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"A gentleman is one who puts more into the world than he takes out." -- George Bernard Shaw

Richard “Dick” Ellis Jayne, age 86, passed away at home in his sleep the morning of February 18, 2021, after a brief period of infirmity and complications of dementia. Born in Fullerton, California and raised in Orange, California, Richard was a proud Orange County native. 

Richard was talkative yet low-key. He enjoyed long discussions and delving into the minutiae of a variety of subjects. He had many interests, including pipe smoking in his early years, listening to music, fishing, boating on the Colorado River, brewing his own “Dick Jayne’s Fish Tale Beer,” vegetable gardening, all types of racing, photography, cooking, attending the Orange International Street Fair every year, serving as president of his community Homeowner’s Association, and keeping up with his friends from Autonetics/Rockwell/Boeing.

He loved to travel, including taking road trips and visiting Rosarito, Mexico, where he spent many happy times near the beach with friends and family, enjoying lobsters and cervesas. In 1979, he and Ruby took a memorable trip to Hawaii to celebrate their 25th wedding anniversary.

His biggest source of pride and joy were his four daughters and his grandchildren. He was a kind and loving father and eventually a “Super Grandpa” to Devin Richard Stannard (Stephanie), Trevor Ellis Jayne (Liv), Brett William Jayne, Chloe Virginia Bell, and Jack Thomas Bell and great-grandson, Nikolai Phoenix Stannard.

He had the bluest eyes, the warmest laugh, the most giving heart. He was a good man who was loved very much and will be missed by many.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests a gift to the Sisters of St. Joseph of Orange in the name of his caregiver, Marygrace “Grace” Ramos, who lovingly cared for Richard, who she referred to as “Papa,” took him on drives, grocery store adventures, became his friend, and as he told her, his fifth daughter.

The family also sends gratitude to Cadence Hospice for their caring support. 

"How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard." -- A.A.Milne

May 21, 2022
May 21, 2022
Happy Birthday Dad! Thinking of you with love, as I do every day. Remembering all the good times and getting teary eyed as I look fondly at the pictures of your life. We couldn’t have asked for a better dad. I love you.
February 18, 2022
February 18, 2022
It's been a year ago today that we lost you Dad. Not a day goes by that we don't think about you with love and gratitude for what a wonderful father and grandfather you were. You are loved by so many.
May 23, 2021
May 23, 2021

i’ve taken care of richard for 4 years
He was a gentleman, very sweet and a man of many stories to tell. He was loved by many people, when we go to Albertsons the cashiers there know him by first name and same when we go to CVS. when he say “well” that means we should go out and walk around. He loves our walks and grocery trips, one time when we were driving he told me to go ahead keep driving along imperial highway so we can go to mexico and we can have tacos. We spend holidays together but he was always looking forward for 4th of July because we’ve watched fireworks with my family. My family loved him my nieces and nephews called him grandpa. Richard was our family. Richard also loved our Bible classes at St. Pius and He also went with me at the convent of Sisters of St Joseph many times. We also listened to masses together. He supported me with all my journey i told him i’m scared but he told me that i can do this so because there’s a lot of people that i can help.

Richard was always proud of his 4 daughters, Cindy, Shelly, Jennifer and Rhonda. he would always say he has beautiful jane girls. He looks forward for holidays and weekends because he knows he will see his loved ones. We usually sit on his porch every afternoon and he will tell me stories about his beautiful daughters. Iam blessed because he told me and the other caregivers that he has 5 daughters and Iam his 5th daughter.

i want to thank Richard and his family for making me part of the family. Richard will forever live in my heart.

Heavenly Father bless Richard Jayne and have mercy on his eternal soul; forgive his trespasses; grant him peace for he was a faithful man who loved his fellow man; bless his departed soul and welcome him into the joy of everlasting brightness in heaven;
May the light of Jesus and the Angels bring Peace and Salvation to him May he rest in peace knowing that his soul belongs to GOD and GOD only. We exalt Your name for the good life he lived. We pray oh Lord, that everlasting life be given unto him. And as he abides in Your garden, let Your angels touch what he cannot touch again. Father, be with his soul and may he rest in perfect eternal peace. we asked this through Christ our Lord. Amen.

We love you Richard and one day we will see you in HEAVEN!
May 21, 2021
May 21, 2021
I remember Dick as strong, silent and kind. I saw how he and my dad conversed, they were brothers. Now they are together talking old times and enjoying the afterlife.

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May 21, 2022
May 21, 2022
Happy Birthday Dad! Thinking of you with love, as I do every day. Remembering all the good times and getting teary eyed as I look fondly at the pictures of your life. We couldn’t have asked for a better dad. I love you.
February 18, 2022
February 18, 2022
It's been a year ago today that we lost you Dad. Not a day goes by that we don't think about you with love and gratitude for what a wonderful father and grandfather you were. You are loved by so many.
May 23, 2021
May 23, 2021

i’ve taken care of richard for 4 years
He was a gentleman, very sweet and a man of many stories to tell. He was loved by many people, when we go to Albertsons the cashiers there know him by first name and same when we go to CVS. when he say “well” that means we should go out and walk around. He loves our walks and grocery trips, one time when we were driving he told me to go ahead keep driving along imperial highway so we can go to mexico and we can have tacos. We spend holidays together but he was always looking forward for 4th of July because we’ve watched fireworks with my family. My family loved him my nieces and nephews called him grandpa. Richard was our family. Richard also loved our Bible classes at St. Pius and He also went with me at the convent of Sisters of St Joseph many times. We also listened to masses together. He supported me with all my journey i told him i’m scared but he told me that i can do this so because there’s a lot of people that i can help.

Richard was always proud of his 4 daughters, Cindy, Shelly, Jennifer and Rhonda. he would always say he has beautiful jane girls. He looks forward for holidays and weekends because he knows he will see his loved ones. We usually sit on his porch every afternoon and he will tell me stories about his beautiful daughters. Iam blessed because he told me and the other caregivers that he has 5 daughters and Iam his 5th daughter.

i want to thank Richard and his family for making me part of the family. Richard will forever live in my heart.

Heavenly Father bless Richard Jayne and have mercy on his eternal soul; forgive his trespasses; grant him peace for he was a faithful man who loved his fellow man; bless his departed soul and welcome him into the joy of everlasting brightness in heaven;
May the light of Jesus and the Angels bring Peace and Salvation to him May he rest in peace knowing that his soul belongs to GOD and GOD only. We exalt Your name for the good life he lived. We pray oh Lord, that everlasting life be given unto him. And as he abides in Your garden, let Your angels touch what he cannot touch again. Father, be with his soul and may he rest in perfect eternal peace. we asked this through Christ our Lord. Amen.

We love you Richard and one day we will see you in HEAVEN!
His Life

"Life isn't a matter of milestone, but of moments." -- Rose Kennedy

March 2, 2021
After his father, Egbert Wesley Jayne, passed away when Richard was eight years old, he left his home in Orange moved to Mecca, south of Indio, and then Idyllwild where he lived with his aunt and uncle, Donald and Helen (Hammond) Jayne. During these years, he attended the Desert Sun School, of which Helen Jayne was a founder.

At age 13, Richard returned to Orange and his mother and stepfather, Nora (Heaton) (Jayne) and Charles Hertrick, and younger sister, Janet (Jayne) McCrory. He attended Orange High School (the original campus which is now part of Chapman University), where he began to foster his relationship with Ruby Lynn (Smith) Jayne, who would become his wife of 35 years.

After their marriage in 1954, Richard enlisted in the Air Force and the newlyweds moved to Amarillo, where they lived in a small house, endured winter snow, and made many good friends and memories. In December of 1955, they visited California over the holidays and while there, welcomed their first-born daughter, Cynthia Lynn Jayne. In 1957, while still living in Texas, Richard’s second daughter, Rhonda Leigh (Jayne) Stannard, was born. After completing his service duties, the family returned to California and moved to Anaheim, where Richard and Ruby eventually bought their first home in 1962. In 1963, their third daughter, Shelly Ann Jayne, was born, and in 1966, their fourth daughter, Jennifer Rebecca (Jayne) Bell, was born.

During these years, Richard attended Fullerton Junior College part-time, earning his AA degree in Mechanical Engineering in 1964. He was employed by Autonetics (subsequently North American Rockwell, and then Boeing ) for more than 30 years.

In addition to working full-time as a mechanical engineer, Richard took on many second jobs to make ends meet. This included working as an usher at Angel Stadium and Anaheim Convention Center, a gas station attendant, maintaining a paper route for both the Fullerton News Tribune and Los Angeles Times, and eventually acquiring a pool cleaning and service business that he owned and operated for 20-plus years.

Richard and Ruby bought a new home and in 1976 moved to Placentia, where he lived for the next ten years until his divorce in 1986. At that time, Richard moved to Fullerton, where he resided until his passing.


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May 24, 2021
Richard and I drove around places. We listened  to different music and when it was upbeat he claps his hands and he was always smiling. On our walks he used to picked some flowers dandelion and get rid of the mushrooms. We called the dried leaves the crunchy and used to stepped on them for fun. He collected the cans and plastics trash that was laying on the street around his neighborhood and throw them away to his own trash bins. He was such a wonderful man.

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