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Our world was better because Rachel was in it. She was a bright light, leaving kindness, laughter and love in every life she touched. She will be remembered for her gorgeous smile, razor sharp wit and generous heart. Simply put, Rachel was an unwavering beacon of love.

Though shocked and saddened, we are among a lucky group of people—those who were touched, however briefly, by Rachel’s incredible soul. May our memories of her shine brightly, may her jokes always be on the tips of our tongues, may our hearts be fuller and kinder because she is in them, forever. 

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A private memorial service will be held for Rachel on September 11th. In lieu of flowers, Rachel's family has asked that a donation be made in her honor to Lily's Legacy Senior Dog Sanctuary. Your generosity is so graciously appreciated.


Lily's Legacy is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization based in Petaluma, California. They are dedicated to providing a haven of love and care for abandoned, homeless, or displaced senior dogs. Your contribution in Rachel's honor goes directly to the organization; providing food, dog goodies, veterinary care and sanctuary maintenance.

You can donate here. In the description section, you can specify that you're donating in Rachel's honor.

Other ways to donate
by mail:
Lily's Legacy Senior Dog Sanctuary
PO Box 751002 
Petaluma, CA 94975

by phone: 
(415) 488-4984 

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Other gestures of kindness, like cards, can be mailed in care of Kelly Cess. Please contact her through Facebook or this memorial site for a mailing address. 

November 26, 2016
November 26, 2016
Rachel and I were once very close, but drifted apart many years ago. I was telling a friend a story about her and thought it would be nice to reconnect, so I googled her and found this page. It breaks my heart to hear this news. Rachel was like a fountain of love, kindness and humor. One of my favorite people of all time. My condolences to everyone who knew and cared for her.
September 6, 2016
September 6, 2016
Rachel and I were childhood friends. We lost touch for years before we reconnected on Facebook, bonding over rescue dogs and snarky or inspiring memes. Rachel was so clever and so smart. She had a giant heart filled with love and light... and an understanding and empathy for for people who were hurting. I never thought I'd run out of time to see her again.
All my love and condolences to Simone, to Katie, to all of her family.
September 4, 2016
September 4, 2016
What a great loss to all who knew Rachel....what a funny,amazing,caring woman.... I'm so blessed to have been in her light...even though it was only a couple of years while we worked together....may you always know we loved you for your open mind and spirit...and your tenacity...we love you..Kim and "Mom" Natalie...Fall River,MA
September 1, 2016
September 1, 2016
I met my Rachel in high school. We had some classes together and I always remembered her laugh, her sharp wit and sassy red hair. Years later, after reconnecting on Facebook, we became fast friends. Rachel had the most caring, generous heart. She saw the best in everyone and gave help to any and all. She hated to see cruelty in any form. She was light personified. I was lucky enough to have been married to this beautiful, beanie-wearing Angel for 2 1/2 years. We shared a lifetime of memories in that time and my heart is hers. Always. All ways. She was my light, my love, my Angel. Such a pure soul, taken way too soon. Unforgettable, amazing, beautiful. There are not enough words to describe my wife and the life we had. I love you to the moon and back, sweet Rach. I miss you so.
September 1, 2016
September 1, 2016
What a sad loss for us all. :(  Rachel and I grew up together in Niles. I have some really great memories of us as kids. She will be missed by so many! Rest in peace, Rachel.
August 31, 2016
August 31, 2016
Sending all my love to Rachel's family, beloved pups, Kate, and Simona. I hope you all know how deeply loved and adored your sweet Rachel is, even in her absence. You are all in my thoughts.

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November 26, 2016
November 26, 2016
Rachel and I were once very close, but drifted apart many years ago. I was telling a friend a story about her and thought it would be nice to reconnect, so I googled her and found this page. It breaks my heart to hear this news. Rachel was like a fountain of love, kindness and humor. One of my favorite people of all time. My condolences to everyone who knew and cared for her.
September 6, 2016
September 6, 2016
Rachel and I were childhood friends. We lost touch for years before we reconnected on Facebook, bonding over rescue dogs and snarky or inspiring memes. Rachel was so clever and so smart. She had a giant heart filled with love and light... and an understanding and empathy for for people who were hurting. I never thought I'd run out of time to see her again.
All my love and condolences to Simone, to Katie, to all of her family.
September 4, 2016
September 4, 2016
What a great loss to all who knew Rachel....what a funny,amazing,caring woman.... I'm so blessed to have been in her light...even though it was only a couple of years while we worked together....may you always know we loved you for your open mind and spirit...and your tenacity...we love you..Kim and "Mom" Natalie...Fall River,MA
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August 31, 2016

While many tend to view social media as a way to start drama, argue, or just hate putting themselves out there, I am notoriously saturated in the land of Facebook. In 2013, I received a friend request from Rachel Stahler. I of course have exceedingly fond memories of spending time (and drinking copious amounts of beer) with the always hilarious Uncle Mikey, and had met Rachel when I was much younger. So of course I added her. Little did I know how our relationship would bloom. 

My heart is heavy in that we did not spend time physically together. However rarely a day went by that we weren't in some sort of communication. We lived vicariously through each other's posts and photos. She was always cheering me on as I started school back up, and always encouraged me when I felt as though I wasn't doing well. We shared so many laughs as she had such an incredible way with words.

 She was terrified to go to the dentist, but after much coercing, she finally went! And it wasn't that bad! There is so much more to our story, but there is now a hole in my heart where my cousin's words often times filled. How do I begin to heal from this loss? I will do my best, and connect with her loved ones so that we may remember her and be thankful that she was in our lives. The world is a little less bright without Rachel's spark. I sent her one of my favorite books when she was feeling down, so I'm going to close with a quote from said book. 

"I can finally see that all the terrible parts of my life, the embarrassing parts, the incidents I wanted to pretend never happened, and the things that make me 'weird' and 'different,' were actually the most important parts of my life. They were the parts that made me ME." Jenny Lawson, Let's Pretend This Never Happened. 

I will love you always, Rachel. Thank you for making my world brighter. I wish you knew what an impact you had on me. You're with me. Always. 

Dreya

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