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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, PAUL BRISLEE, 54 years old, born on May 28, 1956, and passed away on July 26, 2010. We will remember him forever.
December 25, 2015
December 25, 2015
hi sweetheart, merry xmas, it,s not the same xmas without you, i know i keep repeating myself about missing you an wanting to be with you i know i will be with you one day, i have my 2 cats to keep me company but it,s not the same as you being here, one cat named Bailey keeps following me around he,s a proper mummys boy an loves his cuddles the other Maisie she,s deaf she was a handfull but she,s coming round she lets me stroke her an she does eat treats out of my hand now but she still wont let me pick her up to give her a cuddle,there,s not much else to say as always i love an miss you an can,t wait to be with you again merry xmas xxxx
May 28, 2015
May 28, 2015
Hello dad sry not been on here for awhile well today is ur birthday so happy birthday dad hope ur Avin a blast wit everyone it's still very hard to get use to u not bin here I've still got ur mobile number on my fone as can't get rid of it yet n ur still under mum n dad for the landline can't change that either , well ur always thought about dad n ur missed loads RIP dad love n miss u loads xx❤️Xx
May 5, 2015
May 5, 2015
Sorry I haven't been on here in a while I have been sorting out cancer research events to raise money I'm hopefully doing the cancer run this year what is on May 17th and I am also running two other events for cancer research a school tuck shop and I am also shaving my hair for cancer research to raise even more money I'm doing all of this for you I love and miss you so much it breaks my heart to even look at a picture of you I still can't get over your gone I wish Kenzo could of met you I hope your doing great we will meet again one day I love you so much grandad <3
January 1, 2015
January 1, 2015
Ello dad happy new year , well it's another year gone by n it's still hard 2 believe ur not er wit us we all still miss u loads n love u lots dad here's a kiss from all the kids xxxxxxxx ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
December 26, 2014
December 26, 2014
hi sweetie well its boxing day an i,ve never been so alone, when with people i am the person who smiles an is carrying on, but once that front door shuts i,m the person who misses you so much an wants to be with you, it takes a lot of courage carrying on without you,i,m taking each day at a time, but it is so hard carrying on, i don,t have many good days now,i just shut myself away from everybody an don,t go out unless i really have too, i never thought for 1 moment that losing you would be so distressing an painful,its that what never goes away,well another day an soon it will be 2015 an another year that gets me closer to being with you, till we meet again love an miss you so much xxxx
December 26, 2014
December 26, 2014
Hi dad well it's Xmas again another Xmas wit out , well kids loved their presents even Amelia she even tried openin er presents herself then got stressed coz she cudnt open them it was funny , well ur still missed loads by everybody everyday it's still not the same u not bin er dad Amelia n Dylan no all about their wonderful grandad it's ashame they Neva got the chance 2 meet u , but I'm sure ur watchin ova everybody from above love n miss u loads dad xxx❤️❤️❤️Xxx
December 26, 2014
December 26, 2014
Hi dad well it's Xmas again another Xmas wit out , well kids loved their presents even Amelia she even tried openin er presents herself then got stressed coz she cudnt open them it was funny , well ur still missed loads by everybody everyday it's still not the same u not bin er dad Amelia n Dylan no all about their wonderful grandad it's ashame they Neva got the chance 2 meet u , but I'm sure ur watchin ova everybody from above love n miss u loads dad xxx❤️❤️❤️Xxx
December 21, 2014
December 21, 2014
hi it,s me so sorry for not being on here as much as I want too, so much is going on, it,s xmas week an it,s so busy now, I can,t walk around town no more as it kills my back an then I,m in so much pain I can,t do anything for the next couple of days, I have been told that when you left me in 2010 the strain of losing you started all these problems, the back trouble I,ve had most of my life, but it caused my spinal stenosis with all the stress of dealing your cremation, you have company now snowie had to be put to sleep cos of arthritis an cancer, so look after her for me until I meet you both. I have 2 cats now bailey is 5yrs an is a maine coon which he,s a predigree cat I think he,s been crawly treated cos all his fur isn,t what a predigree cat should be, maisie she,s deaf an is frighten of people she,s 3yrs an still a little kitten at times, maisie was,nt her real name it was duchess didn,t like that so ive change it to maisie , you know me if I don,t like anything I change it, I,ve been accepted for a bungalow which I,m hoping to get a 2 bed one, but could be waiting over 2yrs years for one, still miss you as much as I did when you left me, it,s my 5th xmas with out you I,ll come on here on xmas day to talk to you then ok love an miss you soooo much xxxx
December 19, 2014
December 19, 2014
Hi dad sry not been on 4 awhile been Avin trouble wit my fone , well Amelia is gettin big now she's 4 mths old n a lil chunky she's always smilin n talkin , I've shown er a pic of u she got all excited n was smilin away at the pic . Well it's another Xmas wit out u dad it's not the same u not bin er ur still missed by everyone loads dad ❤️❤️❤️
December 19, 2014
December 19, 2014
Stoke vs chelsea at 8pm on the 22nd December of course we are going to win me and Kenzo love you grandad <3
December 16, 2014
December 16, 2014
Chelsea go though to next round with a 3-1 win over Derby!! <3
December 11, 2014
December 11, 2014
Chelsea game yesterday chelsea 3-1 sporting Lisbon <3
November 25, 2014
November 25, 2014
Chelsea is winning 5-0!!!! You would be so happy :D we love and miss you so much never a day goes by not thinking about you <3
November 25, 2014
November 25, 2014
FC schalke 0 - 5 Chelsea

Chelsea won!!!!!! :D <3
August 28, 2014
August 28, 2014
Hi ya dad well I said I'll let u no wen Amelia arrived n she's finally er she arrived on Monday weighing 8lb 9oz 8 days late lil bugger she's tiny wit lots of dark hair , it's ashame Amelia Neva got the chance 2 meet u but she will def no all about er wonderful grandad as we r always talkin about u n we r all missin u loads love u lots dad ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
August 23, 2014
August 23, 2014
Hi ya dad sry not been on been Avin trouble gettin on er , well still no sign of Amelia arrivin yet she's now a wk late lazy lil bugger she is but will let u no wen she's er n she will no all about er grandad , well can't believe it's 4 yrs since u ave been gone still can't believe it don't think no1 can really , Tyler keeps sayin wen he's older he's cumin 2 get u n brin u home bless him , well I'll try n get on er sooner dad miss u loads dad n love u lots xxxxxxxx a kiss from us all ❤❤❤
August 21, 2014
August 21, 2014
hi sweetie so sorry for not coming on here yesterday, I know its the 4th anniversary,an it don't get any easier as time goes by.well Kelly hasn't given birth yet, shes 3 days over due now, so its a waiting game for all of us.not much else to say, im surprized that chris,jill,or louise hare, I do know that Kelly is having trouble getting on here.erm what else, aaron went to the isle of wight a week or so back, an he did enjoy it. I miss you as much as I did when you left me.xxxx
August 2, 2014
August 2, 2014
Hi dad it's been awhile since I've been on here ad Abit of trouble gettin on er but here I am now , well it's been 4 yrs now already n I still can't believe ur not here wit us its still gettin sum use 2 but very hard , well u prob no about Amelia the new arrival wen she decides 2 turn up lol she's gonna b Avin mums name as a middle name think mum is really happy about it as all the boys ave got ur name as their middle names , don't worry Amelia is gonna no all about u dad about how wonderful er grandad is same as the boys no all about u , I will try n get on er Abit more if I can , well hope 2 c u soon I say that as I've ad 2 strange dreams about cin u n everybody else but it was nice 2 c u ,well I'll say gd bye 4 now missin u loads dad n love u lots xxxx
July 26, 2014
July 26, 2014
Hi dad 4 years have gone so quick, only seems months ago rather than years. Chelsea vs Liverpool games really just aren't the same without your totally biased, completely wrong football views lol, Liverpool are still the most successful English team. Heard the liquidator song the other day and it just got me thinking about you and your friend (forgot his name). Seeing him dance to that song at Kelly's wedding is a sight that will stay with me forever . I was at the same venue just the other day for my mates wedding. Well not much else to say other than I miss you and wish you was still here and that I absolutely hate cancer and every time I hear that someone has or may have it I always seem to take it personally. See you when its time to.
Aaron
July 25, 2014
July 25, 2014
hi sweetie I know im a day early but you know me (head like a sieve)well what can I say that's not been said before. I had a lovely day out with aaron on the 20th, he treated me to a day out at farnbourough air show for my 60th, we both got burnt, aaron (bless him) sprayed sun tan in his eye, which I became quite worried about, still he,s fine now,must tell you that aaron had got a job in Germany, he,s still got the job but is working from his works. well what else oh yeah I,ve changed my car I didn,t like the venga for some reason,i have now a C3 Picasso, which I do enjoy driving,when I,m not in pain with my back( finally found out what I have ) it,s called spinal stenosis which they can,t do anything about but just keep giving me painkillers. not sure if you know but Kelly is 8mths pregnant with a girl called Amelia mae colleen, bit of a shock but everything is ok.so that makes it Shelby,tlisha megan tyler paul,dylan Jeffery an Amelia mae, plus Shelby,s son kenzo, so that makes you a great grandad at 58yr, I know what you would say being I,m 2 yrs older, so we,ll leave it at that. still waiting to move to a bungalow, the stairs kill me when I have to go up them, I,m hoping that when I do move that you will come with me an keep moving those pixie,s that lets me know that your still with me, till I,m with you. I,ve written a letter to both Kelly an aaron,but won,t get them till I,m with you.not much else to say you know that I miss you just as much as when you left me in 2010. 4yrs already still the days an months are flying by, so it won,t be long till I,m with you again. I,m hoping that aaron an Kelly an the kids will write on here, just to let you know that they are all ok. love an miss you xxxx.
July 1, 2014
July 1, 2014
The other day I was talking to my boyfriend Michael (kenzo dad) about you and how much I wish you was still here also the fact I wish kenzo could of meet you and I just broke down crying it never get easier with out you I miss you so much I can't say anything about you with out crying I try not to cry but it's so hard when I miss you so much I would do anything to have to back here healthy I still can't get over your gone I love and miss you so much! <3
May 28, 2014
May 28, 2014
hi sweetie, so sorry for not getting on here for a while, nothing has happened, well today would have been your 58th birthday, time has gone so fast, nearly into june an then xmas is here again, my 5th without you, well then the day after my 60th birthday I,m going into hospital, not looking forward to it.anyway I,m going to farnbourgh air show with aaron in july, it,s something to look forward too. cont....
May 28, 2014
May 28, 2014
cont...well mum went into hospital on Monday to have a operation on her shoulder,aaron is going to Germany in a few weeks time for 3wks to work, he,s doing very well at the moment. your going to be a granddad again Kelly is 6mths pregnant, so now we have now Shelby,tlisha,megan,tyler,dylan,an soon Amelia, an great grandson kenzo. got a new car now, didn,t like the kia venga for some reason, so now I,ve got C3 piscasso an she is nice to drive  cont...
May 28, 2014
May 28, 2014
cont... well what else can I say, I miss you the same as when you passed away in 2010, I still wish that you were still here with me, but that's me dreaming again,i know your still with me as the angels keep moving lol, I want you to come an get me when it,s my turn to go ok,i still love you an miss you so much, till we meet again. HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET.XXXX
December 25, 2013
December 25, 2013
hi hunnie well it,s xmas day an have opened all my presents, loved all of them,you know I don,t do xmas since you,ve been gone,it,s not the same anymore,watching the same boring tv an you making wise cracks about it,i,ve not done a roast dinner since you,ve been gone,whats the point.It,s not getting any easier with you not here. I,ve decided to get some info on sheltered accommodation in the new year, which would be a lot better for me,instead of trying to climb the stairs which really takes it out of me.I,m just hoping I,ll be able to take the cat with me, if not then I,ll wait for a bungalow to come up. You were right when you said to your mother that you would not be able to cope living on your own,an saying that I was the stronger, well im not the stronger,i don,t like it, it a case of telling everybody " yeah im fine" " getting use to being on my own" but the truth of it is I hate it, I hate being here without you esp on days like today an every other special day. Anyway I think about you always an I miss you soooo much, happy xmas babe XXXX
December 25, 2013
December 25, 2013
Merry Christmas grandad
Lots of love Shelby & kenzo
We love you so much and miss you ❤
December 24, 2013
December 24, 2013
hi hunnie,well its xmas eve again, its going so fast, its 3years now an 4 xmas,s without you, its not getting any easier, an I,m getting more an more un happy being here on my own,doing things are just so hard to do, now my spine is getting worse an in constant pain,sometimes I just sit an cry with the pain. In the new year I,m going to see if I can get into a sheltered accomindation,which would suit me a lot better,then if anything happens all I,ve got to do is call an someone will come an help me.also I,m hoping I can take snowie with me, if not then I wont be going, im not giving her up, she,s with me 24/7,i still think of joining you, it would be so easy to do,its only snowie that stops me.i,ll stop now as I,m getting tearful again, ill write again tomoz just to wish you a happy xmas ok hunnie, I so love you an miss you terribly.xxxx
December 1, 2013
December 1, 2013
Hi hunnie, well it,s December so xmas won,t be long, an again not looking forward to it, it,s not the same since you been gone, I,ve not put decorations up since 2010, it,s not xmas to me any more, it,s just another day. I,ll proberly go to brian,s again as they don,t do xmas as well lol. In the new year I,l be moving for sure, as you know I,m not too good with the stairs now an getting out of the bath, so really need a bungalow, that's my main goal for 2014, an I know you will be with me as your still moving that angel lol. I,m so lonely without you being here in person, they say time,s a healer, not in this case, I,m not healing at all, I,m doing the all smiles an laughter in front of people, but once alone I,m miserable an lonely,i can,t wait to see you again, with all these pains an sickness I keep getting it makes me wonder if I,m going to see you sooner then later, it would be nice, but when my times up I want you to meet me at those big pearly gates ok.I MISS YOU SO MUCH AN LOVE YOU JUST AS MUCH.XXXX
October 23, 2013
October 23, 2013
Hey grandad how have you been I miss you lots but I know your in a better place and out of pain well I just wanted to say I LOVE YOU and always will
October 14, 2013
October 14, 2013
Hi dad it's been awhile since I've been on er 2 talk 2 u well kids are getting big now still talk about u , Tyler still says he's gonna cum n get u wen he's bigger so we all can c u bless him , well it's still not rite u not bin wit us dad we r all missin u loads n love u lots dad r.i.p dad xxxxxxx
October 10, 2013
October 10, 2013
hi hunnie,well here,s your great grandson kenzo, in his Chelsea outfit, he,s growing so fast, I didn,t recognised when I saw him for the second time, an I could,nt even lift him up, he,d had put on so much weight lol.i still can,t see who he take,s after, Shelby thinks he,s got your hair at the moment just round the back of the head.i,m hoping Shelby will put more photo,s of him cont.....
October 10, 2013
October 10, 2013
cont..it would be nice if all the kids could do it including Kelly an Aaron, Aaron moans about my parking of my car lol, it is nice to have the car,it means that I don,t have to rely on Kelly or Aaron to take me here there an everywhere, I still need Kelly to take me shopping about once a month just to do a big shop, an is taking me to the vets to have snowie seen too,hope you  cont...
October 10, 2013
October 10, 2013
cont.. of her, she,s had cancer as well,she was 17yrs when I got her in sept after you passed, so she,s getting on now, still she,s company for me, an as you know I do spoil her.i don,t see bob an sue anymore, I have,nt seen them since your cremation,thats friends for you,after all these years, an now nothing,you certainly know who your best friends are don,t you.i miss you an love you xxx
October 9, 2013
October 9, 2013
hi hunnie,sorry I,ve not been on here for a while, xmas is coming up so fast,i,m trying to sort out all the xmas presents,its becoming a headache. im doing this an Elton john is singing (sorry seems to be the hardest word) I should have had this song at your cremation,(too late now)anyway I still think of those days when you first left me an still to this day I cry when im alone.   cont
October 9, 2013
October 9, 2013
cont..this xmas will be my 4th without you being here in person, but I know your with me spirit,by the way you turn my angel to the left.anyway I hoping Shelby will put a pic of kenzo(your great grandson)on your site soon, it would be nice to have all your grandkids pics on here so you can see how big they are getting.well im gonna say it again I miss you not being here with me. I love you
October 7, 2013
October 7, 2013
Hiya grandad kenzo is getting his first tooth In a couple of weeks it should of came through I miss you loads I will be telling kenzo all about you and how wonderful you are really wish you could of met him we both love you so much! ❤
October 2, 2013
October 2, 2013
Thinking about you again grandad there is not ever a day when I'm not thinking about you I miss you soo much! I really wish you was still here I love you loads I hope you know that! I wish I could give you a big cuddle it still really hurts me knowing your not here I would do anything to see you again I wish kenzo could of met you he would of love you he looks like you a lot I love you <3
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December 25, 2015
December 25, 2015
hi sweetheart, merry xmas, it,s not the same xmas without you, i know i keep repeating myself about missing you an wanting to be with you i know i will be with you one day, i have my 2 cats to keep me company but it,s not the same as you being here, one cat named Bailey keeps following me around he,s a proper mummys boy an loves his cuddles the other Maisie she,s deaf she was a handfull but she,s coming round she lets me stroke her an she does eat treats out of my hand now but she still wont let me pick her up to give her a cuddle,there,s not much else to say as always i love an miss you an can,t wait to be with you again merry xmas xxxx
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paul your life story.

July 31, 2012

paul was born at royal tunbridge wells on may 28th 1956,an is the younger brother to jill an louise, an have an elder brother chris, was bought up in maidstone, then he moved to ashford an that,s when i meet him,he loved the outdoors an had a job as a builder,which he loved,he felt that he wasn,t getting to where he wanted to be, so he an a friend named peter stone got together an started there own bisiness,(stone & sons)which got of to a very good start.after around 5yrs they parted an paul went on his own for a while, then aaron started with his dad,that lasted 5yrs an then the business stared to go down, that lasted till he got cancer,infact he was doing what he loved best right up to when he had his operation to removed from his kidney,which was still working with this mass of cancer around it.after you came home that,s when i saw the smile from your face,an the worring came on your face, i could tell when you was thinking about it.our holiday in cornwall wasn,t the enjoyable as it use to be, i had to take that photo which i don,t like,but it,s the last ever photo i,ve got,an i always kiss it goodnight.it would be better if i could kiss you in person,but i,m not going to kiss you till i meet you at those pearley gates....

when i first met paul.

July 30, 2012

when i first met paul i was working at factory, an it was in the dinner hour that we first saw each other, he was playing table tennis,an i was walking passed him an he missed the ball lol. it was near xmas an i was a little drunk,so they put me upstairs, me an a few friends started talking about him an his mates, one of his mates came over an spoke to me an told me that when he first saw me he wanted to go out with me, i already knew he was 2yrs younger than me, but was a number.we arrange to meet at a pub called the swan pub, he says that i did,t turn up an ive been saying that he didn,t, after xmas when i got back to work,we had a laugh about it,an again made arrangments to meet up, an this time he did,an went to the pictures a watch a film. it happened to be a horror film, he didn,t know that i don,t like horror movies,we use to go to folkstone to a disco called stones, he didn,t like it cause i love dancing an he could,nt,so the boys use to come an dance with me. one sat down at stones we went to the beach an pauls friends went for a dip in the sea without any clothes on, one lost his watch an the other lost his pants. when i got told that paul loved me i was over the moon,i,d been waiting for a few weeks for him to say it, so when paul,s friends took us on a pub crawl,to cut a long story short, that pub crawl led me to being pregnant with kelly, so on april 19th we got married, in october 5th i held my baby girl after having 3 days of labour,i always knew i was having a girl,  two years later i held my baby son named aaron with him i had 8hrs of sheer agony an had a massive briuse on the top of my leg. now how the time flys both have grown up an with thier partners, it,s so nice to see them grown into adults, the only thing i would change is for you to see your grandchildren, an how they are growing, i never dreamed that you would be taken so early,an leaving me alone.the only thing left is for you to come an get me an help me through those pearly gates, an then we can hold hands again. i miss you so,so much,i,m tired of playing the happy person,when i,m not, i just want to be with you one more time,but it looks like i,m gonna have to wait......

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