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Ramon Selbi
  • 33 years old
  • Date of birth: May 16, 1978
  • Date of passing: Dec 3, 2011
Let the memory of Ramon be with us forever
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Ramon Selbi, 33, born on May 16, 1978 and passed away on December 3, 2011. We will remember him forever.
Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Linda Collins on 3rd December 2016

"I can not believe it has been 5 years now. I miss you more and more every day. I was looking at your phone the other day I miss your late night text messages. Love ya cuz"

This tribute was added by Anna Selbi on 3rd December 2016

"Ramon,
Wow it's been five years since you have be gone. How time flies by but everyday that  goes by, you are still in my thoughts and heart. The pain of not seeing you or hearing your voice anymore still aches in my heart. But I not only cry sad tears now. Sometimes I think that you are were you want to be. Not hurting or suffering anymore. And you are with Mickey and Unkie. Wow I sure miss you all. Love you Always. Sending hugs and kisses"

This tribute was added by Linda Collins on 8th November 2015

"Hey ramon u been on my mind a lot u always r around this time of the year I will be going to Atlantic  City to celebrate you again this year no worries. Life is so fucking weird since u been gone it has been spinning out of control but standing still i can't explain it but I know u would understand what I mean. I am so pissed that u left ramon damn u boy.......I love u n miss tho"

This tribute was added by Tessa Collins on 28th March 2015

"I look on here a lot but ik I never say anything because I know that you know I could never forget about u and I still cry. I try to think about all the good things like my family and friends say but it just makes me more sad because it makes me realize that your not here anymore but something it feels like you are. There a part of my heart that is just yours and on one elses. And I love you sooooo much and I will miss you until the day I die and see you and give u a big hug. I hope you are happier and pain free now. You made a lot of people happy. Love you and miss you uncle Ramon."

This tribute was added by Linda Collins on 26th December 2014

"Hey cuz merry Christmas a day late but you know you were on my mind the whole day anyway. Guess what you became a pappy today omg ramon congrats. Well I love you and miss you so damn much wish you were here so bad you can not imagine how much the girls miss you I don't think anyone really knows how close you were to them but one thing I realized over the years it don't matter. All that matters is they have the memories in their hearts forever love ya cuz congrats again......."

This tribute was added by Linda Collins on 4th December 2014

"Well it has been three years since you have been gone yesterday had its ups and downs.  I was sober for the first time on the third since your passing and I am not sure if I will be again!  I miss you like crazy I am not sure if I will ever really be over losing one of my best friends people say it gets easier in time that is a lie you learn to live life without that person but it never gets easier. Well Ramon I love you until we meet again know that you are on my mind always. Love ya cuz"

This tribute was added by christine Selbi on 3rd December 2014

"we will never forget him cant believe its three years"

This tribute was added by Tessa Collins on 6th November 2014

"So I miss you a lot and I know that you are in a happy place now. I look at this website almost everyday. And I wounded did some people forget the you were alive. It's like everyone forgot all about you. I know that your gone but to this day I still cry. It so hard to know and except your gone. I just wish I could just give you a big hug and say I LOVE YOU! There is no one that can ever take your place I know your still here. I still remember when my mom told me you were dead. I didn't when what to do I just cried and cried she tried to tell me now your health and free from pain and now you don't have to live in fear that your going to leave us. But anyway I love you and you are in my heart. O I'm doing a report about you. Well bye see you soon maybe this is all a dream. And we all wake up from."

This tribute was added by Sammii Collins on 7th June 2014

"Hey uncle mon,
                   I hope you know not a day goes by that I don't think about you, you're the best man I was lucky enough to call my uncle. As the days go by and I grow older I can't help but to wish to tell you how good something is going, or how much I wan finish a amazing day with my amazing uncle, as something crazy happens I wonder  what you would've done, as I do something not so smart I wonder what you would have said, I know you love me and your always looking down on me, I know you will always have my back even if your protecting me over the stars, in the high heaven. You are my inspiration to do good sometimes. I love you
       With    Love,
                       Sammii"

This tribute was added by anna selbi on 16th May 2014

"Happy Birthday Uncle Ramon. I hope they are giving you cake up there.<3 I just wanted to say that I really miss you, and I hope your ok. I wish you were still here right now. Well I'm having a little princess, her name is Eva. I know she would've loved you so much. But even though your not here right now, I will make sure she knows how much of a wonderful uncle you were to me, and what a great person you are. Well, at least I know I got a Angel above looking over her. I really miss you, and I really love you. I'll see you soon<3 Happy Birthday Love Always, Lexi<3"

This tribute was added by anna selbi on 16th May 2014

"hey there brother, I tried to be happy today. I know you wouldn't want me to be sad. but it's just not the same. when we were younger we would fight about sharing our birthday and what I would give now to have that!! I love you!! happy birthday. love your sister"

This tribute was added by Tessa Collins on 16th May 2014

"Hey uncle Ramon happy birthday.  I still miss you a lot.  I hope you are happy and heathy up in the high sky."

This tribute was added by Linda Collins on 16th May 2014

"Happy birthday cuz love and miss you so much. Fly high cuz see you again some day until then you will always be in my heart and
thoughts."

This tribute was added by anna selbi on 16th May 2014

"Happy Birthday Brother!! I miss you more than you know. I love you
I was not  suppose to get old without you. My only birthday wish is that you are ok and would be able to tell me that!! I love you"

This tribute was added by anna selbi on 14th May 2014

"Hey there bro, I miss you so much. our birthday is coming up and it is so hard. me and ashley love the fact that the three of us could say happy birthday the same day! the girls and I miss you everyday. and talk about you often. I love you so much. it still is hard to believe you are not here. I wish I knew you were ok. always in my heart love,your sister Anna"

This tribute was added by Linda Collins on 21st April 2014

"Hey cuz,
            Yesterday was Easter and the girls were still looking for you to walk in the door.  I talk about you all the time it is funny growing up there are not too many memories that you are not in.  I miss you so damn much Ramon I wish that we could go back to that day and change it.  I know everything happens for a reason I just do not know what the hell this reason could be no matter how hard i try.  Anyway cuz love ya till the end of time fly high..........."

This tribute was added by Tessa Collins on 16th April 2014

"I still can't believe you are gone over 2 years. And still get upset when I even think  about without crying. :( :("

This tribute was added by Anna Selbi on 7th March 2014

"Ramon,
I think of you everyday. sometimes it is hard to come on here because it hurts so much. I still can't believe you are not here. I know that you know it's tough on me know but please watch over the girls for me. Thank you for being the best brother I ever had. also Thabk you for the feeling I got recently from you that you know I will finally be happy. I love you. you are sadly missed and always in my heart. I love you
your sister Anna"

This tribute was added by Tessa Collins on 3rd March 2014

"People tell me think of happy thoughts about you but every time I do it just reminds me that you are now died and that we can't do them ever again. To this day I still brake down into tears when I talk about you or think of you. Yes I miss you like hell and i just don't know what to do anymore I love you with most of my heart the rest is my mom dad and sisters but any way i will love and cry untell i see you face to face again"

This tribute was added by Tessa Collins on 31st December 2013

"i can't believe that it is almost a new year and how it still seems like it all just happen just yesterday it does not feel like a new year is coming. well love you and miss you a lot <3"

This tribute was added by Linda Collins on 25th December 2013

"Ramon,
              Merry Christmas It Has Been A Very Hard Season For Me.  You Have Been On My Mind Miss You Like Crazy I Know You Know All This Already Tho.  I Need A Favor Can You Please Bring Peace To Tessa Please She Still Breaks Down She  Just Misses You Like Hell. We All Do I Hope You Are Enjoying Your Christmas Up In Heaven Tell My Dad Meet Christmas And Everyone Else. I Remember The Christmas  That You Stayed With Us Because You Were On The Run And You Woke Me Up Early Calling Me The Grinch Because I Did Not Want To Wake Up Lol...Anyway I Can Go On And On Forever But Just Know I Miss You And Love You....    
                                  Love Ya Cuz,
                                                         Linda"

This tribute was added by Anna Selbi on 24th December 2013

"As kids, we lived together, We fought, we laughed, we cried.
We did not always show the love, that we both had inside.
We shared our dreams and plans, and some secrets too.
All the memories we share, Is what bonds me now to you.
We grew to find we have a love, that is very strong today.
It's a love shared by our family, that will never fade away.
You are my brother not by choice, but by the nature of our birth.
I could not have chosen a better one, you are the best on earth and heaven! I miss you, think of you often and always in my heart!
All my Love, Anna"

This tribute was added by Anna Selbi on 24th December 2013

"A brother is someone you love to hate for his silly pranks, he plays on you and the way he irritates you continuously throughout the year. But a brother also protects you in time of need and stays with you through thick and thin. At this Christmas I want to tell you  how special you ,and how much I cherish your love and care. With you brother we shared many beautiful memories, recall all those Christmas memories,we spent together and how much we enjoyed opening our presents and having the Christmas feast! Merry Christmas Ramon
Love Always, Anna, Barry, Lexi,Ashley & Mom

p.s Tell Mickey & Unkie
Merry Christmas, and we miss them and love them!!"

This tribute was added by Tessa Collins on 12th December 2013

"Sometimes I try to forget you a little bit but does work you are on my mind a lot"

This tribute was added by Anna Selbi on 3rd December 2013

"Ramon
It has been two years since you have left us. Although we cant see you or hear you voice.Your presence is always around us:) You are thought of often, missed everyday! And always in our hearts!!! Tonight I will celebrate the wonderful brother you are with sharing memories of you with Lexi,Ashley,and Barry! We all love you!! Love Always,
                                      Your Sister Anna xoxo"

This tribute was added by Linda Collins on 3rd December 2013

"Hey Cuz,
              I Don't Have To Tell You That You Have Been On My Mind And We Are Down In Atlantic City Celebrating  Your Life The Way You Would Wan Us To You Already Knew That. I Can Not Believe It Has Been 2 Yeats Already Sure Does Not Feel Like It At All. I Swear you Said My NameYesterday And I Can Not Believe How Much I Miss It. Miss Ya And Luv Ya Cuz Hope You Found Peace...."

This tribute was added by Anna Selbi on 2nd December 2013

"Ramon
           As I lay here getting ready for bed. I thought of you as I often do. Then I realized tomorrow will be two years:(wow it still don't feel real. I miss you so much! You were the best brother anyone could ask for!You are always in my thoughts and forever my heart!!! I Love you Ramon hugs and kisses love your sister Anna"

This tribute was added by Linda Collins on 1st December 2013

"Hey Cuz  Me And Sharon Are On Our Way Down To Atlantic City To Celebrate You Again Miss You Every Day Gonna Be Two Years In 2 days. Love You Cuz...."

This tribute was added by Anna Selbi on 2nd September 2013

"Hey there bro
It has been a while since I wrote. I think if you everyday. I miss your multiple phone calls. How time flies by. I hope you found peace. I need you to be my angel and watch over me. I need that now more than ever!  Well know that you are in my thoughts and heart always.
I love and miss you!  Love always, hour sister"

This tribute was added by Linda Collins on 27th June 2013

"Had another dream about you don't remember everything bout it but know u were there. Woke up waiting for ur call miss u like crazy hate that you are gone not fair or right. Love n miss u everyday  cuz............"

This tribute was added by Linda Collins on 16th May 2013

"Happy Birthday Ramon, I hope all is well up there tell everyone I said I miss them and love them.  Not a day goes by still that you are not on my mind how is it possible to stop thinking about someone who use to talk with me everyday.  We had many fights along the way but I know you were always there no matter what.  Luv ya cuz linda"

This tribute was added by Jenn Bettinger on 16th May 2013

"Happy Birthday Lovebug!!!! Love and miss you so much. Everyone misses you. I think about you everyday and love you so much.  Love Jenn/Boobear.  The kids and Zoey miss you and say happy birthday."

This tribute was added by anna (selbi)curtier on 16th May 2013

"RAMON,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! I miss you so much. It really is not the same without you. I miss you so much. I will write back again soon. I loveyou bro
Love your sister Anna"

This tribute was added by anna (selbi)curtier on 28th April 2013

"Hey there bro,
Just dropping by to tell you we have been thinking about you a lot lately. Alexis is going yo 8 grade prom soon. Wish you were here to see her. Life will never be the same without you. Know you are always in our thoughts and forever in our hearts.
Love Always, Anna, Barry, Alexis, and Ashley xoxo"

This tribute was added by Linda Collins on 31st March 2013

"Happy Easter Ramon been deamin bout ya again miss u like crazy.  Still can not believe that you are gone feels like a dream still think you are gonna call or walk thru the door lookin thru the girls baskets for cummin to eat. It is weird how life has changed since you have been gone n yet some things are still the same. miss ya n luv ya, Linda, Billy &girls <3"

This tribute was added by anna (selbi)curtier on 31st March 2013

"Ramon,
just dropping by to say happy Easter.I hope you mickey and unkie are having a wonderful Easter.  I love all of you and miss you  dearly..
love always, Anna
xoxo"

This tribute was added by anna (selbi)curtier on 23rd March 2013

"Hey Ramon,
Just wanted you to know I am thinking about you. I hope you are celebrating mickey's birthday. Tell him we said Happy Birthday!
Love Always,
Anna xoxo"

This tribute was added by anna (selbi)curtier on 18th March 2013

"Hey brother just wanted you to know we have been thinking about you. We miss you so much. All our love
Love, Anna &Barry"

This tribute was added by anna (selbi)curtier on 10th February 2013

"Ramon,
Just droping buy to let you know that I am thinking of you! I miss you everyday ! I wish you were here to see how big the girls are getting.we all love you forever in our hearts. Tons of hugs and kissers
Live Always,Anna, Barry,Lexi,& Ashley"

This tribute was added by anna (selbi)curtier on 3rd January 2013

"Ramon,
        Just stoping by to say Happy New Year! And let you know you are in our thoughts. Its been a year and one month today since you left:( I still cant believe it. There is not a day that goes by that you are not in our thoughts. Our memiores with you we think of often and talk about!  We miss you so much! Love, Anna, Barry & girls"

This tribute was added by Linda Collins on 1st January 2013

"Well ramon happy new year can't believe it is 2013 miss u ever day still can't imagine my aphone ringing n  it ain't u drives me crazy girls say miss ya n happy new year to............love ya ramon always  n forever"

This tribute was added by Jenn Bettinger on 30th December 2012

"thinking and missing you always love you."

This tribute was added by Sammi Collins on 6th December 2012

"i cought myself thinking about u again. its the frist christmas season without you.it brings back alot of memories.i miss u lots.i still rember selling choclate bars and girl scout cookies.its not the same without you here. sometimes i come home wondering if your here. i miss your lectures u gave me and lexi.i love and miss you times a thousand..i hope u like the giant x-mas tree in heaven"

This tribute was added by David Smith on 3rd December 2012

"Thinking of you bro ..Watching football isn't the same without you"

This tribute was added by anna (selbi)curtier on 3rd December 2012

"We think of you in silence,We always speak your name,We always have so many memories,And your picture in a frame.We do not need a special day to bring you to our minds, Since everyday we think of you!We think of you with love everyday,We are always with you, You are now our guardian angel, Heaven must be a beautiful place since God only takes the best! Rest in peace.Love Anna, Ashley, Lexi"

This tribute was added by anna (selbi)curtier on 3rd December 2012

"So its been s year without you and still seems like yesterday.  I was woken up from a bad dream and lived that nightmare all over again.you are missed everyday! You are still alive in my heart. I love you my brother please don't ever forget it!   Love. Always Anna
P.s Barry & I are going to spread some of your ashes at the dolphin stadium! We love you all our love xoxo"

This tribute was added by anna (selbi)curtier on 22nd November 2012

"Happy Thanksgiving Ramon
      So its our first without you here.I just want you to know I am thankful that you are my brother and we had 33 years together.I miss you so much. I hope you are okay.tell everyone I said happy turkey day.well enjoy your day in peace. I Love You Ramon
        Love Your Big Sister Anna xoxo"

This tribute was added by anna (selbi)curtier on 13th November 2012

"Ramon
   Well bro I have been down a lot lately I really miss you.your late night phone calls just everything.I hope you found your happiness.just know you are thought about often and missed dearly I love you xoxo"

This tribute was added by anna (selbi)curtier on 4th November 2012

"Ramon.
      So its been 11 months. There is not a day that goes by that you are not in my thoughts! I miss you everyday:( now mom is doing ok she misses you a lot.Joe is very sick psoriasis of the liver;kidney keeps failing. And he has blot cloths..well the girls r doing ok miss you a lot.me and Barry are doing well.well we all love you"

This tribute was added by Linda Collins on 19th October 2012

"Hey Ramon everyone keeps saying it will get easier as time goes bye but it aint i still can not believe you are gone i miss ya like crazy.  I love ya cuz miss the midnite phone calls and hate thinkin i see ya all the time it drives me crazy i talk to you all the time but just wanted to leave ya a little message here anyway it is almost a year now and still feels like yesterday love ya, cuz"


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