Randy
Randy Micheal Aufieri
  • 39 years old
  • Date of birth: Jan 29, 1974
  • Date of passing: Aug 16, 2013
Let the memory of Randy be with us forever
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Randy Aufieri, 39, born on January 29, 1974 and passed away on August 16, 2013. We will remember him forever. His quirky personality was one that constantly kept those close to him on their toes. He loved people and was a social butterfly. A free spirit who loved life, he wanted to see and experience everything he could. He always reminded us that life is short. Unfortunately, in his case he was right. He was taken late on a warm summer night in a motorcycle accident while on a ride around the lake. He will be missed everyday and will live on in the hearts of his wife, children, sister, mother and many other family and friends.
Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Renee Yoder on 16th August 2016

"Another year without you.  In some ways it seems like it was yesterday and others it seems like so long ago.  We still miss you so much.  Things just aren't the same without you.  Love you forever.  I wish you were her.  There are so many thing I want to tell you.  I miss all of our holidays together and the bbqs and everything we all did together.  We will always love you."

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 16th August 2016

"Happy 3 year angelversary Randy! We miss you~"

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 17th May 2016

"Today it is gloomy, rainy outside and my thought are with you more than usual.  I miss you Son so much.  It doesn't seem real yet that it has been almost going on 3 years you have been with the Lord.  Each day it is harder to deal with knowing that you are gone from our sight and presence.  You would be proud, and I know you are, of your sons.  They are becoming strong young men.  Both miss you dearly too and even tho they dont say it, I feel their pain.   You should be here!  I trust in the Lord that He knows the reason why you  had to be taken so young and I know we will all be together, our family, again.  Please guide your sons, sister and me and help us thru times we have our lows.  You left an empty spot in our hearts.   I love you son, and I  know you know just how much now.   Forever, Mom"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 29th January 2016

"Happy Birthday Randy! I hope your messages made it to you!
I love you Randy!"

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 29th January 2016

"Another birthday son.  I miss you so much.  Still having hard time dealing with all of the things that have happened.  I love you and wish you a heavenly birthday today.  Til together again.  Live you. MOM"

This tribute was added by David Lopez on 29th January 2016

"Happy Birthday Randy.  I Love You!"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 9th January 2016

"Another year older today. It occurs to me every year that you and dad never got this far in life and that makes me sad.
Knowing I won't get that phone call I waited every year for is just a reminder that this is an unchangeable situation.
Getting older doesn't make me sad....the things I miss do...
Love ya Ran"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 31st December 2015

"Another year is about to pass without you. It's so crazy but dealing with you being gone is like living with half of myself. It's funny how after you lose someone you realize how much you took for granted when they were there. I'm so sorry I listened to people and didn't come to you. I needed you but I didn't want to bother you and I know that hurt you. I love you Randy. I am trying so hard to be safe for our kids so I can be here for them for both of us. I even freak out in vehicles because I am afraid of what could happen. PTSD after you, my superhero brother died, maybe? But you'd laugh cause I drive everyone crazy lol!!
Watch over them with dad and keep them safe and I promise in 2016 I will try harder and give our family a good happy life, even if I have to go crazy doing it lol. I can do this, Help me find a better place I need you and your craziness and your support. Fact is I just  miss you so damn much!
Love you little brother, please give our dad a big hug...
Happy New Year...."

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 24th December 2015

"Christmas three without you...it still sometimes seems unreal. So much has happened and changed since you went home to dad.
I really think we are all doing better, not great but better. The void in our hearts that can only be filled by you are still very present but we are learning to live with it.
Not a minute of the day goes by that you don't cross my mind. There are so many things you should be here for big and small.

A song for you and dad...yes both of you its country lol sorry
You Should Be Here by Cole Swindell"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 24th December 2015

"Christmas two without you...2014

Christmas Eve... The smiles of the amazing family I have helps hold back all the tears that are always just a blink away. When I moved my family back here JULY of 2013 i was so looking forward to being here and being with my brother and his family and my mom. I crossed the border into Oklahoma and my soul screamed with joy! Sadly this is another holiday I was looking forward to spending with them that, although happy because I'm so lucky to have great kids, is also bittersweet because through this last year we have lost so much. All the hopes and dreams I was so looking forward to are now just realizations that those who we love leave, whether by circumstance or choice. It's a lesson in life I will never get used to. We will enjoy today and tomorrow for you dad and Randy, we will continue to grow and get stronger together as a family and I know you are both right beside us all cheering us on. The people in my life, this family is unbreakable and share the truest form of love. I have complete faith in that. You all are my reason to keep on keeping on and the smile in my heart! I love you mom Jamie Aufieri Ogden I love you Sara Elizabeth Aufieri I love you Chris Sondag I love you Mike Sondag I love you Shylen Aufieri I love you Tommy Aufieri I love you Taylor Sondag I love you Neall  I love you Sam
Thank you for truly loving me, I'd be lost without you"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 24th December 2015

"With a heavy heart for the second time in my life I enter the holidays clinging to every great memory I have. I know my dad and brother will be with us all but long for a knock at my door and a surprise Christmas visit. Somehow, sometimes my mind tricks me into thinking its possible for my brother to still show up tho I know its not. I know longer think my dad will... Maybe they will find a way to visit somehow. Love will carry us all through this...I am blessed, I have a great family and great friends. I am thankful for that. Miss you like crazy Dad  and Randy...I need a time machine

Christmas 1 without both you and dad 2013"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 9th December 2015

"I was scrolling through all this and my only thought is
Hey Ran do you see how loved you are!!! If you ever doubted it in this life you now know you were wrong to doubt it. Hind sight is 20/20 right?!"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 9th December 2015

"Miss ya a lot Ran but yeah I'm starting to smile more! Missing you is hard. Thanks for leaving me with such great people to help keep me going! I'm so very thankful for our mom, kids, sis, Sam, my other brothers, family and friends, the job you sent me as my trump card, waking up every morning to this gorgeous sunrise and just life in general! If you were here it would be perfect but I'll take what I can get! Got a job to do here and people counting on me!! Couldn't do this without you by my side and dad having my back! Aufieri's never give up and fight fight fight!
Just love you guys up there and everyone here, just felt like letting you all know wherever you may be!"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 19th November 2015

"These are the hardest times...the times when we should be preparing to come see you all. The decades that the week before we came was all we looked forward to. Thanksgiving Christmas Spring Break Summer those four day weekends throughout the years when all we talked about and got excited about was being here with ALL of you...no turkey dinner, no Christmas gift topped our trips. Once the happiest most exciting times now come with a silent storm that makes me feel bipolar.
I miss you Randy! Love you always"

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 28th October 2015

"We were complicated people, you and I. We weren’t simple. Our minds were analytical and imaginative and we thought about everything. A lot. We ended up making every situation in our life about 100x more difficult than it had to be.

We argued a lot. I fought with you at inopportune times, but my anger was fueled by my passion and emotions for you. I cared. I loved you. I loved all of you. I loved that I was the only one you showed certain parts of yourself to, you gave me all of you.

I wiped your tears as you spoke about your family, there’s nothing in this world I loved more than holding your hand and whispering words of reassurance in your ear, because I knew you weren’t broken, you were just bent. And I loved all your edges, all your roughness. Your imperfections were perfect to me.

I challenged you because I loved you.

I confronted you a lot. I’m not the type of girl who nods and laughs and is always comfortable, I wasn't easy — as in, I didn't just "go with the flow.” But that’s because I craved more from you - I had opinions and big dreams for the future, I wanted the best for you. I never put up with not getting everything I deserved.

I never let you get away with slacking on your talents or putting in effort towards our relationship because I knew what we had. And you were never left uninspired.

There are many things I never thanked you for.

I thought I couldn’t live without you, but my heart is finally starting to beat again. You broke my heart open and new light got in, you made me so desperate and out of control that I had to transform my life, and I did.

I thought I would grow old with you, but sometimes, life has other plans. That doesn’t mean I ever stopped loving you. When someone touches your heart, they will infinitely be there.

I had so much anger and pain, it was gnawing away at me, slowly destroying me. But then I realized that our love wasn’t the kind that results in the fusing of two lives into one, it was the kind of love that gave me new life, that taught me much more than a happily ever after ever could. And I don’t regret a second of it."

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 16th August 2015

"Today you have been hone 2 years.  Today also Leah has been gone from her family.  I am mising you son, I am still angry because this should not have taken place 2 years ago.  I accept this because as a child of God, I believe the Lord gad his reason for taking both your lives that day.  Yet I can still be angry.

There isn't a minute you aren't on my mind, I don't miss you and feel the emptiness you, my son, left me with.  I miss your smile, laugh, yelling,  I miss YOU.  There is no fu)in this spot with another son, as no one can fi) this hile.  Nor can any one fill that spot in your sisters heart, nor your two sons,nieces and nephews ever.  We had one chance at having that with you.

I need to grieve soon as my heart is needing it.  I am driving everyone away that I live because I am trying so hard not to hurt like this again so I am holding on so tight everyone is leaving me.  I pray every night for  thus ache to get beter, but it get worse every day.   I know when all turmoil it over I can heal...I pray our family and sons will too.

I love you and miss you.  Hugs to our family in heaven and a hug to mitzu for me and scooter.  Mom"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 16th August 2015

"We're there is great grief there is great love...I must love you a lot because sometimes it's hard to breath without you. Happy two years with dad in Heaven Randy. I have so much I want to share with you...
It was always Tracy and Randy, now I struggle to feel whole without you...I miss and love you..."

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 14th August 2015

"Well honey, it's not officially the date of your angelversary but it is the DAY.....this day, Friday, two years ago.  You were working at this time....and chatting with me during lunch.  I would see you for the last time briefly around 6pm and you would never return back home to me.  I still miss you everyday and thinking of you often.  I will always miss your sweet smile. I still wish I had known our time was ending so we could have said Good Bye.  There was so much left unsaid. I guess that is the worst part about this tragedy that took you away so suddenly.  Thank you though for the wonderful years we shared while you were here. Those years and memories we created are irreplaceable and will stay with me forever."

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 21st June 2015

"Happy Father's Day Dad and Randy. The two most influential men in my life, the two men I loved first... My heart aches for you both and I miss you so much! The day I join you I will be sad leaving the ones I love behind but I know I will smile seeing your smiles again. You are our angels and I thank you for looking out for all of us. And I thank God for letting you continue to guide us. Every breath I take is to breathe your memories into our new generations. I love you both, forever and always! Your memories with live on forever!"

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 27th May 2015

"Thinking of you Randy...."

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 23rd April 2015

"I am sitting in my chair with candi and molly next to me.  Thinking as I do every day throughout the day, I  miss you so.  I look at your recliner I so vividly see you in and find myself talking to you and I feel answers in my spirit Like conversations we had.
the days, years are moving so fast, and I know that time here on earth as humans is not but a second in heaven.  My heart aches so son as I miss you so much.
we had our disagreements thru the years, but I know we both know that it was out of love and concern we disagreed.
I know you can maybe see all going on hete, but know that you are not stressed because God has shown you  all will be okay, just as hear you tell me in our spirit talks.  I would love to see on advance the outcomes, but I believe there is a reason for all.  I shall keep my faith in God, pray, and I know I will be with you, your dad, and my family again .
Always know how much I love you and will always talk yo you too.
Forster loved and missdd......mom"

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 5th April 2015

"Today is Easter and it's the second uou have not been with us.  I miss u ou so much son.  It seems like forever I saw you last instead of only year and half.  The days pass so fast and I know this time on earth is short compared to time in heaven ehich there are no time limits.  I know I will be with u ou when it's my time and will be with all of you again .  You are in our thoughts and prayers every day and I feel your presence around me.  I love you son......"

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 20th March 2015

"First day of spring is here......it's cloudy and colder but the warm days are just around the corner. Hope heaven is treating you well. Love, D"

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 16th February 2015

"Thinking of you as I so often do.....miss seeing your smiling face! Please do me a favor and see if you can get an extra favor from God for our oldest son.  He's stuck and needs some help that can only come from our awesome God. Maybe you could visit him too in his dreams and reassure him. Love you....D"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 29th January 2015

"Happy birthday Ran! Thank you for being a great little brother and my best friend! Thank you for all the times you were there for me in this life and the times you are there now that you're gone. Thank you for all the wonderful memories that make me smile here and there! We should have been able to celebrate together.... I miss you Randy and love you so much!
Love
Tracy"

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 29th January 2015

"Happy birthday son.   I wish you were here to give you a hug and say that in person.  The months pass by, but your absence lingers every minute of every day.  I miss you so much...  This morning at 207 am I gave birth to my one and only so , you.  I remember kissing you and seeing you the first time you came into this world, and the last time I kissed your forehead and saw you.    i know you are near me and sometimes sense your presence.  I just wish I could see you just one more time to say I love you so much and will see you again."

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 29th January 2015

"You should have been turning 41 today. I'd like to wish you a happy birthday but there are no more of them. Miss you since you've been gone and not a day goes by that I don't think of you. I love you Randy. Love, D"

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 21st January 2015

"You've been gone a while now.  Lots of new songs have come out since you passed.  It's funny how so many can still remind me of you.  Wish you were here to listen to the one I just heard yesterday that I can hear you sing to me if I close my eyes and just imagine.  Five Finger Death Punch....M.I.N.E. End This Way.....as long as I live, you will always be loved and remembered. Pinky promise! Love, D"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 1st January 2015

"I miss you Ran...it's been a sad day"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 31st December 2014

"Hey Randy.
It's been a long crazy year!! So much has changed and so many things have happened. I just want our family to be happy again and I know in time we will be. Although there are days I wonder if it will ever happen I hold on to faith and the knowledge that this is a strong family.
There are still days when I can Seperate myself from the fact that you're gone but it always comes back and sucker punches me right in the gut. Guess it's something I have to keep working through.
I just wish I could sleep all night more often and rest enough to dream. I miss seeing you and hearing your voice, maybe if I could dream you'd be back for a little...
I feel lost without you. i probably always will.
Happy New Year my brother. Wish we could've had more time, I miss you so much! Give dad a hug and enjoy the fireworks from Heaven with him! Maybe you two should watch the ball drop"

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 30th December 2014

"Thinking of you.....Love, D"

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 4th December 2014

"There are no words to write that can ever say how much I miss my son.  Each day is a struggle, each minute i miss him more as each day goes by without him here.  The holidays He loved as a child and we always looked forward to these.  They were family times together..baking Christmas cookies, cooking, and enjoying our family and friends. i remember the last Christmas we all shared, our family get together, he was just as excited as his sons and nieces and nephews, receiving and opening his gifts.    This is the second holiday season Randy is not here to share with his family but I do. know in my heart he will be with us.  
I wish he  could come back just for a little visit each holiday season.  I'd take a minute if possible.    He is forever  in my heart and he took a part of my heart with him that can never be filled again.   Missing you more thru this holiday.....
Til I see you again......mom"

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 4th December 2014

"There are no words to write that can ever say how much I miss my son.  Each day is a struggle, each minute i miss him more as each day goes by without him here.  The holidays He loved as a child and we always looked forward to these.  They were family times together..baking Christmas cookies, cooking, and enjoying our family and friends. i remember the last Christmas we all shared, our family get together, he was just as excited as his sons and nieces and nephews, receiving and opening his gifts.    This is the second holiday season Randy is not here to share with his family but I do. know in my heart he will be with us.  
I wish he  could come back just for a little visit each holiday season.  I'd take a minute if possible.    He is forever  in my heart and he took a part of my heart with him that can never be filled again.   Missing you more thru this holiday.....
Til I see you again......mom"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 13th November 2014

"I just really miss you..."

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 10th November 2014

"The holidays are upon us once again. The second set of them since you were taken.  The seasons are definately changing.  Subfreezing temps are on the way.  Tommy and I went to the lake and put more flowers out in your memory as we do almost every week.  You are always in my heart and I miss you so much.  Praying for your family to have good holidays this year and be able to enjoy each other again.  You will continue to be missed by all regardless. Love ~D"

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 30th October 2014

"It has been almost 15 months since you were called home.  I miss you every second of every day and you are forever in my heart and thoughts.  I miss you so much son, but I know in my heart you are okay and happy...with the lord, your dad, and our family.  I know your grandmother is taking good care of you too.  I wish you could be here for just one minute more so I could hug you and tell you how much I love you and say see you soon son.    You gave me the joy of being your mother and some sorrow at times, but that is part of being a parent.  Thank you for blessing me with your sons.   We will all watch over them and raise them to be the young men you knew they would become.   Til I see you again..... Much love....mom"

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 12th October 2014

"The months have gone so fast son.  It seems still unreal at times that you are not here.  I miss you so much son as do your sons and sister.  I don't know why the lord took you, just as I didn't when he took your dad, but I know the Lord know all and He had to have reason why.  There isn't a minute my heart doesn't miss you.  I'd even take those calls you use to do anything to hear your voice again.   No matter where I go or what I am doing, you are always close in heart and thought.  I know I will see you again in a better place when the Lord calls me too.  I just know it isn't my time, for he hs much for me to do yet.   Til then my son......I love and miss you and I will do my best to guide your sons with your help.     Mom"

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 9th September 2014

"Thinking of you......still miss you every single day.  Love, D"

This tribute was added by Renee Yoder on 17th August 2014

"Hi Randy.  I know I am late but just wanted to tell you I love you.  You are in my heart all the time.  I have spent the weekend in tears most of the time.  I miss you so much.  Never thought I would have to do a memory thing for you.  It's been a tough year for all of us without you.  We are trying to go on but its hard.  Just want to thank you for being in my life.  You taught me many things.  In some ways this seems like only yesterday and in others it seems like forever.  I know that you are at peace and not struggling with life anymore and that helps me a lot. I will always remember you and love you"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 16th August 2014

"For you
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This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 16th August 2014

"A year ago on Aug 16, a son father husband uncle brother and friend, got up and went to work. I took all our kids to school for the first day. It was a NORMAL day in everyone's life. At 630 I picked up my nephew to bring him over and we all settled in to watch movies. It was a NORMAL Friday night. I missed seeing my brother by five minutes that day and I didn't stay to chat, I just wanted to get home. A NORMAL thing people sometimes do. My brother was out and took a friend for a five minute ride, that's NORMAL too.
At 11:51, a year ago today my brother was in a motorcycle accident and never came back home...nothing has been NORMAL since...
We miss you Randy, and will always.  1/29/74-8/16/13
I love you Randy"

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 15th August 2014

"I know tomorrow is your actual "sadiversary" but it feels so much like today.  It's a Friday, just like last year.  I can remember kissing you goodbye for work in the morning. I remember you calling me after work around 3 to say you were going to have a beer. I remember calling you at 5 on my home to tell you my truck was acting up and you telling me you promised you would fix it tomorrow.  I remember you coming home at 6ish and us talking about an hour or more about everything.  It was a really good talk with a lot of laughs and smiles.  Then you made the tragic decision to leave again.....this time on your motorcycle.  That was last time I would ever see you alive.  I miss your smile Randy.....so much.  I will continue to miss you, think of you and remember you for as long as I live babe."

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 4th August 2014

"Thanks Randy, I got it! Wish you were here and love you so much"

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 29th July 2014

"Wow, August is just around the corner.  I am dreading it. Really I just want to skip it all together. Seriously Randy! I can't believe it's been a year. I never thought I'd survive the first day, the first week, the first month and now the first year without you.  I am getting stronger as each day goes by. Though I never wanted to do this without you, you left me no choice.  I am grateful because you showed me how to get up and keep moving no matter what happens.  You showed me how to survive regardless of my circumstances.  I listened to what you said about all that even though I am pretty sure you didn't think I was.  I am doing it. I am still going. I am happy for the most part. There is still a void in my life and I know there always will be but I am okay and I'm gonna make it. Still miss you and will all my life. Love you...."

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 25th July 2014

"Year is creeping up. Sometimes feels like forever and sometimes like yesterday and most times like a bad dream we will all wake up from. I keep calling for you but I can find you. It's a struggle to chose life since you left but I'm trying to keep getting up to keep a smile. Have a lot to be thankful for right here but I'm tired. So much has happened throughout my life and I always bounce back but this time it's been a constant struggle. The hopes and dreams we had finally coming home, the HOPE, was taken from us all. We had such grand expectations and they were shattered in a billion pieces...it's been put back together so many times in the past that I can't seem to get everything to fit right anymore. We needed you Randy and still do...where are you???"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 23rd July 2014

"Hey Ran, remember about five or six years ago when you called me telling me I wasn't your sister anymore because your sister would have talked to you and asked for help?? Well your sister is calling you and asking for help now...are you there?
Love you
Tracy"

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 18th July 2014

"Thinking of you a lot lately.....even more than usual.  It is less than a month now until you've been in heaven for a year.  So much has happened in that year that you've missed and I hate that. I still know you are at peace and that is the saving grace that has allowed me to accept what has happened and continue on with my life.  I still keep you safely tucked in my heart and will for all my life.  We miss you honey.....tons!! Please keep a watch over all of us......and put in a good word to the man upstairs for us.  I love you."

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 5th July 2014

"Today is the Fourth of July and all of us should be sitting outside at your home watching fireworks, joking, laughing as we have done in Years past.  This year, nothing is the same... Your sister and sam and your niece and nephews and your son shylen are shooting fireworks at their home tonight.  Tommy and denna are having others over at your home  and I am at home  trying to not miss you so much on this first Fourth of July you are gone.     Your sister and I will  keep our promise to you and be here always for your sons, as we have since day they were born.  I miss you every day and would even take one of your "ugly" phone calls right now too.     Love, mom"

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 1st July 2014

"There is no word that can describe the feeling I have in my heart and soul since you left us.  The void is so overwhelming and I know this will be endured the rest of my life.  It doesn't seem possible it is almost your one year angelversary.   The days have quickly passed but in our hearts your absence in my life, your sister's, your sons and nieces and nephews it feel like a bad dream still.

we have gone thru many "firsts" days without your presence in physical form, but our memories, sharing them with each other on these loo occasions has helped ease the reality you are gone from this life.  I don't know why the Lord called you and Leah home but have faith that there was a reason.  One day I will know the answer.

Sometimes I feel your presence so strong and know you are close helping me deal with all going on.  I know in my heart all will be okay for our family and especially the boys.  You will never be forgotten.  Your sister and I will tell our memories of you throughout the years to your sons and her kids so they can share with future generations.

I miss and love you so much son.  Sometimes the ache in my heart is so great I cannot handle it.  I know now why  your sister tracy and family were meant to move here when they did.  It was to help me and your sons and to help each other when you left.  The Lord knew we would help each other thru this and be reunited back as a family..and be even closer then ever before.

you are dearly loved and missed my son....please help ease the hearaches along my way thru life your absence left.  Im not as strong as once was... (smile).
Forever loved and missed.......love. mom"

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 30th June 2014

"I can't believe it's been almost a year since this traumatic event took you from me so quickly.  It still seems like yesterday you were laughing and smiling and telling me goodbye before you went to work. I can still see you so clearly.  Yet, at the same time, it seems like an eternity since I've seen your face and heard the sound of your laughter.  I still miss you and will my whole life.  Love you Randy"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 6th June 2014

"Hey almost 10 months now. I don't quite believe this still. Home isn't home without you...I came home for you and you left...I miss my brother and childhood buddy
Love you so much Ran
Ps give dad a giant hug"

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 6th June 2014

"Just thinking of you today Randy and the life we once shared.  I am grateful and honored to have been your wife. I love you."

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 18th April 2014

"There is not a day or minute you are not on my mind.  I miss you son so much.  The void you left in our lives is forever felt.  This first Easter you will be with us in heart and spirit and your seat at my table is forever yours.  I know I will be with you and the rest of my loved ones very soon and I look for that day but I know you'd want me to be here for your sons and sister and Denna.  I know in my heart you are happy, enjoying time with your dad and grandparents and family.  I know you are with The Lord and that gives me peace.  I also know now you know how deeply you were and are loved by me and your family.   I love you so much and miss you terribly sometimes my heart hurts so badly.   Sending you many hugs my son.    Drop in sometimes to see me ok."

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 17th April 2014

"God I miss you so much!!!"

This tribute was added by David Lopez on 11th February 2014

"For my dear cousin, Randy.  I send much love to you.  As long as I live, you will never be forgotten.  Thank you for the times we had, I will cherish them always.  Thank you to my Uncle Mike for teaching me technical things, my Aunt Jamie for teaching the importance of family, my dear cousins Tracy, and Randy.  Infinite hugs and love to each of you..."

This tribute was added by Renee Yoder on 30th January 2014

"Randy, I hope you had a wonderful birthday.  I am sure you did because you celebrated it with Jesus.  I love and miss you so much.  You are always in my heart and will be forever.  I miss your smile, your jokes and even your calling me an old lady.  It has been very hard to go on without you, but I know you are being taken care of since you are with your Dad and Jesus.  Thank you for being the greatest son-in-law there ever could be.  You always took care of me and Dad and I just want you to know that we appreciated every thing you did for us.  I wish I could have done so much more for you.  I have to admit I couldnt go to the lake for your balloons because it was just too emotional for me.  Sometimes its just too sad for me to go to the lake, but its certainly not because I dont care, because I do.  I know that you know how much Dad and I love you.  Love you so much.  Mom Yoder"

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 29th January 2014

"Happy 40th Birthday! It must be amazing to be able to spend it with dad. I got you 40 balloons and we are all sending them to you in a couple hours. I hope your day has been wonderful. I bet you two went fishing on some beautiful lake up there.  I really miss you but am determined to celebrate your life today. Hugs to you and give one to dad. Love you both to Heaven and back
Always with you
Your sister"

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 29th January 2014

"Today my son you would be celebrating his 40th birthday.  I had planned on giving you a surprise 40th, but God had other plans for this year..  I want you to know son how deeply my heart misses you and how much I love you.  Every second I think of you and you are always in my thoughts and heart as I go thru this life's up and downs.  I am so blessed having you as my son, and the almost 40 years you were with me and our family.  I know how much you loved me and even tho sometimes words were spoken I know in our hearts the bond between mother and son is very very strong.  I am so proud of you for all you accomplished, blessed with your sons, and sister and Denna.  I wish I could hug you just one more time, so  I could tell you how much I love you.  I know all of us will be okay and I promised you when boys were babies, I would always keep them safe, be there for them no matter what and promised you many times after when we talked in past years.  I will do this til I join you and your dad and our family in heaven.  
I miss you son....soooo much.   I hope you are having the best 40th ever with your dad, family and Jesus.   They can give you the best ever.  
Sending much love tonight to you in heaven.  Be watching son,  we all will be there.    Mom"

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 29th January 2014

"Happy Birthday Honey.....I hope the angels are having a great 40th birthday party for you.  I love you and miss you so much!"

This tribute was added by CJ & DR Mosher on 29th January 2014

"Happy Birthday baby boy...forever and always."

This tribute was added by Shylen Aufieri on 5th January 2014

"To my father, a wonderful caring man who I was lucky to be raised by. Without you I would not be the person I am today.  You taught me right from wrong and snapped me into shape when I was going down bad roads and making bad decisions. You were one of the most understanding person I have in my life, you always told me no matter what if I have something on my mind that's bothering me I can come to you and that you were not only my father but also my bestfriend, I should have taken advantage of those times because ive had a lot of my things on my mind lately,  but I know you are always listening . I miss the man that could make a whole room explode with laughter and slap a smile on everyones face, I wish we couldve had more times like that but I will always have those memories close to heart. You always said me and Tommy were your heroes but you were our hero and we will always look up to you. Love you dad, I'll see you again one day but I till then i'll be making you proud down here and live a great life for you."

This tribute was added by jamie aufieri ogden on 8th December 2013

"Son, I love and miss you more than words can say.   I miss seeing you, hearing your voice, and just knowing you are here.  My heart aches and i know this will never go away because when you left a part was taken with you.  I know this is not goodbye, I know I will be with you again.  Til then, know I will be here to help your sons , sister and wife as I always have and we will forever miss  and love you.  You will be remembered every day and I'm looking forward to day I will see you again.  I know you are with your dad, grandparents and rest of our family and most of all you are with The Lord.  I love you my son..... mom"

This tribute was added by Denna Aufieri on 8th December 2013

"Love you forever and a day sweetness......until we meet again I will miss you every day of my life."

This tribute was added by Tracy Goldsberry on 8th December 2013

"My brother and best friend. I know you are with dad but learning to live without you will be a lifetime lesson I'm not sure I'll pass. I love and miss you every second of everyday. Give dad a hug..."

This tribute was added by CJ & DR Mosher on 8th December 2013

"To the young man who made me laugh, made me angry, made me smile....but most of all to the man who was always the best he could be to our daughter and their sons. Always in my heart."


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