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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Philip Lucero, 56, born on May 24, 1956 and passed away on January 24, 2013. We will remember him forever.

Philip R. Lucero, 56, of Aurora IL passed away on Thursday, January 24, 2013 at Rush-Copley Hospital in Aurora due to complications following cancer surgery. He was born on May 24, 1956 in Aurora, IL at Copley Hospital, the son of Ezekiel (Hank) Lucero and Gladys (Williams) Lucero Neville.

Phil was a 1975 Batavia High School graduate. His favorite classes in school were always recess and gym. He grew up as a member of the Bethel Church of the Brethren in Naperville. He had a great laugh that made us all laugh too. His vision was very good, which helped him to shoot pool. He played a lot of 8-ball through the years. He was in a few bands as a vocalist and he played the guitar.

He worked at McKee Door in Aurora for a few years before deciding to become a truck driver. He worked for Dante Gentilini Trucking and Stokes Trucking, among others. Also, in recent years he was self-employed as a local and long-haul truck driver.

In 1984, Phil married Nancy Wollwert and their son Jared was born in 1987. Although Phil and Nancy divorced later on, they remained good friends through the years.

He is survived by his ex-wife, Nancy; their son, Jared Lucero; Jared's fiancée, Tiffany; his grandsons, Anthony and Aiziah; 4 brothers, Michael Lucero of California, Roger Lucero (Janet) of Elmhurst, IL, Joseph Lucero (Darla) of Hoffman Estates, IL, Thomas Lucero, Columbus, Ohio; 1 sister, Maureen Lucero Holmberg (Donald) of Colorado; 1 stepbrother, George Neville (JoAnne) of Batavia, IL; and 1 stepsister, Sue Neville Warfel (Henry) of So. Elgin, IL; many nieces, nephews, and cousins. He was preceded in death by his stepbrother, Gary Neville; father, Ezekiel (Hank) Lucero; stepfather, George Neville; mother, Gladys Neville; grandpa, E.B. Williams of Naperville, IL; and grandma, Alta Williams of Naperville, IL.

January 24, 2021
January 24, 2021
I can't believe it has been 8 years already. We still miss you, Phil. I have just been seeing your pictures pop up on my computer screen and you have not changed a bit! Ha Ha. I knew you would laugh at that. You always laughed and made us laugh with you. What a blessing knowing that you are in the arms of Jesus and playing in His band with a band of angels. Holy Holy Holy is the Lord God Almighty. Love, your sis, Mo
May 25, 2017
May 25, 2017
It is hard to believe that it has been 4 years already. We miss you little brother. Happy 61st birthday. So many memories. You had a great smile and laugh and your attitude was awesome. I wish you were here to see my 2 great granddaughters. They are beauitiful. Love and miss you, Mo
January 24, 2017
January 24, 2017
It is hard to believe that it has been four years since my ex-husband and good friend Philip Lucero passed away. As the time passes, I think of him often. Phil's favorite song, Wild Horses by the Rolling Stones, still brings a tear to my eye. At the time of his passing, Phil's friends and relatives may have wondered why I held vigil at the hospital with our son Jared and why I was included in the guest list at his memorial service. At least one of his friends made his disapproval obvious (you know who you are). Although our marriage did not last, our friendship endured. Phil was always there for me when I needed someone to talk to, and he was a loving parent to our son, Jared. Over the years, we discussed our current relationships, loaned each other money, and worked together to raise our son. When he was diagnosed with cancer, I asked him to share my home as he was driving truck and had no permanent residence. Don't criticize what you don't understand. I don't think anyone in this world misses Phil as much as I do, except our son Jared.
May 24, 2016
May 24, 2016
Today would have been Phil's 60th birthday. He is missed by his son Jared, his grandsons Anthony and Aiziah, and by myself. Although our marriage only lasted six years, our friendship lasted a lifetime. He was a good friend and was always there when I needed him.
May 24, 2016
May 24, 2016
Dad, I really love and miss you so much. Happy 60th birthday. We love you and all miss you.
May 24, 2014
May 24, 2014
Today would be your 58th birthday, Phil. We miss you. Happy Birthday. You always remembered to call me on my birthday. That meant alot. Tell Jesus that we are glad that you are singing in His band now. Amazing Grace how sweet the sound. 
Love, Your Sis, Mo
May 13, 2013
May 13, 2013
i went to school with phil at batavia high and sometimes hanging out on wilson street and cv pits. phil never was a man to give anyone a problem and if you had one he was there to help you mellow. allways peaceful. i lost contac for over 30 years an met him again in 2012 where he reconize me and i new who he was because that face and smile never changed.wish we had more time phil :) see ya
February 22, 2013
February 22, 2013
I knew Phil for a few years back in the 90s...played Bass in his band. Phil was a good person. Phil was a man I admired, always takin care of business, takin care of family, and helpin out friends in time of need. I know Im one of em, Thanks Phil...Rest in peace, but first sing one with the angels up there. I wonder if they know any Rolling Stones..??
February 21, 2013
February 21, 2013
Words are difficult here. Phil's easy personality and sense of humor made him instantly a friend to anyone and everyone. Phil was definitely one of a kind, and one of the kindest souls you could ever meet. He could make you laugh when you least felt like it, and smile when you most needed it - one of life's greatest blessings. Phil had that style, and I'll always remember!
February 21, 2013
February 21, 2013
Hey Phil thanks for being a friend to me. I could count on you for a good smile and info about where the parties were at. I can still see ya driving that jeep with the top down, and the stereo blasting. See you on the other side. :)
February 20, 2013
February 20, 2013
I Hope we all can leave such Great Memories in the end thats all we really have to Leave is Memories...You Left alot of Memories for alot of People Phil will be missed by many...But never forgtten.....Memories Last a Life Time.
February 17, 2013
February 17, 2013
I met phil in 1982. he was living in a 1 room apt. From there our friendship grew. We went to parties and hung out and became great friends. I watched him raise his family, he was a great father and he always put his families needs ahead of his own. I will never forget his smile or his laugh. I will carry what i learned from him, until the day we meet again. Love you Phil... Thanks buddy!!
February 16, 2013
February 16, 2013
I hung out with Phil in High School and then afterwards. I posted a story about us in the other section of this website, but trying to sum up our friendship in short tribute seems so trivial. Words cannot express how I feel about Phil being gone. We will all miss him.
February 15, 2013
February 15, 2013
He was my youngest brother. He was so much fun to be with. He and Jared came to visit us in Colorado and we went to the Frontier Days Rodeo. He really enjoyed that. We spend time together at our mom's home in Arkansas with her and George. He was an easy going guy and never seemed to worry about things too much. We will miss him greatly. His sis, Mo

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January 24, 2021
January 24, 2021
I can't believe it has been 8 years already. We still miss you, Phil. I have just been seeing your pictures pop up on my computer screen and you have not changed a bit! Ha Ha. I knew you would laugh at that. You always laughed and made us laugh with you. What a blessing knowing that you are in the arms of Jesus and playing in His band with a band of angels. Holy Holy Holy is the Lord God Almighty. Love, your sis, Mo
May 25, 2017
May 25, 2017
It is hard to believe that it has been 4 years already. We miss you little brother. Happy 61st birthday. So many memories. You had a great smile and laugh and your attitude was awesome. I wish you were here to see my 2 great granddaughters. They are beauitiful. Love and miss you, Mo
January 24, 2017
January 24, 2017
It is hard to believe that it has been four years since my ex-husband and good friend Philip Lucero passed away. As the time passes, I think of him often. Phil's favorite song, Wild Horses by the Rolling Stones, still brings a tear to my eye. At the time of his passing, Phil's friends and relatives may have wondered why I held vigil at the hospital with our son Jared and why I was included in the guest list at his memorial service. At least one of his friends made his disapproval obvious (you know who you are). Although our marriage did not last, our friendship endured. Phil was always there for me when I needed someone to talk to, and he was a loving parent to our son, Jared. Over the years, we discussed our current relationships, loaned each other money, and worked together to raise our son. When he was diagnosed with cancer, I asked him to share my home as he was driving truck and had no permanent residence. Don't criticize what you don't understand. I don't think anyone in this world misses Phil as much as I do, except our son Jared.
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MY FOREVER MEMORIES OF PHIL

February 20, 2013

I met Phil when i was sixteen years old at his family's home on Ellen lane in Batavia.I later found out my family bought the same house and i raised my two boys there,my oldest son had Phil's old room.Then in 2011 we found each other on Facebook, we talked on the phone so much day and night i felt like i was traveling with him on his many journey's. His job took him to so many different places,he enjoyed his job working for himself getting paid to see the Country it was pretty neat!! but i honestly don't know how he drove so many miles straight through sometimes. He was always up beat, we laughed alot and caught up on each others lives there are so many fun memories along the way. One day he was driving and he decided to go through the pass-through lane at the TollBooth the truck in front of him went through so he did too except the gate went down and he went right through it his van was okay but the gate was not it was in pieces so we were trying to fiqure out what we should do because he wanted to do the right thing thats how he was, so he finally called the highway patrol and they told him that its okay and not to worry about it because it happens about twice a week boy he was relieved!!! we laughed so much about that i can just imagine his face when that gate splintered into pieces!!!! thats just one of the many memories well anyways we finally got to meet each other after all these years and enjoyed our time together i wish i could've met him earlier in life i would've loved to be able to hear his music but i am thankful that i got to know him he brought alot of love and happiness to my life THANK YOU!!! PHIL LUCERO you will be missed by many how great that you left so many wonderful memories i am so grateful to have gotten to know you Love Always!!! Sharon Dooley-Wheeler

Only The Best

February 20, 2013

I have known Phil since I was a teenager. He lived across the street from me. He not only was my neighbor but he also became a very dear friend to me and my family while I was growing up. He always had a BIG SMILE and was ready to have a good time. In 1979 our family moved out of state and our friendship just kind of faded away. Many years passed us by and our lives went on in different directions. In 1989 I moved back to Illinois and somehow fate brought us back together and we were able to continue our friendship. So many things had changed in our lives, we’d really grown up but our friendship always remained the same. We could look back at our past and just laugh at all the silly, wild and crazy things we did while we were young and life was simple. Phil took pride in being a daddy, and there was nothing more important to him than his son and his family. Phil had a desire to succeed in anything he would set out to do in life, he was determined and when he made his mind up he would fight to make things happen, he had a passion for music, he loved to sing, dance and play his guitar, Phil was an such an amazing person and one of my dearest friends. His memory is my keepsake, with which I’ll never part. God has him in his arms but I will always have him in my heart. 

MY Buddy

February 16, 2013

  After graduating from high school Phil, I and Steve Beck moved into a house together. We had so many good times...we were young and dumb. We had many parties, many friends over, so much laughter and finding ourselves...as we grew into adults together. I lived with Phil probably 3 years or better... 
  I remember some fond memories of us playing chess all the time together, we would equal...so it was always a good time.
   He once found a baby raccoon in a garbage can at Fayians. We tried to raise it. That damn thing ripped up our house ..HA  we had a ball with that lil fella before we released it. 
  He loved to offroad his Jeep and get stuck in the mud and try to find a way to salvage the situation...he would never get upset or pissed off. 
  I don't think Phil had a enemy in the world, he loved life, he got along with everybody. Never judgemental and always so upbeat.  
   In the later years of Life I talked to him about his truck driving. He loved working for himself, the ability to have the freedom of being your own boss.
He was on top of the world.
   I think is biggest joy was working with music, he loved to play instruments and sing in his garage bands. He was having a ball. He was living his dream.
  I will miss him dearly, He was a true, great friend and I am sadden he wont be around me until I leave this earth.
  I love you Phil...see ya later alligator 


 

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