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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Robert (Bob) Stockburger, 63, born on September 23, 1949 and passed away on May 16, 2013. We will remember him forever. 

We invite you to light a candle and share a memory or many memories.  
We also invite family members and those who've known Bob over the years to help us add to the tab "His Life", working together to combine our memories of him to create a story that reflects a timeline and honors the span of his life here on earth. 

Thank you. Peace and God bless. 

September 23, 2023
September 23, 2023
Happy Birthday, Dad! Spent the day thinking of you, looking at pictures that spanned your life, and remembering fun times together. Think I’ll make your Pineapple Upside-Down Cake tomorrow and possibly fire up your Weber for dinner. I love you and miss you ♡
September 23, 2022
September 23, 2022
Lighting a candle in honor of your Heavenly Birthday, Bob. May your light continue to shine brightly not only in Our Heavenly Father’s Garden but also in the hearts of those who love you. Happy Birthday, Bob
May 30, 2022
May 30, 2022
I was cooking Bourbon Salmon on the grill tonight drinking a glass of wine. A beautiful day in Richmond Va. I know how much Bob would appreciate a day like today and cooking on the grill. I know if he was here we would be talking
about our kids and how much fun we had when we were kids.
May 16, 2022
May 16, 2022
9 years. It feels more recent. Today was a regular day but it wasn’t. Nothing particularly exciting happened today, which we know all too well, can be a blessing. Worked, then went to the grocery store and picked up chicken and bbq sauce with the only thought being- tonight I am making barbecue chicken on Dad’s Weber to honor him. Because of course I am. Because I miss you, I love you, I cry for you. Because of course I do. You are Dad, always will be. You’re gone but you aren’t. I know you are oh so near. And I will take that, until we meet again.
May 1, 2022
May 1, 2022
Thinking of you and missing you so much, Dad. Want to talk to you and hear your voice, see your smile, feel your hug. James sent me beautiful flowers yesterday for my birthday, as he does every year, carrying on the tradition you started. I cried when I saw them, read the card, felt the love, and remembered you.
I love you,
Jenn
April 23, 2022
April 23, 2022
Spring is here in Virginia and I can’t help but be reminded of your love for the outdoors this time of year. You’re always with me pops! ♥️
September 23, 2021
September 23, 2021
Happy heavenly Birthday, Dad. I love reading the memories of you and messages on here. Oh how I miss you. How I wish you were here. I can see you so clearly in my mind, how you used to be, your smile, your calm and quiet way, and the excitement in your voice when you talked about the things you loved like your family, cooking, and camping. And your silliness and playfulness with James and I when we were kids and then with your grandkids. Miss you so, so much. And love you forever.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
It is hard to believe it has been 8 years since Bob's passing. I always think of him this time of the year. It's cook out time and he loved to grill and his barbecue chicken was awesome. I can see him now holding a beer in one hand and grill tongs in the other as he and I solved all the worlds problems over a cold beer while the kids played in the yard. He was always calm no matter what was going on. That is a great life lesson think before you act, something that most young men do not do (I know this from my own experience). Bob was always calm ,it looks like he passed that skill on to all of you. I'm always thankful that Bob and I were friends and miss being able to talk to him.
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
8 years and I miss you so much, Dad. What a year it’s been since last May. I know you’ve been with us in spirit, but I wish you could have been here, to talk to me in your gentle way and pray with me... I wore your cross through it all and it helped me to keep the faith, and to feel protected and closer to you. 
Keeping the memories of you so close to my heart today and every day. Sending a big hug to heaven. I love you, Dad ❤️
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Bob, I know you are with our children and grandchildren, spiritually, but just want you to know how proud you would be of all of them., just as I am. They are amazing people with such resiliency and tenacity while still being so loving. embracing their passions while staying true to their loved ones. You are so missed by all but we forever keep your memory alive throughout our days and in our world.
September 23, 2020
September 23, 2020
Thinking of you on the day the world was blessed with your birth. Your presence is forever with us . Your spirit, love, and joy of family lives every day within your children. Happy Birthday, Bob ♥️
May 18, 2020
May 18, 2020
Tom Parker, thank you for the great memory you shared. I remember you from when I was a child, your message means a lot.

I think about my Dad often, still to this day I miss him. I know he'd be proud. Love you Pops!
May 16, 2020
May 16, 2020
This morning while sitting on my patio enjoying the warmth of the sun a beautiful butterfly visited my garden. It fluttered around the flowers and flew over where I was sitting and lingered for some time. I felt an amazing sense of peace and comfort in a world that is in so much despair right now. I believe butterflies are sent from God's Garden to visit us now and then as they are the spirits of those we have loved and lost. I believe this was your "Check In" visit to let me know your spirit is forever with us and that you are at Peace in His Garden. Thank you for the "Visit". Your spirit is forever welcomed in my garden. 
September 23, 2019
September 23, 2019
Happy Birthday, Dad. I wish I could give you a big hug, hear your voice, see your smile. I miss you. I love you.
May 16, 2019
May 16, 2019
I miss you so much, Dad. Today was tough. I wish you were here with us. I tried to focus on gratitude and happy memories but I still feel very sad and I want you here. For dinner, I made BBQ chicken on your old Weber grill and we had corn on the cob and I cooked crinkle cut fries in granny’s cast iron like you used to do. I made your pineapple upside down cake for dessert. And of course Todd and I toasted you with a cold one- Dales Pale Ale. You are so missed. I am so grateful for the time I had with you- I just can’t help but want it back. Love you, Jenn
May 16, 2019
May 16, 2019
I was in the old neighborhood last week and was driving by the old Primrose street house. I actually slowed down as I passed Bob's old house kind of like before to see if he was there. We had a lot of great times that I think about now and makes me feel good to have had such good friend. It does make me a little melancholy, but I have to smile when I think of all the good times.
May 16, 2019
May 16, 2019
Memories can be wonderful and mysterious at the same time. A single word, a scent, a place can trigger a moment in time that was shared with you. They can happen at any time and come from any where. I welcome these interruptions into my day as it gives me time to pause and reflect on the life we shared, the beautiful children we were blessed with, your laugh and the love you had for Jennifer and James. Your spirit touched many and it continues to touch our lives throughout the years. You are missed so much but I know you continue to watch over your children and grandchildren.<3
September 23, 2018
September 23, 2018
Today Todd, the kids, and I went to Mt. Lemmon and walked The Butterfly Trail - which we walked with you. It was a beautiful day. After the hike we got pizza together. For dinner we grilled bbq chicken, made some fries in granny’s cast iron, and had some Dale’s. Think about you everyday and miss you so much. Happy Birthday, Dad. I love you...
September 23, 2018
September 23, 2018
Today would be your birthday. I miss you every day, wish I could get just one more hug. Love you!
September 23, 2018
September 23, 2018
Like this Forever candle your memories will forever be with us. Your smile, your laughter, your love for Jennifer and James. We know you are with us every day but miss you all the same. You just left us too soon but we know God must have needed you more.
September 23, 2017
September 23, 2017
Happy Birthday, Dad. Think about you every day. But you know that; Todd and I bring up your name frequently. We'll be toasting you with a couple of glasses of Dale's Pale Ale later today. Right now I'm drinking a cup of strong black coffee out of your mug- one of two mugs- (James has the other one) James and I decided to grab out of your dishwasher when we were leaving your home after your funeral- figuring you had recently chosen those mugs so that was good enough for us. Time does not make it easier. The only thing that helps is feeling that you are still right here in our lives, quietly cheering us on. I also make a daily effort to treat people with the kindness I saw from you- smile at a stranger, thank a cashier by name, be patient with the elderly, try not to sweat the small stuff... Realizing that every day is a gift. Understanding the importance of showing love to my family daily and cherishing our time together "These are the moments we will remember forever" I remember I had that sign hanging on our wall in our dining room in our old home- the one you knew- and we were all sitting together at the dinner table and I was feeling a little frazzled with the kids and you read that sign aloud and said, "They sure are". Every day is a gift, every moment is precious. Life is fleeting. One of my favorite authors says, "The days are long but the years are short". So my birthday gift for you today, I will be present in each moment, with each person, and be thankful. My tribute to your life, to try to live like this everyday. Happy Birthday, Dad, love you so much. Jesus, please pour him a cold one. Love, Jenn
May 17, 2017
May 17, 2017
4 years. It feels like yesterday. I miss you so much Dad. Time has not changed anything. It's not easier. There is a void in my life that will never be filled. I remember our talks and times shared like they just happened. I know you are with us everyday. Jack has your cruise picture on his dresser in a frame with your watch sitting next to it. We love you and we will never forget you. We think about you and talk about you all the time. Love, Jenn
May 4, 2017
May 4, 2017
Jennifer, James & Jackie
It was more than a year & half after Bob's passing that I found out that he had passed. No one from the old neighbor hood let me know. I was contacted by our old high school about a reunion and went to the reunion website and found the sad news. I was shocked. The last time I saw him I had gone by the house about 3 months before his passing and we talked for a few minutes he was getting ready to go to work..Bob was a wonderful friend. We would not talk for months but when we got tighter it was always like we were just continuing our life long conversation. He was always willing to listen to my jokes and rants and never was judgemental just a great guy. We had a lot of great times , a lot of and lot into a lot of trouble together. I am sorry it took me so long to find your site and send my condolences.
September 23, 2016
September 23, 2016
Thinking of you on this special day and sending comforting prayers to our children as they honor your birthday with a lifetime of memories! You are forever in our hearts.
May 18, 2016
May 18, 2016
Your spirit and love forever lives within your children. Three years and the pain lessens but the is void is always there.
May 16, 2016
May 16, 2016
Always thinking of you. Missing your voice and those big hugs. I know your spirit is still alive.
May 16, 2016
May 16, 2016
3 years. It still feels so raw. I think about you every day. I miss our talks, our texts and emails. I miss your visits. It didn't matter if we went hiking, shopping at Costco, out for beers at BJs, or just relaxing at home and grilling- you were happy just to be with us. Thank you for all of the wonderful memories- it's the memories that keep your love alive and they remind me how blessed I was to have the relationship with you and the time with you that I did. We were all blessed to have you in our lives; you taught us so much. Especially, to love each other, give people the benefit of the doubt, trust God, and be kind. Love you and miss you, Dad.
May 16, 2016
May 16, 2016
Can't believe it has already been 3 years.

Thank you Lord for bringing Bob into our lives. Thank you for the love he gave us and the influence he had. We are much better for the experiences we had with him. Amen
September 23, 2015
September 23, 2015
I sure miss the good times and laughs we had. Just isn't the same without you.
May 16, 2015
May 16, 2015
It's been 2 years since we last heard your voice, saw your smile, had a chat, shared a laugh...You are missed so much Dad. I think about you every single day and sometimes several times a day. I miss you all the time...I take comfort in knowing you have peace and feeling that you are still with us, quietly watching us move through our days, sharing in our happy times and shining light on us in our difficult times. I think about how you treated others with kindness and I think about how quickly you were taken from us and it reminds me to be kind, smile, treat others with respect and to recognize each day as a gift and to live it enjoying and appreciating the things we might take for granted: sunshine, a friendly face, nature, a good meal, each other. I love you so much Dad. Never goodbye only bye for now.
May 16, 2015
May 16, 2015
The sorrow in our hearts will never go away but memories along with God's love guides us through the day.
May 16, 2015
May 16, 2015
Miss you big brother. Praying that you have found peace. I know someday we will be together again.
May 16, 2014
May 16, 2014
Even though you are missed every day by those who knew you and loved you, your legacy lives on in your beautiful daughter, Jennifer, and loving son, James.
May 16, 2014
May 16, 2014
Sure miss you brother. Been a year, but my love for you still burns in my heart.
March 10, 2014
March 10, 2014
Missing you Dad, so much. I miss our long Sunday evening talks. I miss the smile in your voice when I called and you said "Hey Jenn!" Love you so much and think about you every single day.
January 17, 2014
January 17, 2014
Bob and I worked together before I bought my First car from him and ended up renting from him at Primrose Ave for 12 awesome years. He was a good friend and great guy. He introduced me to Scuba diving and we shared a passion for ridiculously expensive Hi-Fi. Bob you will be missed and always remembered. Thank you for your friendship.
May 31, 2013
May 31, 2013
Dad, I love and miss you so much. James and I just finished watching a video you made of us just being kids, eating cake, and laughing. You had a way of capturing the small everyday life events and showing us how precious they were. I'll always try to treasure moments with family and friends as you always told me to do. Love each other, that was always your departing message. We will Dad.
May 31, 2013
May 31, 2013
Hello Uncle Bob, I just want to say I miss you and I am glad we talked 2 months ago. Tim and I will always treasure the wedding photos you took of us since we couldn't do a photographer. They are the best! The things I remember most are all the trips we took to Virginia and all of you to us in CT. You were so fun and always very loving and kind. Have fun dancing with Jesus!
May 31, 2013
May 31, 2013
Uncle Robert was the nicest unselfish person I knew. I honestly got told a lot about him and all about how he would generously help a person less fortunate. He will be dearly missed and he is in a far better place with his father and Heavenly Father.
May 31, 2013
May 31, 2013
Bob I have so many memories of good times together I don't know how I'm going to keep them straight without you to help me. Every time I light up a cigar I know you'll be right there with me.
May 31, 2013
May 31, 2013
Bob was one of the nicest and most selfless people that I have ever met. I'll miss the camera talk, the trips up mount Lemmon, and the meals big enough to feed an army every time you visited.

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September 23, 2023
September 23, 2023
Happy Birthday, Dad! Spent the day thinking of you, looking at pictures that spanned your life, and remembering fun times together. Think I’ll make your Pineapple Upside-Down Cake tomorrow and possibly fire up your Weber for dinner. I love you and miss you ♡
September 23, 2022
September 23, 2022
Lighting a candle in honor of your Heavenly Birthday, Bob. May your light continue to shine brightly not only in Our Heavenly Father’s Garden but also in the hearts of those who love you. Happy Birthday, Bob
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May 31, 2013

Dad was such an easy person to talk with. You could talk to him about anything and everything. The weather, cooking, shopping, TV, movies, family, school, coffee, anything. That is one thing I miss the most right now, our weekly conversations. Never less than 45 minutes and usually well over an hour we would share weather stories, budget shopping tips, recipes and just catch each other up our week. He loved a good deal and he loved to tell you about it and where to get it yourself. He researched and put a lot of thought into everything he invested in from a new pair of shoes to cookware to camera equipment. He loved to please others and do for others always trying to put others needs before his own. I loved hearing his stories and I am so thankful I listened so that I can replay them in my head when I feel the need to pick up the phone and listen to my dad tell me about his week. 

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