Posting with permission from Madeline Brabham, September 17, 2014 . . .
On Tuesday, September 16, 2014 3:15 PM, Ron and Linda <ronlin1000@yahoo.com> wrote:
Hello Madeline.
Walter spoke of you and Lanny. He said Lanny would leave the light on outside your home to let W know he was up and so W would come by at night. He told me about this several times so know that it was so very important and comforting to him.
On Tuesday, September 16, 2014 11:13 AM, Madeline Brabham wrote:
Hello Linda,
I am Madeline Brabham, my husband was Lanny, who grew up in 96 with his grandparents. We moved to 96 in 1976 across the street from Zeke and his mother Jeannette Harter. At that time I dont remember if there was a man in the house, he became friends with Lanny and visited with us almost daily. I watched him mature into a young man. He had many friends in high school and a challenging home life, Jeanette was from a very country family, and never changed, but loved Zeke and provided a home for him.
He would talk to Lanny for hours, who was a great mentor and a good listener. Zeke would ask for advise about life. He started to Lander University and did very well, played chess and was very good. Practiced his Karate outside. At one time he took religion very serious and I thought he was going to pursue it as a career. He did not have many material things growing up but seemed happy and well adjusted.
On his last visit to Greenwood he called me, I had lunch with him and his family. Lanny died in 1995 @ age 54, Zeke was unable to come to his funeral but wanted to visit the cemetery and say his good byes.
We tried to keep in contact with him over the years, they were very close.
I am sorry but dont think I have any pictures of him.
So sorry for your lose and would have visited him if I had known he was ill.
He is a part of my fond memories from 96. He was blessed to have your love and to be with him during his difficult illness.
I will ask some of the neighbors that lived there at that time if they have pics.
I know this is a difficult time for you, do you have family for support and do you have contact with Zeke's daughter?
Glad you are my facebook friend. Keep in contact.