This would be your 66th birthday. Hardly seems possible. You were doing many worth while endeavors for family , friends and community.
Your contributions and your impact on this world are still appreciated.
We miss you and love you , Mom And Dad. RIP

A day that is a recall of so many good times. You were called to be with Jesus. You are joined by your sister; Rhonda and your brother; Roger.
Mom and I miss all of you so very much. We do not always understand
Gods plan. Some day we will all meet again. Then we can talk about the
"plan". Love you and miss you.
Dad

Thinking about you frequently. As you know Roger is now with you and Rhonda. We think of the good times when we were all together on Earth. I know the three of you make Heaven a devine place.
  We are heart broken because of your absence. You are missed more than words could express. We always "Remember The Good Times".
Love forever, Mom & Dad.

A long with many others we celebrated your cousin Amanda's marriage. It was a great party. We missed you. You always appreciated a celebration. We
danced for the first time in a while. Present were 8 of our grand children, and they had lots of good times. We wish you were there as we often wish you were still here. Love you and miss you; Mom & Dad

Miss you Ray! Give Rhonda a hug from us. Love you!

Another year without your physical presence. I still get informed about some
you did to make some one's life better. The beauty of the way these things were done was the "lack" of publicity. They were done because it was the right act to perform. Just thanking God for the way you lived your life. I assume you are making the same contributions in Heaven.
Missed more than I can express.
LOvE, Mom & Dad .

Our first born arrived 63 years ago today. We were proud of you then and we are still proud of you today. We miss you all the days of our life. You left memories that make us happy to recall. Rest in peace.
Love forever, Mom & Dad

Hey Ray - do me a favor and give Rhonda a hug for me. Missing you both. I hope you guys are winning every board game in heaven! See you someday. Peace. AJ

It is difficult to realize that your sister has joined you. We love and miss you both so very much. I don't understand why some things happen. I do know that it is difficult to cope with both of you not here. We will continue to keep you both in our minds and hearts. 

Another year has gone by since your physical body is not here. You are sorely missed but not forgotten. The works you contributed are cherished by many and continue as benefits to many. We know how much you would have loved to hold your grandchildren. They are part of your gifts to all of us. Not a day goes by without thoughts of you. Love you and miss you.
Mom and Dad

You are always in our thoughts. We are now praying for your sister. She is recovering very well. She had brain surgery on 3/8/2019. Still waiting for pathology reports. We are hopeful.
  You have two handsome grandsons that you must be admiring from heaven. We will make sure they get to know thru all of us.
Love you and miss you, Mom and Dad

Happy Birthday Ray!!! I miss you everyday, until we see each other again. Love you.

Miss you bro. Wish we could be celebrating your 60th together. I’m sure you’re new granddaughter is gonna be great! Sad that you don’t get to enjoy him/her up close and personal.

Today would be your 60th birthday. You are in my thoughts constantly. When I hear a certain hymn it brings a tear to my eyes. Good memories don't take the place of having you with us. I know you would be happy to welcome your first grandchild. Love you and miss you.
Dad

Miss you every day bro. Happy birthday, until we meet again

You are in my thoughts frequently. It seems that your presence is strong in my mind. I am happy to report that the Memorial Golf tournament has funded naming rights at the new Pulteney Free Library for the circulation desk to be known as the Ray Dutcher, Jr Desk. Expected ground breaking is in 2018 . It is fitting that you are remembered in a place that is a community support environment.
Love always and forever missed, Mom And Dad

Used to love it when my big brother would take me out for a spin in Mom n Dad's Mustang. What a blast! Scary and exciting and made us both laugh and smile like crazy! Thanks for those times bro!

Happy Birthday, Ray.Not a day to celebrate without your physical presence. a day for remembering the good years. Thank you for who you are and always will be. We are all blessed to have had.

We had a family brunch at Ray and Bridget's today.Our thought was to share memories of you and to laugh and cry. We didn't have a sad time as our memories are positive and uplifting. We looked at a photo album that followed some high lights of our time together. To me it was a reminder of the legacy you created in your too short time with all of us. My admiration for how you conducted your life and the family you created continues to grow. Mom and I are proud of you and your legacy.Miss you and love you.
Dad

I remember this day so well 58 years ago. At the time, I didn't understand why Gramma Dutcher was so happy, but once I saw you, I could relate. You were the cutest baby and the very first one in our family. Once I became a grandmother, I truly learned about what it feels like to love a grandchild. No one can explain it...it just happens. I think of you often, Ray, and I know you are doing wonderful work for God. Rip and know you were loved and missed. Love, Aunt Pat

You and I weren't together often but your absence is large big brother. Never forgotten Ray.

On the anniversary of your birth you are sorely missed; but not forgotten. Your legacy of three children are a testimonial to your love and care. When I talk to people about you they "light up" with their memories of you. Your Mom and I know that your good work continues and as always we love you .Amen, Dad

Your memory is one of the many things I am thankful for. His presence is felt in many ways in the Dutcher family and the community where he made countless contributions of faith, time and money.
The Memorial Golf Tournament (2nd Annual) made contributions of
$16,500 to his favorite causes; another way he keeps giving to all of us.
Missed and loved by many.
Dad

Thank you for the good memories. Ray lived too short a time, but he accomplished much and did very good deeds. Remembered by many, loved by many and missed by many.
Love forever.
Mom and Dad

The world is made less by your passing. Our family, your friends, and your family are all missing a key player. We keep moving forward but when we look for you we find you've gone. I'm praying for comfort for all those who miss your love and presence and will not forget you. I am grateful for having had a big brother who so greatly influenced me. Mostly in a good direction too! Never forgotten, Ray. Never.

It seems like I have a hole in my heart, something that is missing. I thought time would ease the emptiness. I am gladdened by thoughts and praises from family and friends as to your contributions, but they only fill the void for a short time. You are loved and missed.

It is the anniversary of your birth, usually a day of celebration. I feel your presence and you are in our hearts forever.
Love you, Mom and Dad

Ray was a strong man and I loved that he really thought before he spoke. Something I myself need to work on and will remember him for. We all had many great times at the ball field with our friends and family. I have many great memories of him and his wonderful family and the summer parties they had. Thank you Ray for just being you.

I will miss Ray forever. Even though we didn't see each other very often, when we did, it brought back so many memories of that little boy that I loved so much. He was my first nephew and I was only 10 years old; so, he was like a live baby doll to me. I went on many vacation with him as a child and we always had so much fun together. He grew up to be a wonderful person, so giving and caring.  Although I am sad to see you pass on to a better place, I know God has great plans for you. Love and miss you always, Aunt Pat

Oh my cousin, your passing has saddened my heart. There were miles between us...I always remember your smile and your witty ways. I wish that i could say something to mend your families hearts. This place will be even more empty without you hear. I hope heaven takes care of you. Until we see each other again cousin...I miss u & love you dearly.

Where did you go ?
Kind brother Ray
I miss you so
On this sad day

The words are spoke 
Where is thy sting?
Within our heart
That fails to sing

Confess I will
Times faith is strong
This bitter pill
Is not so wrong

Those times too short
And now is doubt
To dance, cavort
Is just "right out"

Desire to stay
I know you did
For work for play
Shrinks say for Id

Not your focus
The ego self
The ones you loved
Forget the self

Fierce was your way
Determined grit
Kept sloth at bay
As God has writ

Passionate man
Your focus strong
At first to gain
Then right the wrong

Your faith it grew
Blossomed so fair
To watch you live 
True heart laid bare

Your way once rough
Became so gentle
Reborn you were
In soul, not mental

Your action swift
Considered well
Stopped much too soon
I often dwell

Your absence large
Made your escape
Can't fill this void
The empty gape

There is a plan
We must remind
Our woeful hearts
Cut so unkind

We turn ourselves
To one another
And God of course
Tend well our brother 

I will miss him. He was a son to be proud of; a great dad and a loving, faithful husband.