February 15
February 15
You are sorely missed my friend. You are an inspiration to all of us in the way you approached your recovery and the service you did for the fellowship. Hope you are enjoying the rewards of all your efforts.
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Roy Fletcher - grandfather, father, son, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin, and friend. Roy was born on February 14, 1959, and passed away on June 28, 2014. He left us too early at the age of 55 after a sudden illness.
Even though Roy didn't have an abundance materially, he generously gave of his time and attention to help his famly and others, especially those in his fellowship. Although he was a lost soul for many years, he found his true purpose in life his last few years by helping others and he found joy in living each day.
We will remember him forever.
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A Celebration of Life was held on Saturday, August 9, 2014, at Veterans Park in Imperial Beach, CA.
Roy’s family would like to thank the many family members and friends that came together that day to remember Roy and to celebrate his life.
Many family members traveled long distances to pay their respects and we truly appreciated their presence.
We also appreciated the many, many, friends, both from childhood and more recent friends that came; friends who are like family to Roy. We will never forget the unconditional love and support you provided Roy.
For those that were unable to attend, we thank you for your thoughts and prayers and know you were there in spirit.
Tributes
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February 14
February 14
Miss you homie until we meet again love and respect Ray Castillo
February 16, 2023
February 16, 2023
Roy you are missed. You made life better for many of us.
June 28, 2022
June 28, 2022
Seems like yesterday homie missing you until we meet again soar high my brother
June 28, 2022
June 28, 2022
You were a shining example and inspiration of selfless service. Your gentleness was an example for me to follow.
February 14, 2022
February 14, 2022
You were such a kind and gentle soul. I will always remember you. Love you.
February 14, 2022
February 14, 2022
Happy birthday homie I miss you hope your boys and family are doing okay until we meet again I love you homie
February 14, 2021
February 14, 2021
Happy birthday homie I miss you hope your boys and family are doing okay until we meet again I love you homie
June 28, 2019
June 28, 2019
Your star shall forever shine in my sky. Miss you.
February 25, 2019
February 25, 2019
Roy,
Your memory will never fade in my heart. Your dedication continues to be an inspiration to me. Love always.
Your memory will never fade in my heart. Your dedication continues to be an inspiration to me. Love always.
February 14, 2019
February 14, 2019
Such a gentle giant, an insperation always,you'll forever be a positive force within..
February 14, 2019
February 14, 2019
Happy birthday and happy valentine's day homie..think about you and miss you all the time. Hope your boys are doing well. Save me a seat brother until we meet again.. not the same without you that's for sure. Love you man
July 3, 2018
July 3, 2018
Roy, You stand in your place as you always did. No one can replace you or do what you did for your fellow addicts. You will be forever remembered.
February 14, 2018
February 14, 2018
Roy, I remember you every time I see someone setting up a chair or helping arrange things for a meeting. You were always quietly helping and making things better. You were always there to teach me in your unassuming, humble manner. Thank you for being in my life.
February 14, 2018
February 14, 2018
Happy birthday Roy you are truely missed...
June 28, 2017
June 28, 2017
Miss you roy you were a solid ass friend...not to many like you around these days. Until we meet again soar with the angels..hope all your family is doing well
June 28, 2016
June 28, 2016
Still missing...
You know me, can't find anyone to fill the hole left by your passing.
We still go to the Playas Meeting, and I think of you constantly.
They took Timmy's date, maybe next year.
Still stumbling, love ya
You know me, can't find anyone to fill the hole left by your passing.
We still go to the Playas Meeting, and I think of you constantly.
They took Timmy's date, maybe next year.
Still stumbling, love ya
February 15, 2016
February 15, 2016
Happy birthday friend miss and love you man
February 14, 2016
February 14, 2016
Happy Birthday my friend !!!
July 1, 2015
July 1, 2015
One year!2 days! Seems like forever!Every sand dollar I find, I know its you saying hello! Usually when I'm ready to give up! I !wish there could have been just one more day. There is so much that has transpired. Life happens. Thinking of you always. Bailey loves u too!!! RIP
June 29, 2015
June 29, 2015
Miss you Roy! Saw a picture of you and L.H. on fb the other day. ..it warmed my heart. I hope your family is doing well.
June 28, 2015
June 28, 2015
Thinking of you my dear friend, today as always. Wanted to let you know that Timmy got a date last week. He should be coming home in 6 months. Brad had me make the comedy show tickets that you loved so much. I know everyone still misses you and your service to the community. I know you're watching over us, so keep on laughing as we stumble through this life and save me a spot.
June 28, 2015
June 28, 2015
Its been a year and i miss and think of you all the time homie i know your watching over everyone rest in paradise my friend
April 1, 2015
April 1, 2015
Roy, I wish you were still here with us. So many times, I find myself saying "Roy should be here to enjoy this." I know you are with us but I miss your face, old friend. Keep watch over us.
March 10, 2015
March 10, 2015
Our deepest condolences to the family - from Garold & Emi Fencl and family in Nebraska.
February 14, 2015
February 14, 2015
Happy birthday homie i miss and think about you everyday rest in paradise..We will meet up again one day love you man
February 14, 2015
February 14, 2015
Happy Birthday and Happy Valentines Day my brother. I miss you more than ever. I remember you everyday without fault. You will forever be embedded in my fondest memories. I love you.
February 14, 2015
February 14, 2015
God knew we needed something
More than budding earth and
sunlit sky. And so he sent
us friends to love, to lift our
hearts and spirits high.
God chose to teach loves wondrous,
art of comfort, cheer that never
ends. By giving to the thankful
heart the dear good gift
of Faithful Friends.
written by Kathrine Hayes
I am sure Aunt Katie would add a line about a wonderful dear man like our nephew Roy.
Maxine Seyforth
More than budding earth and
sunlit sky. And so he sent
us friends to love, to lift our
hearts and spirits high.
God chose to teach loves wondrous,
art of comfort, cheer that never
ends. By giving to the thankful
heart the dear good gift
of Faithful Friends.
written by Kathrine Hayes
I am sure Aunt Katie would add a line about a wonderful dear man like our nephew Roy.
Maxine Seyforth
October 30, 2014
October 30, 2014
I had the privelage of having Roy work in my department for many years
and got to know him as a gentle dedicated man. We had many conversations as he got off work after working all night and as I came to my office in the morning. Condolences to his sister Margaret, father Carl., and the rest of the Fletcher family. RIP Roy-
and got to know him as a gentle dedicated man. We had many conversations as he got off work after working all night and as I came to my office in the morning. Condolences to his sister Margaret, father Carl., and the rest of the Fletcher family. RIP Roy-
August 8, 2014
August 8, 2014
My heart and love goes to your family at this sad time. I have many happy memories of Roy, and l look forward to seeing him again.
August 4, 2014
August 4, 2014
Roy has been a constant in my recovery... we may not have been close friends, but he always reached out to me... be it a warm smile or a simple hello. I miss seeing that. RIP my friend and thank you!!!
August 3, 2014
August 3, 2014
I WAS BLESSED TO HAVE KNOWN AN BEEN A FRIEND OF ROY, HE WILL FOREVER BE IN MY HEART, HE ONCE GAVE ME A TOKEN THAT WAS HIS, I WILL TREASURE THAT A LIFE TIME, FARWELL MY FRIEND , WE WILL MEET AGAIN. (MY FRIEND MY GENTLE GIANT)
July 21, 2014
July 21, 2014
Well I Loved my buddy Roy. He was a great man! He was a giving man who loved to reach out and help others. I came to know Roy in the rooms of Narcotics Anonymous about two and a half years ago. I'm so grateful and blessed to have had the pleasure to get to know Roy. Although are time was cut short I will always be grateful for the time we shared together. My deepest condolences to Roy's family and friends. He will be truly missed. Rest in peace my dear friend I will always have love in my heart for you.
July 19, 2014
July 19, 2014
It was an honor to know Roy. He was a true gentleman. Good sense of humor he had. Miss him already. So glad he got to live, and die clean.
July 15, 2014
July 15, 2014
Roy was my best friend for the last 8 years of his life. He helped me through times I would have never made it through. Thank you for your love and all the great memories I have to cherish. I miss you!
July 14, 2014
July 14, 2014
I met Roy four years ago when I relocated to South Bay. Through our conversations, I found Roy to be a warm, caring and gentle man. He was truly a sweet man loved by many. He helped many of us in our journey and guides us still. Roy, I will miss you and join you some day.
July 14, 2014
July 14, 2014
Save a place for me, my friend.
July 13, 2014
July 13, 2014
Roy will truely be missed it was a blessing to call this man my friend..prayers go out to his family..
July 13, 2014
July 13, 2014
You are loved and will be missed by many.
July 13, 2014
July 13, 2014
It was privilege to know Roy and I feel honored to call him a friend, he will be missed dearly.
July 13, 2014
July 13, 2014
Roy will be truly missed by All his friends in the Fellowship that he Loved and served for the last few years of his Life. I had the privilege of being Roy's friend. Roy was a member of the Activities Committee and he loved helping plan and put on Activities for the South Bay Area. He loved helping others and his Spirit will remain with me always.
July 12, 2014
July 12, 2014
My deepest condolences to Roy's family. I was so sorry to learn of Roy's passing. He is gone too soon and will be missed dearly. Rest in peace Roy.
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February 15
February 15
You are sorely missed my friend. You are an inspiration to all of us in the way you approached your recovery and the service you did for the fellowship. Hope you are enjoying the rewards of all your efforts.
February 14
February 14
Miss you homie until we meet again love and respect Ray Castillo
February 16, 2023
February 16, 2023
Roy you are missed. You made life better for many of us.
Gallery
Roy's Memorial Program pg 3
Roy's Memorial Program pg 2
Brad R. makes a special presentation to Roy's family at Celebration of Life.
Aunt Margaret and great-nephew Logan at the house
Cousin David and Ana at the house
Mom Kimi, Aunt Margaret, Dad Carl (Sonny), and Aunts Maxine and Janice at the house.
Cousins Carl, Hunter, Ron, and Janice, and great-nephew Cyrus at the house.
Family members at the Celebration of Life
Beautiful shadow box created by Roy's son Joshua
Recent stories
February 14, 2020
by ray castillo
Happy happy birthday homie and happy Valentine’s Day sure do miss you homie and wish I could pick up the phone and call you so we could bounce stuff off one another like we used to fly with the angels my brother until we meet agai much love and respect
February 14, 2020
Remembering you my friend ..your smile an gentleness i still recall such a solid person an great soul you are forever missed
Prayer
August 22, 2014
For many years I prayed for Roy, wrote him notes and remembered his sons with notes. How wonderful that he found his purpose in life and acted on it.
When I saw him I was always greeted with a massive hug and that heart warming smile. I believe these last few years were preparing him for eternity with our Lord and Savior.
Love to the family,
Aunt Margaret