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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Professor Michael Oleka, 78 years old, born on January 20, 1935, and passed away on April 29, 2013. We will remember him forever.
February 16, 2019
February 16, 2019
Dear Grandpa, Im sorry I never got to meet you, but I know you were a lovely person. I still think about you everyday. I wish I got to meet you. You will always be in my heart.
April 29, 2015
Daddy, we love you !!
From Chichi your one and only daughter.
Dad, I can never forget you!!
As today marks the 2nd Anniversary of your departure, I shout out to you we love uuuu, we miss uuu and your not replaceable.         Your memories with the legacy you left behind will live with us everyday of my lives.
Daddy, what can I say sadly other than your fondly missed.      Mikus Olekus fondly called my his dear friends!!! Adieu Daddy.
April 29, 2014
Daddy this marks one year today, when you went to rest in the hands of the bosom of the Lord. There is no day that passes without me missing you. Your departure brought heavy grief and pain to my heart. But all I can say is that GOD knows best and he has kept me and your unseen grand daughter safe, hale and hearty. My dear friends, the church and the grace of God has been phenomenal sufficient in keeping me sane, happy and at peace . Thank you for a mighty new resurrection in Christ, adieu Daddy we luv ya and miss you . Always your Chichi and Esther. Our GOD is good all the time, Amen.
January 20, 2014
January 20, 2014
My Dearest Daddy you are forever missed!!! You would have been a year older today but the wicked hands of death took you away from me.. Dad it has not been easy without you,But, I thank GOD for being there for me most especially, because I was hit the most!! You will always be fondly remembered in my heart and Esther's. We will love you on earth and beyond. GOD is our protector and fortress and by power of the blood of Jesus we are protected, saved and gain strength in knowledge of your victory journeying to Heaven.
September 17, 2013
September 17, 2013
Daddy, it's been 6 months you been out of my life.
It's been so heart breaking and painful.
I still cannot come to terms with your death, I wondered why GOD allowed it since you were 3 weeks away from visiting with Esther and I.
Your grand daughter that would have given anything to see her Grand Dad for the 1st time ever.
May 25, 2013
May 25, 2013
Chy
dear, pls cry no more, be strong and of good courage. I understand how u
feel, Dad was your closest pal, you'll have too many regrets bcos u
were not by his bed side as he passed on. Chy, Dad will be all smiles if
he sees a courageous daughter giving him a good rite. Just celebrate
his voluminous legacies and keep the light on. May his soul rest in
peace
May 25, 2013
May 25, 2013
Chy
dear, pls cry no more, be strong and of good courage. I understand how u
feel, Dad was your closest pal, you'll have too many regrets bcos u
were not by his bed side as he passed on. Chy, Dad will be all smiles if
he sees a courageous daughter giving him a good rite. Just celebrate
his voluminous legacies and keep the light on. May his soul rest in
peace
May 23, 2013
May 23, 2013
Uncle Mike, thank you for everything. I wouldn't be where I am today without you. When you got me to read Library Science, I wondered what sort of Course it was and wasn't too happy at first but learned to love the course. Look at me today, all because I read this Course! God sent you to be my Helper. God will prosper your generation in Jesus name. May you rest in perfect peace.
May 23, 2013
May 23, 2013
From HRH Gospel N Ugwa - Mike, I took my new Staff of Office to you at the hospital to show you what we had achieved. You were to be my Principal Adviser & Confidant during my reign but now you are gone!!! We were brothers and shared so many memories. I say good night brother. Rest in the bosom of our Lord. You have fought the good fight.
May 14, 2013
May 14, 2013
Chioma and the Family, As i go through these touching words, i feel your pains, your tears and sorrow. May God comfort you and yours and give you the strenght to overcome your grief. Accept my heartfelt sympathy....Adieu Prof.

(Nkechi Nzeako)
May 14, 2013
May 14, 2013
Professor Oleka we all felt ur prensence in u and i ur children who lives in ur footsteps.we will truly greatly miss u. But one thing we will be mindful to remember is that ur life wasnt for u alone but for others. Good nite Great One.
May 14, 2013
May 14, 2013
Chioma and Amobi!! Your cries are heard by the Lord and daddy. The pain may seem intolerable and raw now but time healeth the pain. He and mum will always be in your hearts. May he rest in perfect peace always!! Take heart darling.
May 14, 2013
May 14, 2013
Chioma, I wish there is something I or anyone can do to make you feel better now. God alone can do that and if you can trust and believe in Him, He will not only comfort you, but grant you the fortitude to bear this immeasurable loss. Take heart and look up to God for solace.
May 14, 2013
May 14, 2013
Oh death I can't believe you are so wicked like this!Tears still flowing as I am writing this right on my bed!You really made a remarkable impact in my life!I can't imagine an xmass without visiting you in your hometown!your encouragement!Always telling me Edith it is well with you!The jokes!My joy is the testimonies from people concerning your life here on earth!Your legacies live!
May 14, 2013
May 14, 2013
Still want someone to tell me this is not true!can't stop tears from flowing!I'm totally devastated as a result of your demise!I wept like a baby in my office when I heard your demise!my colleagues could not stop me from weeping!The last time I heard your voice was on easter day when I called you to wish you happy easter!oh death where is thy sting!oh grave where is thy victory!
May 13, 2013
Daddy, is Chichi your daughter,
No one can hear my screams
In my thoughts or in my dreams
As I lie here hoping this never happened.
You couldn't even see Esther, Why Daddy why!!!!
May 13, 2013
Daddy you loved Frank Sinatra, I play this lullaby to keep memories of you in a stage coach as I journey through life.
As, I listen to this, I remember your foxtrot dance steps with Mum.
A close knit family we were, GOD be with us and protect us.
May 13, 2013
Daddy, Esther your grand daughter misses you, she never got to see you due to the wickedness of man!! She cries out how could Grand pa
I used to speak on the phone die without seeing me doesn't he love me anymore. I cry out because, I know it's not so, but I have no answers.
May 13, 2013
I miss you more every day
I love you in every single way
I hope now you can rest
GOD please comfort me, I am in pain.
I have never felt alone till now, GOD be there for me please!!

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February 16, 2019
February 16, 2019
Dear Grandpa, Im sorry I never got to meet you, but I know you were a lovely person. I still think about you everyday. I wish I got to meet you. You will always be in my heart.
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TRIBUTE TO MY NAMESAKE

June 7, 2013

Professor Michael Onyemachi Oleka has departed the flesh to continue his experiencing hopefully in the finer planes of the beyond in accordance with the lawfulness of the Will of His Creator. We who called him our friend can only glorify the Lord in His wisdom and supplicate His mercies to help this sojourning soul to find the real path on his way to the eternal realms of the Almighty Father. May our grief not be a burden to him.

I drew close to Professor Michael Oleka because of his courageous and principled stand on issues and even closer when we realized we shared the uncommon Igbo name of Onyemachi. He called a spade a spade and stood his grounds on conviction. He did not suffer fools gladly and had no space for slothful workers who could not contribute their requisite quota to the growth of the institution. He had the courage to correct firmly and in love. He was committed to the principles of University as an agent of Change and vehicle of truth and discharged any duty assigned him creditably to the best of his ability. He made order out of chaos and repositioned any unit he headed for proper service delivery.

He chose his friends carefully and adopted a few of us as "NWA" not "UMU". To these he confided in and relaxed with. A master story teller he could hold us spell bound as he regaled us with the stories of his exploits both locally and internationally spiced with humour that can have us in stitches.

Professor Oleka was always well dresssed in his customized suits and characteristic bow ties in sartorial elegance. He could not stand sloppy dresssing and was drawn close to those who knew how to step out in style.He had ready compliments for good decent dressing and well styled hair and could make your day with these unresrved compliments. Professor Oleka was a good dancer and could not stop telling the stories of his winning dances in University College Ibadan. 

Professor Oleka was disciplined and the did not spare the rod in raising his two children the evidence of which is how well and responsible they both turned out. This same discipline he brought to bear in his relationships with students, colleagues and friends.

We have lost a friend, supporter and mentor but I am consoled by the fact that he gave his life this time around to visible notable achievements in the development of human values that could foster enduring sustainable growth.

Adieu my Friend, My Namesake. Adieu and may you awaken to joyful activity in the Eternal Realms of the Almighty Father.

May 28, 2013

TRIBUTE TO PROFESSOR MICHAEL O. OLEKA – MY BROTHER

I remember seeing Mike as I fondly called him, a year ago at my Mother-in-Law’s burial, he was full of life and wore his usual confident smile. We spoke on the phone several times when he took ill. He assured me his health was improving. I visited him at his sick bed at the Ibiam Ward, Federal Medical center Umuahia on the 23rd of April 2013. This visit was first to cheer him up by cracking our usual jokes and secondly, to show him my Staff of Office as the Traditional ruler of our autonomous community, earlier presented to me by the Governor of Abia State. I was shocked at his state of health, I could not relate this to the assurances he and his close associates had given me of the gradual recovery from his illness. I shed a tear and left.

Our close relationship dates back to our primary and secondary school days in Port Harcourt and Methodist College Uzuakoli. We came home to the village during the Easter and Christmas holidays to play football at the village square, pluck fruits at the Rest house and be part of the dance group that heralded our masquerades. Our relationship continued during our working days in Enugu, his undergraduate years in Ibadan and when we both went overseas for further studies. I sent him a piece of my wedding cake in 1970. His wife Esther was anxious to meet this ‘brother’ of his whom he talked so much about and who took the rare step of sending his wedding cake to them in Germany from London. Both families (with our wives) met for the first time in the early 70’s in Lagos. It was the best period of our lives. We went regularly to Saturday ballroom dance at the Federal Palace Hotel where Mike displayed his dexterity in Waltz and Foxtrot. He became and instant dance instructor as he also was when he visited us in Calabar during vacation from University of Ibadan.

 

Mike was very supportive during my many years as the Chairman, Amaba Town Union and as President General Isuikwuato Development Union. He was the pillar in the Isuikwuato Elders Forum. As Patron and Life Patron of Isiala Isuamawu Autonomous Community and Amaba Town Union National respectively, Mike was to be my Principal Adviser and Confidant during my reign as the Traditional ruler. But now he is gone! What can I say, we cannot challenge God. The memories of the lives and times we shared together would continually remain fresh in my mind. He loved life and he lived it. He worked hard and he got for himself all that he dreamt he would be – a Professor; a Community Leader, a Bridge Builder, a Development Agent; a Family Man and a Man of the People!

Mike, I had thought we were going to grow together to great old age. Your demise is a terrible loss to me and our community. During your lifetime, you took up the problems and challenges facing Amaba. You stood firmly on behalf of Amaba :-

So that forces of darkness causing retrogression may be permanently silenced;

So that peace, stability and progress reigned supreme;

So that we will be rid of social and economic decadence

On behalf of myself, my family and the good and peace loving people of Amaba and Isiala Isuamawu Autonomous Community, I say good night. Rest in the bosom of our Lord. I pray that your family and all those you have left behind will have the strength and fortitude to bear this irreparable loss. Chioma and Amobi shall live long, prosper and progress by God’s grace.

Like St Paul, you can say “I fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith……..there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness…..the Lord will give to me…….”

From

HRH Eze Gospel N. Ugwa

Isiawu 2

Isiala-Isuamawu Autonomous Community

Isuikwuato LGA, Abia State

Shared by Professor Solomon Nnanna Umeham

   25 05-2013

 

 

A TRIBUTE TO OUR MUCH-LOVED FRIEND AND COLLEAGUE

 

We must count ourselves extremely lucky if sometime during our lives we happen to befriend a wonderful human being like Prof. Mike Oleka, whose zest for life and capacity to live life to the full was inspiring.

Prof. gave his life so willingly to students, colleagues and friends and never expected anything in return.

He had a relaxed caring manner towards his students, be was assiduous and always abreast of contemporary trends in his field and others. Little wonder he served several tenures as Director of Academic Planning in ABSU.

As a work colleague, he was the best. His practical jokes were infectious.

When I describe his nature some may think I have enlarged him beyond reality after his death. Such is not the case.

He was a gentle spirit. A gentle soul, who loved passionately and gave unselfishly of his time and himself.

He would go out of his way to help in any way he could even if it meant depriving or denying himself to meet his friends’ needs.

He eagerly listened to our ramblings on any topic and made observations that let us know that he had really been listening not hearing our words.

He was a one-in-a-million kind of man--------------and he will be missed every minute of everyday

 

Adieu! Adieu!! Adieu!!!

Professor Solomon Nnanna Umeham

 

    

 

 

 

 

 

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