I remember feeling your life inside me while I carried you for 9 months.
I'm holding on
I remember when you arrived into the world, and once again I marveled at the miracle of birth, and the beginning of a life.
I'm holding on
I remember feeling your warmth as I cradled you in my arms and nursed you for months and months
I'm holding on
I remember you as a little boy, your energy passing through me as I held you on my lap
I'm holding on
I watched with love the special bond that developed between you and your siblings as you grew (your quiet kindness always prevailed)
I'm holding on
I experienced with you, some of lifes frustrations, but mostly it is your accomplishments and calm demeanor I remember
I'm holding on
I admired your creative and inquisitive mind, and your great love of lifelong learning
I'm holding on
I observed regularly your compassion and sensitivity when you interacted with family and friends (you were always the first to hive your Grandma a big hug)
I'm holding on
I thrived on your hugs and kind words
I'm holding on
Memories flash in and out of my mind, pulling me in and out of reality:
Family vacations, and family celebrations
I'm holding on
I remember with pure horror the words of the doctor"there is nothing more we can do"
I'm trying to hold on
I remember with shock and disbelief seeing you for the last time at your funeral, my precious son lying still, with no life
I don't want to hold on
I remember with anguish the last goodbye, feeling your coldness under my fingers and desperately wanting to hold you, to keep you here.
Part of me died, and was buried with you.
I CANT HOLD ON
I remember the outpouring of love, and felt the support of family and friendswhen they came to say goodbye to you, and to help our family survive this nightmare.
I'm barely holding on
I remember leaving you behind at the graveside. How can you be in that box?
I don't want to hold on
I remember sitting in your closet, contents undisturbed, soaking your laundry with my tears.
I'm still trying to hold on
I sit in your room and cling to the memory of the sound of your voice. The silence is now deafening.
I'm holding on
I remember the terrifying darkness each night, and the incredible longing to see you, and when morning finally arrives, you are still not here. I could never have imagined a loss so enormous, or a pain so profound.
I'm holding on
I remember with anger, the unfairness of your death, and you being robbed of a full life, and ask myself over and over again, "why?"
Help me hold on
Despite my loneliness and fear, I will continue to remember, and to hold on to every precious moment of your life. I can no longer hold you in my arms, or see your beautiful blue eyes, or coax an elusive smile from you, but I will cherish and hold your love and warmth in my heart and mind forever.
I will never let go, you are part of me, as only a child can be. A mother's love is eternal,
Love always my precious Richard❤️❤️
"I'll love you forever, I'll like you for always, as long as I'm living, my baby you'll be"