Rick was a great father and amazing husband. He found the love of his life early on and showed her his love every day for the next 40 years. Rick’s pride in his three children cannot be described in words. His wife and children were his world.
We are all proud of the man he was and that we were lucky to have him in our lives.
A memorial service to celebrate his life will be scheduled at a later date once Linda has left the hospital.
He will be missed
Tributes
Leave a tributeFive years:
It's so hard to be strong
when you've been missing
someone so long...………...
When I close my eyes
I see you...……………….
When I open my eyes
I miss you...………………
I don't know what else to say
I miss you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I miss your love,
I miss your touch,
But I'm feeling you every day!
Rest In Peace, Big Guy!
Love, Cupcake
Grief is a walk alone. Others can be there, and listen. But I will walk alone down my own path, at my own pace, with my pain, with my wounds raw, my denial, anger, and bitter loss. I will come to my own peace, hopefully........but it will be on my own, in my own time.
Happy birthday, Big Guy!! Know you are still loved and missed every single day.
Love you, always in my heart!
CupCake
Each night I put my head on my pillow
I try to tell myself I’m strong because I’ve
gone another day without you!
Happy anniversary it should have been 44 years.
I wish I’d have met you soon so I could have loved you longer !!
Always in my heart,
Cupcake
Most people want presents under their tree,
My wish is different, I wish that you were here with me.
I just miss you.
Love,
Cup Cake.
A thousand word will not bring you back,
I know I've tried.
Neither will a thousand tears,
I know I've cried.
Even after 4 years, I just miss you!
Forever missed,
Cupcake
I am sorry for your loss.
You are in my thoughts and prayers
Ric
It's these days that I miss you most, it's these days that we did celebrated together that I miss you the most.
I just miss you.
I just miss your voice.
I just miss your smile.
I just miss your smell.
I just miss your hugs.
I just miss your jokes.
I just miss how you made me feel
I just miss your everything
Love you,
"CupCake".
Missing you on our 43rd anniversary.
The reality is that I will grieve forever. I will not "get over" the lose of my loved one, I have learned to live with it. I will heal and I will rebuild myself around the loss I have suffered. I will be whole again but I will never be the same. Nor should I be the same, nor would I want to!
Keeping the promise of travel. Enjoy all the sun and beaches. The French Beach is a nude beach, I know you're watching the scenery!
Love you,
"Cupcake"
My joy is greater, my heart is fuller.
My love is deeper, my hope is broader.
My life is richer and my faith is stronger
because you were a part of my life.
And no matter what any one says about grief
and about time healing all wounds, the truth is,
there's a certain sorrow that never fade away
until the heart stops beating and the last breath taken.
Really, really miss you!
Love,
Cupcake
Another years has gone by and I still miss you just as much as the day you left me. I can now think about you, and I smile. The tears still flow, I miss my best friend.
I thought of you today, but that is nothing new.
I thought of you yesterday and days before that too.
I think of you in silence, I often speak your name.
All I have are memories and your picture in a frame.
Your memory is a keepsake, from which I'll never part.
God has you in His arms, I have you in my heart.
Love you always, Cupcake
Happy Birthday, Big Daddy!
Forever, CupCake.
Still missing you.........
Happy anniversary.....
Cupcake
I hope you enjoy your resting place near your son. I know he feels closer to you and you'll keep him safe.
You're still so missed by the whole family. Thanks for watching over all of them and us.
Still miss you, you're in my heart.
Love you still! Cupcake
Take care of Bobby......
Ride those Harley's together!!
Felix culpa, Big Daddy!!!
Still missing you, Love CupCake.
I miss the way you made me laugh. Keep me and the kids safe, you're our angel!
Love, Cup Cake
"Cupcake"
"Sweet Cheeks"
P.S. Thanks for the great weather on your Memorial! I asked you, and like always, you smiled on us. You would have loved the party!! It was just how you would have wanted it. Turkey and beer, too much of both!! Your children make me so proud!! They miss you too...
Death changes everything! Time changes nothing.....I still miss the sound of your voice, the wisdom in your advice, the stories of your life and just being in your presence. So "No", time changes nothing, I miss you as much today as I did the day you died. I just miss you!
"author unknown"
I love you as much today as much as I did the day you died! Happy Anniversary!!! Forty Years just wasn't long enough!!!
Love, Linda
Your Wisconsin PACKER GREEN & GOLD friends! Duke & Bev
The Griffiths (Mike, Laura, Joey, Bryce, & Julia)
Our hearts ache for you. The loss of your husband/father is such a profound loss; may the memories you hold most dear comfort you now.Draw strength from those you love & those who love you. Go gently, you are in our hearts & prayers. Love, Emmy & Mike
I am so truly sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I know its hard right now, but remember that he will always be in your hearts. He will be watching over you guys and thinking about how much he loves you. If you guys need anything please let me know.
Words could never express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Papa Fonger was good to me every single time I stepped foot in your home and I will miss him greatly. Your family will always be in my heart, my thoughts and my prayers.
Leave a Tribute
Five years:
It's so hard to be strong
when you've been missing
someone so long...………...
When I close my eyes
I see you...……………….
When I open my eyes
I miss you...………………
I don't know what else to say
I miss you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I miss your love,
I miss your touch,
But I'm feeling you every day!
Rest In Peace, Big Guy!
Love, Cupcake
Grief is a walk alone. Others can be there, and listen. But I will walk alone down my own path, at my own pace, with my pain, with my wounds raw, my denial, anger, and bitter loss. I will come to my own peace, hopefully........but it will be on my own, in my own time.
Happy birthday, Big Guy!! Know you are still loved and missed every single day.
Love you, always in my heart!
CupCake
With Love, From
Uncle Rick lightened everyone's day whether it was a joke, smile, or big bear hug. He never took anything too seriously and showered his family with love. "Rose" is my middle name and my aunt and uncle's pet name for me. I really don't know how the nickname began, but it's stuck through the years and it continues to make me feel like a five year old all over again. Makes me think back to the loving moments I was lucky enough to be a part of.
Aunt Linda and Uncle Rick made you feel loved just being around them. Whether it was cleaning the pool with Aunt Lin in the summer, which always became a game, riding in the Hot Rod to car shows, or just being around for dinner, they made you feel loved and priveledged to spend time with them.
At camp he was up at the crack of dawn with a mug of coffee sitting at the table greeting us kids as we rolled from bed to be spoiled with another day of fun. He would sit in the middle of the river, claiming his domain of Fonger Rock! Every time I smell a cigar it takes me back to Christmas Eve parties at Aunt Linda and Uncle Rick's when the uncles would drink and smoke cigars in the basement while the kids crammed down all of the cookies my mom and Aunt Pat took hours slaving over.
My Uncle Rick was one of the greatest men I have been privileged to meet, let alone love. Words cannot express how lucky I feel to be born into such an amazing family who not only gets along, but genuinely loves each other's company; never a dull moment when our family is around... My childhood memories are of my family and the love I have been so blessed to recieve from them. I will cherish my thoughts of Uncle Rick for my entire life, words cannot express what an amazing, loving person he was.
Puerto Rico
Submitted with love from Diana & Barb:
One evening Diana, Kristy, Kelley, Lisa, Linda, Rick & myself were at the Fonger's. It was a beautiful summer evening. The girls were getting ready to leave for their cruise to the islands. We were talking about their upcoming vacation to the Bahama's . Diana was sharing stories & places they might want to visit while in Puerto Rico. As we were all chatting, Rick pipes in to everyone, "Now Girls, don't be bringing home any Puerto Rican boys!" Complete silence for a few seconds until Linda turns to Rick & says " Rick, you do know that Diana is Puerto Rican!" He said "No, she's Italian!" Diana turns to Rick & said "No, I'm Puerto Rican!". With that Rick turns a bright shade of red & apologize's to her. Tells her how sorry he was. With Diana's great sense of humor & comeback she says to him "That's okay, my mom said never to bring home any American boys!" With that we just all burst out laughing. It was a classic moment, PRICELESS!