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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Rita Palacio, 79 years old, born on April 26, 1935, and passed away on June 3, 2014. We will remember her forever.
June 5, 2016
Another year, Mrs. Palacio. A lot have happened. Good things and bad but everyone is keeping it together, according to their circumstances. We do not see Mr. Palacio as often as I thought we would/should but he seems to be doing well for the most part. We still miss you and often thought and talked about you. Philip and I have a feeling we will surely meet again. 

Well, we cannot leave without sharing this quote with you, our friends and family:

"Montaigne said, "To philosophize is to learn to die." Similarly Buddhism teaches us: "First learn about death, and then about other matters." As both statements suggest, learning about death enriches life. How we perceive the meaning of death and the meaning of life hinges completely on whether we can establish a correct view of life and death. Goethe says, "Those who have no hope of another life are already dead in this one."(Unlocking the Mysteries of Birth and Death, page 104)
June 3, 2016
June 3, 2016
It seems impossible that it is 2 years since Rita's passing. I still think of her frequently and look at her photograph on my living room table with great fondness but also sadness. I have never known anyone so willing to share her knowledge and respect for the Garinagu culture.
I will miss her forever.
April 29, 2016
April 29, 2016
Trumpets are sounding angels are singing there is a celebration for an angel that heaven has gained RIP to the most amazing teacher, mother and mentor in whose life God had graced us to share
June 4, 2015
June 4, 2015
It seems like yesterday, when you received the woman of the year award from Double Star Production. You are everyone's mother. Gone but definitely never forgotten. Love you Aunt Rita.
June 4, 2015
One year went by so quickly, Ms P. Your absence proofs that one life makes a great difference. You are very much missed and I hope you have rested well enough to come visit sometimes. Nam Myoho Renge Kyo, Nam Myoho Renge Kyo, Nam Myoho Renge Kyo to you.
June 3, 2015
June 3, 2015
Noufuri Rits
Seremein nian bun luagu sun le bigirubei woun ya ubouwagu. Ayumahatina lau buidu lan sun katei yara seirirugu bun, hama sun sandu ha ñeinbañan. Itara la.

Aunt Rits,
Thank you for everything that you left us here on earth. I wish that all is well for you in heaven with all the saints who are there.
AMEN
April 28, 2015
April 28, 2015
I wonder if dear Rita ever gave thought to how many lives she touched during her life here on earth. I will be forever thankful that she and Clifford welcomed me into their home, and how much she taught me to be true Garifuna woman.

I will never stop missing you
April 27, 2015
April 27, 2015
Missing my dearest Aunt Rita.. Happy birthday in Heaven Auntie...
June 21, 2014
June 21, 2014
Dear Aunt Jay!.

We are truly saddened by the loss of your mom, our most sincere condolences to you and your family. It is not easy to lose someone like her, we know that there are no words to console your pain. When we look at her pictures, we are touched by the way in which you have celebrated a life well lived.

Mar, Claudi and Luwani
June 20, 2014
June 20, 2014
I get to hear about Rita from my late Mom and sister Felicita when I got here in L. A. This was one cousin they both cherished. When I would come by to visit, like my sis would be talking to her like on a daily basis. I could see that Rita was cherished in their hearts. Before I knew the connection, I once met her husband Cliff at his sister's house who then let me know that he had married to my cousin Rita. He then fill me in with some details. Finally when I did get to meet her, there was no question of the love and appreciation she extends to all her relatives. Rest in peace cousin Rita until we meet again.
June 19, 2014
June 19, 2014
Very patient lady. She taught us(Village Voices) the song Congratulations to You. we kept forgetting the melody and so I would call her and ask her to sing it one more time. However one more time ended up to be several more times.
Keep singing with the angels around God's throne, Mrs. Pal.
June 19, 2014
Thank you for everything, Mrs. Palacio. Really did not believe you would leave us so soon. Appreciate your life in my life this lifetime. Until we meet again, may you rest in peace for awhile.  Mat-Mat, your daughter -in-law. To the rest of the family, Phil and I are just a phone call away. Please do not hesitate to call.
June 13, 2014
June 13, 2014
Awahan wagia bisanigu, biduheñu, hama bumadagu aritagua buagun lidan luweiyuri baguyun wamagien.

Adügabali bidasin buidu; barübei bemeri le taranserubei Suntigabafu buba. Ayo wagütü...

Lau paili isiñein,

Iduheñu Bernardez
June 13, 2014
June 13, 2014
Aunt Rita--it is with heavy hearts that we must release you to soar the skies. We will forever be comforted with the greatest of memories of you. You are now our Angel and will always be remembered in our hearts forevermore...Rest in Eternal Peace! 

Missing you...Judy Castillo Enriquez
June 12, 2014
June 12, 2014
Aunt Rita was my God mother for confirmation. I know that she especially loved me. I called her regularly from wherever I was in the world Belize, St. Vincent, Australia and England and it was a thrill for both of us. I have been inspired by her and see her as a symbol of womanhood. I love you 'nebenene'. Rest in pace and continue to take care of me.
June 12, 2014
June 12, 2014
Cousin Ritz
The tree of life you planted on earth is as radiant as the sun.
For the fruits you bear throughout the years are blessed by your loving soul.
All human beings live spiritual lives.
From generation to generation we pass it on for posterity,
for the spirit never dies.
In retrospect you will always last:
Your genuine soul authentic self and natural virtue,
your healing smile has blessed us all with complete peace,
overflowing with infinite loving kindness.
June 12, 2014
June 12, 2014
Comadre Rita,
I remember you as a loving person always smiling no matter what the circumstances as we always share our family concerns. I admire you for your dedication to your mother as an only child and her dedication to her children. We grew close when you came to stay with the Ogaldez family as a child, you and Felicia. You were always loving and sharing and later became the Godparent of two of my children.
I thank my Comadre for caring for my own children later when they lived with her in California. Warm memories
Comadre Ethel Ellis(dictated)

Aunt Rita,
We will miss your laughter, your wry sense of humor, and warm voice. My family will always cherish the memory of your willingness to share your home both in Belize or Los Angeles, California while still providing nurturing for your family. I admire how you developed as an Educator, how you believed in it and lived it. I admire your continued work in the Garifuna community, which has helped to foster pride in being Garifuna in the US, Belize, Yurumein and all over the Diaspora. I will always treasure your words of wisdom, and Dedication. Thank you for providing all young women with a strong role model.
As you once shared your philosophy :
“I believe in and practice interaction with people with dignity, honesty, sincerity, and with clarity of conscience”
Pi
June 11, 2014
June 11, 2014
One of the most prodigious women in my life has been my 6th grade teacher Mrs. Rita Palacio.  She was patient with her students, and she had the ability to reach and impart knowledge to her students with a firm but yet loving way. I never got to see her as often due to distance, however, when we did meet at gatherings etc... We always greeted each other with a warm hug and of course the conversation was always great. She was always interested in how I was doing and what was new. And yes with that welcoming smile.  When I heard that she was not well, I immediately reached out to my classmate John for their address so that I could send her a get well card... Mr. Palacio, thank you for getting it to her. One of my fondest memories of her was in the classroom was her lecture on Cumulus Clouds…


To Selby, John, Joycelyn, Cheryl, Greg, and the others whose names I do not know and of course Mr. Palacio, I want to extend my deepest sympathies for the loss of your Beloved Mother and Wife. She may be gone but she will never be forgotten. Know that we share in your sorrow
-Cindy and family
June 11, 2014
June 11, 2014
Only good memories I have of Aunt Rita.And now I look forward to seeing her resurrected in the the new world !

Frank Avaloy and Family
June 11, 2014
June 11, 2014
Dear Family,

"To be absent in the body is to be present with the Lord!" Mrs. Pal is a beautiful and Godly woman. She leaves a wonderful and lasting legacy behind. She will be greatly missed because she made a lasting impact on those who knew her and those she came in contact with. Mrs. Pal is also a courageous woman who showed us how to bear our cross. In spite of her medical issues she was always cheerful, never complained, and never gave up! Thanks Mrs. Pal for your wonderful contributions and your awesome children! You left this world a much better place than you found it! May you enter into your eternal reward, amen!
June 10, 2014
June 10, 2014
Aunt Rita always seemed so happy, pleasant and sweet. When one who is so dear passes I invariably regret not having spent more time with them...time that we cannot recoup...time that we spend being inconsequentially "busy"...I extend my deepest and most heartfelt condolences to Mr. Cliff and the Palacio family on behalf of myself and the Laurie families. Rest eternally in peace Aunt Rita...you are greatly missed...
June 10, 2014
June 10, 2014
I last visited the Palacio home about three Christmas's ago.Rita sent someone to purchase pineapple because it is good for the body and she continued to explain how and why it should be the preferred fruit..All that was said in GARIFUNA, even though her diction in our language was never hundred percent correct.

  I am now imagining her with Mary , the Mother of Jesus, Our mother chatting, giving accounts of those she left behind , Our Blessed mother frowning at her asking, How come you cannot speak your language well? it is still BACK WAY but I  still understand what you are saying.

    Jesus already has her classroom ready.. She will be the first Qualified Garifuna Teacher in Heaven, even though everybody there is smart.Backway or not everybody will understand the lessons.

                      Ayo Numa
June 10, 2014
June 10, 2014
Though saddened by the passing of Mrs. Rita, I now see her being in a place where there is no more suffering.
What do I remember most about her, it was how she listened so tentatively to the "rolling back" of the clock in my conversations with Sir Clifford.
May she rest in peace.
June 10, 2014
June 10, 2014
My Aunt Rita
She is known to my family in Jamaica only by way of pictures and emails, the Christmas cards sent out by herself and Uncle Clif. Her presence is with us all the time. Her poem written in Garifuna speaks to us. My visit in December last to both herself and Uncle Clif was the last before heading to the airport. What an important visit it was! Delight in the Lord for her life.
June 9, 2014
June 9, 2014
Most of us have had one or two teachers who have touched our lives deeply. For me, Mrs. Rita Palacio was that Special Teacher. She was my favorite Primary School teacher and I grew to love her and her family. Her genuine concern and caring demeanor made you want to do your best in her class.

I will forever be grateful to have been one of the recipients of her love and kindness. I will always remember her kind words of encouragement, her ready smile and open heart. Most of all I will remember the joy of being in her presence. She had a special gift for making you feel loved and appreciated.

She will be greatly missed.

My heartfelt condolences to the family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
June 9, 2014
June 9, 2014
Throughout my adult life I have always talked about Ms P (Aunt Rita )as my favorite primary school teacher who left the most impression on me, she was a firm and fair individual, who showed love to everyone who crossed her path, I visited at her home in 2008,and to this day I can still feel the love and appreciation, rest in peace my dear teache rheaven has gained an angel.
June 9, 2014
June 9, 2014
My dearest Aunt Rita will be missed....I will miss my long visits, I shall miss our conversations, I will miss Aunt Rita's home cooking, after all I grew up right there on 85th St & Raymond.. I must say it was an honor to perform for you. This past week seemed all so surreal. Uncle Cliff and family please know that I'm here for all of you and I'm only a stone throw away..Love you all dearly
June 9, 2014
June 9, 2014
Aunt Rita memories of you will never be forgotten. I always remember vising you and my cousin Cliff at your house in LA. We all would laugh and talk when we talk about old days in Dangriga and Seine Bight. RIP Aunt Rita.
June 9, 2014
June 9, 2014
Holding back the tears! My Aunt Rita will be missed. What I'll remember the most is her beautiful sense of humor. She would always make you laugh. I leave the following scripture to my cousins and other family members. I believe this is the word the Lord would want you to hear, besides the fact that he loves you all. Isaiah 41:10 fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Ok, not handling this very well, but will be okay! I love you family!
June 9, 2014
June 9, 2014
As a family member from her mother’s side (our late Grandaunt Da Cache), Anta as we fondly call her was very much an Aunt to us.  Yes she will be missed. I visited her and Uncle Clifford frequently and was always in awe of our family history they shared with me. Not to mention the humor. A half hour planned visit could easily turn into hours with not a dull moment.

Waluguba buagu Anta
Beiba ameragua wasati bemeri

Ann Lucas-Palacio
June 8, 2014
June 8, 2014
I am devastated to hear of Rita's passing. She and Clifford opened their home to me and my now husband, Ed.and both worked diligently to help me with my research on Garifuna migration; and we became sisters under the skin. I also spent many hours on the phone with Rita and she was always open in answering my questions.about women's migration to the U.S. and her experiences growing up in Belize. I got to know her children over time and saw how much she meant to them. I can't imagine not being able to pick up the phone to visit with her about our families and her experiences as a true Garifuna woman. My heart goes out to Clifford,my dear friend, and to all of their children.
June 8, 2014
June 8, 2014
As a member of God's seed harvest plan member, Mrs. P. has sowed the good seed of a teacher,mother,generous and hospitable person; and has reaped the benefits, along with Clifford, of rearing one of the most successul, accomplished and respectable Belizean Family.Cliff, Mrs P. is now in the company of the Holy Family of Jesus Mary and Joseph.Dangriga of Belize has exported one of the best Ambassador to God;s Country in Heaven.May she rest in peace.Sadly missed by your best friend: Bernrd O. Aguet
June 8, 2014
June 8, 2014
We owe each and everyone a depth of gratitude for acknowledging us during our most difficult time of sorrow. As you may know it's NEVER easy loosing a mother. She was a true friend, our teacher, counselor and guidance. She praised, punished and encouraged while always being fair. Our mom was the most influential in our lives and we are honored to have shared her great joy and love. She will be missed immensely but as she always reminded us: live upright, slow to anger & first to forgive! Again, thank you for keeping us in your thoughts and prayers...
June 7, 2014
"When winter arrives, trees and other plants temporarily lose their leaves. But those plants and trees possess the life to send forth new green shoots when spring comes. Human death is like that, but we possess a life force that leads us to a new life --- to a new mission --- immediately and without pain." Goodbye moms. Until we meet again.
June 7, 2014
June 7, 2014
BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER
By: Wellington C. Ramos

Dear Relatives and Friends,
 I still remember when Selbie and his brother and sister came to Dangriga Town and was introduced to our class. When I got into Standard V1 his mother Rita Palacio became my classroom Teacher. She was a loving and caring person that always had a smile on her face.

I use to see my Grandfather Zach Ramos sitting with her mother on their verandah on Sunday evenings but did not know why he was there. After I took the Entrance Examination she got the results and she call me to sit by her desk to give me the results. She ask me "Claude who is your father?

I replied telling her Finley Ramos. She then said do you know that I am related to your father? Then I said to her I did not know thanks for letting me know. From there on, I saw the need to love her even more as a teacher because we are blood relatives.

I have always given her, her husband and children, the outmost respect and see all of them as family. Recently, when my friend and relative Sidney Mejia died, she was there to pay her last respect to him.

My Classmates; Marva Lewis, Gilbert Lambert, Justo Flores and Henry Martinez all decided to let us take a picture with her to see that usual smile. Not knowing that this was the last time I was going to see her alive smiling. She will be sadly missed by me and will always remain in my memory until I join her one day. She contributed to the growth and knowledge of many students and her contributions to society is second to none.

Love Always My Relative and Teacher
Leave A Spot For Me In Your Classroom When You Get To Heaven

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June 5, 2016
Another year, Mrs. Palacio. A lot have happened. Good things and bad but everyone is keeping it together, according to their circumstances. We do not see Mr. Palacio as often as I thought we would/should but he seems to be doing well for the most part. We still miss you and often thought and talked about you. Philip and I have a feeling we will surely meet again. 

Well, we cannot leave without sharing this quote with you, our friends and family:

"Montaigne said, "To philosophize is to learn to die." Similarly Buddhism teaches us: "First learn about death, and then about other matters." As both statements suggest, learning about death enriches life. How we perceive the meaning of death and the meaning of life hinges completely on whether we can establish a correct view of life and death. Goethe says, "Those who have no hope of another life are already dead in this one."(Unlocking the Mysteries of Birth and Death, page 104)
June 3, 2016
June 3, 2016
It seems impossible that it is 2 years since Rita's passing. I still think of her frequently and look at her photograph on my living room table with great fondness but also sadness. I have never known anyone so willing to share her knowledge and respect for the Garinagu culture.
I will miss her forever.
April 29, 2016
April 29, 2016
Trumpets are sounding angels are singing there is a celebration for an angel that heaven has gained RIP to the most amazing teacher, mother and mentor in whose life God had graced us to share
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My Grandma

October 16, 2014

My grandma was my life i loved her and i still do my life is nothing without her i remember ger calling me cumma i loved that and i still do crying tears i cant live without her.

Garifuna Woman, Written By Rita Palacio

June 25, 2014

GARIFUNA WOMAN
By Rita Palacio

I am a Garifuna Woman
A precious jewel,
Possessing a language dual,
Descending from grandmothers
Who sustained a heroic survival,
Continuing even at arrival
Strength, dignity and love is natal.
This is Garifuna Woman.

Enduring the stings of racism,
Suffering the pangs of sexism,
Tall and strong she stood,
As a mahogany tree would,
With majestic strength, against colonialism
Determined to continue a race;
Held solemnly to her Garifuna language
Never to be left to be erased.
This is the Garifuna Woman.

Dressed in her unique fashion,
The men gazed, breathless in dismay
Shivering with passion.
In turbulent times, in Yurumei,
The Garifuna Woman stood by her groom,
Counseling, negotiating when needed,
Carrying a child in her womb,
Bare footed the field she burned, planted and weeded.
This is the Garifuna Woman.

Silently retracing the footprints
Of the Garifuna Woman,
Who before she blazed
The trail to liberation.
Her ancestors' work she accomplished.
Evolution! Change Dawned!
Nurse Noguera and Ola the midwife reigned
Marcelina Lambey's great lyrics flourished.
Eliza Ramos our Founder's spouse,
Supported his effort with rare courage
And who is she? A GARIFUNA WOMAN.



Rita Palacio's Life Story, Written by Rita Palacio

June 25, 2014

MY JOURNEY THROUGH LIFE

By Rita V. Palacio

 

PREPARING FOR TEACHING DURING MY FORMATIVE YEARS

My journey has been an amazing one. I was born in Dangriga Town, but grew

up in Progresso a Maya Indian village in the Corozal District. At the age of three

my mom relocated to Progresso under unfortunate circumstances. My mother’s

sister who was married to a Garifuna teacher fell sick and became bedridden

as a result of childbirth and needed special care and attention. So my mom

volunteered, taking me along with her. After my aunt passed away, my mom and I

continued to live in Progresso Village until I was in Standard V. My formative and

pre-teen years found me residing in and attending elementary school in Progresso

Village. My first recollections about events in Progresso. I remember how my

Mom spoke to me in Garifuna although I never responded in the same language. I

was more at home expressing myself in Spanish better than in English. However,

her speaking Garifuna to me made me understand the language. My Mom

planted in me the seeds of orderliness and logical thinking. For example, I learnt

the lesson of keeping my toys and clothes in a special place. She also planted the

seeds of the Catholic faith in me by teaching me my prayers, attending Mass and

receiving Holy Communion. The seeds of the learning process were also firmly

planted by teaching me my A-B-C, counting, spelling, tables and nursery rhymes.

When my little friends would visit me we would play school. I always played the

role of the teacher. I knew from early on that someday I would be a teacher.

 

When I relocated to Dangriga Town in 1947 I had to adjust to my new home

and a new culture. I could not speak Garifuna quite fluently, but it did not

take me long to learn how to express myself in my mother tongue as my mom

had prepared me by speaking to me in Garifuna at home in Progresso. I recall

going to confession in Dangrga and I was allowed to make my confession in

Spanish. I was twelve and in Standard V when I started to attend Sacred Heart

School in Dangriga Town. I reached Standard VI at the age of 12.

 

INFLUENCE OF FAMILY MEMBERS

Having lived with someone who was a teacher, I was truly influenced by the daily

routine that my uncle and my mother exerted as they became the major factors

in my early, infant life. They provided my daily needs, school books and toys

and spent quality time with me during my developmental stages. Discipline and

proper behavior were the hallmark of their concern and teaching. I was indeed

fortunate to have family support from my aunt and Godmother who actually

exposed me to the Garifuna culture after I arrived in Dangriga Town. For instance,

Goddie insisted that I participated in the traditional celebration of “Indio” which

depicts the events portraying the historical apparition of Our Lady of Guadalupe

in Mexico. This religious feast day is celebrated annually on the 12th of December.

Goddie furnished my Garifuna outfit specially made for that occasion. My uncle,

my mother’s brother was also a great provider during my adolescent years. I

guess I can consider myself a product of the popular saying, “It takes a village to

raise a child.”

 

PUPIL-TEACHER TRAINING SYSTEM

During my era there were no high schools outside of Belize City. As a result few

Garifuna women had attended high school before 1953 when Fr. Knopp, S.J.

opened Lynam High School for boys and Austin High for girls thus transforming

the country’s education system. Preparation to become a teacher was a long,

drawn-out process for prospective teachers without the benefit of a high school

background. The system at that time required a candidate to take and pass First

Year, Second Year, and Third Year Pupil Teachers’ examinations. During this

period one was considered a pupil (student) teacher. After passing the 3rd Year

Pupil Teacher’s Exam one was eligible to take Second Class Teacher’s exam and

finally First Class Teacher’s exam the highest level required under the Colonial

Government education system.

 

Some of the Holy Family Sisters with college degrees were chosen to train the

candidates. The preparation was demanding and rigorous. After dismissal of the

children we had evening classes from 4: 00 P.M. to 5:00 P.M. daily. The annual

exams were at a designated date after schools closed for summer vacation.

Education Officers from the Education Department in Belize City were assigned to

schools in the six districts to supervise the written exams. Oral exams in elocution

and practicum were conducted at a later date. After a teacher passed the First

Class Teacher’s Exam he or she was considered a full-fledged teacher. Some First

Class teachers were offered scholarships for higher teacher training in Jamaica.

Unfortunately, there were no Garifuna women teachers among those selected

as there were only a few in the profession. Only four Garifuna male teachers

enjoyed that rare privilege.

 

SIGNIFICANCE OF MENTORS IN MY LIFE

As a child my mother was my main mentor and model. She was a very dedicated,

visionary and nurturing mother. She gave me all the love and attention I needed.

Having only one child and she being a single parent Mother’s hope and aspiration

were focused on the best for me. She provided quality experiences and exposure

for me by buying children’s books and educational toys. Later in life, however,

I had other female Garifuna mentors in Dangriga community. The object of my

admiration covered a wide range of individuals in various fields of endeavor. I

admired the Public Hospital Head Nurse Victoria Noguera who often ministered to

the school I attended. Her businesslike approach to life, her dignified appearance,

her affability and her kindness gripped my attention. Another personality that

inspired me to strive for a good education was Mrs. Francisca Norales. She was

a social worker who reportedly had been the second Garifuna woman to be

educated at a college in the United States. She was very talented and shared her

gifts with the community in such fields as music, dancing and home economics.

There was also another Garifuna mentor in the person of Mrs. Dolores Guerrero

who was a classroom teacher. She was a seamstress who taught my class sewing

twice a week. Under her skillful guidance we learnt different stitches, embroidery,

hemming and patchwork. My Girl Guides leaders also provided leadership

qualities as they taught the principles of guiding. I emulated their examples. I

admired their ability to lead and their capacity to demonstrate the concepts of

being trusted, loyal and helpful, sisterly, courteous and kind, obedient, smile and

 

thrifty, pure as the rustling wind. My mother was so concerned about my future

that she made sure that I joined youth organizations that helped to mold my

character. She enrolled me in the St. Agnes Sodality, a religious group whose chief

objective was to emulate the life of the Blessed Mother of Christ.

Besides my mother and uncle, my teacher in Standard VI, Sr. Joseph Xavier, S.S.F.

had significant impact upon my life and entire teaching career. I am truly grateful

to those people who, I believe, were responsible for helping me to be who I

am today. As an adult I tried to exemplify my Standard VI teacher in every way

possible. Sr. Joseph Xavier was uncommonly concerned, attentive, committed,

dedicated and tactful in educating her Garifuna students, especially the girls.

 

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TEACHING GARIFUNA AND NON-GARIFUNA?

This question is debate-able and cannot be answered by “Yes” or “No”.

My first teaching position held was in Dangriga Town at Sacred Heart Roman

Catholic School, in Standard 2, ages 8 to 9. There is a difference in teaching in

a Garifuna community from teaching in a non-Garifuna community. I never

taught in a purely Garifuna community, but I experienced teaching in a purely

Maya Indian village. Several factors influence teaching and the learning process.

That being said, we have to consider the chief factors, such as readiness of the

learners, the children’s capacity to learn and many more which influence the

learning process and the teacher’s approach. For example, a teacher has to

consider the children’s level of readiness, their previous knowledge and learning

experiences before introducing certain subjects, such as reading and phonics.

Teaching reading to beginners in a Maya Indian village is certainly different from

teaching the same subject in a Garifuna village. The approach in Dangriga Town

classroom is different from the approach in a village classroom where the children

have had no knowledge of English any at all. The teacher must modify his or her

methodology.

 

No, the Garifuna teachers were inhibited from teaching their Garifuna culture in

school by the force of the bigotry of the system. However, in teaching beginners,

5-year olds, translation from English to Garifuna was permissible to explain

certain concepts.

 

PARENTING AND TEACHING

The advantages I enjoyed in both positions (teaching and parenting) stemmed

from the fact that I was a teacher before I became a parent. Having studied child

development, child psychology and the principles of classroom management

prepared me for both undertakings. Being a parent did help me in teaching as

I was able to observe and interpret the students’ behavior. In many instances

I was able to know what to expect and was prepared to deal with any given

situation. I developed patience, sympathy, understanding and tact. I was

interested in every child and involved their parents as much as possible. My

motto was as follows: “Every child a sacred trust.” My teaching career helped me

with parenting because my role as a teacher allowed me to acquire the following

qualities: being organized, being methodical, being firm, being committed, being

dedicated and being loving unconditionally to my own children. Education was my

priority and I encouraged my children to apply themselves diligently and consider

the sky as the limit. My husband and I joined in keeping the family structure and

devoted our time to involvement in the Garifuna community and enforcement of

our Garifuna values at home.

 

ECONOMICS ISSUES

The economic issues of those times did affect teaching, learning and education

of children in general. There were limited resources in the classrooms. The

application of the students to their lessons was not to the maximum because of

unbalanced diet and there was no feeding program apart from the milk donated

to schools by the American Government. Children were very often tardy because

some had to go the farm first before coming to school. Sometimes we had low

attendance due to illness. The Citrus Company provided seasonal employment for

men and women. This enhanced the Garifuna women’s self–esteem as they were

able to earn their own money and take better care of the homes. Hurricane Janet

in 1956 did not affect the Stann Creek District very much as it did the cayes and

the Northern part of Belize. In 1961 Hurricane Hattie affected the whole country.

Some schools were closed. The disaster slowed the economy. However, there

was a silver lining left behind the devastation. The door to mass migration to the

United States was opened for Belizeans with immediate relatives who were legal

residents.

 

 

ENCOURAGING YOUR CHILDREN TO BECOME TEACHERS?

We did not encourage our children to follow the teaching profession. Their

mentors were right within the family because both parents were teachers.

We stressed education but we allowed them to choose their own careers and

preferences. However, one of them became a high school teacher for only a few

years. Then after receiving her Ph.D in Instructional Technology, she

changed her employment to a supervisory position in bioinformatics.

Nevertheless, teaching and training doctors and personnel are still a part of her

duties on her job.

 

ENCOURAGING OR PROMOTING GARIFUNA CULTURE

I believe that there are many ways of promoting the Garifuna culture at home

today. The following guidelines are worth our consideration:

1. Plant the seeds of “sense of pride “in one’s culture by exposing your

children to the language as their identity.

2. Introduce to them Garifuna food, music, dress, customs and traditions, e.g.

Memorial Mass.

3. Plant the seeds of the family’s Primary Language by speaking to your

children in Garifuna from the cradle. Insist that they respond in Garifuna.

4. Tell the children stories in Garifuna – have storytelling time often.

5. Play Garifuna music and sing together – Repetition is the MOTHER of study.

6. Teach them the Garifuna story – significance of the following important

dates -1635, 1797 and 1823.

7. Show them videos on Garifuna history, culture, etc.

8. Let the children join a Garifuna group.

9. Teach them Garifuna nursery rhymes and lullabies.

10. Teach them to pray in Garifuna daily – The Our Father, Hail Mary, etc. This

is a powerful teaching tool.

 

MY PHILOSOPHY OF LIFE

I believe in and practice interaction with people with dignity, honesty, sincerity

and with clarity of conscience.

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