I didn’t know Rhonda well, but I knew her well enough to know this world has lost a remarkable woman.
Chris Mathews has been a valuable and trusted associate with our company for several years. We volunteered to provide free family portraits to a neighborhood in Miamisburg that was particularly hard hit by the recession several years ago. This was part of an outreach with my church and was planned as a complete day of pampering for people that had lost jobs and were struggling financially. The day was planned to provide not only portraits, but a free picnic lunch and activities for the whole family. Chris and his wife Kristie were some of the first to volunteer their services for this event. On the day of the picnic, Chris and Kristie met me at our studio to help pack our equipment. They had a 3rd person with them, Rhonda Mathews! Rhonda said she wanted to come help in any way she could. I was blown away by her generosity as she spent the entire day making sandwiches and graciously serving all of the people that attended. Later on, I heard from several of the families about how kind and compassionate Rhonda was.
That was one example of what a remarkable person she was. The other example was by the sons she had raised. We hired Chris right out of high school and knew straight away he was a special person. The more I got to know him and his story, the more I realized that his mother had done an amazing job pouring kindness, love and compassion into her children. We never know how our days are numbered, but I can see now that Rhonda had raised her boys to be wise and mature beyond their years. Maybe, somehow she knew they would need it sooner than most.
Yes, this world is less for the loss of Rhonda at such a young age, but we are all better for having known her while she was here. Rhonda’s life here on earth was shorter than any of us would have wished, but the legacy of her unselfish love, kindness and compassion will live on through the lives of her children. Well done Rhonda, well done.