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After 99 full and rewarding years, Ray Goodman passed away peacefully on June 14, 2016, at his home in Washington, DC, surrounded by his family.

Born in London, England, on October 26, 1916, Ray was the eldest of three brothers, all born while their father served in the trenches of World War 1. Ray attended University College School and the London School of Economics, taking his degree in 1939 after a year's fellowship at the Universities of Oslo and Copenhagen.

When Britain declared war on Germany in September 1939, Ray volunteered for the Royal Navy, serving his first year on convoy duty on the North Atlantic. Commissioned in 1941 as a sub lieutenant, he served at the Admiralty and accompanied Churchill to the Atlantic Charter meeting with President Roosevelt. He spent the rest of WWII at Bletchley Park, promoted to Lieutenant Commander as head of watch in Hut 4, interpreting decoded German naval messages.

After the war, Ray spent six years as director of Political and Economic Planning (PEP), a policy think tank, and three as a management executive at retailer Marks & Spencer. He moved to Washington in 1956 to join the World Bank, where he served as director of the East Asia and Pacific department and in other senior roles. He retired in 1982 and spent his remaining years in Washington, consulting, managing investments for LSE's alumni association, playing classical guitar, and writing poetry.

Ray is survived by his wife of 63 years, Dorothy Bruchholz Goodman of Minneapolis, founder of the Washington International School; four children, Jeremy Goodman of Princeton, NJ (Maureen Quirk), Harriet Goodman of London (Andrew Nurnberg), Matthew Goodman of Washington (Patty Goodman), and Sophia Goodman of Bloomington, IN (Matthew Christ); and 9 grandchildren (Alexander, Elizabeth, Lucy, Diana, Maggie, Misha, Miranda, Will, and Helen).

Ray's children wish to give special thanks to Ms. Dawa Dolma and Ms. Teresa Momoh for their many years of kindness, caring, and support for our father.

In lieu of sending flowers, friends may make a donation in Ray's memory to the Alumni and Friends of LSE, either online at http://www.aflse.org/Goodman
or by mail to AFLSE, PO Box 17510, Arlington, VA  22216. The AFLSE's tribute to Ray can be found here.

For Ray's full story in his own words, click on 'His Life' on the menu bar above. And please add your own memories: he would have loved to hear them.







 

October 26, 2023
October 26, 2023
Always happy to remember Ray.
He was a pleasure to know and I have happy memories of our handful of meetings.
Lovely family, who I'm sure still miss him.
Continue to rest in blissful peace.
Fondest thoughts.
Lesley Goodman (ex wife of Chris and mum to Michael)
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
Always happy to remember Ray, he was the most polite and friendly gentleman. I never saw him often but when I did it was an absolute pleasure. He was a special man.
Hope you are sleeping well Dear Ray, and trading stories with David and Geoff.
Thinking of you.
Lesley Goodman (Chris's ex wife and Mum to Michael. Michael is now a Dad himself to Hollie Rae Goodman aged 7 months)
October 26, 2020
October 26, 2020
Always happy to remember such a lovely true gentleman. The likes of which we rarely see these days.
May you still be resting in blissful peace Ray and watching over your family.
Thinking of you.
Lesley Goodman (Chris's ex wife, mother of Michael)
Michael is soon to be a Dad, let's hope if he's a boy, he turns out like all the Goodman gentlemen.
Sadly missed Dear Ray x
October 26, 2020
October 26, 2020
With the fondest of memories, by far our favorite patient for many years.
Dick Israel, Audiologist
October 26, 2018
October 26, 2018
Always very happy to remember such a lovely dear man. A True gentleman.
I'm very happy that our dear Son Michael (who gets married next July) is a descendant of such a nice man and part of the Goodman family.
I never met a Goodman I didn't like!!
I see Margaret Goodman (Geoffs Wife) regularly and she is a marvel. She's 95 next month and a lovely lady and I love her dearly. She's always been more like a Mum to me than a Mother in Law. I may not be a Goodman now but I still consider the Goodmans family. It would be nice to think that David, Ray and Geoff are up there putting our current world to rights.
I have to say that the happiest times of my life were when I was a "Goodman"
Regards to all.
October 30, 2017
October 30, 2017
Always nice to remember Ray, If MY Son Mike ends up HALF the Man Ray was I will be a happy Mum. Ray was a delight to talk to, a real gentleman. Always interested in people and very Charismatic. I hope you are catching up with Geoff and David and puting this changing world we live in to rights!! Always missed Never Forgotten. (Lesley ex wife of Chris Goodman Mum to Michael)
June 15, 2017
June 15, 2017
When I was a teenager, I visited Ray and Dorrie in Washington and have a clear memory of my uncle, wearing a tea towel and busy about his domestic duties. I knew he was a most important man at the World Bank but not too important to do housework and make me feel at home. Not too lofty either in his professional life to come and say hello to me, a junior researcher at the Policy Studies Institute (the successor to PEP of which he had been Director), thereby significantly raising my credibility with colleagues. A fine, kind man.
June 14, 2017
June 14, 2017
Nice to remember Ray, a delightful man, happy memories of his party at the Oriental Club London. He was a real gentleman with stature, presence and charisma. So pleased to have known him. Ray, Rest in peace and I hope you have caught up with your brothers David and Geoff (my father in law).
October 14, 2016
October 14, 2016
"Kan du li' en ostemad?" I will always remember one of Ray's first sentences to me being welcomed to his DC-home as the Danish au pair with Jeremy Goodman's family in July 1991. Though his Copenhagen journey was more than 40 years back at that time, Ray still remembered and was able to pronounce "Do you like bread with cheese?" in Danish. I was fortunate to meet Ray a number of times during my one year stay with Jeremy's lovely family in Princeton. A warm, thoughtful, wise and empathic man - with a ditto wife Dory. I went back to the US a few times and met Ray fx in Carmel. I 1995 I traveled cross the US with a student friend and again Ray and Dory opened their home to me/us. Thank you!
July 31, 2016
July 31, 2016
Only after we had both retired did I learn of Ray's World War doings; but when we worked together (he was my superior, then my colleague) I always thought of him as the personification of the English Officer and Gentleman - cool exterior, strong will, sang-froid and warm heart. I miss him.
July 13, 2016
July 13, 2016
May you rest in peace, Ray.

From William Schwitzer, son of Joan and Mat Schwitzer, dear friends of Ray and Dorothy, who were last together with Ray and Dorothy on the occasion of my parents diamond wedding celebration in Highgate on 24.6.2007. Joan passed away in September 2009, and Mat in October 2014.

Deepest condolences to Dorothy and all the family from all of us here in Highgate, London.
July 4, 2016
July 4, 2016
"The most elegant man who ever entered my audiology office. Hollywood actor handsome, and when he spoke, with his British accent, he was a cross between Cary Grant and David Niven...only better.

It has been more than twenty years that he and I became friends in my office. When ever his name appeared on the schedule, my staff and I were so pleased in anticipation of his arrival. He was a star. And now that I have read his "His Life" autobiography, I am in awe of him even more than before.

Retired now more than two years, I include him in my memories of my favorite patients, who I miss a great deal.

My sincerest condolences to all the family. He was a great man in every respect, and I will miss him,

Richard H. Israel, Ph. D."
June 23, 2016
June 23, 2016
Ray was my brother in law and as a girl in the Land Army, I met his brother David a sergeant in the RAF at a Village Hall social and in spite of family differences, always defended by Ray, he offered to be our Best Man. Ray was not only a brilliant man on both sides of the Atlantic but also a writer of political and philosophical prose of great merit.

I hope Ray that you will find your brother David on Hampstead Heath where you spent your boyhood together. Ray,David and their brother Geof were all brilliant men and happily married with wonderful children. My thoughts and those of my family are with you Dorry and your family.
With love from Pearl
June 22, 2016
June 22, 2016
Dorothy, how fortunate you have shared 63 years together. Ray was a great support and encouraged you in your wonderful endeavors. Ray was a most accomplished person and successor in many fields. He will be missed.
June 21, 2016
June 21, 2016
Rest in peace dear Ray. Truly honoured to have known you.
Condolences to the family. Lesley (Chris's exwife and Michaels Mum)
June 20, 2016
June 20, 2016
Uncle Ray,
Calm, warm, curious. Swimmer, guitar playing poet. Somewhat exotic to we Californians. Truly a renaissance man.
On reading his obit my only regret is that our son, Ansel, who loves history, particularly learning about WWII, didn't get to hear some of Uncle Ray's stories about code work!
It's wonderful to look through the photos. I cherish the memories. Much love to all the amazing Goodpeople!
June 18, 2016
June 18, 2016
Three memories of Dad: his remarkable memory for old verse, from Shakespeare sonnets to silly doggerel ("When baby's screams get hard to bear, pop him in the Frigidaire. My wife says, 'Dear, I'm so unhappy; our baby is completely frappé.'"); his determined efforts to play complicated Bach pieces on his guitar well into his 90s; and his evening lectures to school-auction winning bidders about Bletchley, which centered on the technical aspects of the code-breaking rather than what everyone really wanted to hear about, which was the eccentric behavior of the inmates. Requiescat in pace, Dad.
June 17, 2016
June 17, 2016
Uncle Ray my fathers brother was the first man, other than my dad, to have a profound impression on me from a very small child. I used to stay with my grandma Marion in Holland Park in a flat she shared with him. There was a clothes line that separated his part of the flat from hers! I was in awe of him as he was a rather inscrutable man and very good looking! Later in life he became someone who I had a very fond relationship with and I know he made a difference to my life, not least as he lent me a little money when I was starting up my business 25 years ago, without which it might never had got off the ground. He was paid back every penny! I loved to talk to him and share views on life and the world and have always felt very proud to tell my high level clients what an important man he was in world affairs. I am very sad he had gone and feel he is the last of a kind. I send love to all my cousins and to my Aunt Dorrie.
June 16, 2016
June 16, 2016
My Uncle Ray was a charming man I always had great respect for. I will miss him.
June 16, 2016
June 16, 2016
I remember the lovely and inspiring conversations in 3 Regents Square and the gentle way in which Mr Goodman explained some of the history of our century to our daughters Jamila and Yasmin.
I am sure that he will be greatly missed by his wonderful wife and children and grandchildren and their friends.

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October 26, 2023
October 26, 2023
Always happy to remember Ray.
He was a pleasure to know and I have happy memories of our handful of meetings.
Lovely family, who I'm sure still miss him.
Continue to rest in blissful peace.
Fondest thoughts.
Lesley Goodman (ex wife of Chris and mum to Michael)
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
Always happy to remember Ray, he was the most polite and friendly gentleman. I never saw him often but when I did it was an absolute pleasure. He was a special man.
Hope you are sleeping well Dear Ray, and trading stories with David and Geoff.
Thinking of you.
Lesley Goodman (Chris's ex wife and Mum to Michael. Michael is now a Dad himself to Hollie Rae Goodman aged 7 months)
October 26, 2020
October 26, 2020
Always happy to remember such a lovely true gentleman. The likes of which we rarely see these days.
May you still be resting in blissful peace Ray and watching over your family.
Thinking of you.
Lesley Goodman (Chris's ex wife, mother of Michael)
Michael is soon to be a Dad, let's hope if he's a boy, he turns out like all the Goodman gentlemen.
Sadly missed Dear Ray x
Recent stories

A toast to Joan and Mat Schwitzer

July 13, 2016

William Schwitzer's lovely tribute on the home page here is testimony to the long and loving friendship between our parents. I also remember them coming to London for Joan and Mat's diamond anniversary in 2007, determined to make it after having missed the party for the 50th. 

My sharp-eyed niece Maggie (newly annointed Keeper of the RJG Poetry Archive) reminds us that Dad was never one to let an occasion pass without rhyme.  Here are the verses he sent to Joan and Mat in 1997:

The Schwitzers on their Golden Wedding Anniversary    

Alas, we are too far away

To join you on the festive day

That marks your anniversary,

The Schwitzers’ golden jubilee.

 

So here’s a toast, old friends:

“The Schwitzers!”

(In good champagne or sparkling spritzers)

“Good health and happiness perennial

Attend you both ‘till your centennial.”

 

A little misunderstanding at

June 21, 2016
<p>When we attended Rays 75th Birthday party at the oriental club in London. A good time was had by everyone. At the end of the evening, the MC for the evening got up to make a little speech. He said that he had hoped that we all enjoyed the evening and that "If only others could take an example from the way Jewish people behave, then the world would be a better place" He obviously saw the name GOODMAN and assumed that we were all Jewish!! No-one had the heart to tell the poor man that we weren't!! Everyone was amused.</p><p>It was a fantastic evening and a joy to meet the American side of the family.</p><p>We attended the party with our baby Son Michael, fond memories. The picture is of the lovely Julia holding our Son Michael John Goodman.</p>

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