs to all.
February 20, 2018
February 20, 2018
Wow....... can't believe it's 20 years Paul. Your memory is as alive as always. Your family is to be credited for that. You are very much missed still and always will be. Fly high Angel.
February 20, 2018
February 20, 2018
Thinking of you all today. May God Bless you all
February 19, 2018
February 19, 2018
Remembering your amazing laugh. Such a down to earth guy. Glad we knew each other. Hugs to your family. ❤️
February 19, 2018
February 19, 2018
To the Layman family thinking of you all god bless
February 19, 2018
February 19, 2018
Hugs to the Layman Family -- forever missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing Paul --God bless.
February 18, 2018
February 18, 2018
A beautiful Tribute to your precious son.Thinking of you all.Rest in Peace Paul.
February 18, 2018
February 18, 2018
Remembering Paul in the intentions of my Holy Mass today and always.
February 10, 2018
February 10, 2018
A beautiful web site. I often think of how strong you and Peter were to be able to handle such sorrow. Paul is such a handsome young man.
February 6, 2018
February 6, 2018
Well my darling Son it will soon be 20 years since you left us on this earth. We all miss you. But the hurt has never gone away. It hurts just as much some days even more. Love and miss you. May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
July 3, 2017
July 3, 2017
Happy 45th Birthday Paul! I pray that you are enjoying your Special day in Heaven as we would have had a celebration here on earth. O God how it hurts not having you here with us, but i guess God had bigger plans that we don't understand why. But our wonderful memories keeps you close, Your smile, your wit, your good nature towards people, your compassion, kindness and your undying Love for Family, friends ,strangers and God we will never forget. Love and Miss you Our SON. You are always mention in conversation at celebrations. Today in memory of your 45th Birthday Dad and I is setting a tree that your Uncle Joe gave us. It is called Pink Beauty Crab apple tree. Happy Birthday Son until we meet again.
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June 3, 2017
June 3, 2017
June 2, 2017 Jennifer presented your award to Matthew Allen of Nova Scotia. Ironic that the award when to a fine young man of Nova Scotia where you left this earth. Many Memories came back and tears flowed.
Love you forever and always.
February 21, 2017
February 21, 2017
Son yesterday was such a difficult day as we laid Glenn Oliver to rest. It was painful. especially on your Death anniversary, But Thank God and i somehow felt you by my side. we got through it. You are missed so very very much. We love you and always will. 19 years has passed and our pain has not lessen. We have learn how to cope with you not being here Physically. You will always be loved, missed and thought of every day. GOD BLESS
February 21, 2017
February 21, 2017
Sending hugs to you Peter and all your family, i know yesterday was so difficult as you were with us as we laid our brother,Glenn to rest!!we thank you from the bottom of our hearts. RIP Paul & Glenn.
February 21, 2017
February 21, 2017
Looking through the site and thinking back to all the wonderful memories your Mom shared with me over the past few years. They were beautiful memories,heartfelt and so uplifting. Rest In Peace Paul .
February 20, 2017
February 20, 2017
My Darling Son and Angel
Today is a raw reminder of when you left us. It is hard to control our emotions and the pain has not left . We love and miss you oh so much. Today's weather is not as it was 19 years ago. Today it is snowing and lot of snow down. 19 years ago it was foggy and misty rain. So much has happened in 19 years, good and not so good, we wish you were to share all the good times. Our life would be so different. God Bless you Paul, you are so missed and so very much loved.
February 20, 2017
February 20, 2017
Remembering you Paul and your beautiful warm smile. You remain forever in our hearts.
February 20, 2017
February 20, 2017
Thinking of you and Peter today..Hugs to you both...
February 20, 2017
February 20, 2017
Remember the day you passed like it was yesterday and hurts just as much
Oh what we wouldn't give to sit and chat and laugh with you today but I know one day we will . Thank you for being our guardian angel and watching over us ( especially our boys ) until we meet again my friend until we meet again
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July 6, 2023
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I so often think of Paul, funny, witty and such a smile. Many times studying in the dorm late at night, Paul had a mischievous side but also a heart of gold and a vulnerable side. I still place his Christmas ornament on my tree every Christmas and now my kids even refer to it as mom’s friends ornament. In just 3 short years of being his classmate, he left a life long impression. I am sure he is smiling down with that mischievous grin of his. RIP and I will never forget you my friend.
February 20, 2023
February 20, 2023
Today as we get ready to visit your resting place, tears flow uncontrolable> i question Why so many times. But God gave you to us for 25 years and now you are with him for the same amount. This morning i woke again as i did the dreadful day at 2:30 am as you left this earth at 2 am halifax time.
Things has change so much, often wondered what you would think or say about it all. And now your friend who you went off to halifax with is battling the dreaded disease of Cancer. Watch over him as he journeys through this battle. We miss you so very very much.
I often sit quietly and i am sure i can hear your laugh, or hear your jokes, or how you wanted to help people. Many a times i feel your presence, smell your colonge. and Read your poems. God Keep you in the palm of his hand. RIP my son. Until we meet again watch over us and visit us when you can in our dreams.
February 13, 2023
February 13, 2023
Well my dear brother Paul....next week will be 25 years since I last heard your voice, or your laugh, where does time go. You were with us for just as long as you have been gone, wow!! I cannot put into words, how much you are still missed but not forgotten. We think of you with smiles on our faces, and happiness in our hearts, but at time tears in our eyes. I wonder how things would have been different..... You are talked about lots by your family and friends, remembering the goods times. At times you are near us, we find the quarters, we smell your cologne, and maybe at times we feel your gentle touch. Stay with us, look after us, we need you more now than ever before as the world is sure changing. We are the lucky ones to have had you as part of our journey, thank you God for blessing us with Paul. Thank you for the gift of Paul, as each one of us who knew him, still has a part of him in our lives, some how some way, he will never be forgotten. Love you so much and miss you so much more....love sis xoxo
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