- 58 years old
- Date of birth: Dec 19, 1954
- Place of birth:
Brazil, Indiana, United States
- Date of passing: Apr 16, 2013
- Place of passing:
Terre Haute, Indiana, United States
|Let the memory of Roberta(Birdie) be with us forever|
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Roberta(Birdie) Wetnight Hutchison, 62, born on December 19, 1954 and passed away on April 16, 2013. We will remember her forever.
"Tell me, what does it look like in Heaven?
Is it peaceful? Is it free like they say?
Does the sun shine bright forever?
Have your fears and your pain gone away?
Cause here on earth it feels like everything good is missing since you left
And here on earth everything's different, There's an emptiness
I hope you're dancing in the sky
I hope you're singing in the angel's choir
I hope the angels know what they have
I'll bet it's nice up in heaven since you arrived
So tell me what do you do up in heaven?
Are your days filled with love and light?
Is there music? Is there art and invention?
Tell me are you happy? are you more alive?
Can you see us are you still able to be apart of our lives?"
"Hey mom I don't really know where to start there is a lot to talk about. I just hope that you can still see us. I hope you know that we are ok and I hope that you are still able to watch the kids grow. Draven is almost as big as me now. Nike is 8 now he's getting big and he's so smart. He'll be in third grade this year. Draven will be 12 next month and he's going to be in sixth grade at the middle school.Draven is starting band.He's going to play the clarinet.Tony and I are doing well. It's really nice to not have to worry so much financially. I love that Tony makes sure that his time off work is spent doing things with us as a family. We are so very blessed. I really miss you. I want you to know that we will not give up until we have some kind of justice for you. I want to send lots of love and hugs to you in heaven. I really wish that there was some way to text,e mail, facebook something with all of you in heaven. Missing you always love Aleska"
"Birdie you were taken 2 years ago today from us and we love and miss you so very much.. I know my Roger is taking good care of you he is and was a good man and liked you very much... We all LOVE and MISS you BOTH Very Very Much.... XOXO...."
"Hey Mom I really miss you. I talked to Brandy today the case is still moving forward. They are saying maybe the first of the year. We aren't holding our breath on that though. We won't give up. There will be justice. It won't bring you back but, at least we care enough not to let it go. I'm sorry that I couldn't save you. I'll never forget that why you were dyeing I was putting the kids on the bus. I can still hear us trying to wake you up. I can still hear the paramedics on my voicemail. I'm soooooooo sorry. I would love to have you back even if it's only for a moment. Aunt Leah really misses you. We all do."
"I love and miss you grandma,
Wish you were still with us but you're in a better place now.
"I really miss you mom. I hope that you are watching over Sheba and the kids. They could really use you right now. I just keep praying that God will help her to make the right decisions. She's in a bad situation and needs to get out. Brandy has a lot going on with the kids. Sammy is getting ready to Graduate. I'm going to go see him with Brandy. I'm really sorry. It's been almost 2 years and nothing has been done yet. It's not fair. It's not right. I'm soooooo sorry that I didn't get to come and see you more. I'm also very sorry that I let Tony keep the kids from seeing you more. Have you seen them they are getting so big. Especially Draven. He's almost as tall as me and he's getting ready to go to junior high. He's going to be getting ready to start golf. Nike is in baseball. He really likes it. It was hard and agrevating the other day. Nike had his first game. It was great that Tony was able to be there. Mike, Sherya and Mike's Dad came to. But, I don't understand why Tony's mom can't come. If you were here and able you would have been there and I know Tony's dad would have too. I'm just having a hard time dealing with things. Tony and I were doing good until his dad died. Then his Mom, him and our lives changed. I'm afraid that if him and I don't start talking again that things aren't going to work. I really don't want to think this but, part of me is starting to wonder if Tony is doing drugs again. I think that sitting around worrying and holding everything in isn't good for anyone. So I decided that I want to go back to church. I need to go back to church and start praying more. I also need to focus on my school work and enjoying everyday with my family. I'm going to plan things for us to do and just invite Tony's Mom. If I can get her to do things with us that would be great. Then we can still enjoy our lives and be with her. I just don't want to spend the rest of my life in her house. I want to enjoy life. Your passing help me to see how precious life is and I don't want to waste a minute of it. I could really use a hug from you right now. I gotta go I haven't ate today so I better eat. Love and Miss You MOM."
"Happy Birthday Mom. I love and miss you. I've changed a lot since you've been gone. Hopefully I'll have some good news for you soon. I hope that you're proud of all the changes that I have made. I'll write again as soon as I get some more information."
"Hey Mom just sitting around thinking about you. Today is 20 months since you left us. We miss you. I hope that you are proud of me. Draven's starting to talk again. We found out today that Tony's Dad will be lucky to live another 6 months. he has pancreatic cancer that has spread to his lymph nodes and took over most of his liver. They can't really do anything for him except give him pain meds and try to make him comfortable. I hope my family will be ok. I hope all of Tony's family will be ok. I hope that I'm strong enough to be able to be here for them like they have been for me over these past 20 months. I hate the pain they are going through right now and the pain I know they are going to feel. I can't do anything to stop it. So I hope I can at least be able to make things easier in some way. I really miss you Mommy. I keep trying to honor you and your memory in anyway that I can. I hope you approve. Please just know how much I miss you. Love always your daughter Aleska"
"Hey mom love and miss you very much every day. Wish you where still here with us. I really need you here to talk to. I came out to see you a couple of times on mothers day. It still wasn't the same and never will be again. You know your the only one I complety trust and I can talk to. I really need your advice on something and I hope I rad your signals rite and am doing what is best for Sherya and I. Just wish you where still here so I would know for sure though.Please help me to know if I'm making the rite choice on this. I really hope I am I just need a hit in the head from you so it is compleatly Clear to me that I am making the rite choice. I pray every night to even so much as have a dream about you to where I can talk to you and god so that I do make the rite choices for Sherya and I. And you know this that I'm needing to know rite now is very important. Please just let me know some how straight forward if the choice I have said I have made is the rite one. I don't want anyone to get hurt in any way. And I'm trying to think with my head as well as my heart this time around. And I am trying to think what you would say would be the best for me to do. Even though you always would tell me that and then you would tell me it's up to me just do what I feel is best and what is gonna make me happy. But that's where things are getting complicated. So can you some how give me a clearer sign of what I should do? We Love and Miss You, with all our hearts. You are forever and always our watch full, protective, angel. I hope I make you proud of us.
Love, Hugs & Kisses Always,
Sheba & Sherya"
"Hey Mom HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY! I LOVE and MISS YOU.I'm just trying to make it through the day.Part of me is so angry.You were stolen from us way to soon.We all miss you and need you.Unfortunately that is no longer a option for us.Where is are chance to take care of you like you did Grandma.I know that you are in a better place and you are watching over all of us.I just miss you sooooooooo much."
"Happy Mothers Day Mom. Love and miss you very much. Wish you where here. Love Always and Forever, Sheba & Sherya"
"HAPPY MOTHERS DAY MOM! I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH. I WISH YOU WERE HERE WITH US. EVEN THOUGH I HAVE MY OWN CHILDREN IT STILL DONT FEEL LIKE MOTHERS DAY WITHOUT YOU HERE."
"ONCE UPON A TIME AN ANGEL HELD MY HAND
SHE WIPED AWAY MY TEARS AND HELPED ME UNDERSTAND
OUR TIME ON EARTH IS BRIEF, THERE'S LESSONS TO BE LEARNED
EACH PRECIOUS DAY GOD GIVES US ANOTHER PAGE IS TURNED
EVERY CHAPTER FULL OF MEMORIES, TIMES OF JOY AND TEARS,
TRIUMPH AND DEFEATS, THROUGH EVERY PASSING YEAR
SHE LOVED US UNCONDITIONALLY, ALWAYS BY OUR SIDE
WHEN NO ONE ELSE WOULD LISTEN, IN HER WE COULD CONFIDE.
WITH GENTLE WORDS OF WISDOM, SHE LED US ON OUR WAY
DOWN THE PATHS OF RIGHTEOUSNESS, IF EVER WE DID STRAY.
SHE SAW THE LIGHT IN EVERYONE AND GAVE WITH NO REGRETS
ALWAYS FROM HER HEART LETS NOT FORGET
ANGELS COME IN MANY FORMS, FOR ME IT IS MY MOTHER
WITH LOVE I CAN NOT SAY IN WORDS
THERE'LL NEVER BE ANOTHER
EVERYTHING SHE TAUGHT ME AS I STROLL DOWN MEMORY LANE
THANK YOU GOD FOR GIVING ME THE MOST PRICELESS OF TREASURES
HELP ME LORD TO KEEP ALIVE HER MEMORY HERE FOREVER
I PRAY THAT I CAN SOMEDAY BE EVERYTHING SHE HOPED I WOULD
THAT SHE'S SMILING DOWN FROM HEAVEN KNOWING THAT SHE DID GOOD
GOD HAS CALLED HER TO HIS HEAVENLY HOME, PART OF HIS GREAT PLAN
ALTHOUGH IT MAY BE HARD, WE ALL MUST UNDERSTAND
FAITH IS WHAT IS HOPED FOR, THINGS WE CAN NOT SEE
HEAVEN IS PROMISED TO EVERYONE IF ONLY WE BELIEVE"
"Since you have passed I have changed a lot. I look at life different now.It took me a long time to realize that you would never wake up. I hope that you are proud of me. If you can see my dad up there will you tell him I love him too. I realize now that everyday is a blessing given by God. I treasure each moment that's given to me cuz, I never know when I'll be gone.My family is the best gift ever. Every day with them is amazing. Just because we all woke up to have another day together. There are a lot of things that I know I wish I could've changed. If I spend my time dwelling on them, I'll be wasting the rest of my days. Instead I've chosen to be grateful for all the blessings I have. I don't want you to worry about me cuz God is helping me now.I know that you are with Grandpa, Grandma and Aunt Charlotte. So tell them that I love them and I'll see them again some day. Until then you are all very close to my heart. I'll do my best to keep you all alive through traditions and memories.
LOVE ALWAYS ALESKA"
"You have been gone 1 year today. And it still hurts like it just happened. I wish you where still here with us. We need you more than you pry ever thought. I hope you knew then and know now how much you are truly loved, needed, and missed. Just to see you smile again and hear you laugh and have one more hug would mean more then you may ever know. I wish I could go back in time and change things so you where still here. You are always in our hopes, thoughts, and prayers. I really still don't know what to do not having you here anymore. You where more than a mom. You where my best friend. You are now and forever loved and missed with all our hearts. Love and miss you always, Sheba & Sherya"
"Tomorrow will be a year since youve been gone and yet it still seems like yesterday. Theres not a day that goes by that your not in my thoughts. I hear songs, see movies, everytime i see a pic of myself that my kids take i see you. Ive always heard that i look just like you and i never really seen it until here latley and i do. So as i cry all these tears for you i remember the good times and the bad...and i eventually end up smiling and sometimes laughing because i think of something funny you said or did. I am so proud that i had you for my mother. And always will have you as my mother because i know your with me always. I LOVE YOU MOM AND ILL MISS YOU ALWAYS....BRANDY MICHELLE."
"Grandmas are meant to be loved and remembered forever.That is what we will do.You have left us much to soon.But,you left behind our memories.The last Birthday party that you were at.We found a little toad.We named him fluffy and we have him with us to help us remember everyday.We watch movies with popcorn and hot chocolate.We make the no bake cookies with your recipe.We think the snow comes from you.And our favorite holiday is Christmas.Mom talks about you all the time and you should know that we'll remember you forever.We will pass these traditions and memories on to our children.So through our hearts,traditions and memories you will live forever.Be at peace with God until we meet again.LOVE DRAVEN AND NIKE"
"This is the first time ive been on here and this is very hard for me to be writing this because i want to be talking to her and laughing with her. I know that i wasnt always with my mother as i was growing up but that doesnt mean that it hurts any less. I hear people say everyday how i look just like my mother and that makes me feel so good and so proud because my mom was a beautiful person inside and out. Im still so angry that this happend to her! No one deserves to go through what my mother went through. I will get justice for you mom this i promise you!!! I wil always love you and ill never forget you. I love you mom."
"I am so comforted each time you are in my dreams. When I awake I am sure you have been right there. Always a hug away. Missing your physical being but content knowing your spirit is free to be with me and the ones you love so much; always. Watching over each one with care even from above. Loving and missing you so much."
"U've been gone almost a year and I still catch myself picking up the phone to call you. It takes a min for it to hit me ur not there anymore. Sherya & I both miss u so much. It still feel like I just found out u where gone. I just wish it was all just a bad dream. And that u where still here with us. Sherya sleeps with a picture of u by here bed. And tells you goodnight and she loves you. I hear her in her room sometime talking to you like ur sitting rite there with her. And she tells me every day how much she misses u. And I know how she feels. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't miss you and wish I could have even just one more hug or see ur smile or hear ur laugh. U weren't suppose to go yet. I still dream about u and don't want to wake up because I know when I do ur not gonna b there to talk too.My life fell apart the day u left. I know they say god has a reason for everything, But I want to know y he had to take u. We Love & Miss You ALWAYS!!!!!"
"Even though as I grew older and our time together grew apart, I still miss and love you so much. Please give mom a big hug from me and tell her I miss and love her so much too!"
"Your leaving left a lot of sadness here. But we all know you are in a much happier and more beautiful place than you could have ever experienced here. See you at a later time."
"It still hurts at your leaving me/us so soon. Even so, I am so grateful for the precious moments of our lives together as sisters and best friends. Now you are an angel walking amongst angels. Our loss their gain. Only in my dreams do we walk, talk, laugh, cry and hug one another goodbye. Oh, how I miss you my Precious Baby Sister. Save me a place by your side as I am not far behind. You are with me always until that time. Rest in Perfect Peace Birdie. Love You till the end of time."
"Today has been 11 months.It still feels like yesterday.I miss you sooooo much mommy.I wanted to post this picture in memory of you. I know that you are in a better place now and that you are watching over us. Even though I wish you were still here. I am so grateful for the time that we did have together.I am especially glad that my kids were able to get to know you.You will forever be missed and loved."
"Birdie you are greatly missed and loved by all..may you rest in peace and your love will always be with us... love you"
"I love and miss you mommy."
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